Question for the guys: "Fake"women uncovered?

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  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
    Fake padding in bra = tricked. How'd you feel with a sock pushed down the jeans? Or top that gives the impression of a nice tight body under the clothes?
    It would make me hate him even more. I don't wanna be talking to a guy with a sock or ANYTHING pressing against his jeans. Huge turn off for me. And guys that looks like they brought their shirts at the baby gap? Big no no. I prefer guys with loose fitting graphic tees and jeans that don't cut into the crotch.

    As for the two-cup size bras...I saw them at Aires, and turned away quickly. I'm already a 34C and my bf things I'm a D-DD. I don't need to go to an E. Plus I don't like big butts so padded panties are useless.

    Now a boob job, that's something I want only for the lift. My boobs sag too low for my age and I really don't want to have to stuff them in a bra just to make them look fuller.
  • TeeferTiger
    TeeferTiger Posts: 136 Member
    Its not the size of the waves, its the motion of the ocean that counts.
    But yeah me and my coworker were having a discussion about this the other day at work, and its pretty unfair for men that they never know what is under all of our fakery.

    Surely tho the motion of the ocean is easy to achieve in a big steamer than a dingy tho ;)

    One of the big things I love about women but also shows how much a difference it can make is make up - wow, can make such a difference. My ex was pretty but when she puts make up on, she could have any many she wants.

    And you'd rather dig your garden over with a spade than a teaspoon! :laugh:
  • lisaslim1976
    lisaslim1976 Posts: 145
    I am lucky and have always had big breasts even when a size 10...they make me feel womanly. I can totally understand why someone would want breast enlargements if they have a small bust. However padding is temporary and doesnt deal with the issue if someone feels unhappy about themselves.
    I am also very lucky that I have a wonderful man who loves me (now heavier than when i met him), and isnt shallow enough to bother about bits that stick out where they shouldnt!!!
  • Picola1984
    Picola1984 Posts: 1,133
    I remember being a young teenager wanting extra padding in my bra and thought that breast feeding pads were made to do just that

    Wasn't until I showed my friend and she laughed that I realised what they were really for!
  • RAFValentina
    RAFValentina Posts: 1,231 Member
    FALSE ADVERTISING!
  • cassondraragan
    cassondraragan Posts: 233 Member
    But the padding isn't always just to make breasts look bigger. Some larger cup bras have padding too. Sometimes the padding is to round out the breasts. Not all breasts are the same shape and the padding can help shape your breasts so they fit more attractively in your top.
  • Sidesteal
    Sidesteal Posts: 5,510 Member
    If I were single and I brought home a woman with a butt-buddy or whatever you call the clothing item, and if she had a padded bra that added like two cup sizes, I'd be like:

    Hay bish, listen. You ain't fenna come up in here lookin' all thick only for me to find out that you be playin tricks on a brah. You fenna give me back dem singles and I'll take you back to the streeyip club bish.


    At least, that's how it'd go in my head.
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    My padded bra is to prevent "head lights". That's my story and I'm sticking to it. :wink:
  • CarolinaGirlinVA
    CarolinaGirlinVA Posts: 1,508 Member
    If I were single and I brought home a woman with a butt-buddy or whatever you call the clothing item, and if she had a padded bra that added like two cup sizes, I'd be like:

    Hay bish, listen. You ain't fenna come up in here lookin' all thick only for me to find out that you be playin tricks on a brah. You fenna give me back dem singles and I'll take you back to the streeyip club bish.


    At least, that's how it'd go in my head.

    LMAO...that's great.
  • oyvonnee
    oyvonnee Posts: 116 Member

    Surely tho the motion of the ocean is easy to achieve in a big steamer than a dingy tho ;)


    Very funny - love it!

    However.... you saw that 'however' on the way I hope! :laugh: If all hands are not on deck :laugh: or you can't steer the boat - doesn't matter how big it is.

    But I still love that you have the confidence to make that statement!
  • Adynata
    Adynata Posts: 128 Member
    Fake padding in bra = tricked. How'd you feel with a sock pushed down the jeans? Or top that gives the impression of a nice tight body under the clothes?

    Implants are wonderful. I personally love the look... but that matters not. The most important thing is a womans confidence. If she feels that she would feel better with bigger breasts and that a implants do that, then I'm all for them, in whatever size they choose. When a woman is most comfortable in her skin, thats when she is the best to be around and the most attractive in her own right.

    Wait, how can you get so pissy about a padded bra then say that a woman getting surgery is fine if it makes her feel more comfortable? Padded bras can make me feel a hell of a lot more comfortable with myself. If stuffing a sock down their pants gives a guy the same confidence, then I wouldn't have a problem with it.

    I see 'fake' items as accessories. Like accessories, they are designed to compliment a woman's attractiveness, not create it. I wear make up, I have owned extensions, occasional false eyelashes, and the aforementioned padded bras. But I don't wear them all the time and I wear them differently to suit their purpose. I even wear padded bras differently. Sometimes an outfit will call for decent cleavage or something extra on top to balance out my hips. Sometimes smaller breasts compliment longer tops and accentuate my height or make me look thinner. It's situation dependant, and I would hate for anyone to label me as fake because of it.
  • jhardenbergh
    jhardenbergh Posts: 1,035 Member
    I said this on another post talking about "fake boobs". If I can touch them they're real
  • bcampbell54
    bcampbell54 Posts: 932 Member
    At the time the secret is revealed, we don't care.
  • jazzalea
    jazzalea Posts: 412 Member
    Great replies from the men. This only backs my conviction that most men are great human beings! :wink:

    I have long been a strong supporter of men in general..... I think they are the greatest thing on earth.... they choose to live with women....and most of them do it with grace and good humor



    Here's to you guys!:drinker: :heart: :heart:
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    There's a fine line between "enhancing your appearance", and creating an entirely new appearance... ie. being something that you are not... At which point the insecurity screams loud and clear.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    Fake eyelashes, and hair extensions are extremely easy to spot, so if they are tricked by that, it's their own fault.

