Being called " fat" by another " fatty"

Bumdrahp
Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
edited December 18 in Motivation and Support
Has anyone ever been called a fat chick by another large woman? So, I have fallen victim to the " Us fat chicks" and the " two fat girls" comments, said by another large woman( or women). I know I am big..but, I don't care what size you are.. I don't want to be called fat by another person..Maybe i'm just a sensitive baby? But, it bothers me a little!! I know they don't mean it in a malicious way AT ALL.. but, it just ain't cute! ( Now please don't come verbally abuse me!!) :flowerforyou:
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  • AlicynH
    AlicynH Posts: 201 Member
    I've never been called fat by another fat chick but I had a room mate that was always skinny and would make comments here and there. This was about 15 years ago. I ran into her a couple of weeks ago and she is now bigger than I am. I may burn in Hell for saying this but "NANNY, NANNY NANNY"!!! :laugh:
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    I've never been called fat by another fat chick but I had a room mate that was always skinny and would make comments here and there. This was about 15 years ago. I ran into her a couple of weeks ago and she is now bigger than I am. I may burn in Hell for saying this but "NANNY, NANNY NANNY"!!! :laugh:

    KARMA!!! Lmao You wont burn in hell.. she got hit the the karma bus!
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    Maybe you both should stop calling other women fat since it apparently bothers you so much when they do it to you.
  • jazzie2421
    jazzie2421 Posts: 45
    Has anyone ever been called a fat chick by another large woman? So, I have fallen victim to the " Us fat chicks" and the " two fat girls" comments, said by another large woman( or women). I know I am big..but, I don't care what size you are.. I don't want to be called fat by another person..Maybe i'm just a sensitive baby? But, it bothers me a little!! I know they don't mean it in a malicious way AT ALL.. but, it just ain't cute! ( Now please don't come verbally abuse me!!) :flowerforyou:

    My fiance's nephew had the nerve to say something the other day and I shot daggers. I wish real ones could've come out of my eyes! But my girlfriend and I will sometimes joke about it, but we are the same size and have been friends for over 20 years. She can say that. Nobody else can.
  • LovelyLifter
    LovelyLifter Posts: 560 Member
    Maybe you both should stop calling other women fat since it apparently bothers you so much when they do it to you.

    ^^^^ this
  • onedayillbeamilf
    onedayillbeamilf Posts: 966 Member
    Maybe you both should stop calling other women fat since it apparently bothers you so much when they do it to you.

    Why do you have to be all sensible and stuff?
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    Maybe you both should stop calling other women fat since it apparently bothers you so much when they do it to you.

    do the quotations mean nothing?! i am not calling ANYONE fat.. I said larger woman... Im a large woman.. thats fine.. but I dont go around saying " us fat chicks".. I'm not mean spirited by any means..
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    Someone called me a "gordita" about a year ago. I almost swung a bat in the general direction of her face until I realized what she meant.

    I know she didn't mean it in a negative way. "Gordita" is often used by people in Miami to affectionately refer to a girl who is chubby but very pretty, but I just kept thinking about the taco bell gorditas.

    pdp_gordita_supreme.jpg
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    Someone called me a "gordita" about a year ago. I almost swung a bat in the general direction of her face until I realized what she meant.

    I know she didn't mean it in a negative way. "Gordita" is often used by people in Miami to affectionately refer to a girl who is chubby but very pretty, but I just kept thinking about the taco bell gorditas.

    pdp_gordita_supreme.jpg

    now I'm hungry
  • Shock_Wave
    Shock_Wave Posts: 1,573 Member
    Someone called me a "gordita" about a year ago. I almost swung a bat in the general direction of her face until I realized what she meant.

    I know she didn't mean it in a negative way. "Gordita" is often used by people in Miami to affectionately refer to a girl who is chubby but very pretty, but I just kept thinking about the taco bell gorditas.

    pdp_gordita_supreme.jpg
    LMAO!!
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    Someone called me a "gordita" about a year ago. I almost swung a bat in the general direction of her face until I realized what she meant.

