What are your "Turn-Offs"?

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  • 3GKnight
    3GKnight Posts: 203
    Quite a few people have mentioned how it's a turn off when someone treats a waiter/waitress poorly. Does that happen a lot? I've seen people kind of ignore them, but that's usually because they're having a conversation. Can't say I've ever seen a case of blatant disrespect or poor treatment.
  • kouzzzz
    kouzzzz Posts: 540 Member
    Smoking is a big turn off for me.
  • kouzzzz
    kouzzzz Posts: 540 Member
    Negative people. (complaining a lot, telling unhappy stories, bad things from the past, etc)

    That's really about it.

    Oh, and lazy people.

    Funny picture!
  • Xtina_Beba
    Xtina_Beba Posts: 218
    dishonesty
    negativity
    arrogance
  • jamaka1
    jamaka1 Posts: 412 Member
    arrogance
    being rude
    selfish
    pants below butt
    gossipers:angry:
  • MamaMayo
    MamaMayo Posts: 30
    "But a turn off for me is a woman who thinks she has to have a job and contribute just as much to the bank account as the man. Stay at home mom/home maker, is a honorable and tough profession. Doing something like that would kick my *kitten*." ~3GKnight
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    God, don't I wish my husband could see the light like this man! Instead, I have one that thinks he doesn't have to contribute to household chores because he works full time, as I only work part-time but am a full time mom. My biggest "turn off" is when a man thinks he can have "it" anytime he wishes, why because he's in the mood...Go figure!

    What happen to having respect for us women, for who we are and what we do and the changes that we have made not for you but for ourself and to set a good example of healthy living for our children!
  • honeysprinkles
    honeysprinkles Posts: 1,757 Member
    what exactly do you mean by "thinks she has to have a job and contribute?" does that include someone who has a passion for their career and would not be satisfied staying at home? I'm honestly asking, because it's your opinion so you're entitled to it.

    I wish we could use italics on these posts. I would have italicized "has to".

    My opinion is very much colored by my experiences. My ex-wife had this idea that she was less than a wife or mother if she didn't have a job and contribute monetary income to the family. We had 3 kids, a house, and I had a good paying job. She never liked her jobs, so it wasn't an issue of having any passion for a particular career. No matter how much encouragement to the contrary, she would always feel bad about not making money during those times she wasn't working, even when we weren't hurting for money.

    I hate making her an example, but that's what I'm referring to.

    A turn on for me would be a woman with a passion about her career. Hey, if you love something, why not make some money at it?
    Oh, okay. I can understand that.
  • CommandaPanda
    CommandaPanda Posts: 451 Member
    Military women.
    Chewing with mouth open.
    Talking with food in mouth.
    Body odor.
    Promiscuity.
    Stupidity.
    Pretentiousness.
  • SerenaFisher
    SerenaFisher Posts: 2,170 Member
    H'm my old turn offs would've been
    bad teeth
    facial hair
    no confidence

    Now if I were looking it would be more
    bad credit score
    poor job history
    bankruptcy! (RED LIGHT RED LIGHT)
    and bad teeth :p
  • Soulshine_Girl
    Soulshine_Girl Posts: 12 Member
    I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.


    Choking on my coffee is completely worth it - thanks for the laugh!
  • Soulshine_Girl
    Soulshine_Girl Posts: 12 Member
    Just here to take notes.

    Ha! Love it.
  • Natalie49
    Natalie49 Posts: 210 Member
    EXTREMELY SKINNY pants/shirts...
    Bad teeth..
    talking too much about sports..
    lacking a sense of humor..
  • katya73
    katya73 Posts: 464
    Arrogance
    Dishonesty
    Constant gum chewing .. Eww !!
  • stayxtrue
    stayxtrue Posts: 1,186 Member
    EXTREMELY SKINNY pants/shirts...
    Bad teeth..
    talking too much about sports..
    lacking a sense of humor..

    Ummmm I am guilty of skinny jeans hahahaha!!! I buy in the female section just so I can get them tighter! Oh my :S
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    rude
    cheap
    mean
    excessive drinking of coffee/alcohol or smoking
    extremely hyper
    selfish
    boring
  • jamja
    jamja Posts: 190
    - Rude to "help" or service personnel (maids, waiters, etc.)
    - Not reciprocal in interest in me, my life, activities, etc.
    - No job
    - Rigid in beliefs (religious, political, etc.) Gonna need you to respect the other sides of your own argument otherwise I'll think you don't know WTF you're talking about.
    - A lack of ambition
    - Felonious criminal record or recent misdemeanor.
    - Poor character
    - Dishonesty
    - Financially dirt-poor. (I've been struggling my whole life, and I've helped my partners up as far as I could along the way. I'm turned off by the idea of that financial burden.)
    This list is perfection.
    ^^ agree
  • chazbo35
    chazbo35 Posts: 79 Member
    When they turn babyish or make baby sounds.. HATE IT.




    HUH???????
  • chazbo35
    chazbo35 Posts: 79 Member
    EXTREMELY SKINNY pants/shirts...
    Bad teeth..
    talking too much about sports..
    lacking a sense of humor..

    Ummmm I am guilty of skinny jeans hahahaha!!! I buy in the female section just so I can get them tighter! Oh my :S



    Dude....wouldnt let that get out.....oh wait, too late!! LOL
  • nurse_christieyne
    nurse_christieyne Posts: 231
    smoking
    lying
    rudeness
    bad breath
    body odor
    arrogance
  • kristielouisa
    kristielouisa Posts: 27 Member
    ppl whose turn-ons include long walks to miscellaneous places.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: LOVE THIS!!
  • Swissmiss
    Swissmiss Posts: 8,754 Member
    I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.

    I LOL'd

    I also LOL'd
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    too little or too much confidence.
    Dishonesty
    Smoking
    No ambition
    Closeminded
    Pessimistic
    unintelligent
    Controlling
    uptight, cant joke or play around
    Clingy and needy are the fastest ways to run me off
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member
    Military women.

    At ease, there killer
  • MisterDubs303
    MisterDubs303 Posts: 1,216 Member
    too little or too much confidence.
    Dishonesty
    Smoking
    No ambition
    Closeminded
    Pessimistic
    unintelligent
    Controlling
    uptight, cant joke or play around
    Clingy and needy are the fastest ways to run me off

    So THAT'S what happened. :laugh:
  • yaddayaddayadda
    yaddayaddayadda Posts: 430 Member
    Spitting. Eww and eww.

    Totally disgusting! I agree!
  • _Bob_
    _Bob_ Posts: 1,487 Member
    Models, they are usually the example of arrogance, not all the time but most of them. basically stupid people and all the things they do. lol
  • gp79
    gp79 Posts: 1,799 Member
    Turn off...you know...when you look at that lady and you spot the "crazy eyes". It's time to break contact and run as fast and far away as possible. The other big one is bad breath matched with bad teeth.
  • crochelle17
    crochelle17 Posts: 93 Member
    well if its based on first impressions it would have to be if they have a bad haircut... forget it..... (what can i say.. i cut hair for a living.. :) )
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    Smoking.
    Not smelling good.
    Bad hair.

    So basically all things they can control.
  • Natural4Life
    Natural4Life Posts: 45 Member
    I hate when a guy is:

    Rude/Ignorant.
    Unable to help others in any situation.
    BORING in and out of the bedroom, never wants to do things... the TV is not meant to be watched all day =)
    Poor body hygiene.
    Un-helpingness? Is that even a word but a man who can't do a d*mn thing around house.
    Last and most disgusting... when a man um services himself? I know it's odd but I find it so disgusting and my biggest turn off haha thats what women are for?
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