WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JULY 2024

grandmallie · July 1

Hidee ho all
Got the tax bill for the car and its for eqinox so its not bad but again the darn bank is overdrawn again twice in 2 weeks.. my social security wont drop until Wednesday.
It is what it is.
Im watching Miles for a couple of hrs the next couple days.

TerriRichardson112 · July 1

Rebecca: What fun you will have on your travels.

Heather: I am beyond impressed by the progress you have made. It must be so good to have your independence back.

🤗🤗🤗 and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.

🙋‍♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.

☘️ Terri

OregonMother · July 2

Today visited my favorite place in the whole world. Crater Lake. Hubby and I had a spat because I felt he was rushing me. But I think we're good now.

Bad wifi, resort doesn't have it all, so will have to post pictures later.

At diamond lake "resort" now. We are in a "vintage" cabin, which basically means they don't take care of it, but it is clean and on the lake, so it's fine.

Flea
Willamette Valley OR, currently in the high Cascades.

LisaInArkansas · July 2

GodMomKim · July 2

Hi Gals,

Nora Roberts also writes as JD Robb - different premise but similar writing style. I have enjoyed both.

Well, my trip to mom’s was much better than I expected! She was much more receptive and calm and organized in her thought process. – It did occur to me that she called about 9pm and I do not know how many martinis she had had, or if it could be some sundowner issues. Or a combo! She claims to have one martini in the early evening, but really a martini for her is an 8 ounce water tumbler filled with ice, then 1-2 shots of gin and topped with water, she adds to it a bit at a time, some gin some water but never lets the glass get empty so that makes it just one. She is probably an alcoholic or borderline but at 95 years old with a bit of dementia it’s one more fight I am not choosing to have.
I ended up with some clarity on what her goals were and why and was able to give her a legal option so time will tell on what she will do.

Rebecca – glad to hear you will travel to see family, it is important to you to see everyone, and some times we just have to do more than ½ the work to get what we need.

Rita – so I have questions about the stuffed shrimp – It looks like the shells are still on the shrimp that seems like messy eating. And what size shrimp are they? It seems like a lot of work and mess unless the shrimp are the great big ones.

Today was 91 (33 C) plenty hot for me and it is our cool day for the next 5- 6 days, tomorrow is to be 102 (39C). I am working the fans and opening windows at night as I do not have AC. But it made me think of you Lisa when you said how much the window cling stuff was helping. I looked it up on line and there are a hundred, million, trillion choices (ok that is an exaggerated count LOL) You said you were saving a bunch of degrees (9? cooler) and I wondered which you picked, does it cling to the inside or outside??? Will you take it down in the winter? I have double paned windows and read something about too much heat and the windows cracking…… I have questions!!!

Thinking of you all,
Kim in N. California

kymarai · July 2

Happy July!
I played, napped, and played some more this weekend. CPAP going well. It is cellular bases resmed. The cushion they gave me has little nose things that irritated my nose so bad! I used on of my DH'S nose pieces last night. More episodes, but his is a medium. Calling today after bloodwork.

Welcome to the new ladies! I find this group brings me inspiration, support, ideas, happiness, and peace. I will admit that sometimes I feel lazy, but also know that I need that rest sometimes.

I am 61 y/o married for second time going on 15yrs. Been with him for 30 yrs. He has been legally blind for 29 yrs. I have two married daughters, one adult granddaughter, and 3 teenage grandchildren. Oh and two new kittens! I am in an okay weight range, though really would like to lower about 10 lbs. It just isn't my top priority these days. I do work in the family business 6 days a week for the past 26 years.

Took 3 jabs to get two vials of blood this morning! Ouch! Did get cpap supplies straightened out. Worked. While DH was getting massage after work, I ran errands. Picked up kitty litter and batteries. Then went to Sephora. I haven't worn makeup but once in past 5-6 years. I just didn't like anything I had. I also think that it is a sign of better mental health that I even wanted to look. The lady that helped me was great. I basically got a tinted moisturizer, liquid blush, cream eye shadow, and a pencil lip color. Just enough to look finished, but not "made up". I am excited to use tomorrow.

For those dealing with dementia....each situation is so different. You are doing great!

Heather- it is so good to hear your happiness again!

I know there was more, but have been writing this all day.

Healing thoughts!
Welcomes!
Congratulations!
Thankful to Barbie for a fresh start!

Love to all,
Kylia sleepy in Ohio

OregonMother · July 2

Flea
Willamette Valley OR

Whidislander · July 2

Snowflake1968 wrote: »

Heather - I am more like you, I wish we had little shops like that. We do have a local butcher, but his location is very difficult to get in and out of. I shop at a local supermarket, but the cashiers are very friendly and we chat.
Rodger is like John, in and out of he goes at all. He is such a homebody, he doesn’t go out to do anything.
There are so many people living life in pain, it’s terrible. I’m so happy for you that you are feeling better.

What a lovely picture of you on the bus!

I can read the happiness in your writing now, I’m so happy for you to be getting back to your usual active self.

Lisa - I listen to music when I clean too. I just started another series on Amazon called The Baxter’s it’s a nice little story but the executive producer is Roma Downey and it’s a bit preachy

It’s good that Corey is seeing the sense in getting help when needed. So many people put it off too long.

Barbie - what a great visit you are having with Jake’s daughter and her family. I think I would like having family visit that way, in the area and dropping in.
I can’t believe it’s July already! Thanks for another month.

Lanette - I should be making some little houses and such to put on Marketplace. I’m very into the scrapbook for Kaitlyn right now though.
I have frizzy hair too. It’s such a pain. I have started using just a little bit of Aragon oil when I don’t want to wash it, I also have started only washing every 3 or 4 days, it has helped tame the frizz.

Kim - sorry your mom is now having dementia issues. I know at the manor a lot of the residents thought they were going to die soon, maybe they start dreaming or something about it.

Ginny - a weekend with no work! How wonderful.

Allie - Happy Birthday

Debbie - You t sounds like a nice visit with your mom.

Mcmillonmail - what should we call you? I love Nora Roberts and am anxiously awaiting for the next book in that trilogy. Night work came out last year. A male is the main character, in that one. I just finished Mind Games that came out in May. I reread her books over and over.

Rosemarie - I have watched the first few episodes of Elsbeth. I enjoyed that character on The Good Wife and The Good Fight. I have the episodes recorded that I still need to watch.

I think that we all need some touchy feely in our lives. I think when we have “all the time in the world” we can sit and think about what to do for hours and end up not doing anything. I do better when I’m busy and have deadlines and schedules.

I love your musical choices.

Machka - I’m surprised that anything has that much scent now too. I very rarely use anything with scent now because they give me migraines. I have never used hairspray except for special occasions because I never liked how it made my hair feel.
I’m glad you figured it out.

Annie - you sound very positive and upbeat. You’re handling things so well.

Margaret - what a beautiful way to honour your friend with your clothing choices and flowers. Sorry for your loss.

Beth - I’m sorry your mom is struggling so hard. It’s so difficult for you to witness I know. You’re handling it well.

Rebecca - I think your travel plans sound absolutely wonderful. I hope your son and his family are able to meet up. I think it’s a shame they don’t come visit but I understand the dogs are a problem. One reason we don’t have pets is because we like being able to go when we want.
I do think DH would do well with a dog.

I have notes from yesterday and today, I ended up doing 3 scrapbook layouts yesterday and then watched the last of The Baxter’s in the evening. I hope it is a show that continues. They dropped the first 3 seasons at once so it will probably be a wait.

Today is Canada Day I think we are going to go to a car show here on Main Street. If DH doesn’t nap too long, it’s only from 11-2.
I’m quite disappointed that there isn’t more going on here for it.
The sun is just popping out after raining since last evening.

Have a great day everyone
Tracey in Edmonton

What's frustrating is they have traveled to other places and not brought the dogs, so in my mind that reason should just be off the table, but son still makes it one. He has a right sure, but putting their pets first and always us second, or like never makes me sad sometimes. We have lived here since 2018 and they have not visited once. I have lost count how many times we he driven, or I have taken the train.
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa

JeanCricket · July 2

Haven’t posted here before but you all seem so wonderful wanted to join!

Hello everyone 👋🏼😊

I’m Jean and 63 years young. Have been on MFP for 10 yrs this week.

Currently up about 5-7 pounds and would like to get back to regular exercise routine to help drop those pounds.And less nighttime snacking!

I’m a full time caregiver for my 92 yr old Mom who now lives with my husband and me. Also my sister is newly widowed and is staying with us these past few months as she adjusts. I tend to be the ‘rock’ of the family.

