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  • BrustMannEiner
    BrustMannEiner Posts: 360 Member
    Usually yea. Mine? I got called midgetfidget at the age of 17, and it's stuck 😐

    I'd surmise they were, and still are, jealous.

    They wanna be called it?

    No, jealous of you.
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    edited August 2020
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    I hate when a failed relationship ruins a good song for me. Along those lines...

    Can love songs be recycled? If it was your song can it be your song with someone else? Is that like buying used condoms?

    Yuck. I’d hate to know someone was sharing a love song with me they had with someone else.🤢 Unoriginal.

    I agree. I'd hate to know too although no one dedicates anything to me so I think i'm safe 😆

    I dedicate this song to @r3d_butt3rfly_

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LjhCEhWiKXk

    OMG I can't stand this song 🙈... Sorry... 💕

    😂 Agreed! Corny AF😬
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    I hate when a failed relationship ruins a good song for me. Along those lines...

    Can love songs be recycled? If it was your song can it be your song with someone else? Is that like buying used condoms?

    Yuck. I’d hate to know someone was sharing a love song with me they had with someone else.🤢 Unoriginal.

    I agree. I'd hate to know too although no one dedicates anything to me so I think i'm safe 😆

    I dedicate this song to @r3d_butt3rfly_

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LjhCEhWiKXk

    OMG I can't stand this song 🙈... Sorry... 💕

    😂 Agreed! Corny AF😬

    I’m ok with it. I was dedicating it to my friend. Lol. And I happen to like corny apparently. Or maybe just sweet instead of not even trying?

    Fair enough 😊
  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    edited August 2020
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    I hate when a failed relationship ruins a good song for me. Along those lines...

    Can love songs be recycled? If it was your song can it be your song with someone else? Is that like buying used condoms?

    Yuck. I’d hate to know someone was sharing a love song with me they had with someone else.🤢 Unoriginal.

    I agree. I'd hate to know too although no one dedicates anything to me so I think i'm safe 😆

    I dedicate this song to @r3d_butt3rfly_

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LjhCEhWiKXk

    OMG I can't stand this song 🙈... Sorry... 💕

    And also.....if someone legit felt this way about ME? Wow, they’d be a happy man. Just sayin’.

    IMO the song’s ok but why is it good that she doesn’t believe his compliments? Is it arrogant or conceited to take a compliment well?

    Also, right or wrong, these days I am less impressed by how others feel about me and more taken with how I feel about them. I think I used to get all giddy just because someone liked me but I realize now it’s kind of important that I like them too.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    I hate when a failed relationship ruins a good song for me. Along those lines...

    Can love songs be recycled? If it was your song can it be your song with someone else? Is that like buying used condoms?

    Yuck. I’d hate to know someone was sharing a love song with me they had with someone else.🤢 Unoriginal.

    I agree. I'd hate to know too although no one dedicates anything to me so I think i'm safe 😆

    I dedicate this song to @r3d_butt3rfly_

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LjhCEhWiKXk

    OMG I can't stand this song 🙈... Sorry... 💕

    It’s been established that you and I aren’t compatible music wise. And probably other ways. But thanks for *kitten* up my dedication. 😂

    Hey it's better than that cheezy song...

    "I think I wanna marry you"... 🥴🙈
  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    I hate when a failed relationship ruins a good song for me. Along those lines...

    Can love songs be recycled? If it was your song can it be your song with someone else? Is that like buying used condoms?

    Yuck. I’d hate to know someone was sharing a love song with me they had with someone else.🤢 Unoriginal.

    I agree. I'd hate to know too although no one dedicates anything to me so I think i'm safe 😆

    I dedicate this song to @r3d_butt3rfly_

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LjhCEhWiKXk

    OMG I can't stand this song 🙈... Sorry... 💕

    And also.....if someone legit felt this way about ME? Wow, they’d be a happy man. Just sayin’.

    IMO the song’s ok but why is it good that she doesn’t believe his compliments? Is it arrogant or conceited to take a compliment well?

