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edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
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  • Posts: 1,593 Member
    They would have to have the most amazing personality in this world. And still.. probably not.. I'm a horrible person.
  • Posts: 1,161 Member
    They would have to have the most amazing personality in this world.

    True!
  • Posts: 2,670 Member
    I only date 1xl-3xl.

    Total Chubby Chaser, me

    ^^^not snark or sarcasm. True Story.
  • Posts: 199
    99% of the time, no.
  • Posts: 44 Member
    If a guy is VERY intelligent and charming, I will (and have) but before I know a person, I'm just as shallow as the rest of us. I tend to prefer that Jack Skellington look, actually, though my husband has more of a bruce lee build.
  • Posts: 1,927 Member
    I wouldn't pursue them, but if someone I loved got fat I wouldn't break up with them for it. And realistically, I think plus size is better than a twig. I don't like dating skinny guys
  • Posts: 4,604 Member
    Yes, but not if he hates on himself in the mirror every day. There's no room, I'm already standing there doing it!
  • Posts: 2,518 Member
    No. My soon to be ex got up to a 3X. I didn't find that attractive to me, plus the fact that he couldn't do ANYTHING strenuous. I like to walk and hike and spend a lot time outdoors. He physically couldn't do it. Now he's a 2X and still can't do anything, not that I want to spend time doing things with him anymore, but I want to be with someone who can be physically active with me.
  • Posts: 1,035 Member
    Sorry ladies. I am married!

    Just sayin
  • Posts: 1,176
    I like chunkier men and wished that my hubby was one of them. :sad: I just like broader, more meatier, thicker men...LOL. If he has an awesome attitude this makes all the outer body beautiful in my eyes :love:
  • Posts: 1,941 Member
    I prefer my guys around the 'L' end of the spectrum.
  • Posts: 2,685 Member
    Yes.

    I admit that I have my limits though.

    I don't mind a little junk in the trunk... I do mind people who are so large they seem to have trouble moving and breathing. That scares me.

    On the opposite end I also will not date people who are too skinny. I don't mind thin, I do mind bones.

    For me it's all about attraction and when people dip too small or too large I no longer feel any attraction whatsoever, just concern.
  • Posts: 3,143 Member
    yep I sure would as long as their weight doesnt stop them from daily functions...I think if their weight is that big of an issue they need a friend more than a date...same with extreme thin......I will admit I love me some "man chunk"
  • Posts: 1,177 Member
    Of course...im an equal opportunity dater lol
  • Posts: 675 Member
    Have, and would again. I generally am not very attracted to skinny boys. I like men who make me feel tiny. That being said, plus size is okay, but horribly out of shape is not. I want someone who can keep up with my energy level.

    My boyfriend is definitely in the overweight BMI range, but I think he's sexy as hell. So manly. Yum :)
  • Posts: 474 Member
    I find sum chubby guys cute but only sum...like they have to have a cute face... or def. a really great personality but if they dont have a good lookin face it would be impossible..
  • Posts: 2,670 Member
    Yeah, there IS a difference between overweight and out of shape. Just because someone is bigger, does not mean they just lay on the couch eating twinkies all the time.
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    I dated a skinny man once.
    I got hip bone bruises on my inner thighs.
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    Never again. :noway:
  • Posts: 1,705 Member
    Of course I would. I only date people I'm attracted to, but there's a hell of a lot more to attraction than body size.
  • Posts: 173 Member
    Yes i would :)..although i like to be attracted to someone physically ..its not all about looks and i find that if someone can make me laugh they have my attention. However the only person i want making me laugh is my sexy hubby lol., but if i was single i would consider it. x
  • Posts: 552 Member
    I don't mind a little pudge...if they're geeky like me I instantly fall for them, regardless of any previous 'set' standards of mine...haha. Their awesomeness level has to be 9001 or more...if you know what I mean ;D
  • Posts: 16
    I wonder what is 'plus size' to you? There are 'plus size models' (female) that wear size 10. That's not that big.

    If we are two compatible people, and we like each other, why not? We can work out together. :bigsmile:
  • Posts: 1,057 Member
    I'm old & fat..... not a chance. :sad:
  • Posts: 300 Member
    Yup, I like teddy bear guys. :) But, like many have said, not to an unhealthy/inactive point.

    I like smaller guys too, just not smaller than me. :blushing:
  • Posts: 300 Member
    I don't mind a little pudge...if they're geeky like me I instantly fall for them, regardless of any previous 'set' standards of mine...haha. Their awesomeness level has to be 9001 or more...if you know what I mean ;D

    ITS OVER 9000!!!
  • Posts: 116 Member
    I've been with my guy 11 years and i've never dated anyone else...so I don't really know who'd I'd date. He is 6'6" and not skinny but not really fat either, my head comes right up to his armpit so I would classify him as plus size in a way lol. I'm not attracted to skinny or short guys so i'd probably always go for a big guy if I ever had to date.
  • Posts: 986 Member
    My girlfriend says I'm a chubby chaser......
  • Posts: 6,159 Member
    Depends on your definition of plus size...
  • Posts: 484 Member
    Give me a lumberjack...but one that doesn't cut down trees....
  • Posts: 2,670 Member
    sexy:
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    not sexy:

    skinny-blond-boy.jpg

    sexy:

    2110-queen-latifah.jpg

    not sexy:

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  • Posts: 9,307 Member
    I find ladies attractive and sexy in many sizes and shapes,there is no exact way to define what is or isn`t a plus size.
    Every lady is their own person and I refuse to be pigeon holed into someone elses definition of what their appearance and desirability is.
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