Grils...how would you react?

I like the chocolate that puts out. I hate chocolate that only wants to tease...

I often regret not having done the silly over-the-top things that strike in the moment, so I'll recommend the singing "I'm too sexy for my *kitten*... " and slapping your *kitten* to the beat.

IMHO, the message you want to get across is: "You're being way too obvious. Dial it down a few notches." Staring at him until he felt uncomfortable delivered that message effectively, so it was as good a response as any other.

I'd probably have said something really dorky like (in cold tone & with cold stare) "Can I help you with something?"

And then hours later thought of some much more clever remark like: "Aw, godammmit! Do I have toilet paper stuck to my *kitten* *again*?"

I'm almost always the only woman on the weight floor and I lift heavy. So I get a lot of looks regardless. I just ignore them. Or I make eye contact and they look away.

Relevant funny story... was at the gym with my mom and she was checking out this guy. He caught her doing it and shot her a smile and flexed his bicep. She turned bright red and dropped a weight on her foot.

Best gym memory ever. I laughed for days.

Love the relevant funny story!...except the dropped weight on her foot part, that had to hurt!

I'm socially awkward so any time something like that happens I kinda don't make eye contact, then do, then laugh and say hi really fast and then figure out what else I want to do in the weight room to walk away from my internal catastrophe :blushing:

I'd just be flattered. I don't make a big deal unless someone tries to ask me out or get my number. THAT is annoying. Admiring my hard work is really just a compliment to me.

As an old, overweight lady, I would have to look him in the eye and ask very seriously "So, what are you doing later, Handsome?"

THIS ^^^ I love it!!!

I have worked hard to be where I am (and the journey is not over) .. There is one boy at the gym I go to, that I seriously am crushing on so when he does look my way.. he knows darn well I have been looking at him (it's almost like a little game we play... It's entertaining!)

i would love to turn around just once to see girl looking me up and down with delight in her smile. Never happens. Maybe one day.

it'll happen!

People look at people.....get over yourself.

i would love to turn around just once to see girl looking me up and down with delight in her smile. Never happens. Maybe one day.

I'll ogle you if you ogle me. Deal?

deal!

*girl....dammit

I was at the gym today doing strenght training. I was doing step up when i noticed a guy looking at my *kitten*. Now, i HAVE a great *kitten*!!!! But guys please, try to stay discrete when you check out a girl. What a really wanted to do was starting to sing "I am sexy and a know it" while dancing and slapping my bum but instead i just looked at him until he felt uncomfortable.
Did it ever happened to you and how did you react?

If no one notice you at all would you complain about that too? Or is it that the guy wasn't the one you wanted to look at your bum. Sometimes you have to take the bad with the good. Just sayin...

*girl....dammit

I was at the gym today doing strenght training. I was doing step up when i noticed a guy looking at my *kitten*. Now, i HAVE a great *kitten*!!!! But guys please, try to stay discrete when you check out a girl. What a really wanted to do was starting to sing "I am sexy and a know it" while dancing and slapping my bum but instead i just looked at him until he felt uncomfortable.
Did it ever happened to you and how did you react?

It made you feel good to know he was checking you out, right?

Then quit complaining. There are lots of people that would kill to have someone admiring their goodies.

Now, if he was giving you the creeps or something, thats one thing. But just oogling?

"Don't be hatin"

Being rude about it is not necessary. "Girl Dayum" is something that is unacceptable. Look at me, ok, Leer at me, not cool. I almost wanted to say you'd expect that kind of behavior among prisoners, but they don't even get away with that.

And no. It doesn't make my day to have someone leer and make comments.

I workout at home, but I have never had anyone ogle me ever that I am aware of.....I would love to know that someone liked what I look like. There is always hope that it will happen someday :laugh: