NON WW & WW NEWBIES, OUR NEW LIFE, THE START OF SOMETHING WONDERFUL

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  • gemwolf110
    gemwolf110 Posts: 1,687 Member
    edited June 2024
    @fabgeekmom Your dinner sounded really good. Hopefully the pool will open soon.

    @trooworld I thought you were trying to gain weight because of your surgery. I gain weight when I eat tuna. So when I had official weigh in days before I would never eat tuna the day before. lol Hmm now I'm craving tuna.

    @gemwolf110 I think I missed your bday. Happy Birthday.

    I got in some walking today and then another walk at the mall. Plus some stretching.

    Not yet it’s in a couple of days. My coworkers brought in a local donut shops donuts for my birthday early since I won’t be at work for my actual birthday. They sent them home with me…
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @theslightedgeforever Good job on the walking and stretching. I need to do more stretching. @cbabie I’m glad the stretching helped relieve pain. @gemwolf110 Oh, my, donuts at home! @trooworld That’s good that you got things straightened out with the dietitian and surgeon. That’s tough with your DH being unsupportive. Hi, all. My son and daughter are going to Edinburgh today to see Taylor Swift. They’re also going to London for sightseeing. They’ll be gone for 10 days so I am losing my cooks. But I am glad they are going as they will have a good time. Today I plan to go for a walk and workout on the bike. DH and I are taking them to the airport. I have burgers from last night for dinner tonight so dinner will be easy.
  • cbabie
    cbabie Posts: 1,723 Member
    Morning all, I didn't walk last night, but I did walk in place in my home. So that was something. We had steak and green beans last night...I love green beans. I could have eaten just that. LOL. It is hot here and its going to now start being over 100 every day..It's supposed to be 111 tomorrow..UGH.

    @trooworld I am so glad you got all that straightened out. I am sorry your DH it not the support you need right now. I have one like that. I started saying to myself at least he tells me instead of saying whatever...LOL. I would like him to be more of you got this type of person, but he isn't. I get well if you would stop eating cookies, or you have said you are fat your whole life...so I get you!! You have our support and glad you are here.

    @fabgeekmom Sorry you are losing your cooks..LOL. Hope they enjoy the trip and come back refreshed and cook up a storm for you. :). good for you for walking and your bike. Sometimes I wish I had an indoor bike, but I have no room for now. It's just to hot to go bike riding outside.

    @gemwolf110 On Fridays the local grocery store has buy 1 dozen, get 1/2 free...well my DH thinks he is doing us a favor by getting the 1/2 free... I have to just not start eating them or I will eat them all..I just had to laugh..you didn't even finish...just ....... Invite family over for a doughnut party...and send them home with them. LOL.

    cbabie
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @cbabie I love steak and green beans. I have some leftover green beans I’m going to eat tonight. 100 degrees is hot! Stay cool. Walking in place is good.
  • theslightedgeforever
    theslightedgeforever Posts: 2,483 Member
    @cbabie Whatever gets your heart rate up is a good thing. What can you keep in the house when you don't want to cook and just scrounge around that would be healthy and tasty? There's a thing you can buy that you use your outside bike and it turns into an exercise bike. I'd put it on the patio with a big fan blowing right at me just to make room. Yaaay on walking in place

    @gemwolf110 Local donut shops are the best. But very dangerous.

    @trooworld I'm not eating sweets except the occasional after eight mint. I still need more f&v. I was doin well preplanning but then fell off that wagon. So back to that. I'm doing one of the MFP plans and it's all about adding in the f&v and then choosing lower sugar alternatives to the current foods we eat with added sugar. My hubby would be that way about the support. He's more of a if you would just run and not walk you could lose the weight. At least I'm getting out there and doing something which is more than I can say for him right now. Since retirement, he's retired from life. Environment is everything to be successful. Ask your hubby what things is he willing to change to help you out? I'm sure he will say I'm not the one that is needing to change. That is where I would guilt-trip mine. Along the lines of "well it sure would be nice to have a loving partner to support me". That would be my mantra until he hears it in his head even while he's asleep LOL I'm getting better at choosing things at restaurants that are good for me versus what I really want. Like today. I had a chicken shawarma salad and he had a shawarma and fries. I'm no longer tempted by the fries anymore.

