Grils...how would you react?

Yanicka1
Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
edited November 12 in Chit-Chat
*girl....dammit

I was at the gym today doing strenght training. I was doing step up when i noticed a guy looking at my *kitten*. Now, i HAVE a great *kitten*!!!! But guys please, try to stay discrete when you check out a girl. What a really wanted to do was starting to sing "I am sexy and a know it" while dancing and slapping my bum but instead i just looked at him until he felt uncomfortable.
Did it ever happened to you and how did you react?
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  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    No one ever ogles me at the gym... can I come with you to your gym and stand next to you in the hopes of getting some spill-over?



    Seriously, though, I am sorry it made you uncomfortable. I haven't been ogled at the gym before but the staring until he was uncomfortable sounds like a good idea.
  • YukonJoy
    YukonJoy Posts: 1,279 Member
    I'm almost always the only woman on the weight floor and I lift heavy. So I get a lot of looks regardless. I just ignore them. Or I make eye contact and they look away.

    Relevant funny story... was at the gym with my mom and she was checking out this guy. He caught her doing it and shot her a smile and flexed his bicep. She turned bright red and dropped a weight on her foot.

    Best gym memory ever. I laughed for days.
  • WickedGarden
    WickedGarden Posts: 944 Member
    i would look straight at him, and say loudly, "are you taking mental pictures for your spank bank or something?"

    I dunno, I just try to ignore them...at least he didn't walk by and grab your bum. I get that at concerts all the time. :mad:
  • lumina0o0
    lumina0o0 Posts: 498 Member
    I'm almost always the only woman on the weight floor and I lift heavy. So I get a lot of looks regardless. I just ignore them. Or I make eye contact and they look away.

    Relevant funny story... was at the gym with my mom and she was checking out this guy. He caught her doing it and shot her a smile and flexed his bicep. She turned bright red and dropped a weight on her foot.

    Best gym memory ever. I laughed for days.
    too funny
  • mgmlap
    mgmlap Posts: 1,377 Member
    I haven't noticed..the last few times I have gone to the gym...my husband has been with me.. But then I have always been oblivious to that sort of stuff...my friends called it growing up Indian..(parents are from India).
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    *girl....dammit

    I was at the gym today doing strenght training. I was doing step up when i noticed a guy looking at my *kitten*. Now, i HAVE a great *kitten*!!!! But guys please, try to stay discrete when you check out a girl. What a really wanted to do was starting to sing "I am sexy and a know it" while dancing and slapping my bum but instead i just looked at him until he felt uncomfortable.
    Did it ever happened to you and how did you react?

    Geez, I just looking for my contact! Sorry!
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    A couple of years ago I was doing push-ups and looked up to see a guy, doing planks looking right at me. He immediately blushed, which cued me in to something, so I looked down, and sure enough, he probably had a pretty clear look down my top (I'm not sure what he was looking at really, because there isn't much of anything there, but whatever). I just laughed, for some reason him blushing like that was comical to me, plus he was cute. I'll take getting checked out any time I can, although I do agree, some men need to be a little more discrete.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    I don't go to the gym, but I just let em look!
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
    Was he a bum who creeped you out, like I do? :tongue:
  • ColCul
    ColCul Posts: 53
    I workout at home. When I Zumba, my husband grabs a beer and sits down and watched the show. (psst! Don't tell him that I love it!) Wouldn't like it if it was a stranger (well, much...)
  • VoteForVinnie
    VoteForVinnie Posts: 4
    No one ever ogles me at the gym... can I come with you to your gym and stand next to you in the hopes of getting some spill-over?



    Seriously, though, I am sorry it made you uncomfortable. I haven't been ogled at the gym before but the staring until he was uncomfortable sounds like a good idea.

    Um.. yes you have.. you just never caught me
  • lorac321
    lorac321 Posts: 614 Member
    At this point in my weight loss I'd walk up and kiss him...
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
    happens to me. I dive into the joke with them. like... "the only thing you're going to miss when i leave is watching my *kitten* walk around the weight floor" they enjoy the banter. keeps the awkward out.
  • lorac321
    lorac321 Posts: 614 Member
    Loss - oops.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    Yesss....something like this:

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    I'd wanna do this, though, but I haven't had the guts too.....

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  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    I workout at home. When I Zumba, my husband grabs a beer and sits down and watched the show. (psst! Don't tell him that I love it!) Wouldn't like it if it was a stranger (well, much...)

