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My mother-in -law told me "You're really starting to pork out there aren't you".

I was 7 months pregnant. Who calls a pregnant woman fat.

being asked by three separate people if I was pregnant.... I'm not.

Not necessarily rude... but humiliating.

I have gotten that alot too! I hate it.

So at my sister's bridal shower this pasty July. After I'd lost 120 lbs,I found a gorgeous halter top flow-y sort of dress, and I wore it thinking I looked pretty dang good. My mom's co-worker (female) comes up to me and goes: "Hey, you're looking skinny. But where did your boobs go?" Are you freaking kidding me. I was ready to throw a punch. Don't talk about my boobs like that. I still have some, thank you very much.

That is all.

"you'll die a virgin because tour that fat you'd break the bed even trying to have sex. Oh and your health problems are all a lie so you can sit on your fat as all day and do nothing because all you want to do is stuff your face with greasy chicken all day long because that's all you know. Oh and by the way your boyfriend doesn't really love you as soon as you say you don't want to have sex because you "want to wait" he will dump your lard *kitten* so why dont you go drown yourself in grease"

This made me cry. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that.

This was a hard read, it brought up so much anger and hurt. I read every post though.

The first when I was a kid, I slipped on the ice and cracked my head on the ground, my dad said, "If you weren't so fat you wouldn't be so clumsy." I was 11. The other kids and my brother heard it, we were being picked up from school, they never relented. Ironically, the old man fell on the ice the next day and broke his ankle. After that day my mother made it her personal mission to destroy my self esteem. Anytime anyone would tease or call names at school/church/home she would tell me if I didn't want to be teased I should lose weight. Never helped me in any way shape or bloody form, just run her d@%^#%d mouth.

Recently I had a very bad sinus infection and couldn't see my Dr. so I went to a clinic. The nurse came and did the initial part of the exam and then told me, "Sorry, for the delay. We had to call the zoo to borrow their scale." I said something about pulling the wings off of a fly and intimidated her out of the exam room, I wasn't exactly speaking in a calm and reassuring voice. The cops were called, it was nuts. I think she was fired. I told my mother about the incident and she says, "Well as big as you are it's probably true, they probably did have to call the zoo."

this makes me so sad. but happy too, because all of you have come out on top! i don't remember anyone ever saying anything about my weight that hurt my feelings. i'm the one who grabbed my rolls and cried.

When I first started to lose weight, someone at work had asked me about it and I told them that I had lost 15 pounds. My boss had said he couldn't tell at all and that I still had flabby arms, and that my pants could barely hold my butt in. I was absolutely humilated and went and cried in the parking lot. I'm now down 34 pounds. It may have taken a while to get it all off, but I don't have flabby arms anymore

When I first started to lose weight, someone at work had asked me about it and I told them that I had lost 15 pounds. My boss had said he couldn't tell at all and that I still had flabby arms, and that my pants could barely hold my butt in. I was absolutely humilated and went and cried in the parking lot. I'm now down 34 pounds. It may have taken a while to get it all off, but I don't have flabby arms anymore

Woo! Your progress is awesome, you should be so proud

the worst has been by my husband of 21 years, a few months ago he told me that my weight grosses him out that i let myself get comfortably with are relationship that i shouldn't eat anything but water for 30 days and that i will lose the weight.. i wish it was that easy.

Throughout my childhood my nana constantly reminded me how thin and slim my friends were and how I should look like them. She was always giving me books and stuff to try and get me to go on diets, and a couple years ago she gave me a set of scales for Christmas, and said "maybe when you start losing weight i'll get you something better." Also, constant remarks from my brother. Basically that I'm a fat *kitten* who needs to stop eating because we never have any food left by supermarket day. That I'm a useless fat *kitten* who doesn't do anything but cut herself and sit on my *kitten* all day.

Yeah, because I totally sit on my *kitten* all day, even though I work on a farm 5 out of 7 days a week? Yeah, right.

Aw......big hugs to you. Hang in there. :flowerforyou:

being asked when i was due ( i think that happended atleast 3 times in a year) some people find it difficutl to understand how i gained 80lbs in under a year.. :? im really not sure either. and my dad said "i dont mean to sound like an *kitten* but your fat and im afraid domynic ( my son) is going to think that that lifestyle is acceptable" lose some weight before you die.. i know for a fact my son will not be fat hes 5. 4ft tall and 55 lbs doesnt have an ounce of fat on his whole body and his dad has never weighed over 150 lbs and until a year ago i never weighed over 140.

Throughout my childhood my nana constantly reminded me how thin and slim my friends were and how I should look like them. She was always giving me books and stuff to try and get me to go on diets, and a couple years ago she gave me a set of scales for Christmas, and said "maybe when you start losing weight i'll get you something better." Also, constant remarks from my brother. Basically that I'm a fat *kitten* who needs to stop eating because we never have any food left by supermarket day. That I'm a useless fat *kitten* who doesn't do anything but cut herself and sit on my *kitten* all day.

Yeah, because I totally sit on my *kitten* all day, even though I work on a farm 5 out of 7 days a week? Yeah, right.

Aw......big hugs to you. Hang in there. :flowerforyou:

Aw, thank you :flowerforyou:

I have to say, I'm shocked and deeply, deeply saddened at the crap some of you have had to listen to. The fact that some people (and many of them seem to be family members), could be so hurtful is just unbelievable.

I haven't had a 'fat' comment said to me but I've said plenty of $hitty things to myself about how I look. These days, I'm treating me like I want my kids to treat themselves. I have a nearly 13 yo daughter, and I'm well aware that she's watching me and taking notice. I want her to grow up confidant and strong, and loving herself.

It's all very good to say some of these people were only trying to motivate you, if they really wanted to motivate you, they'd cook healthier meals and eat them with you. Ask if you'd like to join them for a walk in the evening. Spend time with you, build up your self esteem.

As for the school bullies.....no doubt they felt as ugly on the inside as the words they were spewing at you were. It doesn't excuse it. It was wrong. I just hope you all find peace within yourselves and know that those words don't define you. They never did. You're all brave, wonderful people. Best of luck for all of your journies :flowerforyou:

the worst has been by my husband of 21 years, a few months ago he told me that my weight grosses him out that i let myself get comfortably with are relationship that i shouldn't eat anything but water for 30 days and that i will lose the weight.. i wish it was that easy.

Oh. Wow... I'm so sorry. If it were that easy everyone would be doing it! That's just so hurtful *HUGS*