Where is he/she now?

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  • redcut
    redcut Posts: 176
    He is a good friend on facebook we run into each other about once a month he is married with 4 boys glad it was not me lol
  • Adelphia
    Adelphia Posts: 176
    My first boyfriend lives in Washington with his girlfriend and adorable baby boy. He's almost 21 and I feel old just thinking about it. (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚
  • tkaawa
    tkaawa Posts: 302
    I married my high school sweet heart:heart:
  • Mommareed4
    Mommareed4 Posts: 144
    he is at work :) been married almost 7 years and dated 5 years before that. 4 kids together.
  • trishgrace
    trishgrace Posts: 279 Member
    We are happily married. We started dated when I was 16, married when I turned 21. We have 2 children. A Girl and a boy.
  • themommie
    themommie Posts: 5,033 Member
    my high school bf ended up being my step brother no kidding. We broke up when i was 17 , I hadnt seen him in 20 yrs then my mom and his dad started dating , they ended up getting married. They divorced 2 yrs ago. He is married for the 3rd time and has 2 kids and 2 step children and is on disability. Glad we didnt stay together he was sweet, but a loser and i am happily married and have been for 20 yrs together for 25 yrs......
  • smkcx
    smkcx Posts: 69
    One, dropped out of highschool and has been in and out of jail ever since (hes actually in jail right now for 8mths)
    Another, has five kids with five different women and has also been in and out of jail also.

    Thankfully I wasn't serious about either of them back then and I found my soulmate five years ago :)
  • rebecky27
    rebecky27 Posts: 842 Member
    I was stalked for years by him...lost track of him...blocked him from finding me on facebook...then facebook timeline came out. Somehow, my "block" setting dropped out, and he found me.

    I accepted, but he's on a restricted list, and can only see posts that I make public. He lives probably about an hour's drive from me...
  • cabaray
    cabaray Posts: 971 Member
    Let's see...he dropped out of high school, has never been married and has 5 kids with 5 different women (I do not happen to be one of them). I think I lucked out!
  • MrsORourke
    MrsORourke Posts: 315 Member
    I found out two weeks ago that he died of a heart attack at age 31.....a year ago. It broke my heart to hear that because we had a secret/complicated/wonderful thing. As much as I love my husband and would never give him up......I always thought that if anything, God forbid, happened to my husband, that my fist love and I would end up together in the end. We always had a connection. There was a time, almost 9 years ago, when I had to chose my current husband or Truman, my ex. I chose my current husband. I do not regret it. But I have been secretly grieving by myself over this and it is so hard. MY husband knows about Truman and that he passed. He just doesn't know how much it hurts. I think he would misunderstand my feelings.


    ^ this is so sad. My condolences!
  • CarolinaGirlinVA
    CarolinaGirlinVA Posts: 1,508 Member
    In Afganistan. Has a wife and two beautiful children back home waiting for him to return. Yes, we are friends...after a 20 year break when he pissed me off.
  • sisterlilbunny
    sisterlilbunny Posts: 686 Member
    Of the two that count? I know one went to jail for dealing/making meth. He's probably out by now but still thinking his camero is the bomb. The other owns his own business out near home town and has like 6 kids, 4 by his wife that took off cause well, like father like son. Skipped that time bomb in terms of "holy crap he's fertile" and I don't like getting pushed around.
  • jaxbeck
    jaxbeck Posts: 537 Member
    Who knows!! lol
  • sammys1girly
    sammys1girly Posts: 1,045 Member
    Mine's on his second marriage and my husband and him get along fine whenever we see him on occasion.
    Looking back, he was a good friend and I thought I was in love, but when I see his personality now, he's a
    nice guy, but not my type and would drive me crazy!!:yawn:
  • pineapple1989
    pineapple1989 Posts: 195 Member
    Not much I think! He got a girl pregnant shortly after we split up after nearly 2 years together (planned pregnancy as well!) and occasionally attempts to chat me up via facebook claiming his fiancee isnt right for him and "doesnt understand him". Looks like I dodged a bullet there!
  • dlongshot7
    dlongshot7 Posts: 79
    Currently Stationed in Honduras... we briefly were engaged. Iraq ruinned that one, but are currently rebuilding our relationship. :) we were destined from the start. Love conquers all.
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    I use to be friends with my ex-girlfriends husband. I'm actually happy she married him. He was a good guy. I have absolutely no regrets leaving her and moving away. I don't think about her at all unless someone brings up a reunion. We are friends on Facebook but neither of us post very often and never just to each other, other than Happy Birthday.

    I miss North Dakota...just not the cold. Damn was it cold!


    Hello Fellow ND person! It's not always cold up here... LOL Only for 9 months out of the year :laugh:

    I spent a lot of time shoveling snow from my driveway in -41 degree weather, only to have the street sweepers pile it all back at the end of my driveway, making me have to shovel all over again. There's no way I'd live up there again, but I do miss the summers.

    I'm from GF by the way.
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    I didn't keep in touch, and I could care less what he is doing now! haha
  • rikwaynik
    rikwaynik Posts: 724 Member
    I enjoyed reading everyone's stories. :)
    I had two boyfriends in high school. My first love left the day after graduation, moved away and took my heart with him. He returned 4 years later and wanted to get married, but it was too late. I think of him warmly when I think of him, which is not often. :) My second boyfriend while in high school and I didn't work at first. He was married for 4 years, then divorced. We've been married now for 30 years and have a son.
  • Jlfisch
    Jlfisch Posts: 27
    I use to be friends with my ex-girlfriends husband. I'm actually happy she married him. He was a good guy. I have absolutely no regrets leaving her and moving away. I don't think about her at all unless someone brings up a reunion. We are friends on Facebook but neither of us post very often and never just to each other, other than Happy Birthday.

