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AdamAthletic wrote: »snowflake954 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »Sometimes I get weeks of regret thinking of if I’d continued in the Royal Marines - with everything happening in the world, it seems to hit me more and more lately.
Left due to injury but still doesn’t make it any easier.
Seems to be hitting me like a ton of bricks at the moment.
(Referring to UK Marines not US)
I'm older than you--67, so I'll leave you with a few thoughts. First off, sometimes it's just time to move on. Regrets about the past are not productive. Then, I've noticed that when I look back on my life, things always happened for a reason. Something always came along to nudge me onto something else--usually better. Your injury could have been the catalyst. If you're not happy where you are now, start looking around for better. Evaluate as best you can. Good luck.
Thanks for the kind comment;
I’m actually pretty happy with life overall (though maybe my comment didn’t come across that way).
It’s just the what-ifs that creep up sometimes!
But yes, I agree that things seem to happen for a reason and over time, paths change and we move on to new places.
I don't think these are regrets per se. I feel you're more thinking of what could have been a different path. As you said the "what-ifs".
As long as you don't wallow it's interesting and kind of fun to think about how different your life could be if you had done this or that. It's neat the paths we take and amazing how all our past experiences shape our current.1 -
Should not have passed on the freezer pops when I got groceries- 🤦♂️ Lesson learned4
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twitchymcgee wrote: »
🤯 you gots the good luck ideas1 -
twitchymcgee wrote: »
🤯 you gots the good luck ideas
Just make sure you mark them so the kids don’t get tipsy2 -
IslandGal3 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »I'm going to be 40 soon. Most woman dread it but I'm kinda excited. I heard 40 is when you have the best time of your life 😏
First of all, you look like you’re in your early 30’s. You’re going to rock 40.
The 40’s were the best years for me. 50’s have been kicking my *kitten*. I’m fighting back tho. ❤️
You definitely are! Keep making that bombass Lemonade out of those lemons ❤1 -
I'm ready for the weekend! It's been a hard week at work. 😢2
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The reality of the situation is becoming more and more clear to me.1
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I am anticipating an extremely quiet day at work. Does MFP have any suggestions on how to spend 7ish hours in a pleasant, edifying, & somehow productive way within the confines of an office? Thanks in advance1
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twitchymcgee wrote: »I am anticipating an extremely quiet day at work. Does MFP have any suggestions on how to spend 7ish hours in a pleasant, edifying, & somehow productive way within the confines of an office? Thanks in advance
Flirt, read, make obscene phone calls, get drunk......you might not want my advice.3 -
twitchymcgee wrote: »I am anticipating an extremely quiet day at work. Does MFP have any suggestions on how to spend 7ish hours in a pleasant, edifying, & somehow productive way within the confines of an office? Thanks in advance
Flirt, read, make obscene phone calls, get drunk......you might not want my advice.
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Current thought- My birthday will probably end up a sad event like last year because despite the deep desire for change my mental health is making everything a huge challenge.
(before anyone tells me the importance of help etc I know, I am getting help.)8 -
The crazy lady that keeps calling the office thinking she’s going to get someone else on the phone and they keep transferring her to me.2
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twitchymcgee wrote: »The crazy lady that keeps calling the office thinking she’s going to get someone else on the phone and they keep transferring her to me.
Next time you pick up.. fake an accent.. 😂1 -
twitchymcgee wrote: »The crazy lady that keeps calling the office thinking she’s going to get someone else on the phone and they keep transferring her to me.
Next time you pick up.. fake an accent.. 😂
‘Allo? Zees ees zee fronsh bekerie2 -
Y’all ever use the facilities with the door open when there’s no one else at work? I think I missed the opportunity of a lifetime2
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twitchymcgee wrote: »The crazy lady that keeps calling the office thinking she’s going to get someone else on the phone and they keep transferring her to me.
😂 I want to know how this story ends1 -
R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »twitchymcgee wrote: »The crazy lady that keeps calling the office thinking she’s going to get someone else on the phone and they keep transferring her to me.
😂 I want to know how this story ends
I feel a little bad because I think I hurt her feelings by not being effusive. And I eventually convinced her that she needed to call another agency0 -
twitchymcgee wrote: »Y’all ever use the facilities with the door open when there’s no one else at work? I think I missed the opportunity of a lifetime
I don't think so but I've kept it unlocked.
BUT...yesterday I made a pit stop at Trader Joe's on my evening walk and had to go to the bathroom. Normally, I just stop off across the street at the Circle K for evening diet coke but was craving egg salad for some reason so decided to see if TJ's had their egg white salad. (They didn't.)
I THOUGHT I turned the bolt in the bathroom but I guess I didn't cuz I was finishing up and this guy opened the door.
All he pretty much saw were my thighs and not very sexy undies.
He kept apologizing and I was, "Eh, I have no shame."
After being startled, that is.4 -
Like repelling magnets.
That’s what the conversations with my ex have been like lately.
