What is it about women....???

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  • twinlaced
    twinlaced Posts: 46 Member
    I feel like women, more in nature, are stubborn. And they are emotional creatures, so when you do or say something wrong, we are more hurt than angry... we're waiting for you to take it back, to make it better. It's tough. I hate being a girl most of the time..

    This is so true. It seems like no one ever realizes when they have hurt me, and I will never really tell them that they have. So yeah, in the long run she just ends up bitter. Good fun being a woman
  • Umeboshi
    Umeboshi Posts: 1,637 Member
    Oh hey, misogyny and referring to women as "females". Stay classy MFP.
  • Anomalia
    Anomalia Posts: 506 Member
    Men don't ever pay attention to me let alone argue with me so I never really have the chance to not apologize for something I have done wrong.
  • beckylawrence70
    beckylawrence70 Posts: 752 Member
    Well.....stubborn, selfish, mean, doesn't think she's wrong, pissy mood, or maybe you're wrong? :)
  • Mizzou91
    Mizzou91 Posts: 249
    Oh hey, misogyny and referring to women as "females". Stay classy MFP.

    Huh? Apparently, I'm too stupid to realize that I offended this one.
  • prettygirlhoward
    prettygirlhoward Posts: 338 Member
    Venting is a good way to clear the air............... :)
  • micls
    micls Posts: 234
    Thanks to those of you who have allowed me to vent. I appreciate it. It'll be better tomorrow. I'm just annoyed right now.

    I did enjoy the inevitable offended random female. Is it wrong that the fact that she was SO offended cheered me up more than anything else?? (and yes, I will admit to being a bit of an *kitten*)

    I'm glad I could make you feel better (honestly).

    But, I'm not personally offended I tend to not get offended by people on the internet, otherwise I'd need to avoid the place and I certainly wouldn't survive on sites like reddit etc! I simply dislike generalisation, especially by things like gender. I had the same response in the 'woman who don't have male friends' thread, so it's not because it was women you talked about.

    Feel better.
  • Mizzou91
    Mizzou91 Posts: 249
    Well.....stubborn, selfish, mean, doesn't think she's wrong, pissy mood, or maybe you're wrong? :)

    Trust me. I've been wrong PLENTY and will freely admit it. Not the case here. Plus, did I mention that today is my birthday and she pulled this crap??
  • StarvingKyy
    StarvingKyy Posts: 88 Member
    Because women used to stay at home, sweep the floor, do the dished, take care of the children and stfu. They had to wear VERY modest clothes and speak only when spoken to.
    And one day this women who had some serious balls was like "**** this!" and she gathered up women for women's rights.
    And now we're waltzing around in bikinis with bleached hair and fake bakes and we boss around men, because we know we are worthy and powerful, and therefor we are right : )
    #justsayin this came from an 18 year old mind. it may or may not be accurate ;D
  • soniyamas
    soniyamas Posts: 160 Member
    My husband has never said sorry or admitted any of his mistakes even once in my 5 years of marriage. And knowing his nature I know he will never do this. It's all about personalities not genders I think .
  • supermom2002
    supermom2002 Posts: 180 Member
    Because women used to stay at home, sweep the floor, do the dished, take care of the children and stfu. They had to wear VERY modest clothes and speak only when spoken to.
    And one day this women who had some serious balls was like "**** this!" and she gathered up women for women's rights.
    And now we're waltzing around in bikinis with bleached hair and fake bakes and we boss around men, because we know we are worthy and powerful, and therefor we are right : )
    #justsayin this came from an 18 year old mind. it may or may not be accurate ;D

    i see a dom in the making :)
  • Mizzou91
    Mizzou91 Posts: 249
    Because women used to stay at home, sweep the floor, do the dished, take care of the children and stfu. They had to wear VERY modest clothes and speak only when spoken to.
    And one day this women who had some serious balls was like "**** this!" and she gathered up women for women's rights.
    And now we're waltzing around in bikinis with bleached hair and fake bakes and we boss around men, because we know we are worthy and powerful, and therefor we are right : )
    #justsayin this came from an 18 year old mind. it may or may not be accurate ;D

    i see a dom in the making :)

    "I am woman! Hear me roar!! Watch me wear leather and spank your *kitten* with a whip! Don't EVER talk back!!"
  • soniyamas
    soniyamas Posts: 160 Member
    It was my birthday on 15 th of this month and HE forgot. To top this off he didn't even say sorry for forgetting. :sad:
  • Leiki
    Leiki Posts: 526 Member
    Of all the men I have been with, I have only been able to apologize or admit I am wrong to my current bf. We have been together 6.5 years. Maybe you need to ignore the ones who don't think you are worth it, and find one who values you.
  • supermom2002
    supermom2002 Posts: 180 Member
    [/quote]

    "I am woman! Hear me roar!! Watch me wear leather and spank your *kitten* with a whip! Don't EVER talk back!!"
    [/quote]

    they can't really watch when they're tied up and blindfolded...but others could
  • MissHellsing
    MissHellsing Posts: 133 Member
    What?! I'm never wrong. :laugh:

    THIS! People NEVER listen to me then they prove I'm right :D
  • Mizzou91
    Mizzou91 Posts: 249
    Of all the men I have been with, I have only been able to apologize or admit I am wrong to my current bf. We have been together 6.5 years. Maybe you need to ignore the ones who don't think you are worth it, and find one who values you.