Meanwhile I am facing some fairly daunting health news and have 2 rare conditions that were recently found after 2 years of being misdiagnosed with recurring pneumonia. Was pretty scared for a while there and went through lots of tests and procedures and lots of specialists. But now have accepted the diagnoses and have found excellent care at Columbia in NYC. And hoping and praying for the best and just wanting to laugh a lot and enjoy life and have a positive attitutde.

Lots to do but still want to focus on re- establishing my morning exercise - indoor walking and yoga mostly (so can do caregiving). Also get lots of exercise going up and down stairs as Mom is on first floor and kitchen is on second floor! I’m not able to do rigorous exercise but that’s okay. Did plenty of that in 20s, 30s and 40s.

Well hoping everyone is having a great start to July! We had spectacular weather here in NJ today and hope for more good weather coming up.

Hugs to all,

Jean

auntiebk · July 2

Today’s gratitude: Barbie and all the wise, compassionate, funny gals on this thread.
Thank you Barbie, just the fresh start I need.
Will go back later and catch up reading. Water system woes continue, wiring for new pump in cistern needs changing, cistern itself is very very low. No showers or laundry for us! Using bottled water to rinse dishes and vegetables. Wet Ones in both bathrooms for handwashing.
The upside is that it forced me to sign up at the gym, for the Better Bones and Balance class as much as for the shower.

More, later, lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD

Move more than yesterday, fuel better than yesterday, live NOW.
Open heart and mind before mouth.
2024: Strengthen: body, mind, heart-connections.

Snowflake1968 · July 2

Flea - I had to laugh at the “vintage” all in the wording. 😂

Kim - Glad you had a better visit than expected with your mom.
I have read any of her JD Robb books.

Kylia - Rodger and I went to a car show today and they had a Shelby there. I told DH about you. I told him you had other cars too, but didn’t remember what.

Rebecca - it would make me sad too. I get that. I’m had that problem with Kaitlyn for a bit, she would visit friends and think nothing of the drive and not visit me. I tried to remember what I was like at those ages and could remember times when I know I hurt my parents by not visiting them as often or as long as they would have liked. I regret some of those decisions now.
Ours were across the country though not within a little drive.

Barbara - that sounds like a pricy repair bill. I’m sorry you are having to deal with it.

Lauryn, Ryan and the Grands came out about 830pm and we went to see the fireworks. They were nice and the kids were happy so it was fun.
I am going to bed as soon as my feet warm up.

Tracey in Edmonton

cityjaneLondon · July 2

Great to see you all enjoying yourselves, Tracey. Precious moments ❤️ 😊

I walked up to the Post Office to send John's hat back. Google says it is 0.4 of a mile. On the way back, I called in at the mini supermarket to get feta and scallions. Couldn't resist asparagus! So, all in, I must have done 0.9 of a mile. I rested on a wall coming home, outside the Jehovas Witness church! My back is the main bother, but I managed ok.

I'm going to make the Skinny Taste Spinach and Feta pie for dinner. It's really a savoury cake. Haven't made it for ages! Michele, I know you used to make it. I thought of you on Sunday when I used the last packet of my shiritaki noodles in my curry laksa. I've got a new batch coming today.

I'm making the cake because I want to go to the Death Café this evening. I can eat my portion a bit early, and John can have his when he feels like it.
I haven't been for quite a few months now. I will get an Uber.

Love Heather UK xxxxxx

LisaInArkansas · July 2

GodMomKim wrote: »

Today was 91 (33 C) plenty hot for me and it is our cool day for the next 5- 6 days, tomorrow is to be 102 (39C). I am working the fans and opening windows at night as I do not have AC. But it made me think of you Lisa when you said how much the window cling stuff was helping. I looked it up on line and there are a hundred, million, trillion choices (ok that is an exaggerated count LOL) You said you were saving a bunch of degrees (9? cooler) and I wondered which you picked, does it cling to the inside or outside??? Will you take it down in the winter? I have double paned windows and read something about too much heat and the windows cracking…… I have questions!!!

Thinking of you all,
Kim in N. California

Kim - So glad your trip to your mom's was good... as far as the windows go, kinda boring for anyone not interested, but here's my answer:

It's almost impossible to figure out how much the tint is dropping the house degrees, but subjectively, the window air conditioners seem to be on less often than I would have expected at the nearly 100 degrees we're getting these days. They certainly are bringing much more light in than the blackout curtains, and I can still see outside, so there's that.

