Less Alcohol - FEBRUARY 2021 - One Day At A Time
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@CMB44512 you are going down the right path with helping to motivate family to join you in drinking less. With your mother, keep at it but in a very gentle way. I am sure you've checked online into tips on how to approach someone about their drinking (ie: not when they are under the influence, or in a foul mood, and using a gentle tone not conveying disapproval,etc). Using a direct tone usually backfires.
Backing off a bit then meeting up with her and not saying anything about her drinking may be one idea (it's hard). Kind of re-establish a line of communication that is friendly and approachable. Then maybe next time let her know what is up with you, that you feel happier etc having cut back a bit on drinking and it was easy, etc. It's all about baby steps...and going slow.
In her mind, she may have convinced herself she is normal and believes it. Take me for example, I though everybody drinks. I don't get into trouble and I don't get drunk, I can function great and look totally fine. The alcohol brain is in a denial state. Then there is also fear (my husband has this)....fear of how bad that first week of not drinking will be (ie: you could die he says) ...or fear he'd lose out on the fun and relaxing feeling or experience anxiety.
Sending positive thoughts your way......and condolences about the Chiefs, I was rooting for them too!6 -
hello to all the wonderfuls here
well got through the superbowl....actually tuned it out when the score was really out of whack. But did enjoy a few drinks. Today is a new day.
DH and I were talking last night and I again said I really need help on cutting back. So now we have made another pack.....only have one day a week to drink and we both have to agree on which day. This is doable and I know he will help me gently stick to it. I really do want to get through this month with 20 AF days, that would be two more than last month.10 -
DH opened one of my favorite Albariño wines this evening but it is Monday. So I'm AF.
Feb accountability: 5/8 days AF
Alcohol: 3 days (6 drinks)
Goal: Limit 1-2 glasses per day; 12-16 AF days per month
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Went to the cinema again today - it was one of those that have waiter service and a wine list.
Proud to say I did NOT have any wine
We saw 'Nomadland' with Frances McDormand.8 -
Hard fail here today. Chugged 3 beers, only 3 in the house and lied to my husband about it. I feel like poop for what I did behind his back. I was at 18 AF days in a row. Starting over tomorrow 😔
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Fit_Happens_2021 wrote: »Went to the cinema again today - it was one of those that have waiter service and a wine list.
Proud to say I did NOT have any wine
We saw 'Nomadland' with Frances McDormand.
Love her!
Also love a nice menu watching movies. I’ve only found one theatre that does this.6 -
CryingBlue wrote: »Hard fail here today. Chugged 3 beers, only 3 in the house and lied to my husband about it. I feel like poop for what I did behind his back. I was at 18 AF days in a row. Starting over tomorrow 😔
We’ve all stumbled. The more important thing is to discern what made you chug the 3 beers, and what made you lie about it. Pondering those ponderables will help you for next time.
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What was supposed to be an easy quiet day at work was anything but! Wanted a drink around 5:30 but the feeling passed - plus still working! Got home late and stayed AF. Happy about that!9
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Happy Tuesday Everyone!
I'm now 3xAF days for February. Will go again tonight as I am aiming for 4 days this week. I don't have any plans for drinks weekdays this week.
I have to say I was tempted last night after finishing the day with a 3.5hr web meeting but I had a cup of tea instead LOL8 -
CryingBlue wrote: »Hard fail here today. Chugged 3 beers, only 3 in the house and lied to my husband about it. I feel like poop for what I did behind his back. I was at 18 AF days in a row. Starting over tomorrow 😔
Start overs are perfectly fine. We are the LESS alcohol group. You had 18 days of NO alcohol. That counts for a big victory. Agree with the comment think about what could have triggered it. What is your day normally like? Was it work related? Are you by yourself all day?
New day for you.😊
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@globalhiker is that bodypump you do the one by Les Mills?
This tricep workout is a bonus workout within this DVD program, never would have thought it was going to be such a killer. It's not like I don't box and kick box and lift weights as a normal routine in my life. The quickness of each set I believe was the problem. I can lift heavy at a much slower speed without a problem.
Darn this skin that looses elasticity.
And then I just had to come across this bit of information:
Be mindful of your sugar intake too: excessive amounts can age skin prematurely as sugar in the bloodstream forms harmful molecules (known as AGEs: advanced glycation end products) which attack collagen and elastin.6 -
February accountability-
Days 8
1A ( 0ne drink)
7AF
Planned next drink is 1 glass of champagne at a set 6 course dinner on Valentines Day.
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@Stockholm_Andy that's why it's one day at a time. Good for you for getting back on the AF wagon. 1-2 days off doesn't mean you can't start again. Every day of not drinking or drinking less is better than what we were doing before.
Thanks Trish, I'm completely onboard with one day at a time this time around. I'm not trying to go dry but I am aiming for more days AF than drinking.
