WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MARCH 2023

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  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,306 Member
    Yes Rosemarie that was a rude comment about McDonald's.

    I did my aerobic walking Yay! Now today's deficit is 487 Yay! An all-time high for me and not something that will happen often. I skipped my chocolate today, that's once in a blue moon.

    Annie in Delaware
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,557 Member
    Did a Joyce Vidral DVD today. The plan for tomorrow is to do a total body strength training dvd

    Tracey – good luck on the interview

    Debbie and M – happy birthday

    Evelyn – feel better soon

    I know when we stayed at one hotel, you could smell smoke in the hallway. They called the police and they knocked on every door. When they found the person who smoked, they had him leave

    Heather – fantastic pictures

    Rebecca – great design for the bathroom! Did you design it and pick out the cabinetry? I’m probably going to PM you about it if you did it all.

    One lady today was commenting on how colorful the flowers I left were, she asked how much they cost. I just told her I didn’t remember. Truth is, they were free!

    My gardening is “if God means for it to live, it’ll live”. I look at a plant and it dies

    Rosemarie – you deserved the restful B&B. So glad you got it. I’m sorry the service is getting larger. Your “friend” is ridiculous

    After exercise went to Aldi. I do try to go to the store even if just for a few things (not like at home when I go maybe once/week) so hopefully we won’t have as much to take back. Afterwards, there was a lady’s lunch. I had a chicken Caesar taco with the dressing on the side and instead of the french fries I had mixed vegetables, no butter or sauce. Just water to drink. Then went for a walk. The launch of the ship that was 3D printed was scrubbed. Not sure when it’s supposed to go up. I think there is a SpaceX launch tomorrow.

    Cards tomorrow. Have to think, maybe since it’s supposed to be cooler Vince and I can go for our walk earlier and he can have dinner when he gets back. A neighbor of ours wants to take me to lunch tomorrow at Chipotle since I gave her yarn and was showing her how to make this afghan. Unfortunately, she forgot how to do it. So she’ll bring it back down next year and we’ll go over it again.

    Then went for my walk around the parking lot. Vince went with me for a little bit. It was cool, but by the time I finished I was sweating

    Then we’re supposed to go to lunch with friends on Friday. Vince said that with lunch out on Wed. Thur, and Fri, I should jog around the parking lot….lol

    Michele wishing she could stay longer.
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
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  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,255 Member
    Rosemarie2972 wrote: »

    I am back to talking with more people than I have in years. I will have to toughen up! Some of the things they say are remarkable! My Friend from high school called from San Francisco. I had to call her back because I had was making a run to McDonald's to have something for dinner at the Inn. She said your eating McDonalds..that's bad...that's because your in the South. People in California eat healthier. How rude...8 days a widow and she is chiding me because I got McDonalds. And she hates to work out and I do work out. And give me a break...people in California go to McDonalds.
    We had a nice conversation otherwise. But pretty rude about the McDonalds thing...8 days a widow!

    :) This is one of the reasons I talk to so few people. I don't have the time or energy to deal with negativity or unsolicited advice. Best wishes to you navigating this difficult journey

    <3 Barbie in NW WA 💖
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,705 Member
    Rosemarie - Wow, you never know what's going to pop out of people's mouths! McDonald's isn't the worst thing in the world, and you had to grab something. Glad your conversation with the CA friend was good otherwise. :)

    Would you mind me asking -- how long did your husband need round the clock care?

    Betsy - please fill us in on your Panama Canal excursion when you get a chance. It was probably a tad warmer than Alaska. :D Bet it was good to get away and see a different part of the world.

    Protein Bars Kay and Michele (?)I'm going to check out Aloha bars. I hadn't heard of them and now I see they have coconut ones. :p I have a supply of Darryl's Bars that are good, 11 gm protein and pretty tasty, running up toward 300 calories each. I keep them in the freezer - away from temptation.

    I think I've mentioned Kodiak Cakes pancake mix before. I've been making them into waffles, adding milk instead of water, maybe some chopped dried fruit, a teaspoon of chia seeds, a tablespoon of chopped nuts, a tablespoon of mini chocolate chips, etc. It's easy to get a waffle that's 20 gm of protein under 250 calories, and I like that I can break it into 4 pieces and stick one quarter in the toaster at a time.