    Also, right or wrong, these days I am less impressed by how others feel about me and more taken with how I feel about them. I think I used to get all giddy just because someone liked me but I realize now it’s kind of important that I like them too.

    I get it. I’m a simpleton. LoL

    I don’t think it’s good. But I think it’s the reality that many women have trouble taking compliments. Ive told people before people “just say thank you” because instead of saying “thank you” to a compliment they begin to degrade themselves. I just thought it was a sweet song. I didn’t think as deeply into it as I should have. I just thought it was a fun thing to post. 🙈

    I don’t care what most people think of me but if it’s someone I deeply care for, what they think of me affects me deeper than it probably should. Thankfully there’s hardly anyone in my life that can affect me that way.

    I tend to over analyze. 😬 Sorry ❤️
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    I hate when a failed relationship ruins a good song for me. Along those lines...

    Can love songs be recycled? If it was your song can it be your song with someone else? Is that like buying used condoms?

    Yuck. I’d hate to know someone was sharing a love song with me they had with someone else.🤢 Unoriginal.

    I agree. I'd hate to know too although no one dedicates anything to me so I think i'm safe 😆

    I dedicate this song to @r3d_butt3rfly_

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LjhCEhWiKXk

    OMG I can't stand this song 🙈... Sorry... 💕

    😂 Agreed! Corny AF😬

    I’m ok with it. I was dedicating it to my friend. Lol. And I happen to like corny apparently. Or maybe just sweet instead of not even trying?

    Well.....I think the only opinion that matters is mine as it was dedicated to me and I happen to be *kitten* cheesy AF so I'm *kitten* swooning and Mel I absolutely appreciate your efforts to bringing a smile to my face ❤💋
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    edited August 2020
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    After probably close to 20 years of not listening to much “popular” music I’ve definitely started listening to *kitten* music this last year. Once I started not being so serious in my life and being a happier person, I just started listening to more fun music. And I admit it’s what I call “sh$t music”. I’m ok with it.

    😂😂😂... I was just *kitten* with you Mel

    You know I love you with a capital L, in spite of whatever you listen to...

    Just the way you are ❤️... 😂, no pun...
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    After probably close to 20 years of not listening to much “popular” music I’ve definitely started listening to *kitten* music this last year. Once I started not being so serious in my life and being a happier person, I just started listening to more fun music. And I admit it’s what I call “sh$t music”. I’m ok with it.

    Music is such a personal choice and one cannot really be judged for it. I like everything from DeBussy and Bologne to dancehall and Big Sean. The intent behind the music choice matters more, methinks.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    After probably close to 20 years of not listening to much “popular” music I’ve definitely started listening to *kitten* music this last year. Once I started not being so serious in my life and being a happier person, I just started listening to more fun music. And I admit it’s what I call “sh$t music”. I’m ok with it.

    😂😂😂... I was just *kitten* with you Mel

    You know I love you with a capital L, in spite of whatever you listen to...

    Just the way you are ❤️... 😂, no pun...

    Prove it then.

    Ok fine... No more wc, she's gone...
    I'll tell her about us today 💞... 😂
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies....

    What should we call them, boobs, breast, melons, jugs, fun bags, tits, knockers? Or there very own pet name?

    What's your preference... 🤷🏽‍♂️, is it a regional thing?

    Seriously having this conversation rn with coworkers 😂
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    After probably close to 20 years of not listening to much “popular” music I’ve definitely started listening to *kitten* music this last year. Once I started not being so serious in my life and being a happier person, I just started listening to more fun music. And I admit it’s what I call “sh$t music”. I’m ok with it.

    dont let anyone shame u for your music taste ♥️

    i listen to weird obscure *kitten* and then i love over-the-top sad love songs and then i sing along to disney soundtracks too so
  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    edited August 2020
    Ladies....

    What should we call them, boobs, breast, melons, jugs, fun bags, tits, knockers? Or there very own pet name?

    What's your preference... 🤷🏽‍♂️, is it a regional thing?

    Seriously having this conversation rn with coworkers 😂
    I suspect it’ll vary by person.

    i know some people think it’s too clinical but I like the word breast. It sounds sexy to me.

