silly things that attracts you ...

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  • logicandlove
    logicandlove Posts: 191 Member
    Psh. All women say they want guys with scruff and rough hands, but then they want to marry doctors, lawyers, and other non-hand-roughening professionals.

    PSH I SAY!

    Oh no man, I'm up front with it. I like smooth hands and long fingers — there are definitely perks to dating a musician who played french horn for years. That's all I'm saying, man.

    Oh, and suits. Nothing's hotter than a man in a properly tailored suit.
  • JoeyTajzai
    JoeyTajzai Posts: 1,198 Member
    You can't bother him when he plays League of Legends.. Or else he can get ganked when your talking to him.. That's what happens when my girl friend talks to me lol
  • GreenLifeGirl
    GreenLifeGirl Posts: 381 Member
    Manly hands (long, broad and strong, not rough). Rich and mellow voice. Great eye contact and genuine smile...melts me.

    a guy who can rock a fedora hat (love jazz)
  • Dilfster
    Dilfster Posts: 416 Member
    When a girl is wearing a baseball cap.

    i agree with this one!
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    Strong, masculine hands
    Lips that make me involuntarily pucker up LOL
    An infectious laugh
    I like 'em tall...like 6ft- 6 1/2ft (and I'm only 5'4")
    A nice strong upper body
    A slight cleft in his chin and a strong jawline
    A certain quality about the eyes that I can't really define, I just know it when I see it
  • BlueInkDot
    BlueInkDot Posts: 702 Member
    It's so weird seeing everyone say "big manly hands." That would drive me nuts! Same thing when they're all sweaty and smell like diesel - I would tell him to get in the shower before he even thinks about touching me! Lucky for me, though, my fiance is OCD and doesn't need to be told - he's ready to get in the shower as soon as he's done messing around on engines for the day, lol.

    I like when a man is willing to have a conversation and not insist that he is correct, but simply hear your opinion and state theirs. I much prefer simple conversations of opinion over an argument or debate. I hate when a guy gets all "I'M A MAN AND MUST BE RIGHT" attitude with me. Ugh.

    My fiance has a lovely sense of style. He has a very nice collection of slacks, sweaters, belts, shoes, stylish jackets, scarves, and a few hats and he looks so dashing in them. ^_^ He can clean up real good.

    As far as physical stuff... I like a nicely defined jawline, oh and if it's emphasized by that "jawstrap" type of facial hair? I think that's very cute, I find skinny and/or fit bodies to be attractive, but not necessarily buff... and a generally quiet demeanor.
  • misskerouac
    misskerouac Posts: 2,242 Member
    It's so weird seeing everyone say "big manly hands." That would drive me nuts! Same thing when they're all sweaty and smell like diesel - I would tell him to get in the shower before he even thinks about touching me! Lucky for me, though, my fiance is OCD and doesn't need to be told - he's ready to get in the shower as soon as he's done messing around on engines for the day, lol.

    I love my husband.

    But one of my ex's was a total rockabilly car guy (loved his car WAAAAAAY more than me) but he always smelt like car parts and gasoline and was always dirty from being in the garage and I LOVED IT lol

    total turn on
  • Watching a man gorge on food.... Weird I know....

    will you marry me?

    Hahaha :P
    For real though past boyfriends have always thought I was a total
    Weirdo for this... I can't help it. Total turn on.
  • MyFeistyEvolution
    MyFeistyEvolution Posts: 1,014 Member
    I'm not sure any of these would be considered silly, per se


    But I'm on board with the big hands comment..

    Some gray hair
    Smells good just from trusty o' soap (though I do enjoy a good smelling cologne as well)
    Neck tats
    Scars
    Basic dresser (jeans tshirt and sneakers, shorts, sandals tshirt...etc)
  • Candi8099
    Candi8099 Posts: 178 Member
    A man in his work clothes: the smell of work is his "cologne" with a dirty grubbed up shirt, YUMMO!!

    Oh & some rough looking carpenter boots!

