im so tired of people who...

Im embarrased... Im embarrased to be a women, bc of the way some women act and behave and the way they treat other women who are trying to live a healthy livestyle.. last time I checked lifting weight is healthy and being healthy has no gender.. I mean seriously b!tch.. forget you b!tches!

hating on a hater makes me a hater.. but guess what COME AT ME!

I WANNA LOOK LIKE A DUDE, PICK ME

I think there are two things that happen when people hate on muscular women.
1. For some people, they equate womanly and feminine with a certain waist to hip ratio and a certain bust size
2. Many muscular women, besides having a low body fat percentage are also women who have a different body type than the stereotypical feminine one above

So they criticize because muscular women do not fit their image of "womanly."

Everyone has a different opinion on what is womanly, and not all people are tactful about expressing it.

say fit women look like men.. I mean really??!?! are we all supposed to be skinny fat? is that what a woman is supposed to look like?? are all women supposed to be weak and fragile bc if we have muscle tone we are immideatelly manly... screw all of you and your stupid points of view... stop hating and focus on yourselves! do you know how hard these women have to work for them to look the way they do?

Im embarrased... Im embarrased to be a women, bc of the way some women act and behave and the way they treat other women who are trying to live a healthy livestyle.. last time I checked lifting weight is healthy and being healthy has no gender.. I mean seriously b!tch.. forget you b!tches!

hating on a hater makes me a hater.. but guess what COME AT ME!


EDIT: I never said you have to be sexually attracted to fit women.. what I said is... you cannot be a dumb b!tch and go up to a woman who works sooo hard and tell her she looks like a man.. the same way you dont go up to a fat person and call them a pig..
**** sorry for the confusion.. these pics arent of me.. im not that amazing looking im working to get there tho***

PREACH IT!

Women typically suck. I avoid them even though I am one. :bigsmile:

^^ This. Except my pole sisters, they rock. (Seriously, until I started pole I only had one close female friend, now I have far more.)

I find that very sad. Just like some women attract bad men, I think some women put out an "abuse me" vibe to female rriends, and so attract lousy friends. I have more women friends than I can count and they're all awesome.

I find people who walk up to people just to insult them need a taste of their own medicine. Reply with something as equally insulting.

Omg..your body is amazing!!!!!!

It's just good manners you wouldn't walk up to someone and say *anything* that is meant to be an insult. I mean, why would anyone do that? It's just good manners, which I think have, largely, gone by the wayside, especially on the internet.

That being said, I have seen everything from "anyone who thinks muscular women are attractive, must be stupid" to "anyone who doesn't think muscular women are attractive must be stupid". We all have our own opinion. Now, when someone posts a bunch of BIG photos in the forums and thinks they will only get praise and positive comments (no matter what they look like), they must be kidding themselves. Especially, with the intro title. It's like jerking a chain. I'm sure there are groups for women body builders to post and compare photos without fear of getting any negative comments, but to post in a public forum.. well.. see what you are going to get? It happens every time, so it shouldn't be a surprise.

Edit: I just went back and looked at the OP. I must say there is a confrontational attitude, not to mention some insults if a person doesn't like her body type. And..quote: <<."are all women supposed to be weak and fragile bc if we have muscle tone we are immideatelly manly... screw all of you and your stupid points of view.">> not to expect some negative response for this line is naive. I don't believe I saw even *one* person who said women should be weak and fragile.

Fit does not immediately imply "muscly" as indicated in the photos that you posted. Just because I am not "muscly" like the photos that does not mean that I am "skinny fat" or "fat" or a "pig" or "ugly."

my1985...

you seem very upset or threatened by the OP, yet keep discussing it and tearing it apart. Can you please start your own thread to do so so we can keep this one clean. It's a rant. Since you still don't understand the point of the thread, let me reintroduce it to you:

OP posts that people need to be nice.

you are not acting nice - please leave.
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to the op,

I've been told the same thing. Ignorant and foolish people will do anything for attention! You just smile and turn your back on them. If they do it again, you call BS on them, renouncing their labeling and declare your awesomeness in a very loud manner so the real men in the gym can step in.

What kind of person hates women or are "scared" by women? They have some very serious issues if a woman is scary to them!

You wouldn't want to see me "not nice." I gave the OP my opinion and she lashed back at me. She has called every woman who doesn't agree with her a B. So, no. I'm not leaving.

lol @ all the jealous out of shape people hating on the OP.

I'm not jealous nor am I out of shape. So, try again :flowerforyou:

if you are not out of shape then my comment wasnt for you!

you cannot be a dumb b!tch and go up to a woman who works sooo hard and tell her she looks like a man.. the same way you dont go up to a fat person and call them a pig..

Except people DO go up to fat people, and call them worse than just a pig. If you want to be all bulked up, that's your choice, but it's also everyone else's choice to react to that however they want. Is it really worth freaking out on everyone?

But she is not bulked up, she has a solid amount of muscle and very little fat. It is the low body fat that makes her muscles look big, but I bet her arms are much smaller then most fat peoples' arms.

This. If lifting "bulks" a woman up it then that means she still has a healthy layer of body fat on her. And some women have large frames so to a woman with a small frame she might look "bulky". But the only way women can get muscles like a man is if she takes testosterone, HGH, steroids or something. I did two months of P90X (just the resistance/strength a couple of times a week) and got some really nice muscle definition. But I couldn't see it. When I went Primal as an experiment (I got the shock of my life actually but N=1 so I'm not going there) I lost body fat ALL OVER and out came the muscle definition. I never looked like that but I'm good with it. Heck, her muscles aren't even big or bulky - they look like feminine muscles to me. You just to see all the amazing definition.

Whatever happened to having your own opinion? YOU might look like a dude to some people, if so, they have a right to think that.

They can think it all they want it's when people start saying it that it becomes a problem.

find the Zombie:



remember, it's really rude to go up to a zombie and tell it "you look dead! "

manners! Please, let's practice some manners here! Oh wait, can we practice that in the gym? How many calories does that burn? 0? Then it's so not worth the work!

Hehehehehe.