What are your "Turn-Offs"?
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Include all of the previously mentioned points and add MATERIALISM. I cannot deal with someone who has to buy 'name brand' everything, and talk about it, brag about it, flaunt it. Literally turns my stomach. You can look good without spending the yearly income of a poor family on a pair of shoes. Just sayin'
I'd rather say having a girl marrying you for the sake of having a luxurious lifestyle...
Married a man who made BIG $$. Took none when I left, went back to school to become a nurse. Graduate in two days and I find myself madly in love with the best man I've ever known. He makes very little money, but WOW, he turns me on
Gotta love life lessons we have to learn the hard way! xo0 -
Discourtesy, poor personal hygiene, smoking, ignorance/close-mindedness, submissive/lack of personality, weak character.
Visually: piercings (including ears), long hair except in very exceptional circumstances, very bad teeth, and, as shallow as it sounds, you will have to work harder to get my attention if you are shorter than me when I'm wearing flat shoes. It's not an absolute, but...0 -
Cheaters
Does not take care of himself
Liars
Pretty boys ( lol not a bad thing, most girls like It : ). just not me)
If he is way to nice. Like to the point that he seems perfect o.0( if that makes sense)0 -
Smoking
Poor personal hygeine
Couch potatoes
Arrogance
Needy/Desparate
Selfish0 -
BAD BREATH. God, that turns me right off. Dirty OR long fingernails. Have you ever noticed guys who leave one fingernail to grow longer than the others? Absolutely terrifying and disgusting!0
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Cheap
Overly vain/narcissistic
girly hands - I never want to feel like I could be holding my own hand - blah
wishy washy
narrow minded
lazy
smelly0 -
Spitting totally grosses me out
B.O.
Dirty fingernails
Takes himself way too seriously
Trousers hanging off his backside showing most of his pants
and of course cheaters/liars0 -
1. Bad breath
2. Cracked heels
3. High pitch voice
4. Exposing g-string with low cut jeans (Nice to look at but I would mind sharing my gf's *kitten* with the public)
5. Playing hard to get
6. Manipulating people
7. Jealousy
I though guys LOVE the g-string peeking out?!?!?!?!?0 -
Immaturity
Disrespectful
Hot tempers
Big egos
Pretty boys
Spoiled men - used to having everyone else do *kitten* for them.0 -
Some of mine:
slouching
overly-possessive
being gross (one guy I dated didn't even have hand soap in his bathroom - gag)
guys who are so interested in the physical part, they don't seem to care about ANYTHING else
arrogance and cockiness
Those are the main ones.0 -
spitting
rude
self centred0 -
1. Being Ignored, 2, Self-Admiration 3.Paying too Much Attention to Other Women 4.Poor Grooming Habits 5. bad teeth 6. dirty finger nails 7.Bad Pick-Up Lines 8.When he tries kissing you while Being Drunk 9. Bad breath, 10. childish behaviour.....0
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I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.
LOL -0 -
Am I the only woman around here that likes "COCKy" guys?
I think there is a distinct line between cocky and confidence-
Cocky seems to mask insecurity a lot. Think about it, why project cocky unless you are worried about how people perceive you. Confident people have nothing to prove in life, hence the need not to act out, and self promote the way cocky people do. Behind EVERY cocky person, is an insecure poseur who acts out in defense, in fear of being exposed. Confidence is about being true to whom you are, not being afraid of putting yourself out there. Now that is SEXY!
Confidence is attractive. Arrogance (cockiness) is obnoxious.0 -
A woman who thinks it's her job to please everyone. Being hospitable is one thing (and an attractive thing) but not to the point of saying whatever she thinks people want to hear or giving things she doesn't have.0
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A person who isn't really listening. They're just waiting for a pause in the conversation so they can turn it back on themselves.0
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Am I the only woman around here that likes "COCKy" guys?
I think there is a distinct line between cocky and confidence-
Cocky seems to mask insecurity a lot. Think about it, why project cocky unless you are worried about how people perceive you. Confident people have nothing to prove in life, hence the need not to act out, and self promote the way cocky people do. Behind EVERY cocky person, is an insecure poseur who acts out in defense, in fear of being exposed. Confidence is about being true to whom you are, not being afraid of putting yourself out there. Now that is SEXY!
Confidence is attractive. Arrogance (cockiness) is obnoxious.