    Or, just maybe, marriage is about working through the tough spots and not giving up at the first hint of trouble. Learning how to get through the rough patches is what makes a relationship last.
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
    nooo i didn't mean to seem offended lol i was playing! My upstairs neighboor is still scary though ;)

    LOL. we need sarcasm font :)

    and i really am trying to control my anger. i just can't help that i'm attracted to *kitten*

    Wish I knew how to post pictures. I have the perfect one for you.
    2ziu25w.jpg
  • Mizzou91
    Mizzou91 Posts: 249

    "I am woman! Hear me roar!! Watch me wear leather and spank your *kitten* with a whip! Don't EVER talk back!!"
    [/quote]

    they can't really watch when they're tied up and blindfolded...but others could
    [/quote]

    Supermom = SM = S&M. Coincidence? I think not.
  • downsizinghoss
    downsizinghoss Posts: 1,035 Member
    If it ends the argument faster.... I am usually wrong.

    I do get her pissed off when I say I am sorry, she asks what I am sorry about and I don't know. :happy:
  • Mizzou91
    Mizzou91 Posts: 249
    nooo i didn't mean to seem offended lol i was playing! My upstairs neighboor is still scary though ;)

    LOL. we need sarcasm font :)

    and i really am trying to control my anger. i just can't help that i'm attracted to *kitten*

    Wish I knew how to post pictures. I have the perfect one for you.
    2ziu25w.jpg

    Excellent. Thanks for posting that. I need to learn how to do that.
  • supermom2002
    supermom2002 Posts: 180 Member
    Of all the men I have been with, I have only been able to apologize or admit I am wrong to my current bf. We have been together 6.5 years. Maybe you need to ignore the ones who don't think you are worth it, and find one who values you.

    Or, just maybe, marriage is about working through the tough spots and not giving up at the first hint of trouble. Learning how to get through the rough patches is what makes a relationship last.

    and this is why he still loves his wife.
  • supermom2002
    supermom2002 Posts: 180 Member

    "I am woman! Hear me roar!! Watch me wear leather and spank your *kitten* with a whip! Don't EVER talk back!!"

    they can't really watch when they're tied up and blindfolded...but others could
    [/quote]

    Supermom = SM = S&M. Coincidence? I think not.
    [/quote]

    stupid quotes aren't working ;)
  • ElementalEscapee
    ElementalEscapee Posts: 552 Member
    LOL I know many women who can't STOP apologizing...even for *kitten* totally out of their control XD Guy: "Ugh, I missed the bus things morning" Chick: "Oh I'm sorry!" or Guy: "Stop apologizing!" Chick: "Sorry!!" Haha~
  • Miss♥Ivi
    Miss♥Ivi Posts: 461
    If a man is alone in the forest, and he says something and there is no woman to hear it, is he still wrong?


    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    And to add, if I'm wrong, I'll admit it and apologize. Not half-assed either. Wholeheartedly. My boyfriend is also like this. It takes him a little more effort to do it, but he'll come around when he realizes he was wrong and apologize. I don't like arguing so if I know for a fact that I'm right, I try to explain how I feel about the issue. If he gets it, awesome. If he doesn't, I'll leave it alone with a "agree to disagree" attitude and call it a day. I'm not going to force him to apologize or see my point of view. We're both entitled to our opinions. As long as they're being respected, I don't see why we can't disagree on certain things. Usually, he needs more time to fully grasp why I was right/my reasoning and that's fine. Prying doesn't work for neither of us :laugh: Of course, this depends on the matter at hand. More serious issues need more time and communication, obviously. But for the most part, talking it out works for us. And we try never go to bed angry. It gets in the way of sexy time :tongue:
  • ummlovelovesyou
    ummlovelovesyou Posts: 1,024 Member
    What?! I'm never wrong. :laugh:

    THIS. :laugh:
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
    Wish I knew how to post pictures. I have the perfect one for you.
    2ziu25w.jpg

    Excellent. Thanks for posting that. I need to learn how to do that.
    Your first mistake was using CAPS. It's img not IMG
  • Mizzou91
    Mizzou91 Posts: 249
    Wish I knew how to post pictures. I have the perfect one for you.
    2ziu25w.jpg

    Excellent. Thanks for posting that. I need to learn how to do that.
    Your first mistake was using CAPS. It's not[IMG][/img]

    Was that my first mistake or my only mistake? Clarification woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • mamagooskie
    mamagooskie Posts: 2,964 Member
    I'm never wrong.......so I've never encountered that situation yet. I think I could admit if I was though....maybe?
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    Once I thought I was wrong...but I was mistaken...