WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2020

Lanette- it’s funny u you oh address the very reasons I no longer post here except to say hey occasionally.I’ve had the disagree button hit on my posts about life situations and been completely ignored on others.It’s ok.
I really wanted to pop in and wish Everyone a blessed Christmas and happy new year.This one has been different and challenging in a couple of ways.My oldest daughter has been contemplating suicide and my youngest daughter has been diagnosed with cancer.I can’t be with our oldest in Colorado but can be beside our youngest.I know they will both fight.
Debby in Va

Used to have Breakfast in bed (had a tv in the bedroom) now in the living room watching Sunday morning, made by my love, what a guy, my Kirby Schlotterback❤️

Yes, it’s me again. I hope I am able to touch on everyone’s lives. If not please know I think of all of you daily and hope all is well in your world.

Barbara – Sorry to hear about the Fire Chief. Your imagery regarding the rain was on point.

Heather – The birthday(s) basket made my mouth water. The picture of the German biscuits made me smile. I completely understand the frustration with your son. Especially since he knows his mom. I get antsy when people volunteer to assist and wait until the last darn minute.

Margaret – I am so happy you found a dog park where Drew can feel comfortable and play with liked-sized dogs. It is such a joyful site watching dogs romp around and play.

The disagree button. I believe we all have the right to disagree with someone. I also believe we should explain our disagreement as a way of fostering a healthy exchange. That said, there are many times when I am on my phone reading through our posts and I accidently hit it (those buttons are so small) and have to correct my selection. It’s my thought hug and disagree should not be so close to each other.

RVRita – Love the pictures of the lake. Beautiful.

Annie – Just make the appointment. You do not have to tell your mom it’s an assessment. Speak with the doctor first and ask him to let her know it is part of an annual exam. So sorry about dad’s bank hack. I would like to wring some people’s necks!

KJ – While reading your “poem” I was singing it and KC’s voice in my head. He lived in SFL. So sorry about your back/nerve issue. Hoping the day off helped.

OH, that disagree button. I am laughing people, seriously laughing. Someone disagreed with one of my orchid pictures. Believe me if this post gets a disagree or 100 my feelings will not be hurt.

Rebecca – I watch My 600 Pound Life from time-to-time. It is sad how many are suffering in silence and abuse food as a result of their suffering. Like you I am glad I can put on the breaks. What maddens me a is watching how many families actually assist in the someone’s downfall. Talk about codependency at its finest. It is my thought there should be more individual and family counseling going on.

Betsy & Katla – I love the lengthening of the days too and look forward to the day after tomorrow (1 minute of extra sunshine per day here).

Debbie – Congratulations on your new Nissan! It seems like many of us had to jump ship this year and buy new cars.

Machka – I am so happy you were able to have an official graduation. It sounds like you had a fine day! I do agree with your advice to Annie. Yet, in the great State of FL the police do not get involved with any type of financial fraud unless the amount is $10k (not a typo) or greater. The banks deal with smaller fraud and report via the Fed.

Lanette – Everclear – LMAO!

Fae – I read your advice about the party and did not agree with everything but clicked insightful. I am one who relishes in differences of opinions. By listening (reading here) it allows all of us to grow if we are open to other’s ideas. I do you agree you should be able to voice your opinion and ask who disagrees. I think by giving it attention you may be making the person(s) do it more. Remember those types of people get off on the reaction – not the doing.

Evelyn – I so love seeing the lights on in the morning too. I also look forward to them coming on at nightfall. All of my Christmas lights are on timers. When I get up in the morning my little ceramic Christmas tree is aglow. It brightens my morning.

Kim – Glad to see your post. I hope all is well in your world. It sounds like you are super busy! 😊

Michelle – I repaired the ignitor in my BBQ. They sell generic BBQ parts. I think it cost me all of $10 to and about 15 minutes.

Karen – Love, love, love the picture of the up-and-coming Ninja chefs!

Lisa – Agree!

Pip – Love the medal. Masked – so appropriate!!

Katla – I hope Tracey is OK too.

Allie – I am glad you are creating a routine for yourself. It is easy to sleep the day away especially when your body and possibly your mind are telling you….sleep, sleep, sleep. Stay well and sending positive thoughts your way.

Sue – Sending winning thoughts to you on the ton of hay!

Machka – Congratulations on the new phone. I am still learning my way through after having mine for a year. I will say the increase in GBs is amazing. Enjoy!! Simple sugar is called for in many drink recipes and is simply sugar and water. 😊 Yes, I know too easy, right?

Debby – Big hug to you. I have been missing your updates. Sending prayers and positive thoughts to you and yours.

Cheri – Hope all is well with you. Sending positive thoughts that you are doing well and remaining healthy.

Whew – I am finally caught up. I see it is 10:30 and my stomach is rumbling. Or am I hungry after viewing Pip’s breakfast (Pip, Can you send Kirby here after he is through with the dishes – LOL). Probably a mixture of both!

Hugs to all and prayers for those in need.
SuziQ – SFL

@ginnytez Thanks for the encouragements. I always have at least 2 credit cards (I have 2 banks), so I can usually use the other one if one blocks. When I was in India 15 years ago, I brought enough money to get by almost the whole 2 weeks till the end. I was so disoriented that I forgot my atm number (which I otherwise used often). I guess I remembered it or worked something, out, and managed. I can't remember now. but I remember being uneasy and concerned at the time.

We are in this for the long haul. There is some indication of increase in suicide or suicide attempt during or since 1st lockdown, so these are things to take into consideration as well as all the rest...

@Machka9 I don't know if it said it but you look radiantly happy! woo hoo! Glad to know I was not the only one hunkering down yesterday.

@Pip awesome on 1st prize! woo hoo! way to go!



Assembling stuff
The bike was quite quick to assemble, relatively speaking. Good instructions, screws, etc. The table was not long but really there's a bit of an imbalance. It's maybe 3-4 mm which is enough for a constant wobble, but I can add in felt or rubber or something and it'll be fine. The chairs a bit longer as the screws were very long to get in but no wobble. What was really long was a shoe storage thing: countless pieces, screws, moving parts. It took 3-4 hours I'd say. But like the bike, it all came together quite well in the end with no wobble. It's great! I had a bamboo shoe shelt in the entrance. The bamboo is prettier, but, being shelves, you see all the shoes, which are just not that pretty in a narrow entrance in a relatively small abode. This one is more swinging drawers, so when closed you don't see the shoes, so it looks much tidier. I long hesitated as I will generally choose real wood over fake wood, but I'm very happy with the look after 2 assembling sessions. The curtains were a snap! just unpack and hang! loved it! Remaining are the trundle sofa-bed and the tall shelves. I'm aiming for 1 item per day. I think I'll go for the shelves tomorrow as I can put stuff in them and have more space for the finishing touches.

I sent 2 sms's inviting friends over for a drink, to experience new table and chairs! Since I live alone we are allowed to have visits now. I think there is some suggestion of maximum 6 people at a time, but not strict at all in private spaces.

People on their own (at least person) need a balance between mental health and keeping constant distance from all.

I continue going for little walks in the day: 30-60 minutes more or less, moderate pace. And to that I'm adding some time of online cycling.

I have a massive amount of paperwork to get through too, that I've been putting off, but the furniture is quicker and making me feel better about home.

Today I lazed, wrote some activist mails, assembled the furniture, walked, bought some food (just a bit), invited a coupe of friends by mail, and that's about it. not a ton, but better than nothing. I always feel much more energised after I go for a walk. I used to ALWAYS go out early in the morning, but I've really been dragging of late... confinement, work, winter...