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  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,426 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Something I’m listening to just said to women,
    “Your so-called flaws or imperfections are what make you beautiful and unique.” And also...
    “Men fall in love with you for what you perceive to be your flaws or insecurities, not in spite of them.”
    She doesn’t specify physical or otherwise. I can see this to a point but...it can’t be ALL flaws. Do you think this statement is way too broad like I do?

    Waaay too broad. People have a mix of good traits and bad ones. The mix is what makes someone attractive. If people had all good traits, would get boring. All bad, they wouldn't even get considered.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,426 Member
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    This one's for everybody: What's your opinion on sleeping in clothes or naked

    Naked unless it's super cold/I'm sick/bleeding/I'm staying somewhere other than my house.
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,232 Member
    AriesFL wrote: »
    That has to be one of the creepiest thing a person can do. Sending pics, especially naked ones, to someone who has not asked for pics.

    It is creepy. And not as uncommon as I would have once believed.
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,232 Member
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Baby don't hurt me... Don't hurt me, no more
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Darkness cannot drive away Darkness only light can do that, hate cannot drive away hate only love can do that...

    MLK Jr.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,426 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Background: my mouth runs faster than my brain sometimes.

    What does it mean to me? It means having a bubble in which to say whatever the heck is on my mind, without fear of being judged for bad intentions, because he knows I've got good ones. A space in which to argue about things without the stakes being unbearably high. Having a place where everything I do is not only okay, but even good, or funny, or considerate, because I have no need for claws being out. Love is having a safe place/person.

    How do I define it? Love is my partner being happy with me as myself, without the normal filters society puts on behavior/discussion. I don't have to keep my thoughts to myself, I don't have to pretend anything's okay when it's not. A relationship in which I can be completely unguarded, and know that he's riding with me no matter what, and that he chose me, and chose the way I am. And the same but me for him.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    Ladies: do you prefer stable yet predictable or chaotic yet surprising

    The use of "yet" is killing me rn.

    I prefer stable and predictable. I don't need to come home to chaotic surprising 30 adopted ferrets or some *kitten*.

    This made me giggle.
  • Abs_magee89
    Abs_magee89 Posts: 127 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?
    I’ll say there are different levels and types of love. But I know where a person fits on the scale based on how devastating it would be to lose them.
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    Ladies: do you prefer stable yet predictable or chaotic yet surprising

    The use of "yet" is killing me rn.

    I prefer stable and predictable. I don't need to come home to chaotic surprising 30 adopted ferrets or some *kitten*.

    The yet is why its so funny 😆
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Love is putting up with thier *kitten* and feeling like it's worth it. For me it’s a need to protect them and see them happy and fulfilled.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,426 Member
    OpheliaCooter wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Love is putting up with thier *kitten* and feeling like it's worth it. For me it’s a need to protect them and see them happy and fulfilled.

    You put it way more concisely and better than I could. :smile:
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »
    OpheliaCooter wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Love is putting up with thier *kitten* and feeling like it's worth it. For me it’s a need to protect them and see them happy and fulfilled.

    You put it way more concisely and better than I could. :smile:

    I thought yours could go on a card or something, way more romantic.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    AriesFL wrote: »
    I have switched camps. I am no longer a nude sleeper but basketball shorts sleeper.

    My brother says they are comfortable ... Almost as if you aren't wearing anything, only that you know you are.

  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Abs_magee89 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies of mfp-

    when the last time you said "i had a good guy but i messed everything up"

    fellas of mfp-

    same question only gender reverse obvi
    The last time I thought/said that was with my now husband. We separated for 6 months after 10 years of marriage and just could not communicate at all. It took some time on my own to realize my part in everything and how my wounds, childhood and psyche caused damage. We have been back together for 1 year now and continue to work through all our issues one day at a time.

    You and your husband look great together. A natural pairing. Pleased you are both working through all your issues.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies of mfp-

    when the last time you said "i had a good guy but i messed everything up"

    I have the greatest man in my life right now.

    Been in many relationships, engaged more than I care to count. It always seemed like I was not really a part of my relationship, rather just going through the motions of one - routine. I would often feel verbally assaulted, though not directly when racial issues are discussed via media outlets and my exes would rattle off opinions which were completely insensitive, often adding their late disclaimers, " you know you aren't counted babe " ... or " I didn't mean or count you or your family when I said that.

    I have never felt safer and grounded in my essence of me with my current. I do not plan on f*čking anything up, now or EVER.
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    When I think of love, I always think of this picture. This picture screams love to me.

    ad05ju7yhfl0.jpg

    the white back of her to me symbolizes that warmth and glow you feel when someone you love embraces you that way. like you're all lit up inside <3
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    Man, i wish physcho therapy worked faster. My emotional shortcomings undo a mountain of good traits. For now, im a good date, beyond that is treacherous waters.

    everyone is pretty hard on themselves. be kind to yourself T.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    Man, i wish physcho therapy worked faster. My emotional shortcomings undo a mountain of good traits. For now, im a good date, beyond that is treacherous waters.

    everyone is pretty hard on themselves.

    not me.


    *shrug




    ....... It immensely helps to develop a IDGAF attitude towards most things in life.

    This is why I like you @Motorsheen
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    Na,, but I like Silly Girls !
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,135 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?

    Nah - i like them of average intelligence
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,135 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?

    Shoe on the other foot -

    Ladies like smart dudes yes? Even if they have no sense of humor or wit
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited March 2020
    iMago wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?

    femininity like bouncy and happy and pretty. and it’s just the best thing on earth
    some people consider that stupid though i suppose

    sweet
    You described that well. I’ve never been that person but I can picture what you’re talking about.😊

    eta: and it isn’t stupid

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