    Boobs for just casual - “hey, your boob’s out.”

    Tit is s little shocking and therefore funny.
  • Miss_Chiev0us
    Miss_Chiev0us Posts: 1,592 Member
    Ladies....

    What should we call them, boobs, breast, melons, jugs, fun bags, tits, knockers? Or there very own pet name?

    What's your preference... 🤷🏽‍♂️, is it a regional thing?

    Seriously having this conversation rn with coworkers 😂

    Fun bags
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Someone came out with...

    Chips and dips
    Mary Kate and Ashley
    Nunga Nungas...

    😂😂😂... I freaking love my job
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    edited August 2020
    Someone came out with...

    Chips and dips
    Mary Kate and Ashley
    Nunga Nungas...

    😂😂😂... I freaking love my job

    Thanks to Doja Cat I now refer them to Tia and Tamera
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    edited August 2020
    Ladies....

    What should we call them, boobs, breast, melons, jugs, fun bags, tits, knockers? Or there very own pet name?

    What's your preference... 🤷🏽‍♂️, is it a regional thing?

    Seriously having this conversation rn with coworkers 😂

    Almost every comment makes me increasingly concerned with your work environment. From what I know this far, you're liable to blow up at any moment and your coworkers seem overly interested in watching you move about vigorously while talking about intimate matters.

    Where do I submit my CV?

    As for being given body part names... hard pass.

    I do call my pair different names on occasion but they must always be hyphenated: Melia-Ann, Bobbie-Jane, Tina-Jö, Suzie-Mae, etc
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    Ladies....

    What should we call them, boobs, breast, melons, jugs, fun bags, tits, knockers? Or there very own pet name?

    What's your preference... 🤷🏽‍♂️, is it a regional thing?

    Seriously having this conversation rn with coworkers 😂

    Almost every comment makes me increasingly concerned with your work environment. From what I know this far, you're liable to blow up at any moment and your coworkers seem overly interested in watching you move about vigorously while talking about intimate matters.

    Where do I submit my CV?

    As for being given body part names... hard pass.

    I do call my pair different names on occasion but they must always be hyphenated: Melia-Ann, Bobbie-Jane, Tina-Jö, Suzie-Mae, etc

    We can teach you everything you need to know... The only thing they care about is your willingness to get dirty...

    And if you can walk the line between thirsting for knowledge, well not appearing over zealous... You gotta know when to go hard and when to go slow...
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    Ladies....

    What should we call them, boobs, breast, melons, jugs, fun bags, tits, knockers? Or there very own pet name?

    What's your preference... 🤷🏽‍♂️, is it a regional thing?

    Seriously having this conversation rn with coworkers 😂

    Almost every comment makes me increasingly concerned with your work environment. From what I know this far, you're liable to blow up at any moment and your coworkers seem overly interested in watching you move about vigorously while talking about intimate matters.

    Where do I submit my CV?

    As for being given body part names... hard pass.

    I do call my pair different names on occasion but they must always be hyphenated: Melia-Ann, Bobbie-Jane, Tina-Jö, Suzie-Mae, etc

    We can teach you everything you need to know... The only thing they care about is your willingness to get dirty...

    And if you can walk the line between thirsting for knowledge, well not appearing over zealous... You gotta know when to go hard and when to go slow...

    🤔

    This sounds like the plot to every quest or adventure-type movie from 85' through to '06.

    In other words, I'm in ✊🏿
  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    edited August 2020
    Okokok i got one.

    Under what circumstances is it ETHICAL to look someone up online?

    Are there rules?

    Have you ever been caught?

    Have you ever admitted to a person that you’ve done your due diligence?

    Being clear- I’m not talking about stalking, harassment, identity theft, or revealing personal information.
  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    Okokok i got one.

    Under what circumstances is it ETHICAL to look someone up online?

    Are there rules?

    Have you ever been caught?

    Have you ever admitted to a person that you’ve done you due diligence?

