silly things that attracts you ...

_snw_
_snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member
edited November 6 in Chit-Chat
i notice the strangest things on boys. am i alone w/ noticing oddities?

~ rubber bands around his wrist.
~ a beanie on (in the winter only, i'm not emo)
~ shoes. well, not just the fact he has shoes on. but like converse. or vans.
~ and if i ever catch a boy biting his lower lip absentmindedly? ~swoon~
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  • Firefighter_Jay
    Firefighter_Jay Posts: 426 Member
    Shoes, if a women has nice shoes, or it looks like she takes care of em, i find it attractive. Dunno why
  • SnakeDarling
    SnakeDarling Posts: 352 Member
    I like a guy with rough, manly hands.
    I just HATE when a guy's hands don't look like they've been to Hell and back.
    Unless he's missing fingers...
  • Allie_71
    Allie_71 Posts: 1,063 Member
    Worn jeans that are a little loose. Faded writing on his t-shirt.

    When they say, "hey...." softly :)

    Tiny smirk. Tiny one.
  • Firefighter_Jay
    Firefighter_Jay Posts: 426 Member
    I like a guy with rough, manly hands.
    I just HATE when a guy's hands don't look like they've been to Hell and back.
    Unless he's missing fingers...

    Lol, you'd love me after a structure fire or spending all day climbing then lol
  • p0pr0cksnc0ke
    p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
    intense concentration on something which then causes the tongue to be forced between the lips/teeth to bite down on lip

    And then catching me staring and smile at me..
  • AmyLRed
    AmyLRed Posts: 856 Member
    smell- if he smells good
    grease smear on the t shirt (not like pizza grease, but car grease!)
    the smell of engines on him -snowmobile or lawnmower
    sweat. not gross drenched sweat, but if he is glistening, oh yes

    geez, i guess it sounds like i like dirty boys!
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    Calloused hands = yum
    A half-smile/half-smirk. Love it.
    A little gap between the front teeth.
    A few grays in a thick head of dark hair are also nice.

    ETA - the scent of clean sweat on him - as in, he's showered recently but then did something to work up just a little sweat. That smell is amazing.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    when they look scruffy lol not I live in a cave scruffy but just alittle disheveled. I thinks its cause I can stand the metro look lol
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
    I like a guy with rough, manly hands.
    I just HATE when a guy's hands don't look like they've been to Hell and back.
    Unless he's missing fingers...

    When I shake a dudes hand and it's soft I hear my inner voice inside say laughingly "soft hands brah"
  • SnakeDarling
    SnakeDarling Posts: 352 Member
    when they look scruffy lol not I live in a cave scruffy but just alittle disheveled. I thinks its cause I can stand the metro look lol

    I like scruffiness, too.
  • Pocket_Pixi
    Pocket_Pixi Posts: 1,167 Member
    Scruff - or as my boss calls it... the 3rd day of working 12 hour shifts...
    hands that look like they have actually done work - lady hands on a dude are not attractive.
    If he smells good... yum
  • ShifuYaku
    ShifuYaku Posts: 504 Member
    That little smile he makes in the corner of his mouth when he knows I'm looking at him... :heart:
    I love my Squish. :smile:
  • All this is going to be about my fiance lol but....When he smells good, gets really excited over something like a kid ( lol ) , when hes dirty from working, and when he reads something to be. I could seriously lay on my mans lap and listen to him read to me for hours and never get tired of it.--Funny yall mention scruffiness I love that too. When he hasnt shaved i call his face Mr scruffy. lmao
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member
    oh yes,. scruff. totally. and i dig full on beards too.
  • Pocket_Pixi
    Pocket_Pixi Posts: 1,167 Member
    oh yes,. scruff. totally. and i dig full on beards too.

    Depending on the guy... but yes full on beards are good too.
  • RH_Brazell
    RH_Brazell Posts: 339
    smell-cologne
    guys that wear A-shirts(wife beaters)
    motorcycles
    tan lines ;)
    broad shoulders
  • cNhobbes
    cNhobbes Posts: 235 Member
    guys with backwards hats. o m G swoon
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    When a girl is wearing a baseball cap.
  • MyTime1985
    MyTime1985 Posts: 456 Member
    Call me a freak but I love it when fall hits and men start wearing jeans out. Somewhat baggy and worn jeans. Yum. :love:
  • cNhobbes
    cNhobbes Posts: 235 Member
    Call me a freak but I love it when fall hits and men start wearing jeans out. Somewhat baggy and worn jeans. Yum. :love:

    yes. white tee shirt, backwards hat, jeans. blush
  • ELee0517
    ELee0517 Posts: 83 Member
    Facial hair. Not alot, but a little, like a 5 o'clock shadow, or a nice trimmed goatee. And I like strong arms. They don't even have to be really super muscley, but they have to have a bit of definition. And broad shoulders. I like manly men lol. And I don't want someone who is obsessed with how they look, but likes to look good. Not like a bum.
  • cekeys
    cekeys Posts: 397 Member
    I think I found _snw_'s perfect gift for her man.

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  • MyaPapaya75
    MyaPapaya75 Posts: 3,143 Member
    Nice Cologne, Rough Hands...and most importantly a masculine jaw-line...and I like chest hair
  • 412HeavyLifter
    412HeavyLifter Posts: 170 Member
    Pretty toes...clean shoes
  • mixedfeelings
    mixedfeelings Posts: 904 Member
    I like a guy with style, someone that thinks about how he looks but not someone that is in to trends. I just don't like the throw on anything, one pair of shoes for everything guy. I find a lot of mens shoes to be ugly and boring so if I see a guy with amazing shoes on I'm always impressed. I like skate shoes but I like to see something else, like creepers, Chelsea boots, winklepickers.

    Other than that good legs are a plus, for some reason all the guys I've been out with previously have been proportioned like ostriches with spindly legs.

    Saying that even if these areas were covered if he wasn't in to similar music as me I think we would struggle.
  • I like a person who isn't afraid to need a little protecting. Also, tattoos that are mostly hidden, so you just catch a glimpse? Mmmm....
  • RH_Brazell
    RH_Brazell Posts: 339
    and most importantly a masculine jaw-line

    oh yeah :heart: :heart: :love: :love: :heart:
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    I like a just a little grey hair at the temples, makes men distinguished.
  • jennie0918
    jennie0918 Posts: 69 Member
    I think I found _snw_'s perfect gift for her man.

    beardo-hat-gray.jpg
    il_570xN.297671045.jpg

    ahahah this cracked me up! aha i was literally laughing out loud to myself ... :P

    ... hmm ... - i love guys who wear bracelets

    - i like when they're tall.. i dont know why i just am automatically attracted to tall guys
    - country accents <3
    - scruff *depending on the guy*
    - if they own a truck or jeep and it's lifted :)
    - smell nice
    - love if a guy can make me laugh cuz i have laugh attacks all the time

    i can name so many things i should shut myself up and stop there though lmao
  • LeanerBeef
    LeanerBeef Posts: 1,432 Member
    I find myself strangely attracted to a woman that works at Home Depot
    Same thing with a chick driving a pickup truck ……maybe it’s the thought of someone besides me doing my home repairs/projects, lol.

    My biggest turn on though is a chick that shows me a little interest and actually has a heart beat……oooh yeah!
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