Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,393 Member
    Hey, guys or girls...bikini or one piece? Can a one piece be sexy or is one piece tan line unsexy? Bikini sexy even if theres some jiggle?

    Depends on the body. I've seen one piece suits cut to accentuate the waist that seem to give a nice hourglass shape, might be a desirable feature for less-than-hourglass ladies. I think the key is wearing a suit that fits properly. Looking like a stuffed sausage isn't flattering for anyone, one piece or two.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Hey, guys or girls...bikini or one piece? Can a one piece be sexy or is one piece tan line unsexy? Bikini sexy even if theres some jiggle?

    I'm not a fan of tan lines, any which way - I like one tone skin, so if you're gonna tan - get naked, otherwise use sunscreen.

    One pieces can definitely be sexy, just as bikinis can be frumpy.

    I think in a lot of instances bikinis may be a bit more forgiving and flattering if you have a little "jiggle", its not trying to be "held in"
  • hawkeye45_
    hawkeye45_ Posts: 812 Member
    Hey, guys or girls...bikini or one piece? Can a one piece be sexy or is one piece tan line unsexy? Bikini sexy even if theres some jiggle?

    Bikini and a smile.
  • beagletracks
    beagletracks Posts: 6,034 Member
    Ladies: Should guys wear black socks and sandals or cowboy boots with their Speedos at the beach? Footwear dilemma! Please help.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 MFP Moderator
    Ladies: Should guys wear black socks and sandals or cowboy boots with their Speedos at the beach? Footwear dilemma! Please help.

    Always partial to dem cowboy boots! I must know what color this speedo is though???
  • QueenZeeIsm
    QueenZeeIsm Posts: 104 Member
    Gentlemen: (Specifically talking about online interactions. When chatting to women online, who gets your attention first? The lady who is confident in her body and isn't scared to let you see a little / The lady who is conservative with her pictures, but equally beautiful?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Gentlemen: (Specifically talking about online interactions. When chatting to women online, who gets your attention first? The lady who is confident in her body and isn't scared to let you see a little / The lady who is conservative with her pictures, but equally beautiful?

    Ooohh good question...

    Not very chatty these days tbh but when I was, the one with the most contraband would usually get my attention first, although not always...

    Also worth noting the more she shows the quicker it usually fizzles...

    I can't say why either, just kind of happens that way, not intentional
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    Gentlemen: (Specifically talking about online interactions. When chatting to women online, who gets your attention first? The lady who is confident in her body and isn't scared to let you see a little / The lady who is conservative with her pictures, but equally beautiful?

    Ooohh good question...

    Not very chatty these days tbh but when I was, the one with the most contraband would usually get my attention first, although not always...

    Also worth noting the more she shows the quicker it usually fizzles...

    I can't say why either, just kind of happens that way, not intentional

    Contraband???? Lol my mind is going all kinds of places😬
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Gentlemen: (Specifically talking about online interactions. When chatting to women online, who gets your attention first? The lady who is confident in her body and isn't scared to let you see a little / The lady who is conservative with her pictures, but equally beautiful?

    Ooohh good question...

    Not very chatty these days tbh but when I was, the one with the most contraband would usually get my attention first, although not always...

    Also worth noting the more she shows the quicker it usually fizzles...

    I can't say why either, just kind of happens that way, not intentional

    Contraband???? Lol my mind is going all kinds of places😬

    I can't believe I freaking said all that 😂
    Wtf am I thinking sometimes 🤦🏽‍♂️
  • bufffanatic
    bufffanatic Posts: 33 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    AriesFL wrote: »
    Guess ill go the unpopular opinion. I don’t think high waisted pants look good. Lol

    I want to know what the women of MFP think on this one. If you had to be shallow, which one do you prefer. Below average height men or above average height men :o

    Size doesn't matter...