    Being clear- I’m not talking about stalking, harassment, identity theft, or revealing personal information.

    i dont do this ever. i feel like people deserve privacy/anonymity and maybe that makes me more likely to be fooled by someone but idc. take em at face value

    Can you think of a circumstance in which you might change your mind?
  • fstrickl
    fstrickl Posts: 883 Member
    Ladies....

    What should we call them, boobs, breast, melons, jugs, fun bags, tits, knockers? Or there very own pet name?

    What's your preference... 🤷🏽‍♂️, is it a regional thing?

    Seriously having this conversation rn with coworkers 😂

    Ha! What kind work do you do?

    With my girlfriends (I’m cis-het btw) I’d say “boobs” with my guy friends...I feel like they say “tits” but I’d be fine with “boobs/chest/breast” as long as they’re not being gross.

    Now I‘m off to think of some Knick-knocker names.

  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    Okokok i got one.

    Under what circumstances is it ETHICAL to look someone up online?

    Are there rules?

    Have you ever been caught?

    Have you ever admitted to a person that you’ve done you due diligence?

    Being clear- I’m not talking about stalking, harassment, identity theft, or revealing personal information.

    i dont do this ever. i feel like people deserve privacy/anonymity and maybe that makes me more likely to be fooled by someone but idc. take em at face value

    Can you think of a circumstance in which you might change your mind?

    nope, if someone wants me to see something they’ll show me

    but tbh privacy and related issues are really, really important to me. like anonymous speech, free association, data retention, behavioral tracking, encryption, face recognition, all kinds of surveillance, etc. i care about that type of thing more than anything else and really believe the downfall of society is goin to be from loss of privacy

  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    edited August 2020
    Okokok i got one.

    Under what circumstances is it ETHICAL to look someone up online?

    Are there rules?

    Have you ever been caught?

    Have you ever admitted to a person that you’ve done you due diligence?

    Being clear- I’m not talking about stalking, harassment, identity theft, or revealing personal information.

    i dont do this ever. i feel like people deserve privacy/anonymity and maybe that makes me more likely to be fooled by someone but idc. take em at face value

    Can you think of a circumstance in which you might change your mind?

    nope, if someone wants me to see something they’ll show me

    but tbh privacy and related issues are really, really important to me. like anonymous speech, free association, data retention, behavioral tracking, encryption, face recognition, all kinds of surveillance, etc. i care about that type of thing more than anything else and really believe the downfall of society is goin to be from loss of privacy

    Ok one more if you don’t mind??? Would you ask someone for information about themselves if they didn’t volunteer it?
  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    Okokok i got one.

    Under what circumstances is it ETHICAL to look someone up online?

    Are there rules?

    Have you ever been caught?

    Have you ever admitted to a person that you’ve done your due diligence?

    Being clear- I’m not talking about stalking, harassment, identity theft, or revealing personal information.

    have done it for work before.
    not a fan of the idea. its one thing for your job to want a background check, but another thing entirely for them to want to see what you post on facebook or twitter or whatever. there should be a line where employees are employees and then again where they get to be their own person. more jobs need to draw a line in the sand about that and say "our employees do not represent us when they're off the clock". this isn't the army you know?

    anyhow i've always spoken out against that at work but that's just the culture now. one guy i had to look into, he didn't get the job because one of the ladies on the committee saw that he had a breakup like 2 months prior and she was concerned over his reliability because of it. she picked some other guy who was married with a kid. he got divorced less than a year after taking the job and then left entirely a year after that.

    basically- i don't think you can read someone's life story off the internet and successfully predict the next chapter.

    but if you just mean like someone for a date? then imo you prob shouldn't be on the date to begin with if the trust issues are so bad. not saying they're a good person or you're a bad one for it- but even if they pass muster on whatever data you're seeking, who's to say they're just not hiding it really well. i mean everybody's got demons you know? and what would they say if they looked into your life? when does it stop? when would you be able to say "okay i trust this person" if you start out from a place of distrust?

    Would you ever search an ex to see what she’s up to?
  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    edited August 2020
    Full disclosure, I absolutely have looked up old friends and lovers and have occasionally reached out.

