Men...... Grrrrrr

get it girl!!! we can dothis!!!

I'm confused too I missed the part where he sweet talked you into the binge I guess. So... Of course it's his fault. :grumble:

Sounds like you have a fear of LTR...so you decided to eat to avoid starting a relationship??? Just throwing it out there cause I use to do the same thing.

Men...and they say we're confusing, pffft!

baffling...

Enjoy the company of your cats.

Yep. Women fascinate me. So many embrace the beauty of feminism and then do absolutely everything possible to negate anything the movement has done.

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Hey now, I resemble that remark!

Men, can't live with em, can't kill em!

to the guys that are "confused" and "dont get it"....im gonna TRY to explain....:)
So, the guy is all sweet and full of compliments and "i want you Back".....the binge of food and emotional upset is due to the fact that it took her to lose weight and possibly change her ways and Now she's lost weight, looks good, and he's probably lonely, (and needs "fulfillment" in his life) it ticks us off, *kitten* kissing does nothing for us, especially after we've been hurt. (clear as mud?!?!)

sweetheart, an ex, is an ex for a reason! no need to let him upset you and make you run back to unhealthy eating....

Ive been thru the same thing in the past, and i think getting compliments from a complete stranger does more for me than to hear it come from an ex, or someone who's hurt me in the past....

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Well of course we can! She has a deep fear of getting into a long tern relationship....so she did the first thing she knew to sabatoge it, emotional eating binge...
She just needs to come to terms with that.

I was agreeing with your quote then making a comment about the original post.

See what happens when you drink heavily?! I'm still lost, but I will agree in an attempt to save face.

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Hey now, I resemble that remark!

Men, can't live with em, can't kill em!

Trying to figure out the mind of a woman is like trying reassemble a book that went through a shredder: It can be done but not without totally blowing your own mind in the process.

What the balls is this about?

EMOTIONAL EATING....and that for us women, men are usually the reason why we do it.

Lol, sorry, just being honest!

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Well of course we can! She has a deep fear of getting into a long tern relationship....so she did the first thing she knew to sabatoge it, emotional eating binge...
She just needs to come to terms with that.

Also, if you read what I just quoted, the person responding was trying to tell OP they "should" binge. Being someone who has struggles with binge eating since at least the beginning of high school, I think that's some bull**** advice.

I do not miss being single.