Would you cheat?

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  • Improvised
    Improvised Posts: 925 Member
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    Gross, no WAY would I cheat on my man.
  • Pokermom10
    Pokermom10 Posts: 78 Member
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    There is no way. I am not attracted to my partner because he is skinny. I am rarely attracted to people based on
    Looks.

    You took the words right out of my mouth.
  • Angela_Freeborn
    Angela_Freeborn Posts: 62
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    No way not ever would i cheat on my husband.. we have been together for 23 yrs, and very happy, That man has been with me through thick and thin, he loves me no matter what and for that i have much respect and love.
    People that cheat if you ask me are cowards, and if they choose to live by the 80-20 rule so be it but im the 80 andwell he loves that. hes my 80 therefore i have no need to find a 20. Love is a very powerful thing.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,022 Member
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    I wouldn't ever, but the thing is, I don't think anyone cheats solely because of looks. I think they cheat because there is something about the relationship that leaves them unfulfilled. Obviously, weight can play a role in that. If you've gained a significant amount of weight, it can affect your sex life, either because your libido isn't what it used to be or because you no longer feel comfortable being naked or because you don't have the energy. And if you or your SO has gained an unhealthy amount of weight without taking any steps to correct it, that indicates a bigger problem than food. Now, those are not excuses for cheating, but they are instances when cheating may be blamed on "looks," when, in reality, there are deeper issues.
  • grinch031
    grinch031 Posts: 1,679
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    I would say as long as I am in a healthy marriage, I would absolutely not cheat on my spouse with someone no matter how good they looked.

    However the reality is that the typical marriage isn't all that healthy (given that 50% end in divorce). If I was in one of *those* marriages where the relationship has faded such that there is no passion, no attraction, but just two people who are stuck together because of finances or kids, then who knows what might happen. I certainly wouldn't feel proud that I'm in a situation where making the decision to cheat or not isn't a no-brainer.
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,291 Member
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    absolutely not, it's for better or for worse in my case....cheated once dating a long time ago and will never do that again
  • onegoal2
    onegoal2 Posts: 47
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    I AGREE, everyone will say no and then bam. I have never and don't plan to start.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
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    Nope.
  • andrucifer
    andrucifer Posts: 25
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    Never. My husband truly is my best friend. Sounds corny but I can't "see" anyone the way I see him and no amount of weight gain or loss could change that!
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
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    I thought this was about taxes. *turns around and leaves thread*
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
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    Good Lord, No! If the relationship was that shallow, I'd just end it and move on. (I'm female)
  • Hannova
    Hannova Posts: 50
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    No. Not even when my marriage went to crap.

    My own internal honor meter would not tolerate such a thing. I may not have to live with him, but I have to live with myself.
  • emmamcblain
    emmamcblain Posts: 342
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    Never! It's happened to some of my friends before, and to imagine causing that level of hurt to someone would be horrific. And for looks? Well, just remember Cheaters, that beauty ages whereas the personality lasts a lifetime. The initial attraction isn't everything.
  • kanmuri
    kanmuri Posts: 112
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    nobody can say what, when, or how, or if they'd do anything until they're in the situation, we'd all like to think we wouldn't but you never, ever know......just saying.......

    Exactly. Plus, no one is going to say "Of course I would." That would create a storm.
  • megsmom2
    megsmom2 Posts: 2,362 Member
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    No. Even if she never knew..I would. We aren't together because of looks, that's pretty shallow.
  • Fattack
    Fattack Posts: 666 Member
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    Never. My boyfriend has gained and lost weight since I met him, and to be frank, I hadn't even really noticed (although he says he gained 20kg). He's still gorgeous to me.
  • ShellyMacchi
    ShellyMacchi Posts: 975 Member
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    ... size of the person has nothing to do with why people cheat. People cheat because they are unhappy or unsatisfied one way or another, and they will do it with whomever is willing to cheat with them and because they don't have respect for the current relationship they are in.

    this
  • Caffeine_Addict
    Caffeine_Addict Posts: 178 Member
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    I'm the one that gets cheated on. lol *sigh*
    I guess I pick em good. blah.
  • NessasMommy081311
    NessasMommy081311 Posts: 122 Member
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    It's nice to see so many people be very verbal about how they would not cheat. Even for those that look pi$$ed off by my question...I have been with the same man for a little over 4 years now, so his opinion is the only one I know. I could never cheat on someone, as I have been cheated on in the past. I would never hurt my husband like that. It's bad enough that it felt like he was cheating on me when he'd been watching porn behind my back for 4 years and lying to me about it, all because the girl's had "better bodies" than me. He claims he would never ACTUALLY cheat, but it sure felt like he did.
  • BlackmetalCoffee79
    BlackmetalCoffee79 Posts: 108 Member
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    Scorpios are very loyal creatures in a relationship. So i'd have to say....no.

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