MEN...what size would you want your woman?

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  • Sidesteal
    Sidesteal Posts: 5,510 Member
    And additionally, anywhere from athletic to hip-hop-video.
  • Anomalia
    Anomalia Posts: 506 Member
    This is ****ed up.
  • sassylilmama
    sassylilmama Posts: 1,493 Member
    Why does it matter what men think? Do what is healthy, do what makes you happy and is best for you. If you spend your entire life trying to make everyone else happy you will never succeed. Much easier to make 1 person happy, especially when that person is yourself.
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    Happiness is first! I'm size 10 almost 9 and I'm proud! I will never be a size 2 and I dont want to be. Im learning to love my shape even more and honestly it's all about what (a woman) thinks is best for her. :)

    Happiness is first :)
  • _VoV
    _VoV Posts: 1,494 Member
    I dunno, like Medium?
    Don't EVER tell them they're a medium though. I told my wife that when we were dating and I still can't live that down after 7 years.

    Sorry for the tangent, but I couldn't resist. When I first met my husband, he was gushing, "What are the odds I would meet someone as compatible as you? I figure you are one out of twenty." Somehow it didn't make me feel all that special thinking that in a crowded restaurant, there would be maybe five other women there who would be 'perfect' for him.

    Caveat to guys: The proper expression is "You are one out of a million." or "You are my one and only."
  • lumina0o0
    lumina0o0 Posts: 498 Member
    size 7-14 (panties)
    pantie sizes run completely different from pant sizes...so your looking at a L-xxxL in pantie sizes...
  • anima_gemella
    anima_gemella Posts: 243 Member
    Men want their women size "available and willing" lol

    lmao :) yup
  • determinedbutlazy
    determinedbutlazy Posts: 1,941 Member
    They like size "boobs and vagina with a butt there somewhere maybe".

    :laugh:
  • blissmanifesto
    blissmanifesto Posts: 37
    The real answer is, there's a lid for every pot. Different men like different things! Some men are very picky, others are very open and accepting. Just like some men are kind, loving and supportive, while others are massive *kitten*. There's men out there who love big breasts, small breasts, tall gals, short chicks, shy girls, outgoing girls, nerdy girls (that one is surprisingly popular IMO) and dumb girls too, long hair, short hair, high heels, trail shoes, religious, atheist. . . and some guys like thin girls and some guys like a thick sister. This is because each person is unique. So it ultimately doesn't matter what "men" want, because that whole question is way too broad to even be meaningful. Somewhere out there is a man who will be smitten to his knees by what you have to offer. While you are waiting for him to appear, get busy with trying to be your best self. Don't try to make yourself conform to some imaginary ideal that means nothing anyway. Just let your light shine with your own sweetness. The Universe will do the rest of the work for you and the man will arrive.
  • usernamejoe
    usernamejoe Posts: 219 Member
    On a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being anorexic and 10 being obese, anywhere between 3 and 8 is all good.



    Same here
  • Anomalia
    Anomalia Posts: 506 Member
    If you spend all of your time doing exactly what men want you to do you will probably very sore, and very tired.
  • zafferFL
    zafferFL Posts: 402
    Smaller than me
  • aprildawn81
    aprildawn81 Posts: 668 Member
    Some great guys on this site!!! :love: :drinker:

    I was thinking the same thing! :)
  • Keeta83
    Keeta83 Posts: 423 Member
    Men want their women size "available and willing" lol

    Love this!!! ^^^
  • Sidesteal
    Sidesteal Posts: 5,510 Member
    If you spend all of your time doing exactly what men want you to do you will probably very sore, and very tired.

    Indeed.
  • Louise1583
    Louise1583 Posts: 97 Member
    I'd never model myself on what I think a guy would want me to look like, but I am conscious that if I were down on myself because I was overweight, I wouldn't be as attractive. Nobody likes an overly self-conscious misery guts.

