Dudes, y would you not have RELATIONS with your SO

few reasons: not attracted to her, she's boring in bed or she's lazy

Or... Just not feeling it? Wired differently? Because now you're making it sound like men who aren't constantly after sex are abnormal, and women whose SO isn't interested in sex are all to blame!

3 b/c of 2
4 b/c i do to much 3
5 b/c is sunday and footballs on

My friends SO never wants sex... maybe once every other week she can talk him into it. He's had testosterone levels checked and they're fine.

I don't get it. I think that's effed up, personally.

ur freind is ugly or ur friend's bf is gay

How can you be like this? So ignorant and insulting? You don't know peoples' situations.

How can I ve like this? I tell it like it is and if women faced the truth they would be much better off in their relationships

You tell it how YOU see it. You have NO idea what goes on in other peoples' lives. How dare you suggest that the only reasons a guy might not want sex are because he's either gay or it's somehow something wrong with his SO. I can't believe i'm the only one standing up for this... If my husband didn't want sex, am i to assume it's because i'm fat, or because somehow else it's my fault, or he's cheating, or gay?? Seriously. Stupidest thing i've ever heard.

Sure there are men out there who WOULD go off sex for those reasons, but they're not the only reasons, and who are you to suggest that there's something wrong with people who don't share your views?

I dated a guy for about a year and we made out 4 times, never anything further, and plenty of opportunities.. what's his excuse ?

My friends SO never wants sex... maybe once every other week she can talk him into it. He's had testosterone levels checked and they're fine.

I don't get it. I think that's effed up, personally.

ur freind is ugly or ur friend's bf is gay

How can you be like this? So ignorant and insulting? You don't know peoples' situations.

How can I ve like this? I tell it like it is and if women faced the truth they would be much better off in their relationships

You tell it how YOU see it. You have NO idea what goes on in other peoples' lives. How dare you suggest that the only reasons a guy might not want sex are because he's either gay or it's somehow something wrong with his SO. I can't believe i'm the only one standing up for this... If my husband didn't want sex, am i to assume it's because i'm fat, or because somehow else it's my fault, or he's cheating, or gay?? Seriously. Stupidest thing i've ever heard.

Sure there are men out there who WOULD go off sex for those reasons, but they're not the only reasons, and who are you to suggest that there's something wrong with people who don't share your views?

While I mostly agree with you, who are you to suggest he's in the wrong?

These are all our opinions...yours is different than his...why are you so pissed off about it? I mean...you called him ignorant lol. And again (based on his 'text speak') while I may or may not agree with even that...in the end, its still just my opinion, and nothing to get pissed about.

As for me, the ONLY reasons for not having sex either when presented with the opportunity, or for not going out of my way to make my own opportunity, are as follows:

1. Flat. Assed. Exhaustion.

And I don't mean I'm just tired...I recently was up for 24hrs due to various reasons, then rode my motorcycle 157 miles in an hour and a half to see her, on very short notice (I wasn't going to go because I was so exhausted...but ended up going at the last minute) in order to straighten out an issue, and STILL performed 2hrs after I got there when said issue was straightened out.

2. I'm pissed.

And again, I don't just mean annoyed, or angry at one small thing or even angry at a bigger thing. Often those things can make sex more interesting lol. I mean...pissed about a problem that has been brought up for whatever reason, enough times that it should have been dealt with already...and is instead being ignored.

And even in the event of those two circumstances...she's still got a shot if she gives it a bit of effort.

Hockey night in Canada. Actually, that's my reason. He'd ask for a BJ while watching his team win but unfortunately he's a Leafs fan.

why cant u do him during intermission?

Intermissionary position?

My friends SO never wants sex... maybe once every other week she can talk him into it. He's had testosterone levels checked and they're fine.

I don't get it. I think that's effed up, personally.

ur freind is ugly or ur friend's bf is gay

How can you be like this? So ignorant and insulting? You don't know peoples' situations.

How can I ve like this? I tell it like it is and if women faced the truth they would be much better off in their relationships

You tell it how YOU see it. You have NO idea what goes on in other peoples' lives. How dare you suggest that the only reasons a guy might not want sex are because he's either gay or it's somehow something wrong with his SO. I can't believe i'm the only one standing up for this... If my husband didn't want sex, am i to assume it's because i'm fat, or because somehow else it's my fault, or he's cheating, or gay?? Seriously. Stupidest thing i've ever heard.

Sure there are men out there who WOULD go off sex for those reasons, but they're not the only reasons, and who are you to suggest that there's something wrong with people who don't share your views?

If u husb doesnt want to have sex, my reasons apply, you can get mad, deny it , whatever, but I AM RIGHT. Dela with it, get on the treadmill, check to see if he dl'ds gay porn, whatever....its probably YOUR fault.

Someone sounds angry that he has an ugly wife...at least you know she won't leave!