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Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
There's always Vermont, great skiing when there's enough snow(Weird being Vermont, right??). Minimum wage jobs up the ying-yang. Hardly any crime in the small towns unless you happen to live near a druggy's house. You can step across our beautiful scenic rivers on the stones because water level is way down so just a warning......if you have well water, be careful not to bathe more than once every 6 weeks. And ticks keep you busy and active during their on seasons. Speaking of seasons, we have mud season here which can be something to talk with the folks about, playing a mad game of checkers on the front porch of the country store.
BUT we have Ben and Jerry's, Cabot cheese, Maple Syrup, Champlain Chocolates, Green Mountain Coffee, Teddy Bear Factory, beautiful trees in the fall, Moonlight in Vermont(they ought to write a song), the country's longest candy counter(according to the Guinness Book and it's true)only 15 minutes away(but that'd be N.H. so I may be cheating there).
I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to move.
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Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
There's always Vermont, great skiing when there's enough snow(Weird being Vermont, right??). Minimum wage jobs up the ying-yang. Hardly any crime in the small towns unless you happen to live near a druggy's house. You can step across our beautiful scenic rivers on the stones because water level is way down so just a warning......if you have well water, be careful not to bathe more than once every 6 weeks. And ticks keep you busy and active during their on seasons. Speaking of seasons, we have mud season here which can be something to talk with the folks about, playing a mad game of checkers on the front porch of the country store.
BUT we have Ben and Jerry's, Cabot cheese, Maple Syrup, Champlain Chocolates, Green Mountain Coffee, Teddy Bear Factory, beautiful trees in the fall, Moonlight in Vermont(they ought to write a song), the country's longest candy counter(according to the Guinness Book and it's true)only 15 minutes away(but that'd be N.H. so I may be cheating there).
I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to move.
Wow. Vermont sounds just like Canada.
..... only without Wayne Gretzky.
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Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
There's always Vermont, great skiing when there's enough snow(Weird being Vermont, right??). Minimum wage jobs up the ying-yang. Hardly any crime in the small towns unless you happen to live near a druggy's house. You can step across our beautiful scenic rivers on the stones because water level is way down so just a warning......if you have well water, be careful not to bathe more than once every 6 weeks. And ticks keep you busy and active during their on seasons. Speaking of seasons, we have mud season here which can be something to talk with the folks about, playing a mad game of checkers on the front porch of the country store.
BUT we have Ben and Jerry's, Cabot cheese, Maple Syrup, Champlain Chocolates, Green Mountain Coffee, Teddy Bear Factory, beautiful trees in the fall, Moonlight in Vermont(they ought to write a song), the country's longest candy counter(according to the Guinness Book and it's true)only 15 minutes away(but that'd be N.H. so I may be cheating there).
I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to move.
Wow. Vermont sounds just like Canada.
..... only without Wayne Gretzky.
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But we have better maple syrup. 3 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
There's always Vermont, great skiing when there's enough snow(Weird being Vermont, right??). Minimum wage jobs up the ying-yang. Hardly any crime in the small towns unless you happen to live near a druggy's house. You can step across our beautiful scenic rivers on the stones because water level is way down so just a warning......if you have well water, be careful not to bathe more than once every 6 weeks. And ticks keep you busy and active during their on seasons. Speaking of seasons, we have mud season here which can be something to talk with the folks about, playing a mad game of checkers on the front porch of the country store.
BUT we have Ben and Jerry's, Cabot cheese, Maple Syrup, Champlain Chocolates, Green Mountain Coffee, Teddy Bear Factory, beautiful trees in the fall, Moonlight in Vermont(they ought to write a song), the country's longest candy counter(according to the Guinness Book and it's true)only 15 minutes away(but that'd be N.H. so I may be cheating there).
I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to move.
Wow. Vermont sounds just like Canada.
..... only without Wayne Gretzky.
.
But we have better maple syrup.
ut oh....
it's 'on' now, for realz.
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Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
There's always Vermont, great skiing when there's enough snow(Weird being Vermont, right??). Minimum wage jobs up the ying-yang. Hardly any crime in the small towns unless you happen to live near a druggy's house. You can step across our beautiful scenic rivers on the stones because water level is way down so just a warning......if you have well water, be careful not to bathe more than once every 6 weeks. And ticks keep you busy and active during their on seasons. Speaking of seasons, we have mud season here which can be something to talk with the folks about, playing a mad game of checkers on the front porch of the country store.
