Would you cheat?

Improvised

Gross, no WAY would I cheat on my man.

Pokermom10

There is no way. I am not attracted to my partner because he is skinny. I am rarely attracted to people based on
Looks.

You took the words right out of my mouth.

Angela_Freeborn

No way not ever would i cheat on my husband.. we have been together for 23 yrs, and very happy, That man has been with me through thick and thin, he loves me no matter what and for that i have much respect and love.
People that cheat if you ask me are cowards, and if they choose to live by the 80-20 rule so be it but im the 80 andwell he loves that. hes my 80 therefore i have no need to find a 20. Love is a very powerful thing.

ItsCasey

I wouldn't ever, but the thing is, I don't think anyone cheats solely because of looks. I think they cheat because there is something about the relationship that leaves them unfulfilled. Obviously, weight can play a role in that. If you've gained a significant amount of weight, it can affect your sex life, either because your libido isn't what it used to be or because you no longer feel comfortable being naked or because you don't have the energy. And if you or your SO has gained an unhealthy amount of weight without taking any steps to correct it, that indicates a bigger problem than food. Now, those are not excuses for cheating, but they are instances when cheating may be blamed on "looks," when, in reality, there are deeper issues.

grinch031

I would say as long as I am in a healthy marriage, I would absolutely not cheat on my spouse with someone no matter how good they looked.

However the reality is that the typical marriage isn't all that healthy (given that 50% end in divorce). If I was in one of *those* marriages where the relationship has faded such that there is no passion, no attraction, but just two people who are stuck together because of finances or kids, then who knows what might happen. I certainly wouldn't feel proud that I'm in a situation where making the decision to cheat or not isn't a no-brainer.

jackpotclown

absolutely not, it's for better or for worse in my case....cheated once dating a long time ago and will never do that again

onegoal2

I AGREE, everyone will say no and then bam. I have never and don't plan to start.

TheRoadDog

Nope.

andrucifer

Never. My husband truly is my best friend. Sounds corny but I can't "see" anyone the way I see him and no amount of weight gain or loss could change that!

Beastette

I thought this was about taxes. *turns around and leaves thread*

bcattoes

Good Lord, No! If the relationship was that shallow, I'd just end it and move on. (I'm female)

Hannova

No. Not even when my marriage went to crap.

My own internal honor meter would not tolerate such a thing. I may not have to live with him, but I have to live with myself.

emmamcblain

Never! It's happened to some of my friends before, and to imagine causing that level of hurt to someone would be horrific. And for looks? Well, just remember Cheaters, that beauty ages whereas the personality lasts a lifetime. The initial attraction isn't everything.

kanmuri

nobody can say what, when, or how, or if they'd do anything until they're in the situation, we'd all like to think we wouldn't but you never, ever know......just saying.......

Exactly. Plus, no one is going to say "Of course I would." That would create a storm.

megsmom2

No. Even if she never knew..I would. We aren't together because of looks, that's pretty shallow.

Fattack

Never. My boyfriend has gained and lost weight since I met him, and to be frank, I hadn't even really noticed (although he says he gained 20kg). He's still gorgeous to me.

ShellyMacchi

... size of the person has nothing to do with why people cheat. People cheat because they are unhappy or unsatisfied one way or another, and they will do it with whomever is willing to cheat with them and because they don't have respect for the current relationship they are in.

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Caffeine_Addict

I'm the one that gets cheated on. lol *sigh*
I guess I pick em good. blah.

NessasMommy081311

It's nice to see so many people be very verbal about how they would not cheat. Even for those that look pi$$ed off by my question...I have been with the same man for a little over 4 years now, so his opinion is the only one I know. I could never cheat on someone, as I have been cheated on in the past. I would never hurt my husband like that. It's bad enough that it felt like he was cheating on me when he'd been watching porn behind my back for 4 years and lying to me about it, all because the girl's had "better bodies" than me. He claims he would never ACTUALLY cheat, but it sure felt like he did.

BlackmetalCoffee79

Scorpios are very loyal creatures in a relationship. So i'd have to say....no.

OLFATUG

Why would I jeopardize my children and invalidate the last 15 years of my life?

livingaloha

Never! I love my husband for so many reasons other than looks, i couldnt even begin to list them all. He has loved me no matter what size ive been, and through some very tough times where other people would have just given up on me. Although he is not a memeber here we are in this journey to health together. He is the most kind hearted, generous, caring, dedicated and loyal man I have ever known and I consider myself so fortunate to have him in my life!

WingMan380

OK, if you had asked me this question 2 years ago, I would have said "hell no, there is no way I would ever cheat on my wife". My wife is damn good looking and I am proud to have her by my side. However a year and a half ago I found myself falling in love with another woman who was twice as big as my wife, and nowhere near as attractive. I totally admit I was stupid and made a hugh mistake. Lucky for me, my wife stuck with me and currently our marriage is stronger than it ever has been.

Never say never because you do not know what is going to be around the corner.

MelissaL582

Not a chance. You gotta know you can get through the "ugly" parts of life together, and there are plenty. My hubby and I have seen eachother at our best and worst, it would not matter if he were horribly disfigured in an accident I would be by his side looking at his inner beauty and taking care of his wounds.

I agree there are some pretty shallow people who base their relationship on looks and that is all they care about so they go on to the next hot thing whenever they fancy. That's not love that's lust.

I agree!
I KNOW I couldn't find a better husband or a better father to my boys.

NessasMommy081311

Never! I love my husband for so many reasons other than looks, i couldnt even begin to list them all. He has loved me no matter what size ive been, and through some very tough times where other people would have just given up on me. Although he is not a memeber here we are in this journey to health together. He is the most kind hearted, generous, caring, dedicated and loyal man I have ever known and I consider myself so fortunate to have him in my life!

:-D So sweet...

_Christine_

I cheat every day.





Wait... what? We're not talking about our diet?

sizzle92

Dumb question, sorry, nobody can say what, when, or how, or if they'd do anything until they're in the situation, we'd all like to think we wouldn't but you never, ever know......just saying.......

I certainly can. I would never cheat on my spouse for any reason. I was miserable in my first marriage and there was zero attraction to my husband early on in the marriage. It never crossed my mind to cheat on him.

becca3211

No way.....I have to live with myself...and Iam not that shallow....:noway:

becca3211

Why would I jeopardize my children and invalidate the last 15 years of my life?

GOOD MAN....

SeasideOasis

Not a chance in hell.

I'm not married, but I would never ever do such a thing to my bf. I am completely against cheating. It makes me so angry. If you dont want to be with someone - then dont. Dont put the person through such emotional mental damage.