^^^ Nicely said.0 -
H'm my old turn offs would've been
bad teeth
facial hair
no confidence
Now if I were looking it would be more
bad credit score
poor job history
bankruptcy! (RED LIGHT RED LIGHT)
and bad teeth
Actually...Just some FYI. Many multi-millionaires have either gone bankrupt or been so poor they could only eat ramen at some point in their life. Donald Trump, for example, filed bankruptcy on one of his hotel chains.
Not such a big red light. Sometimes, you need to fail before you can achieve success. Now, turn that 'light bulb' on.0 -
Actually...Just some FYI. Many multi-millionaires have either gone bankrupt or been so poor they could only eat ramen at some point in their life. Donald Trump, for example, filed bankruptcy on one of his hotel chains.
Not such a big red light. Sometimes, you need to fail before you can achieve success. Now, turn that 'light bulb' on.
There's a big difference between being unsuccessful in business and failing so bad at managing your own personal finances that you have to file bankruptcy. A business going bankrupt is one thing, but not being able to manage your own personal expenses is quite another.0 -
Not having a sense of humor = huge turn off.
And lacking a sense of adventure = boring!
And people who take themselves too seriously = blech!0 -
1. Bad breath
2. Cracked heels
3. High pitch voice
4. Exposing g-string with low cut jeans (Nice to look at but I would mind sharing my gf's *kitten* with the public)
5. Playing hard to get
6. Manipulating people
7. Jealousy
I though guys LOVE the g-string peeking out?!?!?!?!?
Everyone I have spoken to about it hates it. It looks completely ridiculous.0 -
Am I the only woman around here that likes "COCKy" guys?
I think there is a distinct line between cocky and confidence-
Cocky seems to mask insecurity a lot. Think about it, why project cocky unless you are worried about how people perceive you. Confident people have nothing to prove in life, hence the need not to act out, and self promote the way cocky people do. Behind EVERY cocky person, is an insecure poseur who acts out in defense, in fear of being exposed. Confidence is about being true to whom you are, not being afraid of putting yourself out there. Now that is SEXY!
Confidence is attractive. Arrogance (cockiness) is obnoxious.
Absolutely. I am attracted to people who are quietly secure with who they are, not the ones who feel they have to bray about who they are to anyone who will listen.0 -
Smoking.
Too bad every single attractive girl in this town smokes. No, I'm not exaggerating.
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Live in Kentucky? Tobacco country. When we moved here I was surprised that sooo many people smoked. The parents even bought them for their kids! Unbelievable!0 -
Guys who are overly cocky and full of themselves - definite difference between confidence and cockiness.
Guys who are rude to the waitress - you can tell a lot about a person based on how they treat waitstaff.
Lastly no sense of humor. LOVE someone who can be silly and make me laugh0 -
Spitting
Whining
Entitlement
Conceitedness
Smoking
Acting foolish
Rudeness0 -
What women want in a man at age 25:
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises
10. An imaginative, romantic lover
What women want in a man at age 35:
1. Nice looking (preferably with hair)
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
10. Seeks romance at least once a week
What women want in a man at age 45:
1. Not too ugly (bald head is fine)
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends
What women want in a man at age 55:
1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn't borrow money too often
4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends
What women want in a man at age 65:
1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where bathroom is
3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Likes soft foods
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Remembers that it's the weekend
What women want in a man at age 75:
1. Breathing
2. Doesn't miss the toilet0 -
To name a few…..arrogence, no goals, lacking spontaneity, smoking, fowl mouth, unreliable, bad teeth0
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Not having a sense of humor = huge turn off.
And lacking a sense of adventure = boring!
And people who take themselves too seriously = blech!0 -
Include all of the previously mentioned points and add MATERIALISM. I cannot deal with someone who has to buy 'name brand' everything, and talk about it, brag about it, flaunt it. Literally turns my stomach. You can look good without spending the yearly income of a poor family on a pair of shoes. Just sayin'
^ AGREED!!0 -
What women want in a man at age 25:
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises
10. An imaginative, romantic lover
What women want in a man at age 35:
1. Nice looking (preferably with hair)
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
10. Seeks romance at least once a week
What women want in a man at age 45:
1. Not too ugly (bald head is fine)
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends
What women want in a man at age 55:
1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn't borrow money too often
4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends
What women want in a man at age 65:
1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where bathroom is
3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Likes soft foods
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Remembers that it's the weekend
What women want in a man at age 75:
1. Breathing
2. Doesn't miss the toilet
LOL LOVE this and it's so true! What I looked for in someone at 23 certainly isn't what I am looking for now0
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