WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2022
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Machka-good of you participating in Secret Santa! Those are usually fun. We are having a White Elephant at work with my immediate group. Regarding energy-have you had your Vitamin D levels checked? Mine tanked a few years ago-very slowly-and I was always exhausted. And of course, iron levels.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
Ready for the long weekend
When I've had bloodwork (relatively regularly), my Vit D levels have been right in the middle of the "good" range, and my iron levels have been borderline high.
I suppose it is possible my iron levels have gone up in the last couple years since the end of the periods.
I had my bloods done in July-ish when I saw someone I hoped might be my new doctor. But I wasn't overly impressed. She entirely missed the big black words on my scans that said Chronic Kidney Disease (which was news to me!) and didn't give me a copy of my bloodwork. She just glanced quickly at it and said everything seemed relatively normal ... except when I went back in to ask about the Chronic Kidney Disease on the report she did give me, the bloodwork markers to indicate kidney issues, indicated kidney issues. She had missed that too.
And what did she decide to do about it? She had decided to put me on a waiting list to see a kidney specialist about the large cyst on my left kidney (which has been there for years but is growing fairly significantly) so since I was would eventually see a kidney specialist for that, I could mention the other to him too. Up to me.
Fortunately, I have a new doctor now! I just need to find the time to fill in the forms and book an appointment!
M in Oz3 -
Happy Thanksgiving to those who celebrate, and happy Thursday to the rest...
I have a giant potassium pill staring me down... I will eventually have to go get some more water to coax it down, but for now, the hot tea is making me happy. Yesterday I was oddly weepy and I just felt off all day long. I guess all the days can't be good... I think today will be better.
Egg is deliciously warm and curled up in her little bed after tromping all over me to wake me up this morning and then running in and yelling at Corey after I got up. She wanted everyone up, and is now completely satisfied. I may have to poke her as I go by to get him a cup of coffee.
Raining outside, and supposed to rain on and off all day - which is part of the reason Egg is being a deviled Egg this morning.She thinks I'm responsible for the weather.
I'm really looking forward to curling up on the couch for the majority of the day and reading, along with my husband. Can't get anything done outside, and the inside chores are nearly done already. I'll put the turkey breast in the Instant Pot later, and once it's completely cooled down, we'll have turkey sandwiches for dinner.
Hope it's a good day for all...
Love,
Lisa in AR3 -
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We had a painting session after lunch. DH.did a cottage and I tried a geometric triptych.
Huge fun!
Love Heather UK xxxxxx10 -
Happy Thanksgiving!! I am thankful for my husband, our adult children and our young grandchildren— a first born granddaughter, and four boys between them. ❤️. 😘. ❤️ 😘. ❤️
Right now I’m watching the Thanksgiving Day parade.7 -
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Happy thanksgiving to those who celebrate. Im new as of today. I have around 80 lbs to loose, and I struggle with my relationship with food, I overeat and binge.
From today I will pull myself together, I will use MFP as a tool to log my food, so I dont have to feel bad about eating. And Im also surprising myself about this posting, because I am somewhat solitary and introverted, but I feel it would be nice to have somewhere to check in, and get accuainted.
I apologize for any misspelling, I am 54, and live in Norway.10 -
I got Betty Crocker cook book as a wedding present. My mother had an older edition. Love the recipe for pot roast (favorite dish) other recipes pudding and hot fudge sauce (to live for)are up there too.
Carla thank you for posting the great quotes from The Little Prince...
Barbie I thought of you today and all the dog lovers here as I was reading the Dharma of Dogs compiled by Tina Simon. It like the Chicken Rice for the soul series only with people sharing how dogs opened their hearts and souls.The stories of Hopi and Izzie remind me the importance of living in the moment and letting go. All through the years I have participated in this group you model this with grace. Thank you. I would like to say you do not have to be a dog lover to live in the moment and to let go.
I loved how one of the authors Geneen describes how her thoughts sometimes trapped her in what felt like a small airless room. Her sweet puppy gave her the choice to open herself to something different. When she walked out that morning the world felt alive. She stopped to revel in the gorgeous goldfinch; she in the past would just walk past. I am paraphrasing her words because one has to go to the source to get the exact words she wrote. I just wanted to share the heart of her message on this Thanksgiving Day because it is such a beautiful gift to me.