    This morning I made a savory waffle. Still used the milk and chia seeds, but added some Italian spices, garlic and onion powder, and a big tablespoon of shredded parmesan cheese. It was a winner.

    Now I'm thinking about making one using water and salsa instead of the milk, oregano, maybe a dash of taco seasoning, Mexican cheeses. Something different to have with soup but still packing a lot of protein.

    Did my strength training this morning then got busy this afternoon with more garden and property cleanup. Looks like sunshine on Saturday (crossing fingers) so planning to get the weed eater going and maybe even mow in a few spots. It's great being active outdoors again.

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State




  • auntiebk
    auntiebk Posts: 2,619 Member

    9. Take a full breath in and out before you reply to others. Tried to start early at tonight’s meeting but failed more often than achieved.

    Kay thanks for the Aloha protein bar suggestion, I’ll try one out. I’m with your nutritionist, all the “…itol”s make me windy ;)
    Michele “walking partner” WOW! Yay Vince!!! why can’t you and Vince stay longer in FL?
    Barbie thanks for your chicken in peanut sauce recipe too!
    Annie well done on the new bike!
    Kim is there no nearby care facility alternative to your mom recovering at your house? Sorry to hear you’ve been hit with such shocking information on top of everything else you’re coping with. Glad your counselor could give you the needed extra time.
    Tracey well done on restarting your physio exercises. Can’t wait to hear how Monday’s interview goes. Hope the new place is worthy of you.
    Kylia safe travels and hope you have a wonderful time with your family.
    Debbie hope your exMIL’s social security payments don’t have too bad an impact on your ex FIL’s income taxes. Debbie that is a tempting sale, I might have to drive to the nearest Safeway (30 miles south) to get some corned beef. Oh that’s right, the 17th is coming soon!
    Rita “. . . I did not get mad, just politely asked for them to investigate. . . “ VERY well done!
    Lanette your description of your Kodiak protein pancakes is inspiring.
    Rosemarie I’m also former CA (native San Franciscan) girl who is ashamed of my state sister’s rudeness and yes I do treat myself to McDonald’s when on road trips. Glad you are listening to your feelings. Don’t let anyone else push you into doing (or not doing) anything you want to.

    There were others I wanted to respond to but I’m falling asleep.
    Lighter, lovelies!
    Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD x8zcp1ya37k1.gif
    2023: Be of good cheer. March: Move more, fuel better, live NOW.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,692 Member
    Rosemarie2972 wrote: »
    Grandmallie: Sorry about the passing of Luann. She was young and this is sad.

    Grandmallie and Kim: Thank you for validating that I am not going crazy about what is rude. I hope to volunteer at a dog shelter and maybe meet some nice people through this activity. Right now I get very tired and have to take frequent naps.

    I am sorry you're having to deal with things like that. It's amazing what pops out of people's mouths.

    As for your plans ... just rest. Do things when you've got the energy, but take those frequent naps. You've got a lot of different emotions to work through in the next month or two or longer.

    It might be worth seeing if you can find a place to stay for the next month to take a break from your house ... sometimes hotels rent rooms by the month. Take the time to regroup.

    :heart:

    Machka in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,692 Member
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  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,269 Member
    Barbara- if you are going to get the Corned Beef, be sure to add it to your card-it is a digital one. Limit 2.
    Smart and Final also has a digital coupon for $1.99 lb-limit one.

    Not sure how that will effect former inlaws taxes but even with getting that one lump sum, he will still have a nice amount that he wasn't counting on.
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Rosemarie, Your high school “friend" was rude. And callous. The fact that you continued your conversation with her after her thoughtlessness is a testament to your graciousness and tolerance. She didn’t deserve it. (((Hugs)))
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
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  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Oh, Machka, It just hurts me to read about your medical history, and about the ineptness of your previous doctors. It sounds as if things are getting better, but still...
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,692 Member
    KetoneKaren wrote: »
    Oh, Machka, It just hurts me to read about your medical history, and about the ineptness of your previous doctors. It sounds as if things are getting better, but still...

    I haven't been impressed over the past year.

    For example, if an ultrasound came back with the following in big black letters, perhaps it might warrant a follow-up of some sort. {{shrug}}

    "Mild renal cortical thinning bilaterally in keeping with chronic kidney disease"

    Especially when coupled with borderline questionable kidney function bloodwork.

    My previous doctor, the one with one foot out the door to the Netherlands, overlooked it entirely until I pointed it out to her.