    @fabgeekmom I liked Edinburgh but not as much as up north in the Highlands The hills in Edinburgh were killing me. I can't wait to go to places like that and not be winded when I climb.
    My son got to see TS years ago. He texted me in the middle of it saying, guess who her special guest is right now. Nelly! I love Nelly! I was so jealous.

    Exercise is DONE for the day. I even did 31 min in Zone 2 on the treadmill. I ended up with 80 min of exercise total. I tried a new mini-trampoline video from YouTube.
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @theslightedgeforever You really are in the zone! My DH is pretty supportive. He eats a lot of stuff they I don’t but basically follows a healthy diet. I have been able to eat sweets in moderation. Candy will always be available and I have learned to eat a few pieces after dinner and track it.
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @trooworld That’s good news about the support group. I’m sure that is helpful. I’m going to cook as DH does not cook. In his defense, he does the yard work, vacuuming, most of the house cleaning. My cousin is bringing us some turkey she cooked so all I have to do is make some mashed potatoes and a vegetable. She’s also bringing me some beets from her garden. Tomorrow night all I have to do is reheat a meal from a few weeks ago. I’m preparing 2 recipes from ATK on Saturday and Sunday as my son-in-law and granddaughter will eat with us. Hi, all. The pool is open but we can’t go today as we have hair appointments. But we will go tomorrow.
  • cbabie
    cbabie Posts: 1,723 Member
    Morning all, Eating was a little better, but still ate ice cream before bed. I did get on my treadmill yesterday, so that is a plus.

    @trooworld that's great you found a new support group. We can all as women use all the support we can get. It seems we wear many hats and sometimes we are just too tired to support ourselves. LOL I like my green beans cooked all day! I don't eat raw vegetables at all, so veggies and I don't have a great relationship. LOL

    @fabgeekmom Sounds like you are prepared well for your kids' trip. Yea on the pool. I need to get my haircut, but I just don't want to go out in the heat, pay money for it, then come home and not like it. LOL

    @theslightedgeforever Yea on the exercise..and yea on getting back to preplanning. Yea it's the sugar that is getting me now. I have to stop...I don't want to be like mom and dad. Not sure about what can I keep around the house for healthy choices...but I will think about it.

    cbabie
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @cbabie Good job on eating and exercise. I am fortunate in that my hairdresser comes to our house. She does that because she had a toxic experience at 2 salons.
  • theslightedgeforever
    theslightedgeforever Posts: 2,483 Member
    @fabgeekmom It seems your household environment is really good. That makes is so much easier for you. It has really become a lifestyle.

    @trooworld I like mushy green beans too. In fact I don't like a lot of crisp foods. The plan is called Building Healthy Habits. Your support group sounds really good. It's nice to be with others in the same boat.

    @cbabie Yaaay on the treadmill. Would you be open to try a new habit of eating raw veggies? It's all about finding the right recipe so they taste good. Not just throwing broccoli on a plate. Instead of thinking about stopping the sugar right now how about reducing the sugar. Have you been tracking your sugar grams? What foods do you eat regularly that you could switch up. Yes, I know. Ice cream. You WILL end up like our parents if you don't reduce the sugar. Sugar is a big culprit of both diabetes and cancer. My LAS (lower sugar alternative) food that I chose for this plan was iced coffees particularly caramel machiattos. I went from not drinking coffee to OD'ing on them. Especially in the heat. So I am going to replace them with a Sugar Free Vanilla Iced Tea at cafes except for one day a week. My other option is to just make my iced SF pumpkin latte at home. Also the cheaper option. So think of all the foods that you eat that has added sugar. That is what we need to be looking at.
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @theslightedgeforever Good point about the sugar substitutes. Have you tried unsweetened vanilla almond milk? It has no sugar and has a sweet taste because of the vanilla. I also make coffee, usually flavored beans that have no sugar.
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @trooworld I saw that recipe and skipped it because it didn’t sound good. Yes, I do have a nice family. The cafe breakfast sounded good. Congrats on the weight loss. Eating leftovers is always good. Hi, all. My cousin came over yesterday to give me my dinner and we sat in the sat in the shade and visited. I guess you can see that she is like a sister to me. Dinner was very good. This morning we are going to the pool, finally! Dinner is leftovers. Lucky me, no real cooking!
  • cbabie
    cbabie Posts: 1,723 Member
    Morning all, I gave in to a craving and ate just before I went to bed a Little Debbie chocolate/peanut butter bars.. I was so. upset at myself, but I have to pick myself up and move on. I didn't exercise yesterday...but I did move furniture in my kitchen/living room. LOL