Happy Thanksgiving my dear Friends... May you have a day surrounded by love. If it is hard because loved ones are missing from your table draw from the love that is shared here until you have a chance to be with your loved one. One Christmas DS was not able to be with us and we celebrated a day of our choosing because love shared is the true meaning of Christmas not just a date on the calendar.6 -
My darling mom, who couldn't boil beans when she got married (her words) learned how to cook following the Better Homes and Gardens Cookbook and passed it down to me, even though she actually taught me how to cook long before that. And she was an amazing cook by the time she taught me. We did everything together. Homemade pasta and sauces, cakes from scratch, yeast breads and sweet doughs, well over 100 dozen cookies at Christmas time that we shared with family and neighbors.
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!
Grateful for...
24-*challenge-not eating everything put out in front of me today!
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN6 -
Hey all! My alarm went off this morning at 5am. I turned it off and started to doze back off and opened my eyes to the sound of hubby coming down the hall. He asked, "Why is your alarm going off?" So I explained that it is set to automatically go off on Mondays-Fridays. He fumbled around with my phone for a few seconds trying to figure out how to reset the alarms. I took my phone from him, turned off my alarms and closed my eyes trying to get back to sleep. No good. So I got up. Which upset him because he thought I should sleep in. lol No chance of that once people start talking to me and making me DO things. Anyway, it is just DH, DYS, and I (as usual) for Thanksgiving. I still bake a ham (it becomes meals for us later in the week), make roasted red skinned potatoes, a green salad, and butternut squash and pear soup. The guys have ice cream they can eat for a treat. I love pumpkin pie; but I would be the only one eating it (which I have no objection to; but even I know that to eat a whole pie by myself is not good). DH is the same with apple pie. So...no pies. My only plans for today, other than cooking, is to relax. I will be looking online for some black friday deals on specific things I want/need. Years past, I have never shopped on Thanksgiving weekend and we have never had $$ this time of year due to my DH's employers not giving out Christmas bonuses until the week before Christmas. Now, with all of our kids older, I shop for them during my grocery runs. Something small from a store for them. Or a gift card. Then because my grandsons live in Texas, I order their gifts online and have them delivered to their home. Although, this year I bought them matching winter jammies and some craft projects for the boys to work on. So I will just be mailing that package to them.
This long weekend, I will be decorating the house, hanging lights outside, I might try decorating the kids playhouse that is outside (not sure about that last chore. The kids are rough with the house and the wind is strong enough in the winter to blow things off) I am excited this year because I have an idea for the kids that just tickles me to no end. IF I can get it to work out, it will be AMAZING!
Okay, who did I want to reply to? lol
Heather- Glad you are getting in your family time and friend/group zoom meet ups! Cookbooks: I remember seeing my mom's Joy of Cooking and Betty Crocker cookbooks; but I never really learned to cook from her. As one of the youngest of six kids; I was shooed out of the kitchen as a child. She got cancer while I was still a teen and was gone by the time I was 26. SO...I learned to cook from working in restaurants. I have the Betty Crocker cookbook that Lisa has. BUT, I think the biggest motivator for me when it comes to more adventurous cooking and baking has been the internet. When I inherited my late father in law's wok, I began searching for authentic chinese recipes using the spices and sauces that are used in the region. Doing that opened my eyes to the importance of the freshest and most authentic ingredients. Some of my favorite shows and movies all revolve around food/cooking. Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat is a favorite; as is Samin Nosrat. I love GBBO and cry at the end of each season, because I find them so full of information and so inspirational. I always complain about cooking because it IS something that I HAVE to do. Three times a day, five days a week. BUT, I do really enjoy it and I enjoy trying new things. I really love to bake, but I need to find someone to eat all of the baked things.
Rori - It has been many years since I have approached Thanksgiving with the whole pilgrim/indian mindset. I think it has been almost 20 years ago, my crafts and Thanksgiving activities with my childcare has focused on gratitude. We build a tree and each day the kids tell me something that they are thankful for. I write it on a leaf and put it on the tree. At the end of the month, the kids go home with a bag full of leaves with all of their "thankfuls". Because November is Native American Heritage Month we do some activities and read some books about our indigenous peoples. Some of our favorite children's books are Fry Bread by Kevin Noble Maillard, Finding My dance by Ria Thundercloud, Berry Song by Michaela Goade, Keepunumuk: Weeachumun's Thanksgiving Story by Danielle Greendeer. The activity the kids really enjoy, we do around veterans day; and that is learn about the Navajo Codetalkers and we learn some Navajo words. Next year, I would really like to get someone from the local tribes to come and visit and tell us a little about life/history of the tribes in the area. We also have a local tribe that will do drum/story circles with children. It costs a bit, so I might see if another provider would like to go in on this enrichment with me.
Tracey- I bet your dad was tickled to get that sled for you! I would love to see a picture of it!
Lisa- Your breads always look amazing! I love the smell of bread baking; but am not much of a bread eater. I do like focaccia because it is thin and crusty.
Thanksgiving/holiday meals- I do enjoy hearing how everyone "does" their holiday meals. Thanksgiving, being a typically North American holiday, I really enjoy seeing how the traditional dinner differs based on where you live/grew up. And how it changes based on aging, family moving away, etc. I grew up in an environment where every holiday (the day of) was a S**tshow. lol Total chaos. People everywhere. At dinner time, there was a huge main table for the adults and many small card tables set up for the kids. Sometimes we kids ate on a blanket on the floor. Most holidays, I miss this noise and chaos. DH does not. His family holidays, while large, were pretty subdued. Even the kids were on the quiet side. He went to one of my family gatherings and never went to another. It used to bother me that he didn't want to go. But I have come to realize that making him go is creating stress in him (and then also for me and the kids). It is WAY out of his comfort zone. Why do we feel we need to do that to people we love? He does fine when family comes for one on one visits.
Well, I keep getting interrupted and now it is 10:40 in the morning! I better stop now, and get things going for dinner. ttfn xoxoxox KJ (Kelly)7 -
Hi Shattzie! I am a great Norway fan and have visited often on our cruises. We will be revisiting next June. I have been learning Norwegian for a few years and can understand a bit. I can have a very simple conversation.
Welcome to our thread.
Heather UK xxxxxxxx2 -
Regarding introversion --
I'm still trying to "define" my introversion.
Various sites list traits, a lot of which don't apply to me.
This, for example: https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-an-introvert
Personality traits of an introvert
A number of factors help shape the unique characteristics that make you who you are, and these factors can also affect the ways introversion shows up in your personality. To put it another way, no two introverts are exactly alike.
That said, you might recognize introversion in yourself by some of the following traits and behaviors.You need plenty of time for yourself -- Yes!
Do you consider periods of solitude essential for optimal health and well-being? Maybe you find the thought of a quiet night at home positively delightful, whether you plan to spend that time simply resting or enjoying a quiet hobby on your own.
If time alone prompts feelings of peace and relief, not disappointment and stress, you’re likely more introverted than extroverted.
Too much socializing drains you -- Yes. And I don't like social interaction. It's highly unlikely I would hang out with friends on Friday because the interaction between work colleagues is enough and has me craving solitude on Friday evening, Saturday and Sunday.
It’s not true that introverts hate social interaction and avoid it entirely. All the same, you might find yourself needing more time to recharge between events than a more extroverted person.
Hanging out with friends on Friday might max out your energy, leaving you craving solitude on Saturday to rest and refuel.
You have a hard time with conflict -- It depends. I don't usually seek conflict, but I certainly can share my opinion.
Everyday interactions can be draining enough on their own, but what about situations that involve the possibility of conflict?
Some evidence suggests introverted people tend to have a greater sensitivity to negative evaluation and criticism. You might find it tough to share your thoughts when you believe others might disagree with you or disapprove of your opinion. As a result, you might find yourself avoiding conflict whenever possible.
You work better on your own -- Yes!
The mere words “group project” might spark fear in anyone’s heart, but if you find working in groups particularly loathsome, you could certainly be more of an introvert.
Working at your own pace gives you time to reflect and consider your approach before focusing your energy on the task, without having to navigate group dynamics or tune out the chatter.
