Would you cheat?
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Beautifulredb - makes sense now. Couldn't get my head around why you want to control how you're man masturbates. I'm sure you women would be in uproar if someone came on and said my BF/hubby said I can't use my rabbit any more.
lol nah, id never control his sexual needs. If he wants to do, go ahead. Maybe once I lose this baby weight, and feel more comfortable, Ill even join in. I hear alot of women do that with the SO.0 -
Mine all have - makes it enjoyable for you both :bigsmile:0
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12 years of being faithful tells me I wouldn't.
Thats all over with now though.0 -
Mine all have - makes it enjoyable for you both :bigsmile:
Lol nice. Id learn alot from it too.
I hate seeing fake boobs...so, we'll just have to watch girls with real bewbies xD0 -
Cheat? In a word, "NEVER!" Lived enough in this life to speak confidently on this one. If you never betray yourself, you'll never betray others. Kinda like the golden rule reworded. Cheers!0
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And I do believe that is so true! That is why you should always be mindful! For lack of a better term.No offense to anyone .. however, I believe with every ounce of my body that anyone can cheat. Period.
****.. i used to think I'd never believe in divorce.. time has been a eye opener to me.
****.. I used to think I would never cheat, that I was that unique man who would never ever do it.. time yet again was an eye opener
**** I used to think that i would be that man for my partner that she'd have no reason ever to cheat on me.. yet again time was an eye opener
I could go on....
I love you all but.. NO ONE can ever say they wont. You have yet to be presented with a situation that may lead you down that path then.0 -
I can't even get 1 girl, how do you expect me to get 2???
No I wouldn't cheat if I had a gf.0 -
Beautifulredb - makes sense now. Couldn't get my head around why you want to control how you're man masturbates. I'm sure you women would be in uproar if someone came on and said my BF/hubby said I can't use my rabbit any more.
Matt you got a way of making me throw up in my mouth! lol0 -
OMG THAT'S NOT WHAT I MEANT!!!!
Matt you got a way of making me throw up in my mouth! lol
LMAO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That was the most disgusting image ever !0 -
BS. You would do it in a moment. There is more to cheating than just physical attraction. Especially as you get older. You both get used to each other and the spontaniaty just disappears. You get fat and happy! And I am talking about both sides of this equation.0
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OMG THAT'S NOT WHAT I MEANT!!!!
Matt you got a way of making me throw up in my mouth! lol
LMAO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That was the most disgusting image ever !
LOL xD0 -
Matt you got a way of making me throw up in my mouth! lol
LMAO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That was the most disgusting image ever !
OMG THAT'S NOT WHAT I MEANT!!!!
its never too late to explain yourself !! LMAO!
I sure walked into that one! NO PUN INTENDED!!! Ha ha ha!0 -
And I do believe that is so true! That is why you should always be mindful! For lack of a better term.No offense to anyone .. however, I believe with every ounce of my body that anyone can cheat. Period.
****.. i used to think I'd never believe in divorce.. time has been a eye opener to me.
****.. I used to think I would never cheat, that I was that unique man who would never ever do it.. time yet again was an eye opener
**** I used to think that i would be that man for my partner that she'd have no reason ever to cheat on me.. yet again time was an eye opener
I could go on....
I love you all but.. NO ONE can ever say they wont. You have yet to be presented with a situation that may lead you down that path then.
You hit it on the nail head.. If you are weak or know that certain situations may lead you on a path you will regret.. then do not put yourself in that situation. Plain and simple.
But seriously me and my husband have discussed this before. We believe that you don't go to lunch with someone of the opposite sex, you don't text with co-workers of the opposite sex. You don't go to the bars with out your partner. And you don't have friends of the opposite sex unless they're mutual friends. And even then there are limitations. We are all human subject to the same temptations. Best to not even go there!0 -
In tears here :laugh: :bigsmile:0
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AND OUT OF RESPECT YOU DON'T *kitten* TO PORNO WHEN THE 22 YEAR OLD MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD IS IN BED GETTING HER HEART BROKE! :mad:0
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Yeah we kind of got off track there a little:)In tears here :laugh: :bigsmile:0 -
And I do believe that is so true! That is why you should always be mindful! For lack of a better term.No offense to anyone .. however, I believe with every ounce of my body that anyone can cheat. Period.