    Shallow me - taller than me

    So to put in perspective would you have this opinion if you were say. 5’9 to 6’ ?? My girls are 5’8 and 5’9 - and their Pickens are slim right now for dudes taller than they are - which as a dad - I’m completely fine with 😂

    I'm only 5'6 and I date both men and women. This is probably why I don't care as much about height as a straight gal would.. But most the men I've dated were shorter than me or similar in height. Almost all of them said they usually dated short girls, but that's because they're the only ones interested 😢
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 MFP Moderator
    A coworker who eats pitted cherries at lunch ( you gotta spit out the pit part...)
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    A coworker who eats pitted cherries at lunch ( you gotta spit out the pit part...)

    Right now...that's some Rona being served...no thanks.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    work husbands/work wives.

    who's got one? and how insanely jealous does it make your actual significant other?
    also its okay to admit if you kinda enjoy them being possessive and jealous. we're in the trust tree here folks.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    I'm curious as to what people think of women posting cleavage selfies in here. I'm a woman and personally find it really tacky. I'm sure I will get all kinds of disagrees from dudes, (and also of the women posting said selfies) - but hey - it's just my opinion. This seems to look like a dating site when I see photos of this nature, and also of guys with their near groin showing :) I'm not a prude. I just think empowering people is more than their "bits"...

    Better 😏

  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    work husbands/work wives.

    who's got one? and how insanely jealous does it make your actual significant other?
    also its okay to admit if you kinda enjoy them being possessive and jealous. we're in the trust tree here folks.

    I actually kinda like it more so when the work wife gets insanely jealous 😏😂
  • mynameisnobody1990
    mynameisnobody1990 Posts: 71 Member
    I'm curious as to what people think of women posting cleavage selfies in here. I'm a woman and personally find it really tacky. I'm sure I will get all kinds of disagrees from dudes, (and also of the women posting said selfies) - but hey - it's just my opinion. This seems to look like a dating site when I see photos of this nature, and also of guys with their near groin showing :) I'm not a prude. I just think empowering people is more than their "bits"...

    Better 😏

    So you agree this looks like a dating site? I'm not clear on your "better comment" :)
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    I'm curious as to what people think of women posting cleavage selfies in here. I'm a woman and personally find it really tacky. I'm sure I will get all kinds of disagrees from dudes, (and also of the women posting said selfies) - but hey - it's just my opinion. This seems to look like a dating site when I see photos of this nature, and also of guys with their near groin showing :) I'm not a prude. I just think empowering people is more than their "bits"...

    Better 😏

    So you agree this looks like a dating site? I'm not clear on your "better comment" :)

    I've might a number of really cool people here whom I've really enjoyed getting to know... A dating site, no...

    Just a place to find some fun phone friends who don't mind me popping in from time to time ❤️
  • mynameisnobody1990
    mynameisnobody1990 Posts: 71 Member
    I'm curious as to what people think of women posting cleavage selfies in here. I'm a woman and personally find it really tacky. I'm sure I will get all kinds of disagrees from dudes, (and also of the women posting said selfies) - but hey - it's just my opinion. This seems to look like a dating site when I see photos of this nature, and also of guys with their near groin showing :) I'm not a prude. I just think empowering people is more than their "bits"...

    Better 😏

    So you agree this looks like a dating site? I'm not clear on your "better comment" :)

    I've might a number of really cool people here whom I've really enjoyed getting to know... A dating site, no...

    Just a place to find some fun phone friends who don't mind me popping in from time to time ❤️

    I'm talking about the cleavage/groin element here ;) Yeah it's great to have friends etc.
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,744 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    work husbands/work wives.

    who's got one? and how insanely jealous does it make your actual significant other?
    also its okay to admit if you kinda enjoy them being possessive and jealous. we're in the trust tree here folks.

    When I was married and pregnant my exhusband had a hard core world wife. I thought it was hilarious and enjoyed listening to his stories about her work wife-ing him. She was really demanding, needy and extremely shocked when I showed up to a work outing with him. Like my pregnant belly and I had stolen her man. Lol.

