Not Getting Hit on at the Gym

tkn11
tkn11 Posts: 276 Member
edited October 7 in Fitness and Exercise
Ok, so I've seen a LOT of girls on here complain about getting hit on at the gym and how annoying it is. They say gross sweaty guys come up and say stuff to them and all that, and no doubt that would be annoying.

But, am I the only one that doesn't get hit on at the gym? I've had a random person come up once or twice and say something to me....but that's like once or twice ever in my life. People stare, and that's definitely annoying, and I'd be peeved if someone interrupted my workout to hit on me too, so I'm not complaining, I guess I just don't have this problem! No one talks to me haha.

Anyway, thought it was wierd, seems to happen to everyone else!
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  • Sublimely_Self_Righteousreused
    Sublimely_Self_Righteousreused Posts: 935 Member
    I dont' get hit on ever. So don't feel bad! :)
  • toabetterlifestyle
    toabetterlifestyle Posts: 230
    Nope, never. People stare, which is kind of creepy, especially when it's an old sweaty man, but I've never been confronted or anything like that.

    and if someone came up to me and gave me a compliment while im all hot and sweaty, then i would take it as a compliment.
  • achief192
    achief192 Posts: 192
    I've never been hit on at the gym either :sad:
  • carrie_eggo
    carrie_eggo Posts: 1,396 Member
    Maybe you're too intimidating....seriously! There's no reason someone wouldn't find you attractive. Don't worry about it. :flowerforyou:
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    You're not showing enough skin
  • onefitdiva
    onefitdiva Posts: 331 Member
    I've never been hit on at the gym either :sad:

    We can change that....where do you work out???? :wink:
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    Happens to me ALL THE TIME. The price I pay for being inspiring.
  • tkn11
    tkn11 Posts: 276 Member
    To clarify -

    I'm not worried about not getting hit on at all! LOL

    I just saw repeated posts about it today and I was like hmm does this really happen to everyone? ha
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    I've been hit on at the gym once.

    By a woman.

    lol

    Whatevs ;)
  • sirihermine
    sirihermine Posts: 123 Member
    Haha... Ohh, it happens all the time!
    Not really...

    Who am I kidding? It has never happened...
  • yummy♥
    yummy♥ Posts: 612 Member
    I dont' get hit on ever. So don't feel bad! :)

    i can't believe this is true. you are so beautiful!
  • carrie_eggo
    carrie_eggo Posts: 1,396 Member
    Happens to me ALL THE TIME. The price I pay for being inspiring.

    OMG your pic! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • grapenutSF
    grapenutSF Posts: 648 Member
    I've not been hit on at the gym, either. Unless you count the older lady who put on goggles & ducked under when it was just the 2 of us in the hot tub. Not one of my favorite gym moments.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    It happened to me once many years ago, but he was actually very subtle about it and not gross. We ended up being kind of gym buddies, but nothing more.

    Hasn't happened in a long time, though. I am not at my most attractive in the gym. :-)

    I did get hit on at a bar Friday night, though.
  • sophjakesmom
    sophjakesmom Posts: 904 Member
    I've not been hit on at the gym, either. Unless you count the older lady who put on goggles & ducked under when it was just the 2 of us in the hot tub. Not one of my favorite gym moments.

    Very Creepy!
  • carrie_eggo
    carrie_eggo Posts: 1,396 Member
    I've not been hit on at the gym, either. Unless you count the older lady who put on goggles & ducked under when it was just the 2 of us in the hot tub. Not one of my favorite gym moments.

    Hmmm.....yeah. I would totally count that. High five!
  • missbethea
    missbethea Posts: 280 Member
    I don't get hit on at the gym, either. Yesterday a guy I had gone out on one date with came up to chat (after I had explicitly informed him I wasn't interested and had ignored his calls/texts for a month). Other than that, when I'm working out, nobody bothers me.

    I don't mind it, though. I don't like to be bothered if I'm working out.

    Staring doesn't bother me, either. Because I know that if I see an attractive guy lifting weights I'll check him out- so I'm not offended if guys check me out.
  • Jeffri210
    Jeffri210 Posts: 13
    Me neither! And don't mind haha
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    I don't, either. But having seen what I look like when I'm running, both in photos and unfortunate glances in the mirror while on a treadmill... I don't blame 'em!

    I don't have the eye of the tiger. I have the eye of the honey badger.
  • Dustinryan24
    Dustinryan24 Posts: 233 Member
    sooooo you come here often? lol
  • lynheff
    lynheff Posts: 393 Member
    I seriously doubt that anyone would hit on this 63 yr old grandma so that is not my motivation but I do belong to a women's gym. Not to keep guys away but because the equipment is lower, with smaller weight increments so easier for me to use. If you have problem with guys that is one solution. Hope that helps
  • kimoRUN
    kimoRUN Posts: 325 Member
    I have...by a dude....nothing against dudes....just not into dudes.
  • sdereski
    sdereski Posts: 3,406 Member
    Never been hit on at the gym - ever. But then, I'm old. :ohwell:
  • sophjakesmom
    sophjakesmom Posts: 904 Member
    It doesn't happen to me either, but that may be because my body pump instructor (a catholic school mom), decided that because my name was Mary, she would call me "sister". So now people think a I am body pumping nun. Not great for my love life, but kind of amusing. :ohwell:
  • Phoenix24601
    Phoenix24601 Posts: 620 Member
    The ONE time I got hit on at the gym it was at Lackland AFB and the guy was impressed that I was smoking him on the same piece of equipment that he was using. That's it.
  • cbear017
    cbear017 Posts: 345 Member
    I never get hit on at the gym...WHY not me! Sure, people stare but it's not the same :sad:
  • STR0NGisSEXY
    STR0NGisSEXY Posts: 128 Member
    not me! people stare... that's about it! i thought a guy was going to come up to me once... he was either just being really creepy... or chickened out!

    but i would hate getting interrupted during a workout, so i'm fine with that! lol.. but no, you're not alone!
  • liquidjem
    liquidjem Posts: 138 Member
    Yeah...I don't really pay attention to much at the gym, no one has come right up to me and that's where you would have to
    be for me to notice.

    I don't have the getting hit on problem...I'm ok with that. I too have read the stories!
  • bug1114
    bug1114 Posts: 268 Member
    I've not been hit on at the gym, either. Unless you count the older lady who put on goggles & ducked under when it was just the 2 of us in the hot tub. Not one of my favorite gym moments.

    LOL OMG!!
  • GorillaNJ
    GorillaNJ Posts: 4,024 Member
    It is awkward getting hit on in the locker room....
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