Dudes, y would you not have RELATIONS with your SO

iam_thatdude
iam_thatdude Posts: 1,266 Member
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So just to settle a debate on another thread I think it only comes down to the following reasons why you wouldnt want to have relations with your wife/gf

1. Gay
2. You find her very unattractive
3. You're cheating
4. Your junk doesnt work
5. Other

If 5 list the reason
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  • Heyman09
    Heyman09 Posts: 184
    5. I don't feel good about myself! (the same subject in reverse) :)
  • MariaMariaM
    MariaMariaM Posts: 1,322 Member
    Obviously not a dude but I want to read this too.
  • kimber0607
    kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
    I think if you are cheating (my exp. only but) you might have more sex with your SO....as a cover up
    doesnt mean you still dont find so attractive....just because u are getting it elsewhere

    back to not doing it
    Mmmm......would guys really forgo sex because they are out of shape or put on al ittle weight
    naaaahhhhh..that one is tough to believe

    ???
    im clueless
  • silcock69
    silcock69 Posts: 50
    6. Something good on the tele.
  • iam_thatdude
    iam_thatdude Posts: 1,266 Member
    see dudes arent really answering because they would ALWAYS want to have sex with their SO...the only dudes not answering are the ones to embarrased because ther junk doesnt work or they dotn want to come out of the closet or they dont want to say they're married to an ugo.
  • LeggyKettleBabe
    LeggyKettleBabe Posts: 300 Member
    see dudes arent really answering because they would ALWAYS want to have sex with their SO...the only dudes not answering are the ones to embarrased because ther junk doesnt work or they dotn want to come out of the closet or they dont want to say they're married to an ugo.

    roflmao
  • laceyxlockdown
    laceyxlockdown Posts: 70 Member
    the girlfriend part could be waiting for marriage i know a lot of couples like that and ones that succeeded in that its cute but the wife part lol ill have to agree and marriage failure or somthing possibly if your not having sex with the spouse idk im not married yet so cant say :P lol
  • LemonBurns
    LemonBurns Posts: 538 Member
    6. Something good on the tele.

    You must be English? That is one of the reason I sometimes don't wanna either... That and I am addicted to MFP - he he he
  • kb455
    kb455 Posts: 679 Member
    I think if you are cheating (my exp. only but) you might have more sex with your SO....as a cover up
    doesnt mean you still dont find so attractive....just because u are getting it elsewhere

    back to not doing it
    Mmmm......would guys really forgo sex because they are out of shape or put on al ittle weight
    naaaahhhhh..that one is tough to believe

    ???
    im clueless

    (Not a dude, obviously) but I agree with this. It would surprise the hell out of me if a guy's body image affects how much sex he has with his SO. Maybe I'm wrong. Guys just don't seem to care how they look naked, at least not to the extent that they'd let it affect how often they get laid.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    She wouldn't let me put it in her pooper.
    A woman would have to be crazy not to want Panda to put it in her pooper.
  • silcock69
    silcock69 Posts: 50
    6. Something good on the tele.

    You must be English? That is one of the reason I sometimes don't wanna either... That and I am addicted to MFP - he he he

    What gave me away? :D
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    My friends SO never wants sex... maybe once every other week she can talk him into it. He's had testosterone levels checked and they're fine.

    I don't get it. I think that's effed up, personally.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    see dudes arent really answering because they would ALWAYS want to have sex with their SO...the only dudes not answering are the ones to embarrased because ther junk doesnt work or they dotn want to come out of the closet or they dont want to say they're married to an ugo.

    thanks.:grumble:
  • Beezil
    Beezil Posts: 1,677 Member
    Couldn't it be because they're exhausted? Or sore from crazy rough sex the night before? >.> *shrugs*
  • sevenminaya
    sevenminaya Posts: 86 Member
    There could be 4 of reasons:
    1. World Series
    2. Super Bowl
    3. NBA finals
    4. Dominican Winter Baseball League finals

    PS: have in mind these events are like 2 - 3 hours each day for like a week.
    Any other time if we are home and she wants sex, we are having sex. Because me particulary, I always want sex :D
  • supermom2002
    supermom2002 Posts: 180 Member


    mmm......would guys really forgo sex because they are out of shape or put on al ittle weight
    naaaahhhhh..that one is tough to believe

    i'm not believing that one either.

    i can't think of a reason a man would refuse sex. Mind baffling.
  • Lib_B
    Lib_B Posts: 446 Member
    I think if you are cheating (my exp. only but) you might have more sex with your SO....as a cover up
    doesnt mean you still dont find so attractive....just because u are getting it elsewhere

    back to not doing it
    Mmmm......would guys really forgo sex because they are out of shape or put on al ittle weight
    naaaahhhhh..that one is tough to believe

    ???
    im clueless

    (Not a dude, obviously) but I agree with this. It would surprise the hell out of me if a guy's body image affects how much sex he has with his SO. Maybe I'm wrong. Guys just don't seem to care how they look naked, at least not to the extent that they'd let it affect how often they get laid.

