What’s a red flag for you?

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  • Dancer0515
    Dancer0515 Posts: 69 Member
    WTF is a K-Pop?

    I kind of love it!! Hahaha...
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,739 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    If he chats like we're going to be in a long term thing very early on. The "When we go on *insert road trip/vacation/spending every waking moment together*". Huge red flag if that starts before we've met in person. I don't even want a guy to talk about a 2nd date before we've met. One step at a time.

    Such a red flag! But if you want to see a red flag in action, you should come to Spain with me this summer. We can watch those bullfighting matches in Madrid with the matadors waving that thing around.

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  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    Dancer0515 wrote: »
    WTF is a K-Pop?

    I kind of love it!! Hahaha...

    My post is nearly a year old.
  • foster1503
    foster1503 Posts: 391 Member
    I hate drunkenness
  • SkoolGirl87
    SkoolGirl87 Posts: 41 Member
    1. Obsession with using social media and “documenting every moment of life” oppose to “living it”
    2. Boastfulness
    3. Deceitfulness
    4. Someone w/o goals


  • QueenZeeIsm
    QueenZeeIsm Posts: 104 Member
    People who openly tell you they have emotional issues.It seems like they use it as a blanket.

    Talking down about themselves.


  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    -When he wants to take you shopping “his treat” as a first date. Only days of knowing you

    - flaunts his money/ what he has ..comes off like a form of bribery.

    Red flag.... I think it maybe a sign of major insecurity, wanting to be liked, ? Idk just sounds off.

  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    He uses the same lines and cute pet names with me as he does with all other women.
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,362 Member
    If he gets pissed just driving.
    If he can’t handle that, doubt he can handle much without getting mad.
    I don’t need anger in my life.

    Where were you 7 years ago when I needed to learn this?
  • Tonydevolanii
    Tonydevolanii Posts: 658 Member
    Bad breath
    Mustache
    Bad dressed
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,741 Member
    RIP messages
  • QueenZeeIsm
    QueenZeeIsm Posts: 104 Member
    If he treats an animal badly. I knew someone who seemed fantastic, until he spent more time with my puppy and another side emerged.
  • amorfati601070
    amorfati601070 Posts: 2,852 Member
    If he treats an animal badly. I knew someone who seemed fantastic, until he spent more time with my puppy and another side emerged.

    It’s definitely a informative character trait when someone is cruel to animals. How can you even get mad at an animal anyway...annoyed yes but mad? If they harm animals there is a strong chance they lack empathy and would do the same to people too.
  • unforgettable2010
    unforgettable2010 Posts: 104 Member
    Telling me don’t get too big.
    Bodybuilders look gross.
    Telling me I workout too much.
    Trying to tempt me to cheat my diet.
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,739 Member
    Telling me don’t get too big.
    Bodybuilders look gross.
    Telling me I workout too much.
    Trying to tempt me to cheat my diet.

    On the flipside:

    Telling me
    - that they arent tempting me with food outside my calorie allowance, they just want me to be healthy.
    - I have no more weight to lose immediately after I say I'm up almost 10 lbs
    - that I look "fine" (in a meh tone)

    He should just realize that he isnt attracted to me or the way I want my body and move on.
  • Reckoner69_lmao
    Reckoner69_lmao Posts: 1,000 Member
    “Uh uh, I AVOID drama”
  • Soon2BSuper
    Soon2BSuper Posts: 1,767 Member
    ghudson92 wrote: »
    When they say "rise and grind" and then you have to delete them from your life entirely.

    :D This made me almost spit my drink! :D:D