BUT we have Ben and Jerry's, Cabot cheese, Maple Syrup, Champlain Chocolates, Green Mountain Coffee, Teddy Bear Factory, beautiful trees in the fall, Moonlight in Vermont(they ought to write a song), the country's longest candy counter(according to the Guinness Book and it's true)only 15 minutes away(but that'd be N.H. so I may be cheating there).
I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to move.
Wow. Vermont sounds just like Canada.
..... only without Wayne Gretzky.
.
But we have better maple syrup.
Better maple syrup ?
C'mon now, Canada
Are you just going to sit back and take that smack ??
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Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
There's always Vermont, great skiing when there's enough snow(Weird being Vermont, right??). Minimum wage jobs up the ying-yang. Hardly any crime in the small towns unless you happen to live near a druggy's house. You can step across our beautiful scenic rivers on the stones because water level is way down so just a warning......if you have well water, be careful not to bathe more than once every 6 weeks. And ticks keep you busy and active during their on seasons. Speaking of seasons, we have mud season here which can be something to talk with the folks about, playing a mad game of checkers on the front porch of the country store.
BUT we have Ben and Jerry's, Cabot cheese, Maple Syrup, Champlain Chocolates, Green Mountain Coffee, Teddy Bear Factory, beautiful trees in the fall, Moonlight in Vermont(they ought to write a song), the country's longest candy counter(according to the Guinness Book and it's true)only 15 minutes away(but that'd be N.H. so I may be cheating there).
I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to move.
Wow. Vermont sounds just like Canada.
..... only without Wayne Gretzky.
.
But we have better maple syrup.
Better maple syrup ?
C'mon now, Canada
Are you just going to sit back and take that smack ??
The best maple syrup comes from Quebec (and I'm from Ontario but it's true). The best peaches come from Niagara. The best hockey fighters are from every small town in Canada cause there's nothing else to do for like 8 months of every year2 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
There's always Vermont, great skiing when there's enough snow(Weird being Vermont, right??). Minimum wage jobs up the ying-yang. Hardly any crime in the small towns unless you happen to live near a druggy's house. You can step across our beautiful scenic rivers on the stones because water level is way down so just a warning......if you have well water, be careful not to bathe more than once every 6 weeks. And ticks keep you busy and active during their on seasons. Speaking of seasons, we have mud season here which can be something to talk with the folks about, playing a mad game of checkers on the front porch of the country store.
BUT we have Ben and Jerry's, Cabot cheese, Maple Syrup, Champlain Chocolates, Green Mountain Coffee, Teddy Bear Factory, beautiful trees in the fall, Moonlight in Vermont(they ought to write a song), the country's longest candy counter(according to the Guinness Book and it's true)only 15 minutes away(but that'd be N.H. so I may be cheating there).
I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to move.
Wow. Vermont sounds just like Canada.
..... only without Wayne Gretzky.
.
But we have better maple syrup.
🤔 There's so much to unpack here.
More important than a pending cross-border maple syrup showdown, @ReenieHJ we're practically ALREADY neighbors (...waves from Montreal...) 👋🏿1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
TYVM for your input @Motorsheen
Similarly, I've been to every lower 48 state... at least driven through on my many cross country jaunts & agree 100%. I've also seen so many small places with lovely people that would be great places to live... but, good luck earning a living in the middle of nowhere.
Your recommendations are good. In fact, I was on my way to Scottsdale (despite the high rents) before settling in FL. But, this was during a Covid surge last year & as I was in NM, they began closing down everything... some hotels, restaurants, even drive-thrus were closed as I was driving, as were rest stops. Most of us on the road were stopping at truck stop gas stations, which were about the only things open, for slim pickings in food & waiting for pumps with gas... some were out. It was a scary time to be relocating.
Signs on the highways said "Don't get sick. Hospitals are filled to capacity." I had to turn around & drive back to Austin, where with restrictions, I wasted 1-wk in a hotel trying to see apts, got irritated & just settled in Tampa.
I'll nix Knoxville (don't want to live in the southeast... I've never liked it for many reasons) & Tucson (high crime & I've never liked the feel of the place). Also read a new article on soaring rents... seems many from NoCal are retiring there, so the rents reflect that.