    I also think that as women, we aren't as visual - we look for attributes beyond the physical and so a little pooch on a guy might not bother us as much as that same pooch on a girl would bother a guy. different expectations of what we are supposed to look like in the buff. my hubby and i have many 'couple friends' and among them, there are a few "how the hell did he land her?" but i can't think of a single, "how the hell did she land him." just doesn't seem to work out that way...
  • nammer79
    nammer79 Posts: 664 Member
    happily single but when I wasn't ... hell I would call off work some days just to engage in relations
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    happily single but when I wasn't ... hell I would call off work some days just to engage in relations

    don't you do that now?? :wink:
  • california_peach
    california_peach Posts: 1,809 Member
    She wouldn't let me put it in her pooper.
    A woman would have to be crazy not to want Panda to put it in her pooper.

    Crazy as a **** house rat.
  • crazytreelady
    crazytreelady Posts: 752 Member
    6. Something good on the tele.

    You must be English? That is one of the reason I sometimes don't wanna either... That and I am addicted to MFP - he he he


    Come on, be inventive.
    You can still get your freak on and do those things hahaha.
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    Because there's too many people in this elevator.
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    cause she wont let me play the back nine. I'm like hey, cut your hair short and bend over, and use that deep voice.
    she all like, you be wack! It like crazy. why not. it like soo much bettah. I mean it nothing bad or nothing.
    wy girls just not want it like a good pork sandwich. its all goodness. I see her toy she havig, its like damn, you could use that at the same time if you wants. I'll hold it even.
  • lumina0o0
    lumina0o0 Posts: 498 Member
    see dudes arent really answering because they would ALWAYS want to have sex with their SO...the only dudes not answering are the ones to embarrased because ther junk doesnt work or they dotn want to come out of the closet or they dont want to say they're married to an ugo.
    not really...my husband has a lower sex drive then I do...he gets stressed and doesn't want to have sex among other reasons...plus we have two kids and when you men have kids your testosterone levels lower
  • nammer79
    nammer79 Posts: 664 Member
    happily single but when I wasn't ... hell I would call off work some days just to engage in relations

    don't you do that now?? :wink:

    well uumm :tongue: :drinker: :drinker: :drinker:
  • k2quiere
    k2quiere Posts: 4,151 Member
    cause she wont let me play the back nine. I'm like hey, cut your hair short and bend over, and use that deep voice.
    she all like, you be wack! It like crazy. why not. it like soo much bettah. I mean it nothing bad or nothing.
    wy girls just not want it like a good pork sandwich. its all goodness. I see her toy she havig, its like damn, you could use that at the same time if you wants. I'll hold it even.

    Huh??? I sometimes worry about you :flowerforyou:
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    I once had stomach issues going on (turned out to be food poisoning) and I had to gtfo of there as soon as possible and get to a toilet where she wasn't in the other room.
  • babyworms
    babyworms Posts: 1,304 Member
    see dudes arent really answering because they would ALWAYS want to have sex with their SO...the only dudes not answering are the ones to embarrased because ther junk doesnt work or they dotn want to come out of the closet or they dont want to say they're married to an ugo.
    not really...my husband has a lower sex drive then I do...he gets stressed and doesn't want to have sex among other reasons...

    Yep. It doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with them or that they're "married to an ugo" to use this charming phrase, just wired differently.

    Also, i think this thread is being somewhat insensitive to the men out there with low sex drives. Way to make them feel abnormal. There's nothing wrong with a low sex drive in men or women. It doesn't mean you love your SO any less, nor does it mean that there's any less intimacy in the relationship.
  • gungho66
    gungho66 Posts: 284 Member
    there is not a day goes by that i wouldnt have sex. I thought all guys felt that way
  • silcock69
    silcock69 Posts: 50
    6. Something good on the tele.

    You must be English? That is one of the reason I sometimes don't wanna either... That and I am addicted to MFP - he he he


    Come on, be inventive.
    You can still get your freak on and do those things hahaha.

    crazy woman..
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