    Generally my view is go for it, while realizing that there is a line where it becomes an emotional affair.
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    I'm curious as to what people think of women posting cleavage selfies in here. I'm a woman and personally find it really tacky. I'm sure I will get all kinds of disagrees from dudes, (and also of the women posting said selfies) - but hey - it's just my opinion. This seems to look like a dating site when I see photos of this nature, and also of guys with their near groin showing :) I'm not a prude. I just think empowering people is more than their "bits"...

    I'm not sure why I am paying for premium if this isn't a dating site.

    *insert sarcastic emoji*
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    I'm curious as to what people think of women posting cleavage selfies in here. I'm a woman and personally find it really tacky. I'm sure I will get all kinds of disagrees from dudes, (and also of the women posting said selfies) - but hey - it's just my opinion. This seems to look like a dating site when I see photos of this nature, and also of guys with their near groin showing :) I'm not a prude. I just think empowering people is more than their "bits"...

    I kinda like it when they do it. Would I? No. Is it because I find it tacky? No. But I’d have to lean over and push the girls together to get a semblance of that kind of cleavage. Too much work. Instead I’ll just admire the others. 😏

    Kidding... kinda... but not really. 😇😂
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    I'm curious as to what people think of women posting cleavage selfies in here. I'm a woman and personally find it really tacky. I'm sure I will get all kinds of disagrees from dudes, (and also of the women posting said selfies) - but hey - it's just my opinion. This seems to look like a dating site when I see photos of this nature, and also of guys with their near groin showing :) I'm not a prude. I just think empowering people is more than their "bits"...

    Better 😏

    So you agree this looks like a dating site? I'm not clear on your "better comment" :)

    I've might a number of really cool people here whom I've really enjoyed getting to know... A dating site, no...

    not a dating site ??


    .....just try swiping in the other direction.
  • Tonydevolanii
    Tonydevolanii Posts: 657 Member
    Unless they don't compete I think they have a lot of insecurities
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,393 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    work husbands/work wives.

    who's got one? and how insanely jealous does it make your actual significant other?
    also its okay to admit if you kinda enjoy them being possessive and jealous. we're in the trust tree here folks.

    My work husband has been working from home for the past four months so his real wife gets to clean up after him. She's retired and probably wishes he was at the office more.

    It's definitely not an emotional relationship, we're just the only two people doing jobs similar to each other in the office and we need to debate legal nuances constantly. I automatically side with his wife in any divisive issues I hear about. :D I've passed on advice about products for her (we have some common health issues). He's very knowledgeable about construction and gave me some good tips to solve some home maintenance problems. I know he's completely devoted to his wife, for months I heard about his search for the elusive perfect new vehicle for her... he wanted to meet her entire wish list.

    The SO works in a male-dominated environment so the chances of him ever having a work wife are nil. I'd probably be perfectly okay with it since I'd assume it was the same as the relationship as I have at work. He seems fine with the work husband thing, he's never been jealous. They're both hunters and they'd probably really like one another.
  • lilharumaki
    lilharumaki Posts: 112 Member
    Okay guys, what would you think if your girlfriend was heavier than you? I am 160 right now trying to get to 130, but I think it would mess me up mentally if I was heavier than my BF because I’d be scared I am gonna crush him. :/
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Okay guys, what would you think if your girlfriend was heavier than you? I am 160 right now trying to get to 130, but I think it would mess me up mentally if I was heavier than my BF because I’d be scared I am gonna crush him. :/

    Only if you could out bench me 😂...

    And in that case, the problem would be for me to fix, not you 😬
  • Mellouk89
    Mellouk89 Posts: 469 Member
    Okay guys, what would you think if your girlfriend was heavier than you? I am 160 right now trying to get to 130, but I think it would mess me up mentally if I was heavier than my BF because I’d be scared I am gonna crush him. :/

    I wouldn't mind at all, I happen to like "bigger" women. And also Brad Pitt was 155ish in fight club, would you still have a problem with that? :D