Being called " fat" by another " fatty"

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  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    I don't know about the rest of you, but I am on here because I am fat. Lard *kitten*. Fatty fatty fat fat. Chubby. Fat ****er.

    Just wanted to make that clear.

    Embrace who you are.

    You. Are. Fat.

    People see your fat rolls when you are in a swim suit. You jiggle when you walk.

    Get over it.

    Now, go lose some weight.

    Like I said I know I am big. but I do not like being called names..by anyone.. I mean who does?! Yeah I am here for a LIFESTYLE change.. not just because I am " fat" or as you said Lard *kitten*. Fatty fatty fat fat. Chubby. Fat ****er... it's much more than that. For the record " skinny" girls don't like being called out for being " too skinny" either.. I'm glad though, that you can let it roll off your back more easily than others. I am working on that.
  • anoroc751
    anoroc751 Posts: 57 Member
    I don't know about the rest of you, but I am on here because I am fat. Lard *kitten*. Fatty fatty fat fat. Chubby. Fat ****er.

    Just wanted to make that clear.

    Embrace who you are.

    You. Are. Fat.

    People see your fat rolls when you are in a swim suit. You jiggle when you walk.

    Get over it.

    Now, go lose some weight.

    Now this made me laugh.
  • StarkLark
    StarkLark Posts: 476 Member
    I don't know about the rest of you, but I am on here because I am fat. Lard *kitten*. Fatty fatty fat fat. Chubby. Fat ****er.

    Just wanted to make that clear.

    Embrace who you are.

    You. Are. Fat.

    People see your fat rolls when you are in a swim suit. You jiggle when you walk.

    Get over it.

    Now, go lose some weight.
    Well, that is one way to say it. :huh:

    While I feel what you wrote is true about myself, I hesitate to tell others the same simply because everyone can be sensitive to different things. Especially the ladies. So even if you are correct, you could probably use some more tact IMO.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    I don't know about the rest of you, but I am on here because I am fat. Lard *kitten*. Fatty fatty fat fat. Chubby. Fat ****er.

    Just wanted to make that clear.

    Embrace who you are.

    You. Are. Fat.

    People see your fat rolls when you are in a swim suit. You jiggle when you walk.

    Get over it.

    Now, go lose some weight.

    I got no problem knowing that I'm fat. I got no problem with my loved ones coming up to me and saying politely that they're worried about my health and that I need to take care of myself. I do have a problem somebody else calling me fat as an insult when they themselves should be looking mirror
  • boggsmeister
    boggsmeister Posts: 292 Member
    I don't know about the rest of you, but I am on here because I am fat. Lard *kitten*. Fatty fatty fat fat. Chubby. Fat ****er.

    Just wanted to make that clear.

    Embrace who you are.

    You. Are. Fat.

    People see your fat rolls when you are in a swim suit. You jiggle when you walk.

    Get over it.

    Now, go lose some weight.

    I should have said one other thing. If anyone looks down on you because you are fat. Tell them to kiss your *kitten* and walk on. It's a body shape, not your soul.
  • ElleOQuent
    ElleOQuent Posts: 429 Member
    Brett - I am reading both the thread topic and the original post just fine. And just wondering, if all of the hemming and hawing bothers you that much, then why don't you just not read the thread? Arrogance and sarcasm are really not necessary.

    Just my opinion :)

    Is he supposed to not reply to a thread simply because he has a differing opinion? Does that not defeat the purpose of posting a topic on a public forum?
  • angeldaae
    angeldaae Posts: 348 Member
    Has anyone ever been called a fat chick by another large woman? So, I have fallen victim to the " Us fat chicks" and the " two fat girls" comments, said by another large woman( or women). I know I am big..but, I don't care what size you are.. I don't want to be called fat by another person..Maybe i'm just a sensitive baby? But, it bothers me a little!! I know they don't mean it in a malicious way AT ALL.. but, it just ain't cute! ( Now please don't come verbally abuse me!!) :flowerforyou:

    I totally understand what you mean. I feel like some women want to embrace their obesity, but I am not one of them. I want to escape my obesity. It is not something I want to "bond" over with "other fat chicks."

    I feel the same way about the word "heiffer." Some women use it to describe their friends when they would otherwise call them a *****. I think it's just as terrible to call your friend a cow.
  • ElleOQuent
    ElleOQuent Posts: 429 Member
    I don't know about the rest of you, but I am on here because I am fat. Lard *kitten*. Fatty fatty fat fat. Chubby. Fat ****er.

    Just wanted to make that clear.

    Embrace who you are.

    You. Are. Fat.

    People see your fat rolls when you are in a swim suit. You jiggle when you walk.

    Get over it.

    Now, go lose some weight.


    AMENNNNNNNNN. :drinker:
  • SouthernNHgirl
    SouthernNHgirl Posts: 27 Member
    My ex-in laws used to mention my "fat" all the time. It bothered me because there were times when I lost the "fat" and they wouldn't mention that they noticed me losing weight. I always thought that was strange for them to think it was ok to bring up the negative, but not the postitive.
  • jennlowe66
    jennlowe66 Posts: 30
    Brett - I am reading both the thread topic and the original post just fine. And just wondering, if all of the hemming and hawing bothers you that much, then why don't you just not read the thread? Arrogance and sarcasm are really not necessary.

    Just my opinion :)

    ^^^^^^^this!
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    Brett - I am reading both the thread topic and the original post just fine. And just wondering, if all of the hemming and hawing bothers you that much, then why don't you just not read the thread? Arrogance and sarcasm are really not necessary.