    YUMMO!!!
  • logicandlove
    logicandlove Posts: 191 Member
    You can't bother him when he plays League of Legends.. Or else he can get ganked when your talking to him.. That's what happens when my girl friend talks to me lol

    lol trust me, I've learned not to. There's a price to be paid for dating gamers, man.
  • _Christine_
    _Christine_ Posts: 1,385 Member
    20-years ago in college I was sitting next to my now husband, when I grabbed his hands to smell them. He's a jeweler and his hands are beat to hell and always have polishing compound on them. Anyway, he washes them in Lava soap. I don't like the smell of Lava soap, but on his hands... <sigh>

    *Also, athletic cut t-shirts.
  • MrDude_1
    MrDude_1 Posts: 2,510 Member
    I wish all you ladies would stop describing me.
  • PepeGreggerton
    PepeGreggerton Posts: 986 Member
    There's little things that drive me crazy(in a good way) about my girlfriend.

    Her dimples

    Her dangerous curves

    The way she picks apart her food to eat it (No matter what it is)

    She's secretly a huge nerd and totally goofy

    and has a totally sexy mind
  • shanlynt
    shanlynt Posts: 718 Member
    Hat backwards, scruff, nice smell, crooked smiles. The list could go on and on.
  • misskerouac
    misskerouac Posts: 2,242 Member

    Neck tats

    I thought I was the only one that found this sexy as hell!!
    but they have to be well done.
  • Tall, fit guys with shoulder length hair. *swoon* <<---- Bonus points if he plays guitar!
    I like men who are confident and can take control of a situation. (Think Jax Teller from Sons of Anarchy.)
    Slightly scruffy facial hair
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    Oh, I almost forgot...I'm a total sucker for a guy that is outwardly a "badboy", but is really a big softy once you get to know him. Gotta be careful with that one, though, it can get me in trouble. LOL
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    I wish all you ladies would stop describing me.

    ^^^Hahahaha! I wondered how long it would be before one of you guys posted a comment like this! LOL Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding! We have a winner! :drinker:
  • carolanne84
    carolanne84 Posts: 53 Member
    I tend to swoon over a guy with...
    tats and piercings
    facial hair
    taller than 6ft
  • MrDude_1
    MrDude_1 Posts: 2,510 Member
    I wish all you ladies would stop describing me.

    ^^^Hahahaha! I wondered how long it would be before one of you guys posted a comment like this! LOL Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding! We have a winner! :drinker:

    What do I win?
  • BullDozier
    BullDozier Posts: 237 Member
    Laughing at my jokes. My sense of humor is an acquired taste, so I was always weak for a woman who would laugh at me without needing an explantion.
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    I wish all you ladies would stop describing me.

    ^^^Hahahaha! I wondered how long it would be before one of you guys posted a comment like this! LOL Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding! We have a winner! :drinker:

    What do I win?

    To be honest, I hadn't thought that far ahead. Dare I ask? What were you HOPING to win? LOL
  • Iamkim73
    Iamkim73 Posts: 924 Member
    girls with baseball caps or glasses. But not both at the same time.

    Awesome.... I wear glasses only at work. And live in a baseball cap on the weekend.... I always thoug both were nerdy!
  • Switty_Kitty
    Switty_Kitty Posts: 532 Member
    Man hands. Big Shoulders. Large weiner.
  • a guy in jeans with no shirt and barefoot
  • _Christine_
    _Christine_ Posts: 1,385 Member
    Weiner makes me laugh like a school girl. :)
  • libby328
    libby328 Posts: 287 Member
    Broad Shoulders! Baseball hat (forward facing) and a great smile!
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    girls with baseball caps or glasses. But not both at the same time.

    Awesome.... I wear glasses only at work. And live in a baseball cap on the weekend.... I always thoug both were nerdy!

    Only time I wear both is when I'm driving. Sometimes I wear a ballcap on the weekend when I don't feel like doing anything with my hair, but I don't dare drive without my glasses. :noway:
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    My biggest one is the way a guy talks. Not the accent or anything, how he moves his mouth. Some guys I could watch talk for hours.
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