Dating/Relationship Dealbreakers...
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Things that don't work for me:
- Hates cats, esp MY cats
- Wants a lot of kids (a lot being 2+) or already has kids
- Illegal drug use or abuse
- Pushy religious views
- Wants to go to bars/clubs every weekend
- Incapable of doing things alone
- Unable to let me have some alone time
- Doesn't *kitten*
- Seriously thinks a woman's place is in the kitchen
- Racist, Homophobic
- Rabid Alabama fan
- Manchild
- Large amount of debt (not inc student loans) and/or bad with finances
Basically, be an adult. I'm not here to be your mommy. I have other preferences, but they're not deal breakers. You can be a Christian or Republican, but don't spend the entirety of our relationship trying to convert me. You can have only a high school education, but don't stop learning news things.
ETA:
- Uber patriotic and/or military
- Anti-choice
- Pretty/metro
- Significantly shorter than me0 -
Needy/clingy
Hairy
No sense of humor
Girls named Debbie or Angela
WTH? I'm not in the market, but why would my name exclude? Some personal baggage there?
BTW, I'm Debra. Debi was my young, evil twin. :laugh:0 -
I like a lot of these!
How about too...at least for me....uneducated. I went on a date with a guy and mentioned that I was a "perpetual student" and he had to ask me what "perpetual" meant. Aye aye aye
And for me....liberal0 -
Hmmm, let's see.
Uneducated for me too
Homophobes, racists etc.
Arrogant
Wants kids - I don't do kids. At all. Don't understand them, don't get on with them, don't want them!
Someone who tries to put a limit on how many dogs I have!
Come to that, someone who doesn't like dogs! Pointless. Totally.
Immaturity - can't stand it.
Overtly religious - no problem with it - each to their own and fair enough - but not religious myself at all so it'd be a bit odd to me.
Smoker - HATE HATE HATE. It killed my mum, it will kill my dad and my brother (not that the latter will be a loss to the world).
Heavy drinker - a bit, fair enough. But not a bingey, get-razzed-every-weekend type.
Drug user at any level0 -
My top three...
does not know the Bible
does not work hard
does not love his family0 -
Has a weiner.0
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kinda surprised at the religious/conservative/republican hate...but to each his own. there is always someone for everyone out there.
ill stay a proud conservative that believes...
agreed!0 -
Pessimistic
Reliant on drugs or alcohol
Playing the victim in life
unmotivated
lazy
unintelligent
critical
prone to passing on negative news
unsupportive
unwilling to communicate openly
super religious or conservative
judgemental
homophobic/sexist/anti-choice
violent
easily angered
^^ this0 -
Dealbreakers for me:
Religious
Republican
Anti-choice
Smoking
Racist
Add unable to support themselves and this is gold.0 -
my dealbreakers:
doesn't believe in God.
doesn't like football
rude
negative outlook
thinks they are better than others
don't like those who take themselves too seriously (because I love to laugh and have fun)
and absolutely no addicts!0 -
I will never date:
A liberal
Someone who lacks work ethic/ a job
Someone with bad manners
An alcoholic(but I prefer someone who enjoys drinking responsibly)
Someone who has bad taste in music accordintg to my standards :laugh:
Someone with violent tendencies0 -
oh
and if I was to end current relationship never again would I date somebody who couldn't reach me within 30 mintues.
Ever0 -
Dealbreakers for me:
Religious
Republican
Anti-choice
Smoking
Racist
:flowerforyou:
Very possibly the perfect list.0 -
Pessimistic
Reliant on drugs or alcohol
Playing the victim in life
unmotivated
lazy
unintelligent
critical
prone to passing on negative news
unsupportive
unwilling to communicate openly
super religious or conservative
judgemental
homophobic/sexist/anti-choice
violent
easily angered
Ill take your list and raise it a "doesnt like kids"
all that0 -
Republican (Bible Beater type)
Has an unhealthy BMI (so I don't come across a shallow *****, someone who maintains an active lifestyle - never again can I tolerate being married/in a relationship with someone who isn't)
Racist
Hates Kids (I come with a lot of "baggage" - 3 sons)0 -
Things that don't work for me:
- Hates cats, esp MY cats
- Wants a lot of kids (a lot being 2+) or already has kids
- Illegal drug use or abuse
- Pushy religious views
- Wants to go to bars/clubs every weekend
- Incapable of doing things alone
- Unable to let me have some alone time
- Doesn't *kitten*
- Seriously thinks a woman's place is in the kitchen
- Racist, Homophobic
- Rabid Alabama fan
- Manchild
- Large amount of debt (not inc student loans) and/or bad with finances
Basically, be an adult. I'm not here to be your mommy. I have other preferences, but they're not deal breakers. You can be a Christian or Republican, but don't spend the entirety of our relationship trying to convert me. You can have only a high school education, but don't stop learning news things.
ETA:
- Uber patriotic and/or military
- Anti-choice
- Pretty/metro
- Significantly shorter than me
Why no military? If I weren't married, I nail every other requirement.0 -
Okay, so I already posted mine, and I'm not religious, but my friend just posted this on her Facebook and I just had to share, because it's pretty funny!
"To all the girls who are in a hurry to have a boyfriend or get married, a piece of Biblical advice: " Ruth patiently waited for her mate Boaz." While you are waiting on YOUR Boaz, don't settle for any of his relatives; Broke-az, Po-az, Lyin-az, Cheating-az, Dumb-az, Drunk-az, Cheap-az, Lockedup-az, , Goodfornothing-az, Lazy-az, and especially his third cousin Beatinyo-az. Wait on your Boaz and make sure he respects Yoaz.... "0 -
Pessimistic
Reliant on drugs or alcohol
Playing the victim in life
unmotivated
lazy
unintelligent
critical
prone to passing on negative news
unsupportive
unwilling to communicate openly
super religious or conservative
judgemental
homophobic/sexist/anti-choice
violent
easily angered
Love all of these esp "playing the victim". That drives me crazy. Don't complain about missed job opportunities 10 min after telling me how you didn't go to work today because "you didn't feel like it".0 -
Why no military? If I weren't married, I nail every other requirement.0
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Why no military? If I weren't married, I nail every other requirement.
But are you forsaking all men in the Military, or just lifers? Her original post said uber patriotic/military, which leads me to believe she lumped all military men into the same category. Just asking.0
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