    ETA: I’ve also verified information given to me before taking an online friend into the real world.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    Okokok i got one.

    Under what circumstances is it ETHICAL to look someone up online?

    Are there rules?

    Have you ever been caught?

    Have you ever admitted to a person that you’ve done your due diligence?

    Being clear- I’m not talking about stalking, harassment, identity theft, or revealing personal information.

    have done it for work before.
    not a fan of the idea. its one thing for your job to want a background check, but another thing entirely for them to want to see what you post on facebook or twitter or whatever. there should be a line where employees are employees and then again where they get to be their own person. more jobs need to draw a line in the sand about that and say "our employees do not represent us when they're off the clock". this isn't the army you know?

    anyhow i've always spoken out against that at work but that's just the culture now. one guy i had to look into, he didn't get the job because one of the ladies on the committee saw that he had a breakup like 2 months prior and she was concerned over his reliability because of it. she picked some other guy who was married with a kid. he got divorced less than a year after taking the job and then left entirely a year after that.

    basically- i don't think you can read someone's life story off the internet and successfully predict the next chapter.

    but if you just mean like someone for a date? then imo you prob shouldn't be on the date to begin with if the trust issues are so bad. not saying they're a good person or you're a bad one for it- but even if they pass muster on whatever data you're seeking, who's to say they're just not hiding it really well. i mean everybody's got demons you know? and what would they say if they looked into your life? when does it stop? when would you be able to say "okay i trust this person" if you start out from a place of distrust?

    Would you ever search an ex to see what she’s up to?

    i have before but not to see what they were up to exactly. like this one girl was a horrible horrible driver. she got in like 7 wrecks the whole time i knew her. and i was always legitimately afraid she was going to die someday because of it. so occasionally i'll still google her name to make sure there isn't an obit out there because i do still worry about it.

    another girl i knew, her company shut their doors a little while back and closed shop. i was worried she lost her job and was homeless or god knows what else, so i googled the company to see what was what and they didn't shut down, they just closed that location and re-opened elsewhere. that was enough for me you know?
  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Okokok i got one.

    Under what circumstances is it ETHICAL to look someone up online?

    Are there rules?

    Have you ever been caught?

    Have you ever admitted to a person that you’ve done your due diligence?

    Being clear- I’m not talking about stalking, harassment, identity theft, or revealing personal information.

    have done it for work before.
    not a fan of the idea. its one thing for your job to want a background check, but another thing entirely for them to want to see what you post on facebook or twitter or whatever. there should be a line where employees are employees and then again where they get to be their own person. more jobs need to draw a line in the sand about that and say "our employees do not represent us when they're off the clock". this isn't the army you know?

    anyhow i've always spoken out against that at work but that's just the culture now. one guy i had to look into, he didn't get the job because one of the ladies on the committee saw that he had a breakup like 2 months prior and she was concerned over his reliability because of it. she picked some other guy who was married with a kid. he got divorced less than a year after taking the job and then left entirely a year after that.

    basically- i don't think you can read someone's life story off the internet and successfully predict the next chapter.

    but if you just mean like someone for a date? then imo you prob shouldn't be on the date to begin with if the trust issues are so bad. not saying they're a good person or you're a bad one for it- but even if they pass muster on whatever data you're seeking, who's to say they're just not hiding it really well. i mean everybody's got demons you know? and what would they say if they looked into your life? when does it stop? when would you be able to say "okay i trust this person" if you start out from a place of distrust?

    Would you ever search an ex to see what she’s up to?

    i have before but not to see what they were up to exactly. like this one girl was a horrible horrible driver. she got in like 7 wrecks the whole time i knew her. and i was always legitimately afraid she was going to die someday because of it. so occasionally i'll still google her name to make sure there isn't an obit out there because i do still worry about it.

    another girl i knew, her company shut their doors a little while back and closed shop. i was worried she lost her job and was homeless or god knows what else, so i googled the company to see what was what and they didn't shut down, they just closed that location and re-opened elsewhere. that was enough for me you know?

    Yep, makes sense