Parents Please Wake Up

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  • ShadowSoldier23
    ShadowSoldier23 Posts: 321 Member
    I don't see how posting this was hypocritical. I don't want children to have to go through what I had to go through, that's it. Judging from your posts, taramaureen, you seem to be an angry individual and I'm not going to get into a childish argument match with you.

    I've been a part of this community for a while now and know that just because someone is here it doesn't automatically mean they are eating healthy and feeding their families healthy foods. If starting a post gets a few people thinking about making some changes then awesome. If it reaches no one, then that's ok, at least I tried. That is doing something. I also volunteer at the local food bank and try to help others learn more about nutrition. I'm doing what I can right now.

    I know you'll be tempted to retort with something biting and probably rude, but I hope you refrain. I really don't have any ill will against you and don't want to argue with you. I'm not here for that. :)


    I think it's hypocritical because you obviously need to clean up your own house first so to speak. Clean yourself up, then actually do something about what you're passionate about. Anything else is being a slacktivist.

    One doesn't have to be a perfect person to try and make a difference. :) I don't need to be at my goal weight to share my story and to try and help keep kids from going through what I went through.


    Making a difference does not entail railing parents on the internet. Why don't you try petitioning the schools for healthier meals? Or lobbying for better nutritional education for low income families?

    I havn't read through this whole post, but I just want to say that you can't trust the schools or the government to step in and take care of peoples kids. It's the parents responsibility. The "healthy" meals at school are garbage, I know I was in public school not so many years ago. The food groups are twisted...tater tots are a veggie? Parents have a huge influence on their children's health and lifestyle. I know when I am a parent I won't be feeding my toddler french fries...I had a friend who did that and her baby was over 60lbs by his 2nd birthday. It's sick to put a child through that.
  • speedycakes
    speedycakes Posts: 152 Member
    I agree with this. When i was a kid my dad would buy us candy and soda just to "make us happy". I was 180 pounds by the time i was 14. I turned it around after that. Other then being fat I didn't know the health risk associated with all the sugar and junk. After i learned the dangers and found myself disgusted by my image, i decided to make a change.
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  • abfit4life
    abfit4life Posts: 220 Member
    As parents we are here to guide our children. We are the first to define the values they learn. Most importantly we show them by our own example. So if we are not making good food choices ourselves, no matter what we say or no matter how much broccoli we shove at them, they will do exactly what they see us do. So I have been focused on setting a better example for them in how active I am everyday and how hard I try to make the healthiest food choices. Do I hit the mark everyday? NO! But everyday, I give it my best effort. We don't live our lives in a vacuum, they are influence by media and friends. All I can try to control is what happens in my home and where and when I spend my food dollars. My eating was out of control so I have had to set up healthier parameters for myself and that has had a positive impact on my entire family. What I have learned and try to practice daily is that life is not either/or, its about balance and moderation. This is what I try to teach my children.

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  • flabulous4
    flabulous4 Posts: 599 Member
    Agree. This year we have gone for a walk on Xmas day (as most years since kids came along). Kids have hoovered up a Xmas dinner with veg. Difference is this year they have also read Women's Running mag and Northern Running mag, and heard all about Mummy's Xmas Eve 5K, and seen Mummy's trail shoes and Pappy's cycling gear from Santa ;-)
  • Jessibear2854
    Jessibear2854 Posts: 82 Member
    I didn't read through all 500 posts of the other one, but I'm curious if the OP has kids? I think it's too easy to point the finger when you haven't walked in someone else's shoes.

    My son is only 3, but I have learned that my responsibility is to make sure healthy food is available to him and to structure meals and snacks in a healthy manner. He does get chips, pizza and candy once in a while because I believe that when you are too limiting, it makes kids want things more. He gets to chose between water and milk for his beverages (we only do juice as a very occaisional treat). He chooses what he wants to eat from what I present to him and eats as much as he wants.

    I'm proud to say that at Halloween, when my son went to a party where there was an overabundance of junk food, everyone was so impressed that he only ate about half a cookie and drank a little bit of juice. The other kids were pigging out or fighting with their parents over what to eat.

    So I think that yes, it's important to set your kids up for success by teaching them healthy eating habits; however, limiting them too much is not the way to do that. Also, it bothers me when people are so eager to blame others for their own behavior. Your parents probably did the best they could with the knowledge that they had at the time. Have some compassion.
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