WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2020
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Good Morning Ladies and Happy Mothers Day to those that celebrate...
my daughter texted me, haven't heard from my son yet ,but its still early
we had a freeze warning overnight ,so its cold but sunny..
I am enjoying a cup of tea and then will hop in the shower and do a load of laundry
I put freeze dried mealworms out on my retaining wall and delight in watching the birds come and enjoy them..
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Tonya - thank you so much for the second photo. With your permission, I would like to try to create a painting from each of them. It will probably be a trainwreck, but I genuinely love the gradations of color, the shapes, all of it. Still learning to paint.
SuziQ - your mother sounds wonderful.
Heather - glad that writing turned your day around!
Yesterday, I trimmed trees for hours, while Corey mowed until the engine on the new (to us) zero-turn mower's engine commited hara kari (literally). Something broke off inside and the piece that was broken off was thrown straight through the starter engine and the metal shell that encases it. Was totally expected - this thing is 14 years old, as near as we can figure, and hadn't been run in years when we got it. We had already decided that if he could find an engine for under $1,000 that is in good shape, we'd buy it. Will still only put us $1,200 into a mower that's worth $4,000 and up. We got three good mows out of it, and he'll get it fixed. The man can fix anything. Getting him to actually do so can sometimes be a whole 'nother question, but he CAN.
A story about the hazards of owning property in a lawless section of the country, and why we will be getting a new fence:Our crackhead neighbors who were renting the little house between us and the road moved out. Talked to the owners, offering to buy the place, and they can't sell as it's apparently the collateral for a family member's nursing home bill. There's something so horribly wrong about having to put up property as surety for someone else's nursing care bills. Nonetheless, they can't sell it.
So we decided we will go ahead and put up the privacy fence that we've been thinking about ever since we bought the place. The recently departed neighbors would spin out on the part of our lawn that was close to their house, their pit bull would come over and defecate on it, they dumped piles of building materials on it, like bricks (which they left behind) and there were many more transgressions that were terribly petty, but annoying. I'll be calling a local fencing company - Corey and I just don't have the time to do it, and some things are worth paying for.
The reason, by the way, that they keep getting crackheads as renters is because they don't charge a security deposit, and only charge $400 a month for a house that is essentially falling down, with mounds of trash everywhere on the property, most of it half-burned. They tell the renters that they will do no maintenance or repairs on it. Totally illegal? Sure. Am also sure the owners are not declaring the rent money as income, but I know they need the rent money to pay their own bills, so not willing to rat them out to the taxman. Anyway, the only people who would even want to rent it are the desperate, damaged and broken people that don't have enough cash even for a security deposit.
We knew the hazards to moving into a small town with no codes and no laws against well, pretty much anything, as we prefer to not have to ask permission to make changes to our own property. The crackhead neighbors are the price we pay. But with a fence up, at least we won't have to look at that desperately nasty little house and the next set of sketchy characters who choose to take up residence text.
Please note - I grew up extremely poor, but we were clean and the yard and house were always well kept because my mother made sure of it. There is a difference between poor people and trashy people. It is just vaguely possible we'll get some lovely neighbors who are not crackheads, just poor. The chances are slim.
Hope your Sunday is lovely and peaceful,
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR
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SuziQ thanks for sharing your mother's wise words.
I would like to say Happy Women's Day! To celebrate all the strong women of the world!2 -
SUZI Q ~ I also liked the Kermit the Frog meme! My DnL is a 6th grade teacher and has had to work at home since March. She also has had to oversee her 3rd and 4th graders virtual learning. For the first time ever, the boy has staight A's. He said his mom had been a tyrant about him doing his school work. The girl has always been a good student and had no problems keeping up with her work.
MACHKA ~ I would love to take a bath in that bathroom.
TONYA ~ Your rats are cute!
Carol in GA2 -
To All Of You Dear Ladies Who Are Moms:
Missing all of you! I have gotten far behind as I got a new laptop and was setting things up. It's just too hard to read my phone anymore as my eyesight deteriorates. I have been taking care of dear grandbaby and watching over my ailing doggy. I've missed reading your posts every day! I hope to catch up, but if I don't make it...Welcome to the Newbies, LOL to all the funnies, Awww to the wonderful pictures, and many prayers for all who are sick or having a tough time during quarantine. Things are opening up here, but I will continue to self quarantine as I believe things are going to get worse before they get better. Just my personal opinion...no worries if you feel differently! We lost our first family member...My daughter in law's (Baby's Mommy) Papaw to the virus. Very sad news.
