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sweet_ermengarde wrote: »i quit this one job i had and its for the best, bc i like teaching way better and its less stressful but *kitten* *kitten* *kitten* i can hear the voices in my head of my family telling me i’m throwing away opportunities and yelling about me about my potential
we dont even talk anymore and they still haunting me
Teaching is such a noble profession and a great show of service. In terms of transferable skills, teachers have MANY of those.3 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »i quit this one job i had and its for the best, bc i like teaching way better and its less stressful but *kitten* *kitten* *kitten* i can hear the voices in my head of my family telling me i’m throwing away opportunities and yelling about me about my potential
we dont even talk anymore and they still haunting me
What's that saying about find a job you love and you'll never work another day in your life?
Stick with what you like better. Happiness day to day is worth more than the big bucks, the fancy promotions, or whatever those opportunities are.
I've lived both and I picked the job I love.3 -
I found jobs I could tolerate, some I was even good at. But after 41 years of work I don't know if I ever loved one of my jobs. Sad but true. Now I'm retired and WOW, I love that job. Working around my own place, helping my daughter, doing volunteer work (that includes construction), playing in a band. It's amazing. I would have loved to be a professional musician and vocalist, but with a family to feed, clothe, house and provide for, I just couldn't take that risk.12
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What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?2
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ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
perspective
and gratitude8 -
ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
To help us let go of things not meant for us, and facilitate change...
To make us stronger...4 -
ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
balance5 -
ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
like stones in a tumbler.
you go in rough and imperfectly formed.
you spin around get banged up get smashed against the chaos
in the end you either shatter
or you come out perfected5 -
ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
Today I don't think there is a point - it just is.
I may think something else tomorrow.2 -
i’ve been trying to stay super busy and i guess been successful at it but its not really helping all that much but i’m not sure what else to do7
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ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
Recognizing the "good times"3 -
ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
Recognizing the "good times"
yes.. without the bad times you won't recognise and appreciate the good2 -
I feel like the forums are too fake sometimes. I’m not sure if this is because the moderators are so quick to censor or put a stop to sensitive topics or because people are afraid to be vulnerable or talk about real things. Stop the self deprecation and be real. That’s how I feel sometimes.5
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ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
Every experience in life is for the soul to grow, over many lifetimes. The sufferings one endures in this life will be different than those in the next, as well as the positive emotions.
Sufferings and joys allow souls to become richer and more nuanced. The soul's aim is to experience all that exists - the infinity of life, until it is omniscient and omnipotent, like God. Then it becomes one with God.
After that, it can create worlds.
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If you show your face you strike a balance between oversharing and reeling it back in for your career and resume. Mmm hmm. Six degrees of separation is now two. The world is shrinking.1
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ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
Its the foundation for peace and succes.1 -
I feel like the forums are too fake sometimes. I’m not sure if this is because the moderators are so quick to censor or put a stop to sensitive topics or because people are afraid to be vulnerable or talk about real things. Stop the self deprecation and be real. That’s how I feel sometimes.
My self-deprecation isn't a schtick but a daily practice of balancing self-acceptance with a touch of veritable surprise, a dose of delight and what I hope is received as a gallon of genuine grace (for others as well as myself).8 -
ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
Best function I've found is gratitude and appreciation of the good. But my own personal jury is still out on whether it's a good balance. Especially for some people who seem to get a world of suffering thrown at them while some sit high in their shiny thrones and keep on prospering.
All I can say is 'D@mN you Eve, put the apple down!!'4 -
ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
I don't think things life events serve a function. I think they just happen and we have to deal with them, good or bad.
We like to imagine there's more behind them, usually after the fact, because that's how our brains are wired: we don't deal well with randomness.6 -
KickTheSky wrote: »ladyzherra wrote: »What do you feel is the function of suffering in this life?
Best function I've found is gratitude and appreciation of the good. But my own personal jury is still out on whether it's a good balance. Especially for some people who seem to get a world of suffering thrown at them while some sit high in their shiny thrones and keep on prospering.
All I can say is 'D@mN you Eve, put the apple down!!'
What if the balance wasn't with one person but rather everyone? Maybe the people that have it wonderful are balanced by the people with horrible lives.
Well then, the old saying goes "It isn't fair!" because it truly isn't.
I hate it when a cloud seems to follow certain people around. And I don't believe in the saying 'God gives us only as much as we can handle'. My sister is a case in point. I have no idea how she hasn't crumpled into a heap by now.3
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