    @trooworld Yea on the loss. I am so grateful for zoom and other technology that we have to connect us in our world today. I will look at the recipe thanks!!!

    @fabgeekmom So sorry she had a toxic experience, but happy for her and you she found a solution. You know it seems we have more people "come to us" now, like door dash, uber, etc. I hope you have a good day today!!

    @theslightedgeforever No I am not tracking sugar, but I will start today. As mom always said forewarned is forearmed. LOL. I am not interested in eating raw veggies..LOL. Kind of like asking me to take medicine that doesn't taste good, I won't. LOL

    cbabie

  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @cbabie Sometimes we give into the cravings. You’re right to get back into it. Tracking sugar helps. @trooworld I’m small in that area and it still hurts. I feel like my whole shoulder goes in the machine. But it’s quick which helps. Good job on donating platelets. I hope you don’t get sick I can’t donate blood as I have a blood disorder that is treated with medication. I’m sure the zoo will be fun. Hi, all. DH and I are going to the botanical gardens this morning. I’m looking forward to seeing the hydrangeas and roses. I’m cooking dinner tonight using an ATK recipe. My son-in-law and granddaughter are coming over.
  • cbabie
    cbabie Posts: 1,723 Member
    Morning all, well yesterday didn't go as planned. I ate 3 servings of ice cream. I did exercise though, so partial bonus. LOL. I am trying to figure out how to "make" myself use our pool this summer for exercise. It is so hot here right now and I am sure will only stay that way now until at least September.

    @trooworld good for you for getting a mammogram even though you know it hurts. I don't remember mine ever hurting, even though I know for most women it does. I don't know what makes it hurt or not hurt. I know you love the zoo...enjoy it...although isn't it like blazing hot where you are? (or is that just us) LOL. I got sick one time giving blood, not sure why as usually it didn't bother me.

    @fabgeekmom I am sure you will enjoy the gardens. I bet it's beautiful right now. Enjoy your son in law and grand daughter..what fun. (well not the cooking part ) LOL. I didn't track my sugar. I know I need to. It will probably make me think twice about that ice cream. LOL

    cbabie
  • theslightedgeforever
    theslightedgeforever Posts: 2,483 Member
    @fabgeekmom Almond milk. No. Just reading the words make me go "blech" But I didn't used to like the taste of coffee so there's possibly a chance. I will add it to my try list. Yaay on the pool being open. I haven't donated blood in years. I kept getting denied because my hemoglobin was too low but now I'm menopausal so maybe that won't be a problem anymore.

    @trooworld Read my post to @cbabie about crisp foods. lol Woohoo on your weight loss.

    @cbabie So as @trooworld pointed out we don't like crisp foods. Why do you think that is? I do like raw carrots. Chips and crackers, pretzels. Those are crisp. lol But give me bendy bacon and chewy cookies. Chewy pizza. Even my toast cannot be crisp. I prefer pancakes over waffles.
    So on the pool... You have to break it down into small steps. 1) Set a time everyday for the pool at the same time. Kids like routine. Like in school they have a flow to their day. 2) go put on your swimsuit and everyone else's too. etc. What if you were to use a smaller bowl for your ice cream? Like a small ramekin. You could have 3 servings and still eat less sugar than what you are doing now. If you are tracking ALL your food in MFP, then the sugar grams are already tracked for you. You just have to go look.

