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Completely unrelated, but aww.. bowling ball grouchy face no longer looks like bowling ball grouchy face.
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KickassAmazon76 wrote: »It's interesting you say this. My oldest is 16 and she is neurodivergent. She hasn't been officially diagnosed (in progress), but we believe she has both ADHD and is autistic / has Tourettes.
She has uncontrollable tics, which often cause her to jump, cringe, hit herself, or almost hit herself. Sometimes these are accompanied by sounds, clicks or pops.
If I were in her shoes, i would have felt that I had to do everything in my power to suppress them.
Must. Assimilate. Right?
But for her, when I talk about getting her help to manage / control / minimze the tics, she gets upset with me because "this is who I am. Why should I have to change? To make other people feel more comfortable? Nah, they just need to realize there is nothing wrong with me. I'm just different and different isn't bad."
Note: I don't think she is broken, or needs fixing, or even needs to suppress her stims. I just want her to have as smooth a life as possible.
I wish I was as comfortable in my skin as she seems to be in hers. I am so proud of her.
This is fair. She shouldn't have to change if it's not bothering her nor affecting her negatively. Good on her!
For me, personally, the only time I "change" is when personal well-being is taking such a hit due to mental health struggles that I have to actively seek help, either by reaching out and talking to someone I know (which I dread), or talking to a complete stranger (and paying them), which oddly, I dread a lot less.
It's not changing, either, when I think about it since I fundamentally cannot alter my brain chemistry to be "not-depressed" and "not-anxious". It just helps figuring things out without my own personal biases getting in the way. Same with talking to folks here: I get different strategies, viewpoints and anecdotes to draw information from and find a solution.3 -
Well.. took me 5 mins to work out how to delete something. Now to see how to add a gif. 🙄
And where have the emoji gone? 😐
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Emoji's. Bottom left in the box when typing a reply.
Phew! Figured something out (which you probably already have. 😛 (Ooooo more tongue ones.)
(I hate change.)
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Eewwwww I didn’t know they were gonna change the whole thing! Change is BAD! 😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤🤠
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I see it now 😉
I don't like it at all 😫 Maybe its because I'm on a mobile that it all looks crazy.
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Nope looks crazy on a desk top also 😫😫
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I clicked on recent discussions down the bottom in the quick links and it says there are none. Thats not right.. 😠
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They trying hard to kill the fun and chat..
Even it's flagged as follow.. it will not list on discussion list.. 🙄
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They trying hard to kill the fun and chat..
Even it's flagged as follow.. it will not list on discussion list.. 🙄
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I love that you can see who does the reactions now. And video chat.🥰
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Wait wut? Can't see on Android web...
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Me too! All those hugs you’ve given me 🥰
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Yep.. mine looks the same.. neither does chit chat.
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Are they making this so difficult for us social users of Fun and Games and Chit Chat cause they are trying to get rid of us? 😫🥺
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Heading that way.. 🙄
Some of us use them to pass time.. most forum I've been on have an area just to chill with others ("water cooler").
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I hope not. This is my social life!
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Let's stage a protest rally 😠 Hell no, we won't go.
Mfp has been my only escape and helped keep what sanity I had left. 😬
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it Was fun to be back for a minute but, like, bye 😂
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That should make them stand up and take notice.. make em tremble in their boots 🤣😂
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I don't see anything on my PC either... 😐️
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How are you seeing who does the reactions; what am I missing?
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Hmmm, wondering if going through chewy.com for all my dogs' meds and food would be cheaper. I pay much more for their needs than my own and it's getting awfully expensive.
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Click on your pic top right...
It's hidden there 😏
More steps to do what you want it to do.. joy
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I wonder if I'd care more about being/doing better if I felt like my efforts would pay off. Seems like it, but am I just making excuses for being lazy and not caring?
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Got it! Thank you! Now I’ll be able to respond more quickly to requests for Canadian rioters. 🤗
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