Regarding damage to the windows, the answer is, "it depends." I have double-paned windows throughout, and the three oldest ones already fog, meaning they are compromised and need replacing. That expense comes well down the priority list for us at the moment. Of the newer ones, only one is fogged, so I did the research. Of course!

What it boils down to is temperature and absorption. I'm using reflective tints, so there's no heat absorption in the tint itself, or very little. If I put on a dark, light-blocking, non-reflecting film that absorbs heat, because it's laid right on the glass, it could have damaged the inside pane by getting the glass pane higher than it's rated. All mine are reflective. The only other issue would be if there were massive, swift temperature changes, like desert or mountain living, where the temperature can drop or rise 30 to 40 degrees in a few hours. Reasonably slow temperature changes don't impact the glass. That said, ALL of them are going to say "Don't use on double-paned windows," to avoid liability.

Lastly - this is a film sheet, which, while in your hands, feels kind of like a massive version of the old film strips in non-digital cameras. When you strip off the backing, it is much less stiff, and pretty thick feeling. There's no adhesive; you just spray the inside of the clean window and the back of the film with soapy water, put the pre-cut piece on the window, and smooth it down with something like a squeegee. I'm actually using a plastic bowl scraper that has a flat side - it fits my hand and the small window panes like the 6x11 panes in my door. Thank goodness I only had one of those that is in direct sun! With 9 panes in the door, I felt like I was cutting forever...

I do have to say, I have no idea whether they will come off easily at the end of the summer, but I'm going to try an experiment. I plan to peel it off of one window in the back bedroom. Then I'll let it sit for a week or two and try to reapply the film, to see if it works. I'm getting so used to them that it may not be an issue, and I may leave them up year round. Haven't decided yet.

These are the ones I got, but I don't think one is better or worse, I just had to get reasonably inexpensive ones that were wide enough to fit my biggest windows and since they're cut to fit, of course they would fit all my smallest ones from there.
https://www.walmart.com/ip/RockRose-Anti-UV-Solar-Screen-Heat-Control-36-in-X-78-in-Window-Film/313269004

Barbara AHMOD - Oh my stars, I would struggle with not being able to shower. Glad you're able to soldier on through... but I'd be living in a hotel somewhere, hang the expense. Not having showers is at the top of the list of "reasons I do not go camping." 😁😬🤣

Jean in NJ ( @JeanCricket ): Welcome! It's a wonderful group of women, and we're always glad to add someone to the list. Keep coming back, chime in where you can, and as you've probably already realized, we have a number of caregivers in the bunch who are trying to keep themselves healthy while caring for those they love.

More in a minute, most likely,
Love,
Lisa in AR

Anniesquats100 · July 2

Good morning ladies!

Rita so glad you are losing weight. Yay!

Kylia glad the CPAP is working out.

Lanette great the your back exercises are reducing your pain.

Flea what a beautiful place! Enjoy!

Rebecca have a wonderful trip!

Jean welcome! It's so hard to be a caregiver and still take care of yourself. Several of us care for elderly parents.

Barbara that's one way to get to the gym!

Kim I read JDRobb too. But I prefer Nora Roberts books. I will have to think about why.

Dad just announced he was going walking again. I can't go, I have to do laundry and get ready for his medical appointment. So he can't go without me. It's taking forever for him to lose the habit. I'm getting better at telling him no.

Yesterday I ate by plan until about five thirty. I tried to make Cole slaw for a snack, but it was awful. Not sure why. I ended up eating egg rolls instead and blew my calories. Today is a fresh start.

Have a great day my friends! May you be happy, healthy, safe and free!

Annie in Delaware

Anniesquats100 · July 2

Okay, got the laundry started.

Lately any walking brings up little aches and pains in my legs. It feels like I am getting too heavy for my joints again. I need to go back to five minutes on the bike. So I need to look harder at how to make that happen. Mornings are tough because dad is prone to leave the house, so I have to keep an eye on him as soon as he gets up which is anywhere from seven to ten.

Hmmm. Maybe I need to bring the bike upstairs. I will have to think about that.

Annie in Delaware

Machka9 · July 2

Snowflake1968 wrote: »

Machka - I’m surprised that anything has that much scent now too. I very rarely use anything with scent now because they give me migraines. I have never used hairspray except for special occasions because I never liked how it made my hair feel.
I’m glad you figured it out.