    Exercise done for the day. Last couple of days I haven't done anything.
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @trooworld That sounds like a great day! Lots of steps and good food choices. Salmon is always good. The challenge is a good thing to do. Hi, all. The botanical gardens were nice. It was cool when we were in the shade but hot when we were in the sun. The hydrangeas were awesome. We were too tired and hot to look at look at the roses but we got a quick glance at them on the way to our car. My dinner was good. I was pleasantly surprised to see that 4 servings were actually 6. So less calories and leftovers for next week. Tonight I am doing a slow cooker pulled chicken recipe. I’m doubling it to have leftovers. I will give my son-in-law some to have for the week.
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @trooworld The lake looks so peaceful. Too bad you had trouble with Violet. Dogs do get excited to see people. The turkey meatloaf sounds good. I have several servings in the freezer. I totally get the ice cream bars. That’s hard to resist! My Achilles Heel is when my son bakes something from ATK. Hi, all. We went swimming after breakfast and now are on the patio. It’s a bit cooler and peaceful. Lunch was last night’s chicken with coleslaw and fruit. I’ve been eating more fruit lately as everything is in season. Tonight’s dinner will be leftover pasta from Saturday.
  • theslightedgeforever
    theslightedgeforever Posts: 2,483 Member
    edited June 2024
    @trooworld I like your new challenge. It's good you have it all planned out. Yaay on your steps. Ice cream bars: for next time, could you bring a lower calorie substitute although I'm wondering was he carrying a cooler or something? lol Maybe reduce the calories earlier in the day and just enjoy the ice cream with him? Lifestyle changes. In the future there will be more walks and more snacks. How can you fit it into your plan? The lake is gorgeous. So peaceful.

    @fabgeekmom I love hydrangeas. What's your favorite color? Pulled chicken sounds nice. Baked goods are hard to resist. I did well the other day. Dh and I went out for coffee and he got the banana bread to share. I kept looking at it saying it's probably dry. I took one bite and nope wasn't dry. lol But it also wasn't WOW so I said that's enough. There are so many things I would like to bake but keep telling myself I don't need it. I do miss baking though.

    I went and got my roots done so now I feel much better. I'm sure look better too. lol Today's exercise was 30 min of a hill/sprint program and my usual 20 min sunshine stroll when I wake up. I got a compliment from hubby today. He had come up behind me and said my rear was smaller. So while the scale is not moving at all, I guess some progress is being made. I've made a broccoli cauliflower apple salad for dinner. I added some walnuts for the brain. I have finished up the Build Healthy Habits meal plan and will begin the Macros plan. I have planned out my 3 veggies and my 3 fruits for the day.
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @theslightedgeforever I love all the colors of the hydrangeas but I think pink is my favorite one. Good job on only eating one bite of the banana bread. That’s hard but worth it. That’s cool that your DH noticed you’re getting smaller. The salad sounds good. The meal plans are a good idea. I think you like the structure.
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @trooworld Those are good strategies you mentioned. The meal looked good. Hi, all. It’s a little cooler today so my walk won’t be as uncomfortable as Sunday’s walk. I’m cooking for my SIL and granddaughter tonight. I’m following an ATK recipe for air fried butternut squash and pork loin. I cut up the pork yesterday so all I have to do is add the other ingredients. I couldn’t find pre cut butternut squash so I have to peel and chop one up. I’ll put it in the microwave to make peeling easier.
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @trooworld That’s good that there aren’t temptations at work. Hi, all. My meal was good last night and we have leftovers for tonight. My DH picked some yellow squash from the garden that I will prepare tonight. Today is a swim day.
  • cbabie
    cbabie Posts: 1,723 Member
    Morning all, I haven't done really anything this week. Somehow I tweaked the knee I broke years ago and it triggered my RSD in that leg/foot. Living off of Tylenol...UGH. The scale is tweaking up..so time to stop eating and move regardless. I can't get in the pool during the day as I can't use sunscreen. Mary Kay just came out with one and I need to try it on my chest to see if I break out..just waiting on the leg to subside. LOL.

    @trooworld great job on your walks, food, you are doing great at rephrasing things in a positive manner.

    @fabgeekmom Don't make too many good meals your family will think they don't need to cook anymore..LOL. Sounds like you are doing well and making good choices. Yea for you!

