Would you cheat?
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NessasMommy081311
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More aimed towards guys, but women can respond too...would you cheat on your wife/girlfriend (or husband/boyfriend) for someone who was thinner than her/him? Specifically because of looks.
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There is no way. I am not attracted to my partner because he is skinny. I am rarely attracted to people based on
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NO WAY! My man is perfect the way he is and I could never find anyone I saw as "better". In the past though, I have been cheated on for smaller girls...so curious to see if people are really more into love than looks.0
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wow what a question, size of the person has nothing to do with why peple cheat. People cheat because their un happy or un satisfied one way or another and they will do it with whomever is willing to cheat with them and because they don't have respect for the current relationship their in.0
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Never. I have no respect for people who do that to their SO's.0
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Hey, I know some pretty shallow people. I would never cheat for any reason. But again, I know some people who do. I'm just curious. I have a friend who recently gained some weight, and her boyfriend cheated on her for a thinner girl because he like that girl's body better. It happens.0
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Nope, not interested, love my man and it wouldn't change if he put on weight or lost weight.0
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Never. I'm single now, but my ex was perfect to me. He was slim, and had seen better days in terms of being toned and muscly, but I adored him for him, and was attracted to him as an entire person.
I would debate being in a relationship with someone who had gained so much weight that they were endangering themselves, but I would never cheat on them.0 -
Dumb question, sorry, nobody can say what, when, or how, or if they'd do anything until they're in the situation, we'd all like to think we wouldn't but you never, ever know......just saying.......0
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I would not cheat on my boyfriend under any circumstances. He is the sweetest person I ever met. Regardless of wether or not I happened to meet someone more attractive or I had fallen out of love, Michael couldn't take that. His heart would break and I would be the cause of his pain. I hope to never break his heart, but cheating would just make it worse. In the past I was tempted when my boyfriend of the time was a total jerk, but Michael's different. He's pure and intelligent and beautiful and unique. I could not cheat on him, it doesn't even cross my mind! Well, in short the answer's no haha (:0
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I'll be honest and say that I cheated on many a girlfriend in my younger years. Many times I had the perfect bodied girlfriend and still cheated with someone who may have been more "fluffy". Why? Because my attitude at that time was that if a girl broke it off with me, I could get another. I wasn't in it for love, I was in it for sex.
So I don't think it has anything to do with body type, looks, money etc. I think people cheat because whoever they are cheating with makes them feel important or desirable at the time.
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Okay, so it's a dumb question. I guess the real question would be would your significant other's weight gain/loss affect your attraction to them?0
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wow what a question, size of the person has nothing to do with why peple cheat. People cheat because their un happy or un satisfied one way or another and they will do it with whomever is willing to cheat with them and because they don't have respect for the current relationship their in.
Actually it can. When appearance plays a large role in the attraction to that person, if that person alters (weight gain/loss, aging, etc) then the attraction is lost and the partner wanders. You basically nulled your first sentence with your second because that counts as being unhappy/unsatisfied. Some people have pre-conceived notions of how the relationship should be or how their SO should look and if that changes, they become unhappy and it can lead to cheating.0 -
Im single right now but I have never cheated I would like to think that there's no way I would cheat on that special other person but I can't say that for 100%.0
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I'll be honest and say that I cheated on many a girlfriend in my younger years. Many times I had the perfect bodied girlfriend and still cheated with someone who may have been more "fluffy". Why? Because my attitude at that time was that if a girl broke it off with me, I could get another. I wasn't in it for love, I was in it for sex.
So I don't think it has anything to do with body type, looks, money etc. I think people cheat because whoever they are cheating with makes them feel important or desirable at the time.
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I agree with this. I don't know if people cheat JUST because they found someone who is slimmer than their current partner. I have seen guys and girls cheat on their partners with bigger or less attractive people.0 -
Dumb question, sorry, nobody can say what, when, or how, or if they'd do anything until they're in the situation, we'd all like to think we wouldn't but you never, ever know......just saying.......
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Not a chance. You gotta know you can get through the "ugly" parts of life together, and there are plenty. My hubby and I have seen eachother at our best and worst, it would not matter if he were horribly disfigured in an accident I would be by his side looking at his inner beauty and taking care of his wounds.
I agree there are some pretty shallow people who base their relationship on looks and that is all they care about so they go on to the next hot thing whenever they fancy. That's not love that's lust.0 -
Years ago I my one and only ex cheated on me. He said I 'didn't lose weight fast enough' that it was just too late (he met me at my heaviest 180 and broke up with me at around 130). At first I believed him, but after awhile I realized that was only a reason he could use to break up with me. We hadn't been happy for quite some time. So, my view, is that while some people do cheat because of weight issues in their partner, it seems there are oftentimes other underlying issues in the relationship, and weight is sometimes just an excuse that people use.0
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There is no way I would ever cheat on my fiance. And as far as I'm concerned, he's perfect the way he is! He's actually very fit, although he wants to build muscle, which I wouldn't complain about!
I do have to admit, I did break up with my man once because I liked another guy, but it wasn't for his looks. That guy is a twig and looking back, I was rather self conscious about the fact that I was horizontally bigger than him.0 -
Oh my gosh... NO WAY...:noway: !!!!!!!!!!!!! :frown:
if you have any thought of cheating then you shouldn't be in a relationship,
I have been with my hubby since January 1975, and we are ,and always will be ,devoted to each other through good and bad.:smooched:
our looks have changed over the years and even our behaviour changes but its what inside that really counts , whats in the heart, soul and spirit of a person.
appearances are shallow
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