Have a great day everyone
Tracey in Edmonton

The heavy bit of hair, on my left side, that would fall in my eyes is held out of my eyes with hair spray. I put a squirt in there to hold that side up a bit, and give it a bit of a blow-dry. That's about all I do with my hair in the mornings.

I used a new hairspray this morning. I've still got a faint lingering scent of the old one because it takes more than one wash to get it out, but I was pleased that the new one had a brief scent when I put it on, and then the smell disappeared. I just have to work out how much to use - each hairspray is different. I just need to hold the one side out of my eyes.

AND ... no headache today!

M in Oz

Machka9 · July 2

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Machka9 · July 2

OregonMother wrote: »

Today visited my favorite place in the whole world. Crater Lake. Hubby and I had a spat because I felt he was rushing me. But I think we're good now.

Bad wifi, resort doesn't have it all, so will have to post pictures later.

At diamond lake "resort" now. We are in a "vintage" cabin, which basically means they don't take care of it, but it is clean and on the lake, so it's fine.

Flea
Willamette Valley OR, currently in the high Cascades.

Nice!

I was meant to go there back in 2004.

I had gone down to Davis, CA for an ultra-distance cycling event which didn't work out as well as I had hoped but it was an adventure.

Anyway, when it was time to go back to Canada, my plan was to catch an overnight train from Sacramento to Klamath Falls, then I think I was going to rent a car, drive over to Medford and stay overnight with people I know. Then drive to Crater Lake, cycle around the lake, and back to Klamath Falls where I would catch a bus to Vancouver.

Instead, I ended up staying overnight at the Sacramento Train Station because the train was that late. It finally turned up at about 7:30 am and by then my plans were out the window. I stayed on the train to Eugene, got a motel there overnight, then caught the bus to Vancouver from there.

And I missed seeing Crater Lake. I'd still like to see it one day.

M in Oz

Machka9 · July 2

GodMomKim wrote: »

Hi Gals,

Nora Roberts also writes as JD Robb - different premise but similar writing style. I have enjoyed both.

Thinking of you all,
Kim in N. California

I like both, but one issue with Nora Roberts is that she's got all these trilogies and I hate it when I read a book, and then discover it's the first or second of a trilogy. It's so hard to find the rest of the trilogy and leaves me with an unsettled feeling.

So I try to only read Nora Robert's single books unless I get into a trilogy by accident.

M in Oz

Machka9 · July 2

Anniesquats100 wrote: »

Dad just announced he was going walking again. I can't go, I have to do laundry and get ready for his medical appointment. So he can't go without me. It's taking forever for him to lose the habit. I'm getting better at telling him no.

Annie in Delaware

When you exercise regularly, you really miss it if you don't do it for a day or two. I start to climb walls!! I get so restless.

Maybe rather than him losing a habit, you'll gain a habit.

M in Oz

Machka9 · July 2

LisaInArkansas · July 2

Happy Canada Day to those celebrating!

Just relaxing this morning, letting the world slide off my shoulders because, after all, it doesn't belong there, now does it. 👀🤣

🌳Messaged the tree guy at 4:30 yesterday to see if he planned to show up... and he texted back to say they were just finishing up and then would be here. He never showed. Corey wasn't miffed about it, just said the guy overbooked, and it wasn't worth sweating. My husband is a much nicer person than I am, in many ways. The guy just texted and said he'll be out today to get it done. I know within reason that as soon as I step in the shower, that's when he'll show up. That's a corollary to Murphy's Law if there ever was. Should have taken a shower yesterday, but I procrastinated...

☎️ I also procrastinated yesterday about making phone calls that I need to make, because they're all medical, and it's always a hassle. I knew it wouldn't work when my gastroenterologist APRN wanted to refer me to a dermatologist and an ophthalmologist. Not because it's not possible, but because there was no way her office was going to check to see if the referral they made was to a doc that works with the VA. That's just beyond their scope.

⚕️So, the dermatologist's office called me yesterday to schedule, and of course, they don't work with the VA. I need to call the VA community care office, and I just dread making those calls. It's like trying to teach a pig to sing. Just wastes your time and annoys the pig.🐷I will just have to gird my loins (pork loins? Ha! Sorry, bad pun.) and do it anyway. I think, in the end, I'll have to get an appointment with my primary and get referrals through him.

And... that's about it for me for the day. Maybe some quilt work, maybe diving back into Three Against the Witch World by Andre Norton again. Taking me right back to the few good things about my teenaged years.

Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa in AR

cityjaneLondon · July 2

No Bea pick up today. She has a rescheduled violin lesson.

DDIL knew how disappointed we would be, so she's arranged for the girls to come over on Sunday afternoon.

They also asked John over on Saturday evening to watch the England football match with them. They didn't ask me. I wonder why.

He was pleased to be asked. The only problem is, there will be no beers! Only AF ones, which won't calm the nerves!

Just about to start the cake. I was so knackered after lunch, I had a nap for an hour and a half!

I'm worried about my friend G, who is in pain with her back. She is seeing a physio this afternoon. She has been on steroids for over six months. Also has sun sensitivity from Doxycycline. And exhaustion. I feel so helpless. She has made an appointment with the country's best expert on bullous pemphigoid, up in Harley Street, this month. She may get referred to Guys Hospital from him. Costly, for one consultation, but it makes her feel better that she is doing all she can.
She is hoping to go up to London on the train on Thursday to see her granddaughter, who is over from Singapore with her mother.

Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx

barbiecat · July 2

Machka9 · July 2

Tuesday

25 flights of 20 stairs up and 29 flights down.
Some walking - will have to check how far.
Lifted and carried numerous boxes full of books. Heavy!

Machka in Oz

margaretturk · July 2

Listened to another interview with Dr. William Davis author of Wheat Belly. He his background is in cardio vascular disease. He got in the study of the microbiome when his own mother died from heart disease. He is in the camp of eating a high fiber mostly plant diet with fermented foods and some meat. Ideally the meat comes from a healthy animal. There are microbes in the gut that help us live a healthy life and microbes that create illness especially if they get out of control. When some species die in our gut they create entoxins which create other nonsense in our bodies. He believes that wheat especially our modern wheat is not digested well by our bodies. Other grains also have their issues too. Rice flour which is often used in gluten free products can spike insulin.

When patients come to him he recommends a grain free diet. He does tell them there will be withdrawal symptoms. He is not in favor of a Keto diet because it does not feed enough of the good bacteria. You will notice a weight loss on Keto but being on it long term is not the answer.

My goal is to stay on the diet I am eating as best I can. No grains especially wheat, corn, oats..High in multiple kinds of veggies, herbs, and fermented foods used as condiments with small portions of the quality meats I can find. Ideally I would also include organ meats. Not quite there yet. No added alcohol (some fermented foods do have some from the fermentation process) or sugar if possible. Filtered water to remove Chlorine and Fluoride. Added a small amount of mineral salt to replace lost minerals.

No antimicrobial cleaning products little to no products that are aerosols or contain preservatives all of which kill off good microbes in your gut. I am also trying to reduce exposure to plastics. When possible I buy food in glass. Most meats are wrapped in plastic here. I try to remove and wrap in natural wax paper and or store in glass. Some of my habits I am trying to change may sound extreme but I have been exposed to so many toxins throughout my life I am just trying to lighten the load where I can.

I am noticing positive changes to my health.

GodMomKim · July 2

Hi Gals,

Lisa – Thank you! I knew you would have done all the research! Of course, Walmart is out of stock right now…but I will put it on the watch list.

I was thinking about whining about the heat, and then thought about Pip, it is 70F(21C) here at 7:30am but Pip is at 77F (25C) so I have nothing to whine about I better just be grateful. High today for me is 104 (40C) and Pip is 107 (41C) I think Debbie is close to my temps, but I am less sure what town to look up. And Tina the other California Gal is at the far southern part of the state and most of it is cooler this week, but I’m not sure of her location either.

I have plenty of embroidery work to do today, so tucked inside with a fan.

I am not sure how far the news has traveled but Patelco Credit Union was hit by a Ransome ware attack ( a computer based attack) and currently almost all banking is shut down. It is where I bank exclusively. So my access to cash, bill pay, atm and credit card is all very limited. All electronic payments in or out are stopped. This is a real bummer. It shouldn’t last more than a few days (I hope!) but it is making me consider diversifying my banking after this is cleared up.

Thinking of you all,
Kim in N. California

kevrit · July 2

@Kim. The shrimp were really Prawn and huge. When I found them, I first thought they were small lobster tails! The shells just practically fell off. Not as messy as you might think!