    I miss North Dakota...just not the cold. Damn was it cold!


    Hello Fellow ND person! It's not always cold up here... LOL Only for 9 months out of the year :laugh:

    I spent a lot of time shoveling snow from my driveway in -41 degree weather, only to have the street sweepers pile it all back at the end of my driveway, making me have to shovel all over again. There's no way I'd live up there again, but I do miss the summers.

    I'm from GF by the way.

    this year you wouldn't have had to worry too much about snow, we didn't get more than a few inches here and there. Good ole Fargo here. Our state flag aka the orange construction cone is already clogging the streets in town that is one thing I could do without during the summer other than the ferocious mosquitos.
  • HollywoodDJ
    HollywoodDJ Posts: 296
    Th one I was the most in love with is friend with me on facebook. He is married (2x) and never had children. I don't think he married the 2nd one he is with for love. I think he married her to make her a legal citizen of this country but they have been married for years now. Last we talked he told me he drank about a 12 pack a night and was depressed his life turned out the way it did. I know he was still hung up on his 1st wife for YEARS but when she left him she went into hiding basically. I think there was some issues there.....IDK, He seems better lately but who knows. (Thank God for unanswered prayers) Really...I don't think I would be happy with him.

    The other BF from HS...we kept in touch for years and always had a connection but lost touch when he told me he was getting married to his college sweetheart and that he didn't like talking to me bcuz it was the only time he ever doubted marrying her. They have two kids now ...we are friends on FB but he only "lurks" at my profile...never comments anymore. We talked on the phone a few years back after we got reconnected and was whining about his wife having an "emotional" affair with her HS sweetheart she had found on FB....but he was very condescending and talked down to me the whole time...he didn't like it much when I called him out on it ! Ha!

    One I have totally lost touch with...don't know what he's up to...

    and no one else really matters!

    Happily married to my handsome firefighter with three boys....even though today he is crabby and I could kick his *kitten*! Hahahaha~
  • Ocarina
    Ocarina Posts: 1,550 Member
    One died.

    Another I think is in college at some random school. But he has a thing about exaggerating and lying about what he is doing on his Facebook. One reason why I couldn't stand him... always lying about himself lol. Haven't talked to the idiot in 3+ years! Which I'm cool with. I've seen him recently mowing lawns at commercial places and he went to the same community college I did coincidentally for a couple semesters so I'd run into him. Never talked though. Just glared. Actually his dad delivers meat for a company and walked in front of me at my old place LOL... that was creepy. Or the multitudes of times I've see his step-dad working on lawns in my dad's old neighborhood. And his best friend goes to university at this school I'm at and I've seen him a couple times glaring at me. Sigh...

    Sucks how small this town is!
  • garita93
    garita93 Posts: 267 Member
    At home asleep, he works third shift...
    We got together when I was 18, married when I was 21, had three children together and celebrating our 13yr wedding anniversary this year. He is still by best-est friend and my biggest fan!
  • Hellbent_Heidi
    Hellbent_Heidi Posts: 3,669 Member
    Great post! For years, I wondered if he was maybe the "one that got away",

    However...last I'd heard he was in jail...for drugs, and I have a great husband, so I guess I dodged that bullet, eh?
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    Our state flag aka the orange construction cone is already clogging the streets in town that is one thing I could do without during the summer other than the ferocious mosquitos.

    I remember those ferocious moquitos. They were the size of Texas. Biggest mosquitos I've ever seen. Our practice facility was situated about 30 yards from the river and we had to spray ourselves prior to practicing. They were horrible. So much to hate about that place...but for some reason, I loved it. Still, I'm a Texas man now and will gladly stay that way for a while.

    On a positive note: My 13-year old daughter has her eyes set on UND for college. Plans to be a forensic scientist.
  • Jlfisch
    Jlfisch Posts: 27
    Our state flag aka the orange construction cone is already clogging the streets in town that is one thing I could do without during the summer other than the ferocious mosquitos.

    I remember those ferocious moquitos. They were the size of Texas. Biggest mosquitos I've ever seen. Our practice facility was situated about 30 yards from the river and we had to spray ourselves prior to practicing. They were horrible. So much to hate about that place...but for some reason, I loved it. Still, I'm a Texas man now and will gladly stay that way for a while.

    On a positive note: My 13-year old daughter has her eyes set on UND for college. Plans to be a forensic scientist.



    How is that a positive note LOL UND?? Tell her to set her sights higher and go to NDSU :tongue:
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    I've taught her well. She hates NDSUcks.

    She also hates the cow team from Austin and the gaggies from that same state. My daughters are awesome!!!!!
  • SixCatFaerie
    SixCatFaerie Posts: 690 Member
    Don't know or care what happened to any of my exes. :indifferent: They are exes for a reason! :explode: Have NEVER been friends with an ex! Just bad Juju in my opinion.

    Been happily married for 16 years now & together for almost 18. :love:
  • Karrix
    Karrix Posts: 288
    We were together nearly 6 years, we split up almost a year ago. I stayed in Montreal, he moved to Saskatchewan.
    I moved on, started dating other people.

    He is still telling me that he made a huge mistake. I don't regret leaving at all. :happy:
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    He is still telling me that he made a huge mistake. I don't regret leaving at all. :happy:

    Of course he did. The grass is greener on the other side, or so they say. Besides, hindsight is 20/20.
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