Mother's Day is a tough one for me...this one is tougher since I won't see any of my children. Momma died when I was 26 and no matter how hard I try to get beyond it, it gets harder, not easier with time. I need her so often, but she is out of reach. What I wouldn't do to be able to place calls to heaven!! I love her so much!
The three wonderful humans who made me a Mother:
Hope everyone has a Wonderful and Blessed Mother's Day! Non-contagious hugs to all!! Luci in WNC8 -
Lisa - I love seeing you in your mother's face.
I also look like my mum, but with my father's build. I don't like looking in the mirror and seeing my mum staring back at me, which is one of the reasons I feel more comfortable in makeup.
Trying to decide if I want to phone a friend.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx2 -
Lisa Reading about your relationship with your mom was so lovely and poignant it made my heart hurt…the photo is…spectacular.
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Tonya Love your rats. Love your photos.
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My dad took this photo of his mom (Grandma Agnes) and my mom…about 70 years ago…on a Mother's Day
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Heather I'm sorry and feeling frustrated for you that you are dysphoric after such a good period of time. I don't exactly have FOMO, but something akin…it has to do with a belief system that is full of lies about whether and how I will be capable of dealing with the clutter and the stuff and the legal updates to be ready to be old...before I'm too old to do it well. I'm afraid of being old and still obsessed with going through belongings and papers, etc when I should be enjoying my dotage.
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Happy Mother's Day!
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Karen in Virginia
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I have enjoyed the more leisurely pace of not having to be anywhere and it will be a big jolt when I have to schedule my mornings to get to dance and exercise classes by 9:00. Today a friend is coming over to walk with me at 9:30 and I'll be ready to walk with her only because this will be my one day of the week that I don't take a shower in the morning. Yesterday I didn't get ready to get outside to work in the yard until 10:30 and Jake was surprised that I was going out since we like to have lunch at 11:00. I get up at 5:00 every morning but have found more things to fill my morning.
Happy Mother's Day to all. I predict that neither of my step-children will be contact me and I don't mind, because I have a lovely day planned including my favorite chicken with peanut/ coconut sauce for lunch followed by watching another episode of "Bosch" on Amazon.
My mother was great. I remember many of the great things, sense of humor, thrift, meticulous record keeping, love of dance, cooking-- and have forgotten all the things that drove me crazy.
Barbie in NW WA
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Anxious about going back to normal? It's called 'reverse culture shock'
https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs/hack/coronavirus-covid-19-restrictions-easing-reverse-culture-shock/12221534
I really don't want to "go back to normal" ... that would be incredibly disappointing. There are hints that there might be some improvements, but I guess there's a chance that we might "go back to normal".
However, happily, I think we've still got at least another month of this fabulous time of shut down ... to some extent or another. And then there's the "second wave" for all the people who go rushing out into society and start mingling and hugging etc. Personally, I plan to take a very conservative, reserved approach to easing back into society.
It helps, I think, that I've got surgery booked for mid-July. Just when things are opening up a little, I will be shutting down for a couple weeks.
On that note, I had two packages delivered today. I ordered pyjamas, just because, and a knee-length, long-sleeved button up flannel night shirt. I've been advised that I shouldn't plan to wear anything that goes over my head after my surgery, so now I've got a collection of button-up night shirts. I wasn't sure if I would like them with collars and buttons and all, but they're actually not bad. I decided to get this flannel one because July is right in the middle of winter and it doubles very nicely as a light dressing gown ... which is exactly how I'm wearing it right now.
I also ordered some cat toys which Rhody is playing with right now. He's so cute and clever!
Machka in Oz3 -
My mother and me in 2011 ... we don't actually have a lot of photos of us together. When I saw her last in 2017, she hadn't changed much from this photo and when I see her on Skype, she looks much the same to me now as well.
One of the main things I would like to do in 2021 is travel to Canada to see my parents again.
Machka in Oz8 -
Bernie Hope's for more food in his dishes5 -
💐 🎁 HAPPY MOTHERS DAY🎁💐
To all the mamas!