    M in Oz
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,074 Member
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  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    love the photo of you after your ride Machka

    triumphant smile <3
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,152 Member
    Morning ladies
    Im here with Miles he was awake at 4:30..
    I think grandma has the touch Tracy doesn't, I can put him right to sleep he snuggles up on me and is out..only way she can get him to sleep is if he is nursing.
    Carmine will be 15 on the 17th
    We have to bundle up and it is about 62 in here during the day..but thats what I keep my place at because I have electric everything.
    Ive been waking up earlier and earlier without the alarm
    Which is fine with me.
    Will go get Homer out today and tomorrow Tom should be home tomorrow afternoon ,so Homer will be one happy camper!!
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,692 Member
    KetoneKaren wrote: »
    love the photo of you after your ride Machka

    triumphant smile <3

    Thanks!
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,692 Member
    I has a nice Birthday Day 1.
    Slept in a little.
    Strenuous but good bicycle ride.
    Relaxing.
    Dinner at the local pub with cake and ice cream for dessert.
    Watched movie.
    Listened to music.
    Read book.

    M in Oz
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Machka—I am impressed with the windy weather for your bike ride, and the triumphant photo of you at the end of your ride. WTG!!!
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,705 Member
    edited March 2023
    barbiecat wrote: »
    Rosemarie2972 wrote: »

    I am back to talking with more people than I have in years. I will have to toughen up! Some of the things they say are remarkable! My Friend from high school called from San Francisco. I had to call her back because I had was making a run to McDonald's to have something for dinner at the Inn. She said your eating McDonalds..that's bad...that's because your in the South. People in California eat healthier. How rude...8 days a widow and she is chiding me because I got McDonalds. And she hates to work out and I do work out. And give me a break...people in California go to McDonalds.
    We had a nice conversation otherwise. But pretty rude about the McDonalds thing...8 days a widow!

    :) This is one of the reasons I talk to so few people. I don't have the time or energy to deal with negativity or unsolicited advice. Best wishes to you navigating this difficult journey

    <3 Barbie in NW WA 💖

    Barbie - this hits home. That was my DH's philosophy too. I've expanded my social contacts a little more than him, but I think it might be a reason I'm no longer a "joiner" or plan/schedule things with other people. It's funny, seems now that I'm in my 70's, I'm a lot more tolerant in many areas, but rude and tiresome people are on the "avoid" list. My circle is tight.

    Rosemarie - sending strength to you as you get through all of this. I had a lot of alone time after my DH passed to recharge my batteries, it sounds like you'll be full throttle for a while. Good luck with the eulogy! So happy to hear you've gotten sympathy cards and flowers to honor his passing.

    You had quite a journey this past few years as caregiver. You deserve all the happiness you can get and you have the right to make choices you feel are important regarding your home and how you'll spend your free time. Working out more will be great if that's in your plan, get those endorphins going. ;)

    I have tried several times to write an obit or memorial for my DH and I got sidetracked or bogged down, so I've given up for now. After he retired and as he started to fail, his social circle dwindled. The people that he was important to and knew him still comment what they remember about him that was funny or admirable. I appreciate that.

    Lisa     - that's great news about your neighbors. It's a blessing to have someone next door you can trust and depend on. And great job with the story recovery! :p

    Just got back from a brisk 1 mile walk. Since part of it is on the main road, I try to beat the school buses and folks on their way to work. Time for another cup of coffee, then back to the seed catalogs!

    Make it a fabulous day!

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State

  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,705 Member
    Heather - didn't you say you grow basil in your windowsill? If that was you (and/or whoever else does it successfully) how do you water it and keep it healthy? Basil is so touchy for me but I really want to get a plant going. I see some little plants are available at stores.

    Lanette B)
  • bwcetc
    bwcetc Posts: 2,836 Member
    Rosemarie ... some unsolicited advice ... take care of you now. Really. Your needs. Your wishes. Your health especially. And, yes, the California gal was out-of-line.

    Machka and Debbie ... Happy Belated Birthday!

    Kim ... so sorry you've been hit with another family "bomb." Hugs.

    Rebecca ... the bathroom looks great! Your sister is right, by the way. You're also grieving and in the world of grief it's all relative. One person's loss cannot be considered greater or lesser than another's.

    I've spent too long catching up with all of you. Heading back down to the basement to purge more stuff!

    Beth near Buffalo



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