No matter what either one of us says, the other doesn’t quite agree and it gets tense.
Time to hang up, talk to you later!0 -
twitchymcgee wrote: »Y’all ever use the facilities with the door open when there’s no one else at work? I think I missed the opportunity of a lifetime
I don't think so but I've kept it unlocked.
BUT...yesterday I made a pit stop at Trader Joe's on my evening walk and had to go to the bathroom. Normally, I just stop off across the street at the Circle K for evening diet coke but was craving egg salad for some reason so decided to see if TJ's had their egg white salad. (They didn't.)
I THOUGHT I turned the bolt in the bathroom but I guess I didn't cuz I was finishing up and this guy opened the door.
All he pretty much saw were my thighs and not very sexy undies.
He kept apologizing and I was, "Eh, I have no shame."
After being startled, that is.
Thank you for this ❤️😂0 -
Sometimes tour birthday is spent packing boxes cause you got a house as tour birthday gift!
But then you plan drinks with friends for a couple days later.....and have lots of cake to eat cause this is what your friends brought you2 -
My epitaph will read "Till death do us cut" because this cut is taking forever bcuz I WANT ALL THE FOODZ2
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a tornado uprooted a tree in in the cemetery 😬1
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It's too hot out1
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My ex’s bad attitude is having a really negative effect on our son.
Son works for his dad so he’s always around his lectures and complaining.
My son told me he was afraid he was becoming like his dad and it is effecting his relationship with his 9yr old son.
Breaks my heart. 💔6 -
honey_honey_12 wrote: »My ex’s bad attitude is having a really negative effect on our son.
Son works for his dad so he’s always around his lectures and complaining.
My son told me he was afraid he was becoming like his dad and it is effecting his relationship with his 9yr old son.
Breaks my heart. 💔
At least your son recognizes this. Hopefully he can remedy things2 -
Turns out I have been mispronouncing "larynx" and "etc" all these years1
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Everything. Everything seems to be crashing around me at the same time. Things were looking up, now they’re looking down. Idk why everything has to be a constant uphill battle.
We had an sort of inspection today and the office wants to discuss something but didn’t say what. The apartment is an absolute disaster. I’m sure that’s what it’s about. Idk what’s so wrong with me that I let it get so bad. It’s like I woke up and looked around for the first time like wow…. This is bad. I let things get really bad. I don’t want to be like this. Like, I bought stuff a month or two ago to decorate with that are just sitting in the closet or laying around. Left my clean cloths that just need hanging up in a pile on the floor for at least a month now. It’s so dumb and horribly embarrassing.
Take out cartons, open mail, empty boxes, dirty cups. I don’t wanna live like this but here I am. Tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow. I always feel too tired. Too tired to buy groceries and I order out again. Too tired.
Like I keep myself and my clothes clean, go to work and pay my bills but that’s all I’ve been managing. It’s not enough. Like how do I expect someone to love me when I clearly do not give af. I wouldn’t love me either. I’m like, trash. I’m already taking sertraline so I guess that’s either wearing off again (higher tolerance) or it’s barely keeping my head above water and I should actually go to therapy.
There’s a ton of appointments I should make but I guess I’ve decided that that’s also too difficult. I’m living yet another summer without air in my car when I’m sure it just needs Freon. Like this is the third year I’ve put it off. I’m out here suffering for YEARS and for what? Why am I like this?
My situationship has been mia today and I’m stressed about it. But like…… why would anyone want to have anything to do with me anyway? I’m disgusting. I’m a whole mess. I can’t seem to work up the courage to clarify what we’re even doing because I don’t want it to be over. I’m afraid it’s going to be over.
But like, when he discovers the real me I’m sure he’d go running anyway. I’m not very impressive. Plus who knows who he’s entertaining right now. Maybe no one, maybe someone. And why not? I’m hardly a prize. I’m a mess.
My health has been bad and still is. I’m almost done with my antibiotics for whatever this tonsil thing is but I feel like they’re swelling again. I probably have to see a specialist. My ear has been very weird in the same side my worse tonsil is on. Even as I type this my while throat feels painful and like I’m slowly choking.
Had to pay a lot of money to a lawyer to handle a ticket. Hooray.
That new job I’ve been bragging about is whooping my whole *kitten*. It’s soooooo hot out and they’re over working us. I thought I was going to pass out my first day out of training. Turned out I was not really trained at all and looked stupid the entire time. I’m sore head to toe and bruised up everywhere from all the luggage. Have to scrape the plane dirt off my legs with my nails it sticks on so hard. Trying to stay hydrated is a losing battle.
I have to see higher ups about my attendance which I’m sure is about a few weeks ago when I had covid. I have proof though so hopefully everything goes smooth.
My bank is glitching.
I just have all these tasks to do and I just go online or go to sleep instead. Tomorrow. Tomorrow. Tomorrow when I’m not so tired. I’m always so tired.
😕 I’m in a pit of depression yet again aren’t I? Every time I think I’m getting out I fall right back in. 🤙🏻
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