****.. i used to think I'd never believe in divorce.. time has been a eye opener to me.
****.. I used to think I would never cheat, that I was that unique man who would never ever do it.. time yet again was an eye opener
**** I used to think that i would be that man for my partner that she'd have no reason ever to cheat on me.. yet again time was an eye opener
I could go on....
I love you all but.. NO ONE can ever say they wont. You have yet to be presented with a situation that may lead you down that path then.
You hit it on the nail head.. If you are weak or know that certain situations may lead you on a path you will regret.. then do not put yourself in that situation. Plain and simple.
Exactly! Some people find themselves in the most incredible situations and wonder why them. Cheating doesn't just happen life misplacing something . . . then again for some it is. Go figure.0 -
Yeah we kind of got off track there a little:)In tears here :laugh: :bigsmile:
You don't want to know what I thought your username was when I first read it :laugh:0 -
Oh no! Go ahead!
Yeah we kind of got off track there a little:)In tears here :laugh: :bigsmile:
You don't want to know what I thought your username was when I first read it :laugh:0 -
I would never cheat on my partner, and to do it because of any weight gain or weight loss has to be the biggest insult to somebody you supposedly care about. People should have the courage to break off a relationship before finding somebody else!0
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Oh no! Go ahead!
Yeah we kind of got off track there a little:)In tears here :laugh: :bigsmile:
You don't want to know what I thought your username was when I first read it :laugh:
Karenlube - fitted in with the thread I guess :bigsmile:0 -
Ha Ha HA!!! I can't believe I didn't know what you were going to say! Actually That's the first part of my last name which is Luebke and it's pronounced "Lube-key" lol
Oh no! Go ahead!
Yeah we kind of got off track there a little:)In tears here :laugh: :bigsmile:
You don't want to know what I thought your username was when I first read it :laugh:
Karenlube - fitted in with the thread I guess :bigsmile:0 -
And I do believe that is so true! That is why you should always be mindful! For lack of a better term.No offense to anyone .. however, I believe with every ounce of my body that anyone can cheat. Period.
****.. i used to think I'd never believe in divorce.. time has been a eye opener to me.
****.. I used to think I would never cheat, that I was that unique man who would never ever do it.. time yet again was an eye opener
**** I used to think that i would be that man for my partner that she'd have no reason ever to cheat on me.. yet again time was an eye opener
I could go on....
I love you all but.. NO ONE can ever say they wont. You have yet to be presented with a situation that may lead you down that path then.
You hit it on the nail head.. If you are weak or know that certain situations may lead you on a path you will regret.. then do not put yourself in that situation. Plain and simple.
But seriously me and my husband have discussed this before. We believe that you don't go to lunch with someone of the opposite sex, you don't text with co-workers of the opposite sex. You don't go to the bars with out your partner. And you don't have friends of the opposite sex unless they're mutual friends. And even then there are limitations. We are all human subject to the same temptations. Best to not even go there!
You are very wise. The longevity and quality of your marriage are a testament to that. Many more marriages would survive if they did this. :drinker: to you.0 -
Ha Ha HA!!! I can't believe I didn't know what you were going to say! Actually That's the first part of my last name which is Luebke and it's pronounced "Lube-key" lol
Oh no! Go ahead!
Yeah we kind of got off track there a little:)In tears here :laugh: :bigsmile:
You don't want to know what I thought your username was when I first read it :laugh:
Karenlube - fitted in with the thread I guess :bigsmile:
:laugh: :bigsmile:
See, i'm physic me
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Porn is not cheating. It is a release. A lot of men need their release (heck I know I do) almost daily/twice daily and a lot of women can't or don't want to keep up with this. Would you rather your man suffer and got frustrated (and so angry, harder to deal with) or dealt with it. Men don't look at the woman or what they are about in porn - its simply a body to to look at. Hence mens porn is just that - no real story, nothing. Just T&A and bea....
Id fill my fiance's needs 3-4 times a day. and he still looked at porn xD
maybe im just not that attractive enough :P
Porn is an addiction just like drugs, alcohol, and sex. It's not you. Don't blame yourself.
But like anything, its fine when done in moderation.0 -
Porn is not cheating. It is a release. A lot of men need their release (heck I know I do) almost daily/twice daily and a lot of women can't or don't want to keep up with this. Would you rather your man suffer and got frustrated (and so angry, harder to deal with) or dealt with it. Men don't look at the woman or what they are about in porn - its simply a body to to look at. Hence mens porn is just that - no real story, nothing. Just T&A and bea....
