What’s a red flag for you?
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »When he says he is single but the number of toothbrushes in his bathroom selfie say otherwise.
Or he just shares a house.1 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »When he says he is single but the number of toothbrushes in his bathroom selfie say otherwise.
Still lives with his parents then? Also red flag haha1 -
Friending but not texting back
Resentment of others (which prolly means me when I’m not looking)
Chronically not keeping commitments.2 -
wanderwoman2020 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »When he says he is single but the number of toothbrushes in his bathroom selfie say otherwise.
Still lives with his parents then? Also red flag haha
In the time of covid maybe not 😂2 -
"I'm not into drama" or some variation thereof
^ 10/10 she's always the cause of the drama4 -
ALL his exes are crazy.5
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A guy who shows any signs of being narcissistic 🚩 🛑 ☣️❌3
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »When he says he is single but the number of toothbrushes in his bathroom selfie say otherwise.
Meh, I have two toothbrushes because they come in packs of two.
ETA: to add to the conversation: impoliteness to servers, cleaners, beggars, etc...2 -
Phone calls from Andrea offering school loans, mortgage or whatever else she can think of0
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »When he says he is single but the number of toothbrushes in his bathroom selfie say otherwise.
Meh, I have two toothbrushes because they come in packs of two.
ETA: to add to the conversation: impoliteness to servers, cleaners, beggars, etc...
you dont keep the other one in the wrapper until you need a replacement?1 -
Hanibanani2020 wrote: »ALL his exes are crazy.
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An invitation.0
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Finding a copy of current restraining order against them from ex wife7
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You’re engaged and he still won’t change his fb to “in a relationship”.6
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gets mad at you for what he thinks other people are thinking when they look at you 🤷🏻♀️3
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Excessively neurotic2
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If the first thing he wants is a bikini pic.. 😡steer clear!4
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- Listing you as the executor of their will when you aren't married to nor even in a long term (more than 5 years) relationship with them.
- Says their ex was crazy and never refers to them by name (usually has some nasty nickname for them).
- Cares too much about their hair.
- Expects you to shave body hair even though you've made it quite clear that you are fine shaving arms and legs, but there is nothing wrong with body hair and that shaving shouldn't be a "requirement".
- Is condescending to other human beings that aren't you.. or family.
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"we never go anywhere!!"4
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If in the first 5 minutes you know their religion, political views, they are vegan and what crossfit gym they are part of. RUNNNNNNNN like the wind!!!!!!!2
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gearhead426hemi wrote: »If in the first 5 minutes you know their religion, political views, they are vegan and what crossfit gym they are part of. RUNNNNNNNN like the wind!!!!!!!
If you mention you’re vegan and they judge you negatively.2 -
If he's a Trump supporter. 😱6
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If he chats like we're going to be in a long term thing very early on. The "When we go on *insert road trip/vacation/spending every waking moment together*". Huge red flag if that starts before we've met in person. I don't even want a guy to talk about a 2nd date before we've met. One step at a time.2
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If he chats like we're going to be in a long term thing very early on. The "When we go on *insert road trip/vacation/spending every waking moment together*". Huge red flag if that starts before we've met in person. I don't even want a guy to talk about a 2nd date before we've met. One step at a time.
Oh I hate that. Gives me the creeps.0 -
When he slips into your DMs with this crapola
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Hanibanani2020 wrote: »When he slips into your DMs with this crapola
The emojis gave me a headache.1 -
If he chats like we're going to be in a long term thing very early on. The "When we go on *insert road trip/vacation/spending every waking moment together*". Huge red flag if that starts before we've met in person. I don't even want a guy to talk about a 2nd date before we've met. One step at a time.
Such a red flag! But if you want to see a red flag in action, you should come to Spain with me this summer. We can watch those bullfighting matches in Madrid with the matadors waving that thing around.2 -
If he gets pissed just driving.
If he can’t handle that, doubt he can handle much without getting mad.
I don’t need anger in my life.8
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