☘️ Terri1 -
Photos of my Mama!My mom and dad around 1944:
Mom when grandson was one around 8 yrs ago:
Mama two weeks before she passed away at age 91:
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Carol - Lovely pics! You have your dad's smile
Thank you to all the mum posters. Love it.
Machka - good article. Re - entry is hard for me even after a nice holiday. Sometimes it takes weeks. With the virus I find I am going back to comparing my life and achievements with others again and reawakening envy. That had almost completely disappeared. I know the answer is action in baby steps, but I am easily paralyzed. I still haven't got my website up and running. I've completely avoided thinking about it, until now. Even the thought makes me panic. I hate technology.
Love to all. I did ring my friend in York and it was good to talk. If anyone understands neurosis, it's her.
Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
Loving all the mum posters as well... many of which I've never seen.2
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Miss my mom!3
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »Machka - good article. Re - entry is hard for me even after a nice holiday. Sometimes it takes weeks. With the virus I find I am going back to comparing my life and achievements with others again and reawakening envy. That had almost completely disappeared. I know the answer is action in baby steps, but I am easily paralyzed. I still haven't got my website up and running. I've completely avoided thinking about it, until now. Even the thought makes me panic. I hate technology.
Heather UK xxxxxxxx
Regarding the website, don't do it alone. I know Wordpress can be rather confusing and suspect that some of the others could be as well. I'd recommend seeing if you can find an online course or a user group to ease yourself into it. That's a good way to be able to ask questions and get answers right away rather than via forums.
I do use forums for computer-related answers, but I just read the answers. I have yet to get up the nerve to ask a question and fortunately I haven't had to do that yet. Computer-related forums are vicious! But if you know the right questions to ask, you can find and read answers that will help.
The challenge can get be knowing the right questions to ask ... and that's where sitting in on an online class or in a user group can help. You learn the language. You learn how to do a few things. And in knowing that much, you can then ask the right questions to get the right answers.
Machka in Oz2 -
Pip: Is this a car battery that you’re planning to buy? I have seen what looks to me like bikes that are running on an electric motor. It makes me curious. :huh:
Rebecca: Your meals look very tempting and delicious
SuziQ: Is Kermit the new substitute teacher? I looked Kermie up, and he was born/created in 1955. Kermit is eligible for Social Security! :noway:
Karen: I envy your live and in person visit from your son. We get video calls from ours and also our daughter. It is great to see them on the phone.
Terri: DH’s dad was not eligible to join the military due to hearing loss so he built ships for the US Navy in Bellingham, WA. His hearing loss was much worse afterward. My dad was a Sea Bee in the Solomon Islands. His ship was attacked by Kamakazi fighters. There were fires aboard ship and dad had nightmares about it for the rest of his life. :ohwell:
Allie: Snow in May? Amazing!
Barbie: We are also staying home except for food shopping, and that is my duty. We take walks in the neighborhood and chat with neighbors at the appropriate social distance. Our weather has been lovely. :flowerforyou:
Machka: We are definitely not post pandemic. We still have all of the social distancing requirements. The last I heard there has been one death in our county. The cities along the I-5 Corridor from Portland to Salem have had numerous deaths and are still having serious problems. There has been talk of easing the pandemic rules, but so far that hasn’t happened. :ohwell:
Heather: Sorry that you were feeling sad. Congrats on writing and feeling better. :flowerforyou:
Tonya: I looked up some information on our high school. There may be in the neighborhood of 227 graduating this year. That would likely mean that there are 227+/- cars lined up for graduation at the courthouse steps. I imagine that will take quite a while. It is also likely there will be very many happy graduates with a unique graduation celebration to remember. :bigsmile:
Machka: I absolutely LOVE “What things around us are thinking.” :laugh: You and your mom have similar smiles. I hope you are able to travel to Canada and see her.
Regarding re-entry—our state isn’t there, yet. Many areas have few or no cases, but the area along I-5 between Portland and Salem is still in dangerous conditions. Oregon is not opening, the last I heard. It isn’t 8 am yet. Who knows what we’ll find out on the news today.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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Tonya, here’s a pic of the new haircut and color. It is taking some getting used to. My DH goes to Great Clips and, even though he can, he does not plan to go anytime soon. We don’t trust them like I trust my small, personal salon. I usually get my eyebrows waxed at the nail salon. Even though it is also often, I have no intentions of going anytime soon.
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KAY ~ Looking good!1
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