Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Love is putting up with thier *kitten* and feeling like it's worth it. For me it’s a need to protect them and see them happy and fulfilled.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,484 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Love is putting up with thier *kitten* and feeling like it's worth it. For me it’s a need to protect them and see them happy and fulfilled.

    You put it way more concisely and better than I could. :smile:
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Love is putting up with thier *kitten* and feeling like it's worth it. For me it’s a need to protect them and see them happy and fulfilled.

    You put it way more concisely and better than I could. :smile:

    I thought yours could go on a card or something, way more romantic.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    AriesFL wrote: »
    I have switched camps. I am no longer a nude sleeper but basketball shorts sleeper.

    My brother says they are comfortable ... Almost as if you aren't wearing anything, only that you know you are.

  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies of mfp-

    when the last time you said "i had a good guy but i messed everything up"

    fellas of mfp-

    same question only gender reverse obvi
    The last time I thought/said that was with my now husband. We separated for 6 months after 10 years of marriage and just could not communicate at all. It took some time on my own to realize my part in everything and how my wounds, childhood and psyche caused damage. We have been back together for 1 year now and continue to work through all our issues one day at a time.

    You and your husband look great together. A natural pairing. Pleased you are both working through all your issues.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies of mfp-

    when the last time you said "i had a good guy but i messed everything up"

    I have the greatest man in my life right now.

    Been in many relationships, engaged more than I care to count. It always seemed like I was not really a part of my relationship, rather just going through the motions of one - routine. I would often feel verbally assaulted, though not directly when racial issues are discussed via media outlets and my exes would rattle off opinions which were completely insensitive, often adding their late disclaimers, " you know you aren't counted babe " ... or " I didn't mean or count you or your family when I said that.

    I have never felt safer and grounded in my essence of me with my current. I do not plan on f*čking anything up, now or EVER.
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    When I think of love, I always think of this picture. This picture screams love to me.

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    the white back of her to me symbolizes that warmth and glow you feel when someone you love embraces you that way. like you're all lit up inside <3
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    Man, i wish physcho therapy worked faster. My emotional shortcomings undo a mountain of good traits. For now, im a good date, beyond that is treacherous waters.

    everyone is pretty hard on themselves. be kind to yourself T.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    Man, i wish physcho therapy worked faster. My emotional shortcomings undo a mountain of good traits. For now, im a good date, beyond that is treacherous waters.

    everyone is pretty hard on themselves.

    not me.


    *shrug




    ....... It immensely helps to develop a IDGAF attitude towards most things in life.

    This is why I like you @Motorsheen
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    Na,, but I like Silly Girls !
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,586 Member
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?

    Nah - i like them of average intelligence
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,586 Member
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?

    Shoe on the other foot -

    Ladies like smart dudes yes? Even if they have no sense of humor or wit
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited March 2020
    iMago wrote: »
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?

    femininity like bouncy and happy and pretty. and it’s just the best thing on earth
    some people consider that stupid though i suppose

    sweet
    You described that well. I’ve never been that person but I can picture what you’re talking about.😊

    eta: and it isn’t stupid
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?


    Good Lord, No.

    Thoughtful, Kind and Educated.


    btw, I've know more than a few highly educated folks who I regarded as complete morons.

    mfp has spoken and i stand corrected. 😁
  • williamkent4O4
    williamkent4O4 Posts: 13 Member
    Anyhow you feel like dressing is okay by me but you must look sexy and beautiful in it and also i don't like ladies with much muscles, it scares me away.🤣🤣🤣🤣
  • Mrsindepenant1
    Mrsindepenant1 Posts: 196 Member
    edited March 2020
    Guys... when you see a chicks married, does it put you off?
    I’ve been told by a few people that guys don’t care when they see a wedding ring 🤷‍♀️
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    i don't like ladies with much muscles, it scares me away.🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Mmmk... I truly thought this was a myth. Convenient for me as I like lifting (which will never ever change). So...

    Guys/Gals,
    Do you have a preference for how lean, vascular, "ripped to *kitten* shreds," etc your partner looks?
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited March 2020
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    i don't like ladies with much muscles, it scares me away.🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Mmmk... I truly thought this was a myth. Convenient for me as I like lifting (which will never ever change). So...

    Guys/Gals,
    Do you have a preference for how lean, vascular, "ripped to *kitten* shreds," etc your partner looks?
    I don’t like super vascular and lean both because it is unattractive to me and because it usually indicates a dedication to a type of eating I would find annoying. I respect individual choices, but for ME that’s a no.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?

    I like goofy and weird... That's just in these days I guess 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Stupid? Well mama always said a stupid is a stupid does 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,586 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    i don't like ladies with much muscles, it scares me away.🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Mmmk... I truly thought this was a myth. Convenient for me as I like lifting (which will never ever change). So...

    Guys/Gals,
    Do you have a preference for how lean, vascular, "ripped to *kitten* shreds," etc your partner looks?

    I don’t mind some definition on a woman - I like her to be fit - but the vascular/shred bodybuilding competition look is not appealing to me - nothing wrong with that. Just not what I’m attracted to
  • _Kashmir_314
    _Kashmir_314 Posts: 707 Member
    edited March 2020
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    i don't like ladies with much muscles, it scares me away.🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Mmmk... I truly thought this was a myth. Convenient for me as I like lifting (which will never ever change). So...

    Guys/Gals,
    Do you have a preference for how lean, vascular, "ripped to *kitten* shreds," etc your partner looks?

    I don’t mind some definition on a woman - I like her to be fit - but the vascular/shred bodybuilding competition look is not appealing to me - nothing wrong with that. Just not what I’m attracted to

    (Don't kill me, I'm not busying your balls)😂

    Prior to your current physical appearance, would you have said the same thing? You've worked hard and are "in the best shape of your life." Have your standards changed now? Anyone can answer this - just want your thoughts.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    i don't like ladies with much muscles, it scares me away.🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Mmmk... I truly thought this was a myth. Convenient for me as I like lifting (which will never ever change). So...

    Guys/Gals,
    Do you have a preference for how lean, vascular, "ripped to *kitten* shreds," etc your partner looks?

    I don’t mind some definition on a woman - I like her to be fit - but the vascular/shred bodybuilding competition look is not appealing to me - nothing wrong with that. Just not what I’m attracted to

    (Don't kill me, I'm not busying your balls)😂

    Prior to your current physical appearance, would you have said the same thing? You've worked hard and are "in the best shape of your life." Have your standards changed now? Anyone can answer this - just want your thoughts.

    I would have been afraid to ask for what I want because I’d feel like a hypocrite