Question for women

a tad bit more bulky & slightly less cut makes for a good cuddle..strong but soft at the same time. I wanna see some nice muscles, just not too many.

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I think more on the cut side and medium bulkiness. I dont like when guys legs are super thick but not when they are skinny/scrawny either. I dont like huge arms either, it makes them look like the incredible hulk and it looks unnatural. They dont have to have an 8 pack either just some definition and a bit of muscle showing is good for me.

More bulky, less cut. I like to have something to hold on to and snuggle with...I never liked really thin guys...to date...lol

Opinons please, should I add more muscle,cut body fat or am I at the correct amount?

From what I see, you look awesome...I wouldn't change anything.

agree!

The lesson I learned from all the threads discussing women's preference is that most women prefer someone that is either

a. smaller than I'd like to be, or
b. carries more body fat than I'd like to

guess I'll never be anyone's ideal (not that it bothers me), lol

Your body looks great.

The lesson I learned from all the threads discussing women's preference is that most women prefer someone that is either

a. smaller than I'd like to be, or
b. carries more body fat than I'd like to

guess I'll never be anyone's ideal (not that it bothers me), lol

I had a look at your pics, your body looks slightly bulkier than how I like a men's body, but it's not something that would put me off of dating a guy with your body frame, As long as his intentions weren't to build up more bulkiness or become a body builder it would be great to have a nice strong guy for a partner

And my goal is to put on 10-15 more pounds of lean mass, lol. Like I said, nobody's ideal.

I like em squishy...like a big ol' teddy bear

I just want him to be smart!!!!

more cut less bulky

My husband has been 5"11 and fluctuating between 185-195 for the last 10 years. Not fat, but not cut either. I was pretty happy with his body. Then last year I lost a ton of weight and he started exercising to keep up with me. Right now he is about half way through Insanity with Shawn T. Now he is close to 180 and cut. I have to say, it spiced up our marriage a bit. I never thought he was fat, but when he got cut - Wowza!

I think it takes a whole lot more than looks, of course. But, when talking is over and it is time for romance, it sure helps when we both are at our best from confidence and a desire standpoint.

I would say, stay at a body that you are confident with. Girls can sense confidence and want that in a guy. Cut or bulky..I take either, as long as he treats me right and is a confident man.

I dont care if theyve got a body like yours :P

I prefer more bulky, less cut

Seconded on both accounts

I third that!

Just curious, do you prefer a man's body that is extremely cut and slightly less bulky or someone that is more bulky & slightly less cut?

yours looks pretty damn good to me

probably a little more bulky just because I am, and I'd feel too self conscious otherwise.

More bulky and less cut. I have always thought the man should look bigger than the women. Even if he is super cut, but very small and thin... he doesn't look like he could protect her. Plus, I don't like the super skinny look on a guy. Just my opinion! :bigsmile:

Personally I don't like bulky men AT ALL. I used to work with a body builder who had to turn sideways to walk through a doorway. Great for intimidating people (he's a cop) but gross to look at. Too much definition isn't nice either, I like men that are slim but not skinny with a little definition. But I guess I'm just fussy!

I don't believe in the whole 'men should be able to protect women' bull either, or is he can lift heavy stuff. I could floor my ex in the blink of an eye!

more bulky, less cut.