    @theslightedgeforever Thats great DH noticed and said something to you. Also that he didn't add a comment like you could lose more if you did..>LOL. That would be my DH. So proud of you.. as far as the soft foods, I don't know maybe because mom didn't have any crisp food when we grew up? (except uncooked pasta) LOL

    Cbabie
  • theslightedgeforever
    theslightedgeforever Posts: 2,483 Member
    @fabgeekmom Yes I love structure. If I didn't have it I wouldn't do anything but what I wanted. Interesting on the microwaving of the squash. I was just going to halve mine and then cut after roasting. Then leave the other half for a later time.

    @trooworld Funny thing about ice cream. Yesterday we were out and about and dh stopped for ice cream. I didn't let my eyes rove over all the flavors. I didn't want to see my favorite. I headed straight for the No sugar flavor and got a kids size scoop. Meanwhile dh got 2 baseball sized scoops. Then kept saying want some? want some? Food pusher. lol Could you teach hubby to get you some kind of ice cream that is just a bit healthier somehow? So you get to enjoy the ice cream too. Better yet, you go in with him and choose. It adds some steps to your day. Your bowl looked good. Also the dressing recipe. That's great that tempting snacks aren't always around.

    @cbabie Although she always liked her pie crust burnt in my opinion and she would say mine wasn't done. lol Sorry about your knee. It's hard to exercise if your legs hurt. Did you try your sunscreen yet? Oh hubby has plenty of comments. Good thing I get to comment right back at him. I'm doing more now.

    I'm getting a little better at adding in some f&V. I got in my 6 today.



  • theslightedgeforever
    theslightedgeforever Posts: 2,483 Member
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  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @cbabie Sorry about your knee. Can you do some upper body workouts? That’s what I did when I was recovering from my femur surgery. @theslightedgeforever I also love structure. Good job on the ice cream selection and getting the f&v.
  • Babytessie01
    Babytessie01 Posts: 7 Member
    Hello, just quit WW as well. Looking for something that gave me a calorie count. With WW I saw my portion size, the MFP I see how much I'm actually eating! Yikes, I'm eating a lot! Just a lot of calories, in one day, I am already changing my way of eating, AGAIN!
  • cbabie
    cbabie Posts: 1,723 Member
    Morning all, I didn't do anything yesterday. I lived off tylenol, more than I like to take. I did however track. I was over in calories, but not by much. So that is a win for me...just to know I tracked..LOL

    @trooworld That's good you can track it as your cafe visit. RSD is now called Complex Regional Pain Syndrome (CRPS), but it stands for Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy. It's a nerve pain that goes from my knee all the way into my foot. I go to the Dentist on Friday..LOL

    @fabgeekmom Yes I could do upper body..it's just the pain puts me in a cranky edge. I know I should, but it's the pain that keeps on giving until it settles down. LOL. I crocheted, does that count as upper body movement? LOL

    @theslightedgeforever LOL food pusher...I am sure you comment back. Maybe he thought he was at Wrigley's field when he ordered the ice cream. :open_mouth: My food never looks that pretty. LOL

    @Babytessie01 Welcome to this group! Glad to see you found us. Yes its amazing what you see when you track! Good for you for tracking!

    Cbabie
  • Babytessie01
    Babytessie01 Posts: 7 Member
    @trooworld that salad looks so good! Thank you for sharing. I'm finding that my stomach is bloated. I'm trying to figure out why. This is before MFP. I've been trying to heal my gut, I suffer from diverticulitis and G.E.R.D. I'm gassy and bloated lately, so frustrating. I get hungry but then I feel so full. Has anyone had experience with before, any suggestions?
  • fabgeekmom
    fabgeekmom Posts: 990 Member
    @trooworld I hope the dentist appointment went well. I don’t like going either. The snacks at the cafe sound good. I love RX bars. The ice cream solution is a good idea. Yasso bars are good, too. The chocolate fudge has 80 calories. @Babytessie01 Welcome to our group. I think counting calories is easier than points. Calories are universal and don’t change. @cbabie I understand that when you are in pain it’s hard to exercise. Do what you can. I hope you feel better. Hi, all. Today was a good day. I went for a walk, rode my recumbent bike and went grocery shopping. Dinner tonight is leftover pasta.