    I wish my husband would do that. Instead he actually apologizes if he walks through the room while I'm practicing pole. I guess he feels bad for interrupting, which I can appreciate, but...
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    happens to me. I dive into the joke with them. like... "the only thing you're going to miss when i leave is watching my *kitten* walk around the weight floor" they enjoy the banter. keeps the awkward out.

    I think it's the green skin
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
    *girl....dammit

    I was at the gym today doing strenght training. I was doing step up when i noticed a guy looking at my *kitten*. Now, i HAVE a great *kitten*!!!! But guys please, try to stay discrete when you check out a girl. What a really wanted to do was starting to sing "I am sexy and a know it" while dancing and slapping my bum but instead i just looked at him until he felt uncomfortable.
    Did it ever happened to you and how did you react?

    It made you feel good to know he was checking you out, right?

    Then quit complaining. There are lots of people that would kill to have someone admiring their goodies.

    Now, if he was giving you the creeps or something, thats one thing. But just oogling?

    "Don't be hatin"
  • chachita7
    chachita7 Posts: 996 Member
    I am way too busy to even notice if they are looking...
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    No one ever ogles me at the gym... can I come with you to your gym and stand next to you in the hopes of getting some spill-over?

    Um.. yes you have.. you just never caught me
    Hahaha! That was this guy's first post... I feel so *ahem* special now.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Honestly I work out at home so I really don't have this issue at the gym. But I'm the world greatest wingman for my boys lol. I'll just stand with my back to the hot girl and engage them in conversation so they can look at her while it appears they are looking at me. Needless to say my guy friends love going out with me. As for getting checked out else where I really dont mind it at all lol
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    *girl....dammit

    I was at the gym today doing strenght training. I was doing step up when i noticed a guy looking at my *kitten*. Now, i HAVE a great *kitten*!!!! But guys please, try to stay discrete when you check out a girl. What a really wanted to do was starting to sing "I am sexy and a know it" while dancing and slapping my bum but instead i just looked at him until he felt uncomfortable.
    Did it ever happened to you and how did you react?

    It made you feel good to know he was checking you out, right?

    Then quit complaining. There are lots of people that would kill to have someone admiring their goodies.

    Now, if he was giving you the creeps or something, thats one thing. But just oogling?

    "Don't be hatin"

    This!
  • camilleesqueda
    camilleesqueda Posts: 45
    I had an old dude get on the bike behind the elliptical I was working on, and then he switched to the OTHER bike while I was on the treadmill. Then told me something about how I was super young and athletic (ha. ha. haaaaaa yeah right whatever, I may be 22 but my *kitten* bounces more than a pair of double d's, thanks puerto rican mom). And my husband wonders why I hate going to the gym without him. :P
  • poustotah
    poustotah Posts: 1,121 Member
    Just stare at his crotch???
  • VoteForVinnie
    VoteForVinnie Posts: 4
    No one ever ogles me at the gym... can I come with you to your gym and stand next to you in the hopes of getting some spill-over?

    Um.. yes you have.. you just never caught me
    Hahaha! That was this guy's first post... I feel so *ahem* special now.

    :wink: :wink: :wink:
  • AmandaLAcosta
    AmandaLAcosta Posts: 87
    OH man yes!! I was working out and this guy was staring so hard at my *kitten* that I looked at him and said " yes, that's my *kitten*. Kiss is!! " I wasnt so nice but I put up with his creepy staring for 15 mins before I said something.


    But for the most part I'm just as guilty as the men. I find myself staring. I cant help but admire a nice *kitten* when I see one. :D
  • muddyventures
    muddyventures Posts: 360 Member
    At this point in my weight loss I'd walk up and kiss him...


    lol, you are funny.

    I really would have been uncomfortable, but I'd have shot him the evil eye.
  • Mallory0418
    Mallory0418 Posts: 723 Member
    This is why I never look around at the gym. It's going to happen, not much I can do about it so I'd rather not make an issue of it (as long as it's not over the line, of course).

    It's actually funny that you post this today because this same thing happened to me at the gym. I knew the guy so when I caught him I said "Dude, if you're going to stare at my butt, at least be sneaky about it." We got a good laugh out of it but I don't know what I would do if a stranger openly stared at my butt like that. :ohwell:
  • birdieintx
    birdieintx Posts: 298
    Unless the dude is being completely creepy and lecherous, I find it amusing when someone checks me out and I usually just give them a smile. If they are being creepy they get a major b*tchface
  • eatherhey
    eatherhey Posts: 147 Member
    Unless they say something (*that* would make me uncomfortable o.O ) I would do as a previous poster and make eye contact with a politely neutral expression and carry on.
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