"“The national rent decline is composed of a handful of expensive cities where rents are falling rapidly (e.g., San Francisco, New York, Seattle), offset by many smaller, more-affordable cities that have actually gotten pricier over the course of the pandemic (e.g., Boise, Fresno, Tucson),” said Rob Warnock, a research associate at Apartment List."
https://tucson.com/business/rents-on-the-rise-in-the-tucson-market-as-demand-grows/article_621040de-fcd4-57e5-9172-a4c7f5d84a82.html
I'm surprised to hear Lake Tahoe/Reno would have low rents (I don't see that online)... never looked into Reno as I know it's fairly small & I thought jobs were more in the service industry and/or casinos, but I will. I liked Reno when I've been through it.
The "exploding job market" in Scottsdale intrigues me, so I'll check into it further. Maybe I'll make it this time.
I loved the feel of Coeur d'Alene, ID, when I drove through a couple of yrs ago, but I don't know about jobs.
Lots to consider.
TY again for your help! I really do appreciate it.2 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »A bucket of ☕ :yawn:
I'm jealous. My espresso machine needed burial at sea this morning, so I took a metal tea strainer, stuffed it with ground beans & hoped for the best... dunked it in hot water from the microwave... that's all I had.
I long for a bucket.
Ordering one online tonight.
Hurry, hurry, hurry, dear delivery2 -
Ready for the heatwave to be over so I don't feel stuck indoors. I need that good old fresh and a nice long hike!2
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Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
There's always Vermont, great skiing when there's enough snow(Weird being Vermont, right??). Minimum wage jobs up the ying-yang. Hardly any crime in the small towns unless you happen to live near a druggy's house. You can step across our beautiful scenic rivers on the stones because water level is way down so just a warning......if you have well water, be careful not to bathe more than once every 6 weeks. And ticks keep you busy and active during their on seasons. Speaking of seasons, we have mud season here which can be something to talk with the folks about, playing a mad game of checkers on the front porch of the country store.
BUT we have Ben and Jerry's, Cabot cheese, Maple Syrup, Champlain Chocolates, Green Mountain Coffee, Teddy Bear Factory, beautiful trees in the fall, Moonlight in Vermont(they ought to write a song), the country's longest candy counter(according to the Guinness Book and it's true)only 15 minutes away(but that'd be N.H. so I may be cheating there).
I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to move.
You forgot VT Country Store.
VT is beautiful... I spent most of my life in Boston, so visited a number of times & am originally from NEPA & VT reminds me of a less economically depressed PA. Jobs are a bit thin, however. I've mostly know those who've left VT for job security, but I'll bet it's a lovely place to live if you've got a family house... or just family.
I've got to stay where I can afford my higher than necessary rent on my single girl's salary.0 -
Can anyone explain to me...
If someone writes a personal msg on my Newsfeed & I reply underneath that message on my own pg, do they get a notification that I've responded? Meaning... do they know I've replied or do they have to visit my Profile again to check for a reply?
Also, how do people post pics on their own Newsfeeds? I don't see a place to embed them or a button to click to add. I know how to add them to posts, just not my own Profile pg.
TY kindly.0 -
BraydanTaffy wrote: »Can anyone explain to me...
If someone writes a personal msg on my Newsfeed & I reply underneath that message on my own pg, do they get a notification that I've responded? Meaning... do they know I've replied or do they have to visit my Profile again to check for a reply?
Also, how do people post pics on their own Newsfeeds? I don't see a place to embed them or a button to click to add. I know how to add them to posts, just not my own Profile pg.
TY kindly.
It depends on what they have their settings set to. I don't get notifications of a response but others do. I have to revisit to check.
I have a Samsung s9 and in the app at the top of my wall it says "share something" and there's a camera icon to the right of that. If you click on that it gives 3 options ( I use the middle "choose existing photo")
Also you can just click on the "share something" and at the bottom it says "add photo"1 -
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Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
There's always Vermont, great skiing when there's enough snow(Weird being Vermont, right??). Minimum wage jobs up the ying-yang. Hardly any crime in the small towns unless you happen to live near a druggy's house. You can step across our beautiful scenic rivers on the stones because water level is way down so just a warning......if you have well water, be careful not to bathe more than once every 6 weeks. And ticks keep you busy and active during their on seasons. Speaking of seasons, we have mud season here which can be something to talk with the folks about, playing a mad game of checkers on the front porch of the country store.