    I know she didn't mean it in a negative way. "Gordita" is often used by people in Miami to affectionately refer to a girl who is chubby but very pretty, but I just kept thinking about the taco bell gorditas.

    pdp_gordita_supreme.jpg

    now I'm hungry

    HMPFf!

    ME 2!
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    yeah, I'm Puerto Rican so, all my life I heard " gordita".. Kind of grew up not likeing it though lol.
  • jfl613
    jfl613 Posts: 71
    I've never been called fat by another fat chick but I had a room mate that was always skinny and would make comments here and there. This was about 15 years ago. I ran into her a couple of weeks ago and she is now bigger than I am. I may burn in Hell for saying this but "NANNY, NANNY NANNY"!!! :laugh:

    KARMA!!! Lmao You wont burn in hell.. she got hit the the karma bus!
    AMEN!
  • jen88ve
    jen88ve Posts: 153
    My friend made the comment, "we're going to be the biggest ones in swim suits out of our friends!" I told her she can direct her negative comments towards herself because I look fly in my swim suit! HAHAHA! :laugh:
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,576 Member
    Someone called me a "gordita" about a year ago. I almost swung a bat in the general direction of her face until I realized what she meant.

    I know she didn't mean it in a negative way. "Gordita" is often used by people in Miami to affectionately refer to a girl who is chubby but very pretty, but I just kept thinking about the taco bell gorditas.

    pdp_gordita_supreme.jpg

    now I'm hungry

    Now I have the commercial replaying in my head. GOR-DI-TA!! GOR-DI-TA!!


    taco_bell_dog_che.jpg
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    yeah, I'm Puerto Rican so, all my life I heard " gordita".. Kind of grew up not likeing it though lol.

    Yeah, I was like, "WHAAAT! I don't look like a giant taco!" yeah... I'm slow...
  • docktorfokse
    docktorfokse Posts: 473 Member
    Maybe you both should stop calling other women fat since it apparently bothers you so much when they do it to you.
    But THEN what would they complain about on the internet?
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    Maybe you both should stop calling other women fat since it apparently bothers you so much when they do it to you.
    But THEN what would they complain about on the internet?

    You guys don;t have to be jerks.. i'm not being malicious.. i dont go around bashing people all day long. I dont sit here complaining all day long.
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    Just for the record I am NOT calling anyone fat. I'm not the bullying type so, sorry for the misunderstanding.
  • MoreBean13
    MoreBean13 Posts: 8,701 Member
    LOL @ the gordita!

    OP I know you're just ranting, but unless someone means a comment as an insult, don't take it that way. People make observations and blurt things out without understanding the implications of their word choices all the time. Its impossible to know what will be insulting to another person. You happen to be okay with "larger woman" but not fat to describe the same exact thing. Someone else in the world might have life experiences to make "larger woman" an insulting phrase. The gordita comment is a perfect example of this- people with different cultures an non-native english speakers may have totally different interpretations of words. Its never, ever going to change no matter how much it annoys you.
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    LOL @ the gordita!

    OP I know you're just ranting, but unless someone means a comment as an insult, don't take it that way. People make observations and blurt things out without understanding the implications of their word choices all the time. Its impossible to know what will be insulting to another person. You happen to be okay with "larger woman" but not fat to describe the same exact thing. Someone else in the world might have life experiences to make "larger woman" an insulting phrase. The gordita comment is a perfect example of this- people with different cultures an non-native english speakers may have totally different interpretations of words. Its never, ever going to change no matter how much it annoys you.