    Make-up, though....that's probably the most fake thing about us.
  • gregavila
    gregavila Posts: 723 Member
    Personally I would rather have you be the real you. At some point the padded bras, butt lifting panties, support girdles, make up, and everything else has to come off. And yes, I would be a bit disappointed that the real you is not the advertised package.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    Fake padding in bra = tricked. How'd you feel with a sock pushed down the jeans? Or top that gives the impression of a nice tight body under the clothes?

    Implants are wonderful. I personally love the look... but that matters not. The most important thing is a womans confidence. If she feels that she would feel better with bigger breasts and that a implants do that, then I'm all for them, in whatever size they choose. When a woman is most comfortable in her skin, thats when she is the best to be around and the most attractive in her own right.

    Wait, how can you get so pissy about a padded bra then say that a woman getting surgery is fine if it makes her feel more comfortable? Padded bras can make me feel a hell of a lot more comfortable with myself. If stuffing a sock down their pants gives a guy the same confidence, then I wouldn't have a problem with it.

    I see 'fake' items as accessories. Like accessories, they are designed to compliment a woman's attractiveness, not create it. I wear make up, I have owned extensions, occasional false eyelashes, and the aforementioned padded bras. But I don't wear them all the time and I wear them differently to suit their purpose. I even wear padded bras differently. Sometimes an outfit will call for decent cleavage or something extra on top to balance out my hips. Sometimes smaller breasts compliment longer tops and accentuate my height or make me look thinner. It's situation dependant, and I would hate for anyone to label me as fake because of it.

    Its just my view, right or wrong! :smile:

    Padded bra's naturally are fine, but the OP asked our view - I'd rather take off the bra and then still see the boobs advertised rather than not.
  • andygettinfitt
    andygettinfitt Posts: 55
    here i am thinking women are the most honest creatures on earth, arnt I a fool!
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    here i am thinking women are the most honest creatures on earth, arnt I a fool!

    Women are just as bad liars as men, they're just more subtle and even when caught out find ways of making you feel like it was you at fault :laugh:
  • pauljsolie
    pauljsolie Posts: 1,024 Member
    If I were single and I brought home a woman with a butt-buddy or whatever you call the clothing item, and if she had a padded bra that added like two cup sizes, I'd be like:

    Hay bish, listen. You ain't fenna come up in here lookin' all thick only for me to find out that you be playin tricks on a brah. You fenna give me back dem singles and I'll take you back to the streeyip club bish.


    At least, that's how it'd go in my head.
    LOL and in real life it would be.....uh.....uhhhhh.......ummmm....OK!!!
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    here i am thinking women are the most honest creatures on earth, arnt I a fool!

    Women are just as bad liars as men, they're just more subtle and even when caught out find ways of making you feel like it was you at fault :laugh:

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: YEP!!!
  • gemmaldavies
    gemmaldavies Posts: 379
    It's hard to fake personality and since that is a huge dealbreaker for me, I guess I can live with the superficial fakery.

    here here - well said!!
  • Bakkasan
    Bakkasan Posts: 1,027 Member
    “I'm all for women deciding to get plastic surgery because plastic surgery allows you to make your outer appearance reflect your inner appearance: fake.” Daniel Tosh

    And I don't agree ;)

    Women are just like men except they have options :p
  • InnerPinup79
    InnerPinup79 Posts: 129
    I saw the butt padded undies at Walmart and was tempted because I feel I have no *kitten* and it all went to my chest. It's weird how we perceive ourselves. My old man loves my "big *kitten*" as he calls it and I laugh saying I don't even have one, and I definitely married a tig ol bitty lover.
  • committomittxoxo
    committomittxoxo Posts: 339 Member
    Yea, most bras are at least a little padded.. Otherwise our nipples would be the third party in every conversation. I hate bras as it is, so I definitely don't want to be wearing one that makes me feel like I have an infant strapped to my chest! I prefer a more natural look on a lady but the girls that that dig the highlights, extensions, fake tans, fake nails, fake boobs.. etc... aren't necessarily suffering from a low self-esteem. It's a "look." Same goes for the boys with overly gelled hair, and a fake tan, wearing their little brother's t-shirt.. I guess that's a look too. Different strokes. To reiterate what a lot of you have already said.. The personality can make or break it. It doesn't really matter what you're wearing.. If you're arrogant and ill-mannered.. you're ugly, and no amount of makeup or self-tanner is going to cover it up. :flowerforyou:
  • Trechechus
    Trechechus Posts: 2,819 Member
    Personally, I like having small boobs and I hope my butt shrinks, soon! It's much easier to run around without all the extra stuff!
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    My padded bra is to prevent "head lights". That's my story and I'm sticking to it. :wink:

    Same! My mama taught me it's not polite to point! :laugh:
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    I say to each their own. If it makes a woman feel more confident, go for it. I wear a padded bra on occasion, but really have no use for padded panties, i'm all set in that department! I wear make-up as well, though the hubs doesn't understand why. He actually prefers me without. I feel like it enhances a bit though, so I wear it when we're doing something special. He loves my boobs just as they are too, so he doesn't much care for the padded bra either. BUT, he doesn't say anything when i'm wearing it, cause he knows i feel good. that's what matters.
  • audigal2008
    audigal2008 Posts: 1,129 Member
    My padded bra is to prevent "head lights". That's my story and I'm sticking to it. :wink:

    Same! My mama taught me it's not polite to point! :laugh:
    LMAO...Well said! I didnt know how to say this, you nailed it! LOL
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