Wanting to lose weight, but likes the bigger guys...?

I get physical preferences...ok that's fine...some people like particular looks...but when you make generalizations like "chubby guys are/aren't better in bed" "muscular/skeletor guys are not as loving/caring as chubby guys" ....it's just idiotic. I'm sure I don't need to paint the picture any clearer by making a stereotype statement against women.

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I love bigger guys!!! You're totally NOT WIERD, I'm glad I'm not the only one. In the past, I haven't really gone out with a lot of beefier guys, I've wanted to, but it just never happened. I think it's the "feel safer," mentality I have with a bigger guy, I would definitely like meat on dem bones.

I don't think I have a type. I've dated muscular, large, short, tall, and skinny guys. My current boyfriend (of almost 2 years) is underweight, but I will love him no matter what he weighs. (:

Omg no. I'm exactly the same! I can't see myself with a small, thin guy. I don't even like an overload of muscles.

My hubby

you guys are seriously the cutest couple ive ever seen!!!!


ive always liked the idea of a tall, broad-shouldered guy. everyone has different things that particularly attract them, and those are mine. that said, if he has a great personality, im pretty open to all body types.

im sorta kinda really into Channing Tatum right now. i came across a pic of him (and by 'came across' i mean 'googled his name'), and in it he was maybe shirtless and jogging... :blushing: i wouldnt say he was chubby, but he was not 'ripped'. he was tall, broad shouldered, and had a soft abdomen. i really liked that he wasnt all abs. i just wanted to cuddle to hell out of him.

i also adore Kevin James!!

I get physical preferences...ok that's fine...some people like particular looks...but when you make generalizations like "chubby guys are/aren't better in bed" "muscular/skeletor guys are not as loving/caring as chubby guys" ....it's just idiotic. I'm sure I don't need to paint the picture any clearer by making a stereotype statement against women.

Agreed.

I can't stand skinny men. Men are supposed to be meaty. I want my guys to be healthy of course and would absolutely support their weight loss, but if he goes from fat to sucked up I would definitely lose interest. I probably wouldn't leave him or anything, but there wouldn't be a whole lot of sex going on between us and that is saying a whole lot comming from me.

I like this thread!!

For what its worth, most guys i know, myself very much included, prefer women with a bit of meat on the bones. Women should have curves. Skinny women have never done it for me.

Which begs the question "What the hell are we all doing here in the first place?!"

I can't stand skinny men. Men are supposed to be meaty. I want my guys to be healthy of course and would absolutely support their weight loss, but if he goes from fat to sucked up I would definitely lose interest. I probably wouldn't leave him or anything, but there wouldn't be a whole lot of sex going on between us and that is saying a whole lot comming from me.

Agreed. I am not attracted to skinny men at all. Even if they are gorgeous, it just doesn't do it for me.

Maybe it's my irish side... I like a man that looks like he could throw me around and beat the crap outta me. :laugh: :laugh:

I actually used to play rugby and I feel really big (like broad shoulders etc) even though I am in reality pretty petitie, so I like a guy that makes me feel little :happy:

When I say skinny I mean like a guess model size:



and when I say big I mean BIG like broad shoulders and tall, broad chest, not overweight, although I prefer a bit of padding:
Think.... wrestler.

I find bigger guys attractive to. They're generally not the guys I fall mad head over heels in crushing with but they're cute!!

Me too! I dated a few skinny guys and felt huge even when I wasn't Haha now my boyfriend isn't fat or even really chubby but he has a large build where he has nice big arms not too steroid gross looking but just right goshhh I love him lol!!!