    Of course I understand that.. i guess I didn't take that much into consideration.. I know it wont change, only thing that can change is me so, that's why I am even on MFP to begin with.
  • susanswan
    susanswan Posts: 1,194 Member
    Being called "heavy", "sturdy", "Stocky", "Pleasantly plump", are all "nicer" ways to say that someone is fat. Let's face it if you are too short for your weight, you are fat. No one likes it. I didn't like it. It took me forever but I finally addressed the problem. But misery does love company. No one wants to be the only "fat one" in the group. I used to be teased about my big butt. After losing 70 pounds I am no longer fat with a "big butt". I am now referred to as "tiny", "so small", "skinny", "look like a model" and guess what? The power is yours! If you don't like being described as one of the "fat" names you do have the power to change that, and you ARE changing that by being here, coming up with a plan, and following through. YOU can change that today. Everyday that you follow through is one day closer to NOT being "fat". That is why we are here, and that is part of why we all do it. Best of luck to you!
    Susan
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    Just for the record I am NOT calling anyone fat. I'm not the bullying type so, sorry for the misunderstanding.

    The record already states that you did call someone fat. It's the title of your thread. No misunderstanding on this end.
  • fromfattofine
    fromfattofine Posts: 80 Member
    Unfortunately yes by both male and female (brother and sister) who were both bigger than me.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Got into an argument with somebody. While I'm a "live and let live" kinda person, if somebody pisses me off then my tongue has no leash.

    The person said to his buddies pointing towards me in the middle of the argument "This fatass is pissing me off now" to which my reply was "B1tch please, you so fat your momma couldn't even find your d1ck when she was trying to suck it".
  • Hellbent_Heidi
    Hellbent_Heidi Posts: 3,669 Member
    Years ago, but a HUGE old Italian lady who worked in a bridal shop (I was being fitted for a hideous bridesmaid dress).

    Looking back at pictures, it hurt my feelings, but it wasn't a lie!
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    Just for the record I am NOT calling anyone fat. I'm not the bullying type so, sorry for the misunderstanding.

    The record already states that you did call someone fat. It's the title of your thread. No misunderstanding on this end.

    Thread names bad, but it wasn't with intent of name calling. That's not something I do. For the title, yeah my fault.. and I can take the heat for that. But I don't go around bashing people.
  • julieh391
    julieh391 Posts: 683 Member
    The other day at a birthday party I was out of the room when they opened the ice cream. As soon as I walked in my kinda chubby sister-in-law said, "Oh! I bet the fat girl wants some ice cream!" I could have hid in a hole.. She definitely wasn't doing it in a "fat chick club" kinda way. It was mean. And it made me feel awful. :(
  • iceqieen
    iceqieen Posts: 862 Member
    Yes. I'm fat. Its kinda just a statement of truth. I'm also brown haired, and have freckles and I don't take offense when called that.

    Then again, I've been called far worse and trained myself just to shrug it off (working night shifts dealing with drunk people will get you that training fast).

    Did have a roomate in highschool that used to say things like "ugh your eyes are too small" or "lips are too thin".. she also enjoyed telling me how big I looked in this or that outfit. That did bother me allot.. but I was younger and had no self esteem.. and did not realise untill later that she was a ***** and full of ****.

    edit: then again, my friends are mostly male.. so poking a belly and saying "you're fat" is a friendly way of saying hi :P I do know that saying "us fat " can not be said to a stranger, and once you get to know a person you find out if its ok to say that to her/him or not.. depends a whole lot on how fragile that person is IMO
  • Stinkerbelle84
    Stinkerbelle84 Posts: 328
    I don't like being called fat, chunky, big, or any of the above names by ANYONE, muchless from someone who has no room to speak! And for those who are bashing the OP, she did NOT call anyone "fat." If I am reading correctly, large women called her "fat."

    I don't like to pass judgement on others, and I really don't like it when others pass judgement on me. Some people are not so kind though. We all have different shapes, sizes, and comfort zones. I work with a lot of "skinny" people who consider anyone larger than a size 2 to be fat and disgusting. That mentality is truly disgusting.
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