BUT we have Ben and Jerry's, Cabot cheese, Maple Syrup, Champlain Chocolates, Green Mountain Coffee, Teddy Bear Factory, beautiful trees in the fall, Moonlight in Vermont(they ought to write a song), the country's longest candy counter(according to the Guinness Book and it's true)only 15 minutes away(but that'd be N.H. so I may be cheating there).
I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to move.
Wow. Vermont sounds just like Canada.
..... only without Wayne Gretzky.
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But we have better maple syrup.
🤔 There's so much to unpack here.
More important than a pending cross-border maple syrup showdown, @ReenieHJ we're practically ALREADY neighbors (...waves from Montreal...) 👋🏿
Waving back from Vermont!! Where the weather isn't like the NW,.....yet.
TBH I can't recall ever having tried Maple Syrup from up north. 1 -
BraydanTaffy wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Relocation in 5-mos. I've lived in 11 US states.
Change is good. But, where to go at this stage of life?
Would be nice to settle someplace for good... my restless, gypsy genes always seem to toss themselves in the way.
Sooo... toss a dart at a map?
Where’ve you been? I’m taking notes because I’m on the same wavelength right now. Looking at states to possibly settle in. I’ve only lived in both the Carolinas’ so far. California would be for if I ever struck it rich.
I’m thinking for myself staying in the south as I’m not a fan of the cold. Not gonna catch me in Motorsheen desssert Arizona either! 🥵
I've lived in every region of the country, always in big cities... from L.A. to San Diego, Seattle, Denver, Austin, Indy, Boston, NYC, Atlanta, several cities in FL, NC & a few more. I initially said 10 states... I think it's 12.
Same as you, San Diego to Santa Barbara (lived in 4 cities between the 2) is perfect, but only if you have a good job. Off my list now, but SoCal is the only place I've ever lived that feels like home. I've also lived most of my life walking distance from one ocean or another, so do miss it horribly if I'm away from the beach. And, a lake doesn't cut it... I like the ocean.
I've considered Scottsdale, where I've been several times, but COL is high & at least initially, I may need to take a hold-me-over type of job... rents are my biggest concern, atm.
Also considered OKC, cuz I love the feel of the place, but upon research, I see it's a very religious place & although I'm not religious & don't care if others are, I don't want to be preached to, like I've found in the southeast. I don't know if that will be an issue... I don't want any issues at all being forced on me throughout the day, whether political, religious, lifestyle, like vegetarianism, etc... it's exhausting. But, rents are very affordable there.
Boise, ID was another place I've considered. I've met & very much liked people from there, but again, upon research, there is something called the Boise smell from sewage plants & 170 landfills within city limits. I've got allergies/asthma & don't take drugs for either (allergic to an exhaustive list of meds)... I don't need rural fresh air (never experienced it anyway & I live quite well in pollution), but those smells must be awful, at least that's what I've read.
Some places I can't live cuz the trees are too much & I just can never breath... like Indy. CO altitude gives me nosebleeds & a head like a water balloon everyday... even after 2-yrs. Also, any place where there are wood burning stoves... well, I can never go outside, cuz one whiff & I'm gasping for air.
Safety is a big concern. Just this month my house has had attempted breakins twice & I live alone & was here both times. I need to feel safe.
I don't want humidity, but financially, I don't have the luxury of the perfect weather of Santa Barbara, atm. I need to be in a place big enough where I can find a job. Warm is nice, but I lived most of my life in frigid cold & snow, so I can tolerate that, too. FL is too humid, COL is dreadfully high & rents are going up substantially, due to all the people coming here since Covid. Food's also more than I paid in CA.
I'd also like to return to the PNW, but don't think I could afford that either.
Not sure any of this helps. I just keep researching & pulling up list after list of the Top 10 cities for this, that or the other.
Good luck!
Thanks for this response, it’s very thought out and helpful. Rent is skyrocketing in and around Charlotte NC where I am now too. Insane prices for bad neighborhoods and places not up to code.
I’ve been eyeing GA recently. I feel the same about trying to stay coastal but a lake or river sounds good to me. I love the sound of the ocean and the general beach town vibes but for swimming purposes I prefer freshwater. I’ve never been a city girl but more like a convenience town. I’m always in the surrounding a city area.
I don't know what life without humidity is like and when I’ve traveled in planes where the air is dry it’s wrecked my sinus. Could be nice though to not feel like you’re swimming everywhere you go.
The focus for me is finding that decently priced cottage in the woods but close enough to civilization because what am I gonna do, make my own iced coffee!? Off grid sounds all fun and games until I have to do literally everything myself. 😅 I have a need for convenience.
