Guys....when you send a FR to a girl....

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  • BoxingCoachMo
    BoxingCoachMo Posts: 420
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    .....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

    it is the fastest way to be declined.

    But thank you for the compliment

    i tell them that, doesn't get me declined ;) lol
  • lq022
    lq022 Posts: 232 Member
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    If only friend requests could be sent with a shot of patron and strobe lights ... thats when i do my best work =)
  • littlepinkhearts
    littlepinkhearts Posts: 1,055 Member
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    That's why my FRs say "I don't think you're hot, but I can only see so much through your curtains." :tongue:

    haha that's cute :P
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
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    Lol. At least pretend you are interested in our brains.

    "I find your intellect to be incredibly arousing."

    Would that suffice? :)

    ...very. :]
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
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    I like to send tactful FRs.

    Like "I find your intelligence and wit so attractive. Can I motorboat them?"
  • auticus
    auticus Posts: 1,051 Member
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    lmao

    riiiiiiiiiiiight
  • mattkellett
    mattkellett Posts: 82
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    I like to send tactful FRs.

    Like "I find your intelligence and wit so attractive. Can I motorboat them?"

    well played!
  • Rokwell
    Rokwell Posts: 143
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    Okay let me get this right. MANY women on here dress halk naked, showing their body parts(not progress pics) and you want someone to talk about how smart you are...lol. If you're a woman and you are not doing this, then i get your point but if you have sleezy pics on your page...be real with yourself.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,887 Member
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    .....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

    it is the fastest way to be declined.

    But thank you for the compliment
    Agreed... 110% (also with the "At least pretend you are interested in our brains" thing)


    And I *love* the responses to this post. My boss gave me a funny look because I laughed out loud. Oops
  • meganmarie21
    meganmarie21 Posts: 11
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    Hilarious!
  • Fit4Evolution
    Fit4Evolution Posts: 375 Member
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    I FR just for support and ideas .. :)
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
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    I enjoy compliments. But it is probably different coming from a woman vs. sending to a woman.
  • Mommareed4
    Mommareed4 Posts: 144
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    LOL.
  • catic
    catic Posts: 156
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    It's ok, tell me it's because I"m hot. I'm not gonna complain as long as your hot too. LOL
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,887 Member
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    I enjoy compliments. But it is probably different coming from a woman vs. sending to a woman.

    Example of an appropriate complimentary FR:
    "You look great!"

    Example of an inappropriate complimentary FR:
    "Holy crap you're hot! I want to add you so I can stare at your picture all day!"
  • PeekABooGirl
    PeekABooGirl Posts: 218 Member
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    This thread is hillarious! I really hate those FR when there is no message at all. Then I'm left wondering WHY do you want to be my friend?
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
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    I don't mind the "you're hot" FR, but if I find the person boring otherwise I usually ignore them. It's usually evident after 3 messages.

    "You're hot."
    "Thanks. Is that usually one of your prerequisites to adding someone as a friend here?"
    "LOL"
    "Did that really make you laugh out loud?"
    "LOL...i love funny hot chicks."
    *delete*

    LOL
    Exactly. You proved my point.

    I love proving a hot chicks point. But you're all I got at the moment.
    i think I just got dissed.
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
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    In all fairness, if I were a guy and stumbled across a girl half naked (showing their weight loss or not) I would do the same thing.

    ^LOL! this!
  • RH_Brazell
    RH_Brazell Posts: 339
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    I've never been bothered by a guy saying I was hot..if he said something rude or perverted that'd be different
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,167 Member
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    i wish there were more girls under 20 on the site....just saiyan

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