No food porn today. Ate at Wendy’s (baked potato with sour cream and chive with 4 chicken nuggets) Snack was cantaloupe, 1 cup with mixed nuts. Supper was celery with organic peanut butter.

Therapy went well yesterday. She says I should become a psychiatrist because of all the research I do. LOL. I send her info I find that I think she might like and she says what I send her she really likes and is useful to her. I told her I feel like we are colleagues rather than patient/doctor. She laughed and said sometimes it does! LOL. I really like this lady. She helps me and I help her. Works for me. Ps. I have too much anxiety to try to be a therapist. I would take on the other’s problems or get angry with them for whining. LOL. My tolerance is kinda low. I believe that instead of complaining, look for a solution. Or don’t tell me what’s wrong without giving me a potential solution. If someone complains to me, I tend to ask them what would they do to fix it. Usually stops them in their tracks! 😁 I use it on grumpy campers and works every time! LOL

RVRita in Roswell

okiewoman510 · July 2

LisaInArkansas wrote: »

GodMomKim wrote: »

Today was 91 (33 C) plenty hot for me and it is our cool day for the next 5- 6 days, tomorrow is to be 102 (39C). I am working the fans and opening windows at night as I do not have AC. But it made me think of you Lisa when you said how much the window cling stuff was helping. I looked it up on line and there are a hundred, million, trillion choices (ok that is an exaggerated count LOL) You said you were saving a bunch of degrees (9? cooler) and I wondered which you picked, does it cling to the inside or outside??? Will you take it down in the winter? I have double paned windows and read something about too much heat and the windows cracking…… I have questions!!!

Thinking of you all,
Kim in N. California

Kim - So glad your trip to your mom's was good... as far as the windows go, kinda boring for anyone not interested, but here's my answer:
It's almost impossible to figure out how much the tint is dropping the house degrees, but subjectively, the window air conditioners seem to be on less often than I would have expected at the nearly 100 degrees we're getting these days. They certainly are bringing much more light in than the blackout curtains, and I can still see outside, so there's that.

Regarding damage to the windows, the answer is, "it depends." I have double-paned windows throughout, and the three oldest ones already fog, meaning they are compromised and need replacing. That expense comes well down the priority list for us at the moment. Of the newer ones, only one is fogged, so I did the research. Of course!

What it boils down to is temperature and absorption. I'm using reflective tints, so there's no heat absorption in the tint itself, or very little. If I put on a dark, light-blocking, non-reflecting film that absorbs heat, because it's laid right on the glass, it could have damaged the inside pane by getting the glass pane higher than it's rated. All mine are reflective. The only other issue would be if there were massive, swift temperature changes, like desert or mountain living, where the temperature can drop or rise 30 to 40 degrees in a few hours. Reasonably slow temperature changes don't impact the glass. That said, ALL of them are going to say "Don't use on double-paned windows," to avoid liability.

Lastly - this is a film sheet, which, while in your hands, feels kind of like a massive version of the old film strips in non-digital cameras. When you strip off the backing, it is much less stiff, and pretty thick feeling. There's no adhesive; you just spray the inside of the clean window and the back of the film with soapy water, put the pre-cut piece on the window, and smooth it down with something like a squeegee. I'm actually using a plastic bowl scraper that has a flat side - it fits my hand and the small window panes like the 6x11 panes in my door. Thank goodness I only had one of those that is in direct sun! With 9 panes in the door, I felt like I was cutting forever...

I do have to say, I have no idea whether they will come off easily at the end of the summer, but I'm going to try an experiment. I plan to peel it off of one window in the back bedroom. Then I'll let it sit for a week or two and try to reapply the film, to see if it works. I'm getting so used to them that it may not be an issue, and I may leave them up year round. Haven't decided yet.

These are the ones I got, but I don't think one is better or worse, I just had to get reasonably inexpensive ones that were wide enough to fit my biggest windows and since they're cut to fit, of course they would fit all my smallest ones from there.
https://www.walmart.com/ip/RockRose-Anti-UV-Solar-Screen-Heat-Control-36-in-X-78-in-Window-Film/313269004

More in a minute, most likely,
Love,
Lisa in AR

We had a few windows with broken seals. We had a bird hit and shatter a window so we had a guy come to replace the glass. He told us they can replace the glass and the gas in the leaking double pane windows. We had him fix all of ours for MUCH less than replacing our windows would have been. He also recommended we not replace our windows. He said we wouldn’t recoup the cost in energy savings in our lifetime.

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