Of course, this doesn’t necessarily mean you have trouble getting along with others. You may just find it easier to concentrate when working alone. That goes for your hobbies, too — introverted people often choose solitary pastimes, like reading, crafting, gaming, or gardening.
The spotlight doesn’t tempt you -- It depends. Back in my teens, I hated presenting things but then I did a bit of acting and got involved with Toastmasters, and now I usually don't mind being up in front of everyone talking.
Maybe you don’t mind working in smaller groups, but you always choose behind-the-scenes roles.
That might mean you’d rather do the research and write up the report than present it, or you volunteer for tasks that keep you away from the crowd. Far from being the center of attention, you’d rather hover on the fringes where you escape notice.
You prefer a close circle of friends -- I prefer a few low demand acquaintances ... and I'm not that fond of people
Many introverts have just a small circle of friends, but it’s not because they can’t make friends or dislike people. ResearchTrusted Source suggests, in fact, that high-quality relationships play a major role in happiness for introverts.
If you’re an introvert, you might simply prefer to have a few close, intimate friendships rather than a large circle of casual acquaintances. After all, you need more time to yourself than an extroverted person might, so you probably have less time to spend connecting and catching up with a crowd.
You get to know people on a deeper level -- Nope. I can't be bothered to listen and observe from the sidelines. I've got things to do ... and I'm not that fond of people
If you tend to keep to yourself, you might find it perfectly natural to listen and observe from the sidelines. Watching what goes on around you can give you more insight into others and offer clues to their personality and preferences.
Expressing yourself not your strong point? You might become a good listener instead, perhaps even develop a knack for picking up on body language and less obvious cues and emotions in someone’s words, behavior, or tone of voice.
The end result? You learn more about others, which can boost empathy and your ability to offer emotional support.
You spend a lot of time absorbed in your own thoughts -- Yeah, I suppose. Somewhat
Maybe you:
find yourself daydreaming or running through scenarios in your mind before you settle on a plan of action
need more time to process information and weigh options carefully when making decisions
do extensive research before making a big purchase or accepting a job offer
brainstorm a plan of action ahead of major events to prepare for every possibility
Introverts often have an active inner thought process, so these traits can all suggest introversion.
You zone out to get away -- I tend to get up and leave but if I must stay, I'm usually making lists or thinking through a project
Do you catch yourself “escaping” from unpleasant or stressful situations by letting your mind wander or drift to something more relaxing?
Anyone can zone out, but turning inward may offer introverts a way to leave situations that feel chaotic or uncomfortable. In short, it can serve as a survival mechanism, of sorts.
This tendency to get lost in your thoughts may leave others with the impression that you’re shy, distracted, or disinterested. In reality, though, it can help you cope in tense or overwhelming environments, from a loud holiday party to a long meeting with several short-tempered colleagues.
You prefer writing over talking -- Yes!
Maybe the thought of small talk makes you shudder, but writing out your thoughts comes naturally, especially when you’re dealing with complex or difficult emotions.
Many introverts take time to think carefully before speaking, so you might have a hard time offering a quick opinion about anything. Writing, on the other hand, allows you to consider your position thoroughly and choose just the right words to express yourself with confidence and care.
You feel emotions deeply -- I rarely feel emotion, thank goodness
Some evidence suggests introverted people might experience emotions more intensely and have trouble managing those emotions. This greater sensitivity could help explain why many introverts develop depression.
Myths about introverts
We’ve established that introversion isn’t just another way to describe shyness, but plenty of other myths about introversion exist. A few common ones include:
Introverts don’t like people. In reality, introverted people do benefit from close relationships with others, just like most other humans. They typically just prefer to save their social energy for people who understand and support their needs.
No ... I'm just not that fond of most people. But the ones below ring true
Introverts have social anxiety. Sure, some introverted people could also have social anxiety. But that’s thanks to a combination of personality traits, like conscientiousness and neuroticism, rather than introversion alone.
Introverts are more imaginative and creative. Creativity stems from openness, another Big Five trait. Introverted people with high levels of openness might easily be more creative, but this won’t apply to every introvert.
