What’s a red flag for you?
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_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »I'm gonna get hated on for this but people who constantly make new accounts on social media. To me, their elusiveness shows unstable behavior.
I don't agree or disagree with you but am too stupid to figure out who is who once they step into their phone booth and change into something/one else. To me, they're no longer Clark Kent no matter how many times they tell me they are or how many clues they give me to their original persona.
I'm completely dense that way.
I'm FBR in that respect too.
But, in my ever changing moniker defense, I'm consistent and don't hide the fact that I've changed for this reason or another and let it be known I'm tman.
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Splitting... all or nothing, black and white thinking.0
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“Positive vibes only.”3
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_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »I'm gonna get hated on for this but people who constantly make new accounts on social media. To me, their elusiveness shows unstable behavior.
I don't agree or disagree with you but am too stupid to figure out who is who once they step into their phone booth and change into something/one else. To me, they're no longer Clark Kent no matter how many times they tell me they are or how many clues they give me to their original persona. I'm completely dense that way.
I am the same way and I think I'm very observant but I guess I'm only observant to the things that affect me personally not much so aside from that so when old members come back I never know who they are until they say who they are or unless I'm super intrigued I ask around who they are haha. I mostly meant people who create accounts on weekly or monthly basis. I never understood that but again people have different ways of coping with their online persona.5 -
Jealousy
Insecurity
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_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »I'm gonna get hated on for this but people who constantly make new accounts on social media. To me, their elusiveness shows unstable behavior.
I don't agree or disagree with you but am too stupid to figure out who is who once they step into their phone booth and change into something/one else. To me, they're no longer Clark Kent no matter how many times they tell me they are or how many clues they give me to their original persona. I'm completely dense that way.
I am the same way and I think I'm very observant but I guess I'm only observant to the things that affect me personally not much so aside from that so when old members come back I never know who they are until they say who they are or unless I'm super intrigued I ask around who they are haha. I mostly meant people who create accounts on weekly or monthly basis. I never understood that but again people have different ways of coping with their online persona.
I'm not on any other sites often enough to register anything like that. And Tman I'd recognize anywhere because of his pool, ribs and 2 pups. 4 -
when they remember my name
dang, girl.... there's no need for that; just cash the check.6 -
amorfati601070 wrote: »Splitting... all or nothing, black and white thinking.
Ugh, I grew up in a black or white thinking household and felt terribly inferior, never good enough, due to that type of thinking(I think). Especially when I was an older teen and not so sweet and innocent anymore.
Life is all about the gray now.5 -
_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »I'm gonna get hated on for this but people who constantly make new accounts on social media. To me, their elusiveness shows unstable behavior.
I don't agree or disagree with you but am too stupid to figure out who is who once they step into their phone booth and change into something/one else. To me, they're no longer Clark Kent no matter how many times they tell me they are or how many clues they give me to their original persona. I'm completely dense that way.
I'm FBR in that respect too.
But, in my ever changing moniker defense, I'm consistent and don't hide the fact that I've changed for this reason or another and let it be known I'm tman.
Scrolled back up to see the writer after "ever changing moniker defense" then hollered 😂 You could go up to tmanfourzillionandseventyseven, and I can't miss you! You just have a way here in the forums and you'd be missed.
Most everyone else though requires many neurons (and a few posts) before I can even pretend to know who it might be. But I've only been here since JAN2020.6 -
If the person who asked what's a red flag has no profile pic that's a red flag right there.7
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-Whole life revolves around alcohol consumption.
-Not being financially responsible.
-Running to their parents for every little thing.
-Constant putdowns but claim it's just "telling you like it is".5 -
Sweetpea_61_28 wrote: »-Whole life revolves around alcohol consumption.
-Not being financially responsible.
-Running to their parents for every little thing.
-Constant putdowns but claim it's just "telling you like it is".
Contents list for 2nd autobiography looking good already!
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No ownership. Desire of authority without leadership. Life just... happens to them. Recipe for washed up sore disappointments who never became anything because X Y or Z didn't „let them”. Turns out, that's the perfect breeding ground for conspiracy theories, because those can be used to explain how the odds are always somehow stacked against them (and magically not against others).
Mistaking relationships for trades instead of partnerships.
Intact umbilical chords in adult males.
The desire to bring an audience to their way of dealing with personal relationships, and thus breaching trust in the most gross way.
Adversity to the idea of compromise (also a big part of the black and white mentality mentioned by @amorfati601070 and @ReenieHJ).
Any and all signs of a lack of empathy, including being butthurt after someone treats them like they treat others. The best thing that these people can ever be is a cognitive dissonance festival.
Not open to the idea of a debate duel to the death and not understanding my humour. This is literally the worst one.7 -
SabAteNine wrote: »No ownership. Desire of authority without leadership. Life just... happens to them. Recipe for washed up sore disappointments who never became anything because X Y or Z didn't „let them”. Turns out, that's the perfect breeding ground for conspiracy theories, because those can be used to explain how the odds are always somehow stacked against them (and magically not against others).
Mistaking relationships for trades instead of partnerships.
Intact umbilical chords in adult males.
The desire to bring an audience to their way of dealing with personal relationships, and thus breaching trust in the most gross way.
Adversity to the idea of compromise (also a big part of the black and white mentality mentioned by @amorfati601070 and @ReenieHJ).
Any and all signs of a lack of empathy, including being butthurt after someone treats them like they treat others. The best thing that these people can ever be is a cognitive dissonance festival.
Not open to the idea of a debate duel to the death and not understanding my humour. This is literally the worst one.
A lot of these.. only adding to this list (for me personally);
- expectations of receiving immediate attention and get angry/distant/whiny when not receiving attention right away while you clearly are busy, i.e. having a conversation with someone else...
- emotionally blackmailing, knowing you feel guilty quite fast and deliberately using that to make you do stuff or make you feel bad for your actions..
- "Any and all signs of a lack of empathy, including being butthurt after someone treats them like they treat others."
This should be listed twice, it's so baffling seeing the reaction of such people. I tried to treat someone like they treat others and for real I couldn't keep up with it, ended feeling sad for them and how they ever became this way.
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Wow.. you all have thought hard on this.
Constant crotch scratching.. you can keep your crotch crickets man 4 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »Wow.. you all have thought hard on this.
Constant crotch scratching.. you can keep your crotch crickets man
But what if he just likes playing with himself?
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slimgirljo15 wrote: »Wow.. you all have thought hard on this.
Constant crotch scratching.. you can keep your crotch crickets man
But what if he just likes playing with himself?
Im ok if its hot and he wants to move the boys around for comfort in private.. but Im talking constant scratching thats not normal..its a red flag, he's probably got crotch crickets 😆
Oops 😬 better not
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When they don't make me laugh6
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Crotch Crickets??
That's a new one I've never heard.
*sneaking away to file it in my noteworthy notes book*
Yeh, that bugs the heck outta me too, especially when there's company in the house. Some things just need that closed door in front. 3 -
_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »When they don't make me laugh
A sense of humor is a definite must as we go through life. Carries us through down times and pandemics. But if they mock others, thinking it's funny.......no thank you. They're arseholes.3 -
Adams apple lol3
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@slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Constant crotch scratching.. you can keep your crotch crickets man
I once went to a corn festival and the guy collecting the cash kept scratching the whole time!😂 I’m not sure if he had crickets, ants or crabs?😝🤷🏽♀️@philipfurino0895 wrote: »Adams apple lol
I don’t know why but this is too funny! 🤣🍎
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Shows up 20 minutes late with an iced coffee.3
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