Well done on the weight loss BTW!
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Today will be AF day 9.
Physically I feel great. But the next few weeks will present wild unexpected cravings out of the blue. That's what happened last time. To prep, I went to a Total Wine store that sells individual non-alcoholic beers and bought a bunch of different ones to have on hand "in case of emergency".
So far the best ones for me is "Moritz 0,0" (I add about a third of a lime to it to make it taste like a Corona)
Comments on others:
Upside Dawn from Athletic Brewing (citrusy, but this one gave me bloating so I won't repeat).
The Run Wild version is supposedly ranked best in taste tests, but it's very IPA-ish and I don't like that bitterness.
Buckner from Holland I did not like but my beer expert husband thought it was the more beer-like one of the bunch.
@MissMay for Bodypump, I do Youtube - different ones from Lazuria Zaphet. It's great, she has many series of varying lengths. She recently re-named many of her series as "body strength" since I think Les Mills didn't want her copying them. I like her sound quality better than Les Mills on youtube (I find their series does incessant talking which is distracting) and her music selection is good. My barbell set I bought online from MOSSA, only $125 and it's gym quality; bench from Walmart $50.
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Hi
I originally decided to drink less to lose weight.
I have been on this thread since Nov 28.18
Thank you to @MissMay for keeping us going.
I am going to post with my usual diary style to keep track of my AF days.
I will be keeping to my usual goal of 16-20 AF days per month. It is manageable for me and doesn't put too much pressure on me. So far I have been able to keep with it. One month I raised the goal and failed miserably, so I learned from that. I think this is my sweet spot.
Monday Feb 01 - AF - Had to at least start the month with an AF day to set the tone for myself.
Tuesday Feb 02 - Drinks. I used to always designate Tuesdays as my "drinks" day, because it is a very long work day paying very little. I worked to get away from that behaviour and was successful many times. My willpower didn't hold out tonight. I want to only have drinks NOT to relieve stress. I just stumbled a little.
Wednesday Feb 03 - AF - Planned AF
Thursday Feb 04 - AF - Because I needed 2 in a row. Planned drinks with my bubble friend tomorrow, but we'll see.
Friday Feb 05 - Drinks
Saturday Feb 06 - AF - Going to get at least 2 in a row or more.
Sunday Feb 07 - Drinks - Superbowl naughty food and drinks.
Monday Feb 08 - AF - Going to try to string together a few
Rolling total 5AF days out of 8 days4 -
Forgot: Clausthauler grapefruit non-alcoholic is super delicious and a repeat buy for me. But it's like a wine cooler, not beer-like at all. If you like citrus and especially pink grapefruit, this may be a good one. Downside, 95 calories but I found one to be very filling, so having one when craving that taste is not bad.
Also, correction from my prior post: it's "Buckler" and not Buckner.4 -
Hi
I originally decided to drink less to lose weight.
I have been on this thread since Nov 28.18
Thank you to @MissMay for keeping us going.
I am going to post with my usual diary style to keep track of my AF days.
I will be keeping to my usual goal of 16-20 AF days per month. It is manageable for me and doesn't put too much pressure on me. So far I have been able to keep with it. One month I raised the goal and failed miserably, so I learned from that. I think this is my sweet spot.
Monday Feb 01 - AF - Had to at least start the month with an AF day to set the tone for myself.
Tuesday Feb 02 - Drinks. I used to always designate Tuesdays as my "drinks" day, because it is a very long work day paying very little. I worked to get away from that behaviour and was successful many times. My willpower didn't hold out tonight. I want to only have drinks NOT to relieve stress. I just stumbled a little.
Wednesday Feb 03 - AF - Planned AF
Thursday Feb 04 - AF - Because I needed 2 in a row. Planned drinks with my bubble friend tomorrow, but we'll see.
Friday Feb 05 - Drinks
Saturday Feb 06 - AF - Going to get at least 2 in a row or more.
Sunday Feb 07 - Drinks - Superbowl naughty food and drinks.
Monday Feb 08 - AF - Going to try to string together a few
Tuesday Feb 09 - AF - It was tough not to have a drink after work today, had to power through
Rolling total 6AF days out of 9 days6 -
Back to AF today9
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Watched news this evening and really wanted a glass of the bottle of wine DH opened. But it is Tuesday and not a good enough excuse. So AF again.8
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Lilylady3k wrote: »Watched news this evening and really wanted a glass of the bottle of wine DH opened. But it is Tuesday and not a good enough excuse. So AF again.
@Lilylady3k I was in a similar position last night when my wife opened a bottle of wine. She even got out a glass for me and asked if I wanted to taste, as it was one we haven't tried before. I declined. But for the rest of the night I had a little nagging demon in my head thinking about a drink. Even more so when she poured herself a whisky while we watched TV.
However, I just focused on my goals and made some tea. I'm so rock&roll
4 x AF in February
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