Good luck to both of us in our quests!
You're very welcome. I appreciate feedback, too... it helps brainstorm, to reinforce research or rule in/out ideas.
Town, cottage in the woods, fresh water lake... New England... NH, VT, ME, in particular, or even places in small town PA is what you're describing, but if you're completely cold/snow adverse, then nothing north would serve your purposes in any region. At least that narrows down your choices as it eliminates more than 1/2 of the country.
If the desert is too hot, that eliminates the southwestern states, too. So, it seems as if you're in the right region... southeast.
While you're looking into GA, I had friends who lived in Huntsville, AL. It's a nice place, huge lake where many go on weekends & still is a safer place. My friends worked in the tech industry & they said finding a job was no issue... of course, all of this is pre-Covid. I stayed with them for a week about 5-yrs ago & it was very nice. I liked Birmingham, too, but I haven't been there for decades, so have no idea what it's like now. It's small, city-wise, but lots of people & fast traffic, which you may not like, but maybe the outskirts would be to your liking?
When I lived in Atlanta, I had friends who were from Knoxville & Chattanooga. We visited their family several times. Both areas are nice, but they were from fairly well off families in great 'hoods... unsure if that's reflective of the majority of both areas... & that was also long ago... unsure what it's like now, but I liked both cities... had a nice feel.
I'm open to most regions (no offense, but I've excluded the southeast for a host of reasons... lived here long enough), but I'd prefer a drier climate. In the forefront is lower living costs (my bare bones rent, utilities & mandatory community fees are $1,600 for a small 1b... I have 2 friends in upstate NY who pay $500 & $450 for large, newly renovated 2b apts), but I also need to be near jobs... they live in them thar hills, closer to Canada than any large US city.
Good luck researching. Keep me posted! Good luck.
@BraydanTaffy
Consider:
Tucson AZ: (low rent prices / college town / hot climate)
Scottsdale AZ: (higher rent prices / exploding job market / hot climate / great culture)
Knoxville TN: (great location / college town )
Reno / Lake Tahoe NV: (low rent prices / good job market / safe / four definitive seasons - none too severe)
*edit - For the record, I've touched all 50 states and have spent time in almost every major American city. Some places are awesome, some are overrated. Climate, culture, safety and cost of living are all important.
There's always Vermont, great skiing when there's enough snow(Weird being Vermont, right??). Minimum wage jobs up the ying-yang. Hardly any crime in the small towns unless you happen to live near a druggy's house. You can step across our beautiful scenic rivers on the stones because water level is way down so just a warning......if you have well water, be careful not to bathe more than once every 6 weeks. And ticks keep you busy and active during their on seasons. Speaking of seasons, we have mud season here which can be something to talk with the folks about, playing a mad game of checkers on the front porch of the country store.
BUT we have Ben and Jerry's, Cabot cheese, Maple Syrup, Champlain Chocolates, Green Mountain Coffee, Teddy Bear Factory, beautiful trees in the fall, Moonlight in Vermont(they ought to write a song), the country's longest candy counter(according to the Guinness Book and it's true)only 15 minutes away(but that'd be N.H. so I may be cheating there).
I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to move.
You forgot VT Country Store.
VT is beautiful... I spent most of my life in Boston, so visited a number of times & am originally from NEPA & VT reminds me of a less economically depressed PA. Jobs are a bit thin, however. I've mostly know those who've left VT for job security, but I'll bet it's a lovely place to live if you've got a family house... or just family.
I've got to stay where I can afford my higher than necessary rent on my single girl's salary.
Boston......very interesting city that is. Both my dds went to college there and driving those streets pushed my anxiety levels through the roof. Going the wrong way on a one way street isn't my idea of fun. But I'd LOVE to walk the Freedom Trail, visit Faneuil Hall again, see all the historical places again, and best pizza I ever had was from Boston. I regret not going more often when they were a mere 3 hours away instead of N.C. and Seattle. 
Good luck with your choice of where to relocate!! Most places have got to be safer than where you are right now. 2 -
So I found the blue model of this tyre. My bike is aesthetic af now.
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amorfati601070 wrote: »So I found the blue model of this tyre. My bike is aesthetic af now.
Very cool! Tell me you coordinate you biker clothes as well. Because that'd be worth a total picture. 2 -
Same thing that's been on my mind for the past week. 4
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