Introverts just need to try harder to be social. If you’re happy with yourself as you are and don’t feel the need to change any of your social habits, draining your energy by trying to force yourself to interact with others when you need time alone will probably only leave you miserable and stressed.
M in Oz
This is me, spot on.
Tina in CA2 -
Welcome Shattzie!
So I made a cake, which is in the oven. And I learned two things. First that MFP has a listing for the calories in cake batter. Second, I can't believe how small my tablespoon has gotten! My visual idea of a Tablespoon is probably half again over the real thing. That explains a lot of extra calories.
I have three hours and three tasks before we go to dinner. I better keep moving!
Annie in Delaware5 -
Hi
Happy thanksgiving to those who celebrate. Im new as of today. I have around 80 lbs to loose, and I struggle with my relationship with food, I overeat and binge.
From today I will pull myself together, I will use MFP as a tool to log my food, so I dont have to feel bad about eating. And Im also surprising myself about this posting, because I am somewhat solitary and introverted, but I feel it would be nice to have somewhere to check in, and get accuainted.
I apologize for any misspelling, I am 54, and live in Norway.Welcome. I got help from the women on this thread. I am solitary and consider myself an introvert. This thread allows me to participate as little or as much as I want. I read the thread while I eat my breakfast every morning. I rarely post but I take to heart all I've read. When I started here I decided to stop using food for recreation and entertainment. It has made a huge difference. I hope you'll come back.
Barbie in NW WA
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The Instagram image I posted this evening. It was the view from our cabin , using no filter. Ain't Nature grand!
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
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Betsy wishing everyone a good day.0 -
Grateful:
24. challenge. I am grateful for the challenges I face every day. They make me stronger.
25. moment this week.
26. form of expression.
27. daily use item.
28. what happen today.
29. friend/family member.
30. talent or skill
Happy Thanksgiving 🍁🍽 everyone!
RvRita in NM
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I feel like I should search on polite topics for Thanksgiving conversations! At least I think I'm ready, with an hour to go. It feels like jumping off of a diving board, although I guess some people like that, too.
I shouldn't be so nervous. I love my family, and they are always kind to me. And I love Thanksgiving. It's just my usual pre-event jitters. As long as I stay away from snacking, all will be well.
Annie in Delaware4 -
grandmallie wrote: »Morning ladies
I'll say yes to most of what Machka said,I never used to be that way ..but here I am..
Happy Thanksgiving to all who celebrate..and my love to you all..
Like Allie, I read through Machka’s spoiler it described me perfectly!
The Better Homes and Garden was my favorite, though I owned most of the others mentioned at one time. Had to get rid of all my books when I moved into the camper.
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Happy Thanksgiving!
Welcome Shattzie
Watching the Macy's parade too- always watch it- by myself anymore.Remember watching it as a little kid. Got up early to watch it every year.
I too, miss the big family holiday meals. Spending time with all the cousins. Grandma's house was FULL- full of family and "adopted" family- anyone who wanted to come was more than welcome, and full of love.
Now, the only holiday I am with my family is Christmas and basically no one comes anymore. This year for Christmas eve it looks like it will be just mom and I. We did that last year. First Christmas eve without dad. It was nice but just not the same.
Today, we will go to a friends house at 2 but dh has to leave by 3:30 to take food to his mom. He won't change the times for anything. Same thing with mornings- up at 7 this morning(and I really wanted to sleep in) to pick up breakfast and take it to her.
Got the mini blueberry tarts and some brownies made last night. Will make up the meat/cheese/veggie trays over at Sue's. Rice is soaking and will cook that at 1 so it is still warm.
Won't be eating anything but the salmon and rice. Mouth is still swollen/painful,especially the front tooth that got jammed but didn't break. The two broken ones are sharp but don't hurt, thankfully. Muscles are still achy but not terrible.
Will take some pineapple brandy over to share.(skipping the Norco for the day)
Plan on resting the rest of the day.
Need to slowly declutter the living room and start with the Christmas decorations.
Dh will be gone most of the next three days so I can take it easy, do as much as I want.
Time for a bowl of oatmeal then a long shower.
Have a wonderful day ladies
Debbie
Napa Valley,Ca3
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