What’s a red flag for you?

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  • Hanibanani2020
    Hanibanani2020 Posts: 523 Member
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    When he says he is single but the number of toothbrushes in his bathroom selfie say otherwise.

    Or he just shares a house.
  • wanderwoman2020
    wanderwoman2020 Posts: 109 Member
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    When he says he is single but the number of toothbrushes in his bathroom selfie say otherwise.

    Still lives with his parents then? Also red flag haha
  • WNCRun
    WNCRun Posts: 153 Member
    Friending but not texting back
    Resentment of others (which prolly means me when I’m not looking)
    Chronically not keeping commitments.
  • Hanibanani2020
    Hanibanani2020 Posts: 523 Member
    wanderwoman2020 wrote: »
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    When he says he is single but the number of toothbrushes in his bathroom selfie say otherwise.

    Still lives with his parents then? Also red flag haha

    In the time of covid maybe not 😂
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    "I'm not into drama" or some variation thereof

    ^ 10/10 she's always the cause of the drama
  • melissatwill
    melissatwill Posts: 246 Member
    A guy who shows any signs of being narcissistic 🚩 🛑 ☣️❌
  • Slacker16
    Slacker16 Posts: 1,184 Member
    edited July 2020
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    When he says he is single but the number of toothbrushes in his bathroom selfie say otherwise.

    Meh, I have two toothbrushes because they come in packs of two.

    ETA: to add to the conversation: impoliteness to servers, cleaners, beggars, etc...
  • JustCallMeWhatever
    JustCallMeWhatever Posts: 125 Member
    Phone calls from Andrea offering school loans, mortgage or whatever else she can think of
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 Member
    Slacker16 wrote: »
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    When he says he is single but the number of toothbrushes in his bathroom selfie say otherwise.

    Meh, I have two toothbrushes because they come in packs of two.

    ETA: to add to the conversation: impoliteness to servers, cleaners, beggars, etc...

    you dont keep the other one in the wrapper until you need a replacement?
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    Hanibanani2020 wrote: »
    ALL his exes are crazy.

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  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    An invitation.
  • wanderwoman2020
    wanderwoman2020 Posts: 109 Member
    gets mad at you for what he thinks other people are thinking when they look at you 🤷🏻‍♀️
  • threewins
    threewins Posts: 1,455 Member
    Excessively neurotic
  • R2chy
    R2chy Posts: 23 Member
    If the first thing he wants is a bikini pic.. 😡steer clear!
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    "we never go anywhere!!"
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
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  • gearhead426hemi
    gearhead426hemi Posts: 919 Member
    If in the first 5 minutes you know their religion, political views, they are vegan and what crossfit gym they are part of. RUNNNNNNNN like the wind!!!!!!!
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    "we never go anywhere!!"

    Rona problems
  • Hanibanani2020
    Hanibanani2020 Posts: 523 Member
    gearhead426hemi wrote: »
    If in the first 5 minutes you know their religion, political views, they are vegan and what crossfit gym they are part of. RUNNNNNNNN like the wind!!!!!!!

    If you mention you’re vegan and they judge you negatively.
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,744 Member
    If he chats like we're going to be in a long term thing very early on. The "When we go on *insert road trip/vacation/spending every waking moment together*". Huge red flag if that starts before we've met in person. I don't even want a guy to talk about a 2nd date before we've met. One step at a time.
  • Hanibanani2020
    Hanibanani2020 Posts: 523 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    If he chats like we're going to be in a long term thing very early on. The "When we go on *insert road trip/vacation/spending every waking moment together*". Huge red flag if that starts before we've met in person. I don't even want a guy to talk about a 2nd date before we've met. One step at a time.

    Oh I hate that. Gives me the creeps.
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    Hanibanani2020 wrote: »
    When he slips into your DMs with this crapola

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    The emojis gave me a headache.
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    If he chats like we're going to be in a long term thing very early on. The "When we go on *insert road trip/vacation/spending every waking moment together*". Huge red flag if that starts before we've met in person. I don't even want a guy to talk about a 2nd date before we've met. One step at a time.

    Such a red flag! But if you want to see a red flag in action, you should come to Spain with me this summer. We can watch those bullfighting matches in Madrid with the matadors waving that thing around.

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