    Live by your own standards and your self confidence will shine through and make you the most attractive person in the world.
  • piinchi
    piinchi Posts: 172 Member
    My fiance has seen me in triathlon shape and at my peak of weight. He's loved me as I am no matter what. To him, I am beautiful no matter my size. I work out and watch what I eat for myself, not for him or anyone else. I got a good one I guess, but every woman deserves to feel beautiful no matter her size, and no man or anyone else should dictate your "ideal size". This goes for men, too!
  • aprildawn81
    aprildawn81 Posts: 668 Member
    Happiness is first! I'm size 10 almost 9 and I'm proud! I will never be a size 2 and I dont want to be. Im learning to love my shape even more and honestly it's all about what (a woman) thinks is best for her. :)

    Happiness is first :)

    Exactly! I, too, am a size 10 and I'm really not looking to get any smaller than an 8. I like my curves and would be sad if I lost them. I just want to tone up a bit and I'll be all good.
  • Colbyandsage
    Colbyandsage Posts: 751 Member
    If you spend all of your time doing exactly what men want you to do you will probably very sore, and very tired.

    And with scabbed knees.... Yes I went there. Ha!
  • jessrenae2011
    jessrenae2011 Posts: 22
    Thankyou EVERYONE FOR THE FEED BACK!!! A friend and i had a disagreement earlier today. She wants to base her size on her man's opinion and got upset because i told her she sounded insecure. She got upset. Then the argument began. I told her i will share the answers. Thank you all again!!!

    When i first got married i was a size 11...after losing 15lbs i am a size 11 !!! :) I feel great!! Im more focused on toning up than weight loss...but gotta say...i love my bod!!
  • missxjuicy
    missxjuicy Posts: 205 Member
    Interesting topic. I thought it was for the men to answer, why all the replies came from mainly women? lol =/
  • shanlynt
    shanlynt Posts: 718 Member
    I say take it or leave it
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    size 7-14 (panties)
    pantie sizes run completely different from pant sizes...so your looking at a L-xxxL in pantie sizes...

    Haha I thought the same thing!! :laugh:
  • Railr0aderTony
    Railr0aderTony Posts: 6,803 Member
    Its funny this is a thread for Men and there have been more women post than men???? WTH? , anyway I love my wife for who she is not what size she is, as long as she is happy and healthy I am happy as well.
  • DS67ATX
    DS67ATX Posts: 289
    Im not picky but I also want a woman who puts effort in taking care of herself.I prefer thick women to skinny women but Im open to any size.:smile:
  • Showgirlbody
    Showgirlbody Posts: 402 Member
    Clothing sizes are tricky. Like some people said, what looks good on one, doesn't on another. I've read personal ads where men insist that someone weigh under 130 or be under a size 8 when in reality, bodies look different. Some people look very fit and thin at 170, and you will see a girl with rolls who looks chunky at 130. I think there was a Glamour picture years ago where they gathered a bunch of size 10 women in the same bathing suit. None of them looked the same. Some looked fit, some looked fat, some were skinny fat. Most guys really don't know how our clothing sizes work and some don't even notice when someone gains 20 lbs or more. My friend's husband once pointed at a picture and asked why she didn't wear that dress anymore, she started laughing because he didn't realize how much smaller she was when she wore that dress and she was heavier now. Her shape stayed relatively the same, just the inches were more. Who cares what people say is the perfect size or weight? Every body will wear it differently.
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  • shvrngrl
    shvrngrl Posts: 205 Member
    I dunno, like Medium?

    I wish MFP had "like" buttons....LIKE...LIKE...LIKE.. this made me laugh!
  • lisakyle_11
    lisakyle_11 Posts: 420 Member
    We don't need to set our goals through men's eyes. That's ridiculous. Different men have different preferences.

    We need to set healthy goals for ourselves that are based less on appearance, and more on fitness.

    i agree wholeheartedly^...

    i am also liking most of the mens responses so far... maybe, just maybe, we women have been a little more harsh on ourselves than we've realized.
  • Cr357
    Cr357 Posts: 238
    size 7-14 (panties)
    pantie sizes run completely different from pant sizes...so your looking at a L-xxxL in pantie sizes...
    Did it ever occur to you that I knew exactly what I was saying???? I prefer plus size women that's why I indicated the size I did by underwear (get it??). Think Sir Mix a Lot......
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