It's not that I can't keep up with him, it's the other way around. When he is solely watching porn and wanting nothing to do with me, that hurts.
That's a different issue, but that wasn't very clear earlier in the thread. You and him should really have a talk about that. Its never good when your spouse doesn't want to be intimate with you.
I agree with this.
Talk to your husband. I suspect that you guys have some serious communication issues if you are using the internet to find answers and he is all lost in porn. Put the baby down for a nap. Turn off all forms of media. Engage in a little intimacy with your husband. It can start as a conversation and who knows where it will lead... all the best to you.
Thanks, but this really isn't about me. My husband has sleep problems and is always tired, so that's why there's little to no sex. Or at least I'm hoping that's the only reason lol. I have talked to him about the porn, because I caught him watching it, after he had told me when we first got together he would give it up for me. He lied, and what's worse, hid it from me. I am not like most women...that does bug me. But I BELIEVE it's over with now....
Of course he told you that. That's what you wanted to hear because you had this irrational belief that porn is bad and he didn't want to be bothered about it.0 -
Nope. I'm not the prettiest to look at appearance wise and there are a lot more cute guys out there than my boyfriend, but it's the connection and how he treats me that overpowers the appearance.0
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Yes. I have watched porn with my husband. Matter of fact.......we were recently talking about if I get this new 2011 Dodge Grand Caravan we're going to park it somewhere, drop the seats in the floor and watch some porn on the DVD player! lolPorn is not cheating. It is a release. A lot of men need their release (heck I know I do) almost daily/twice daily and a lot of women can't or don't want to keep up with this. Would you rather your man suffer and got frustrated (and so angry, harder to deal with) or dealt with it. Men don't look at the woman or what they are about in porn - its simply a body to to look at. Hence mens porn is just that - no real story, nothing. Just T&A and bea....
Id fill my fiance's needs 3-4 times a day. and he still looked at porn xD
maybe im just not that attractive enough :P
Porn is an addiction just like drugs, alcohol, and sex. It's not you. Don't blame yourself.
But like anything, its fine when done in moderation.
But when I was in my early 20's and overweight I would have NEVER had done that! I didn't want to be compared to those woman. I didn't look like that. I didn't act like that. I wanted my husband to want ME! And I didn't want it to be gross and dirty. Girls just think different. To me porn was bad and was like cheating.
A lot of the changes in me now are because of HIM! Now after getting some time behind us and because he is sooo reassuring and supportive I am comfortable sexually. I know he loves ME and he thinks I'm hot. So now I'm comfortable enough to watch them with him and be dirty!!!! But in my early 20"s, if he would have just ignored me and decided "a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do" It probably would have ended.0 -
Yes. I have watched porn with my husband. Matter of fact.......we were recently talking about if I get this new 2011 Dodge Grand Caravan we're going to park it somewhere, drop the seats in the floor and watch some porn on the DVD player! lolPorn is not cheating. It is a release. A lot of men need their release (heck I know I do) almost daily/twice daily and a lot of women can't or don't want to keep up with this. Would you rather your man suffer and got frustrated (and so angry, harder to deal with) or dealt with it. Men don't look at the woman or what they are about in porn - its simply a body to to look at. Hence mens porn is just that - no real story, nothing. Just T&A and bea....
Id fill my fiance's needs 3-4 times a day. and he still looked at porn xD
maybe im just not that attractive enough :P
Porn is an addiction just like drugs, alcohol, and sex. It's not you. Don't blame yourself.
But like anything, its fine when done in moderation.
But when I was in my early 20's and overweight I would have NEVER had done that! I didn't want to be compared to those woman. I didn't look like that. I didn't act like that. I wanted my husband to want ME! And I didn't want it to be gross and dirty. Girls just think different. To me porn was bad and was like cheating.
A lot of the changes in me now are because of HIM! Now after getting some time behind us and because he is sooo reassuring and supportive I am comfortable sexually. I know he loves ME and he thinks I'm hot. So now I'm comfortable enough to watch them with him and be dirty!!!! But in my early 20"s, if he would have just ignored me and decided "a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do" It probably would have ended.
YOU ARE PRETTY DAMN HOT!!!
Im not gay, dont worry lol0 -
No
I just couldn't live with myself.
No matter how bad it is...I would leave before cheating.
Treat others how you want to be treated.
& I believe in Karma0
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