    Just my opinion :)

    Is he supposed to not reply to a thread simply because he has a differing opinion? Does that not defeat the purpose of posting a topic on a public forum?

    of course he can, I think it's the way he did it that made others ( myself included) feel like it was an attack? Maybe? but anywho. His opinion has been understood. I have no issues with it.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    I don't know about the rest of you, but I am on here because I am fat. Lard *kitten*. Fatty fatty fat fat. Chubby. Fat ****er.

    Just wanted to make that clear.

    Embrace who you are.

    You. Are. Fat.

    People see your fat rolls when you are in a swim suit. You jiggle when you walk.

    Get over it.

    Now, go lose some weight.

    I should have said one other thing. If anyone looks down on you because you are fat. Tell them to kiss your *kitten* and walk on. It's a body shape, not your soul.

    BINGO!
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
    Tell her to listen to this

    http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&cd=1&ved=0CEcQtwIwAA&url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-sySxRt70M&ei=bmypT5yaFOSsiAKAyoSVAQ&usg=AFQjCNHEQUldXs-OCWYio2vFHSgainjIwQ
  • ElleOQuent
    ElleOQuent Posts: 429 Member
    Brett - I am reading both the thread topic and the original post just fine. And just wondering, if all of the hemming and hawing bothers you that much, then why don't you just not read the thread? Arrogance and sarcasm are really not necessary.

    Just my opinion :)

    Is he supposed to not reply to a thread simply because he has a differing opinion? Does that not defeat the purpose of posting a topic on a public forum?

    of course he can, I think it's the way he did it that made others ( myself included) feel like it was an attack? Maybe? but anywho. His opinion has been understood. I have no issues with it.

    I'm sorry that his sentiment on the matter felt like an attack, especially because he not once was abrasive.
  • majordlite
    majordlite Posts: 266 Member
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    I think the majority of us agree that we understand what you were saying and you weren't calling people fat!! Don't really understand the hostility from others about something so silly!!
    [/quote]

    ^^This. To the OP, yes, it would've pissed me off--a LOT. And, I'm sorry, being told you're "fat" is not the same as someone commenting on your having brown hair or freckles since the first is offensive, at least to 99% of the population. Now I'm sure someone is going to comment that there are people who don't like brown hair or freckles...sigh...
  • downsizinghoss
    downsizinghoss Posts: 1,035 Member
    It is definitely a little more of a guy/girl difference. Most of my freinds refer to themselves as fat old men.

    And if someone says it in an insulting manner, I have no problem telling them what i think of them.

    At least I still have my hair!
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    Brett - I am reading both the thread topic and the original post just fine. And just wondering, if all of the hemming and hawing bothers you that much, then why don't you just not read the thread? Arrogance and sarcasm are really not necessary.

    Just my opinion :)

    Is he supposed to not reply to a thread simply because he has a differing opinion? Does that not defeat the purpose of posting a topic on a public forum?

    of course he can, I think it's the way he did it that made others ( myself included) feel like it was an attack? Maybe? but anywho. His opinion has been understood. I have no issues with it.

    I'm sorry that his sentiment on the matter felt like an attack, especially because he not once was abrasive.

    Hm, I think when he was gettign sarcastic ^^ as she said.. it felt aggressive in a way. Like I said. I have no issues with it.. I understood where he was coming from so, it really is fine now.
  • mtaylor1980
    mtaylor1980 Posts: 134 Member
    I've never been called fat by another fat chick but I had a room mate that was always skinny and would make comments here and there. This was about 15 years ago. I ran into her a couple of weeks ago and she is now bigger than I am. I may burn in Hell for saying this but "NANNY, NANNY NANNY"!!! :laugh:

    KARMA!!! Lmao You wont burn in hell.. she got hit the the karma bus!

    LOL!! YEAH!!!!!
  • Cmonnowguys
    Cmonnowguys Posts: 361 Member
    yeah, I'm Puerto Rican so, all my life I heard " gordita".. Kind of grew up not likeing it though lol.

    Yea, same here. Gordita the way I always heard it used had nothing to do with being pretty or not. It definitely was used to describe any girl who was fairly chubby, whether or not she was pretty. I definitely wouldn't take it in a good way, lol.
  • atrjohnson
    atrjohnson Posts: 77 Member
    I usually refer to myself as fat and it bothers other people not me. I am only offended if people start telling me I am going to die an early death. I am an adult and I know my Dr feels so I don't need another opinion. I have made statements such as "big girls have to stick together". Also, since I am 6" tall some people will always refer to me as a big girl.
  • susieq101178
    susieq101178 Posts: 305 Member
    Just for the record I am NOT calling anyone fat. I'm not the bullying type so, sorry for the misunderstanding.

    The record already states that you did call someone fat. It's the title of your thread. No misunderstanding on this end.

    Why is there one on every thread??
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    yeah, I'm Puerto Rican so, all my life I heard " gordita".. Kind of grew up not likeing it though lol.

    Yea, same here. Gordita the way I always heard it used had nothing to do with being pretty or not. It definitely was used to describe any girl who was fairly chubby, whether or not she was pretty. I definitely wouldn't take it in a good way, lol.

    I know the girl who used that term for me, and she did not mean it in a bad way at all so I'm not going to assume she did.
  • Miss♥Ivi
    Miss♥Ivi Posts: 461
    I don't know about the rest of you, but I am on here because I am fat. Lard *kitten*. Fatty fatty fat fat. Chubby. Fat ****er.

    Just wanted to make that clear.

    Embrace who you are.

    You. Are. Fat.

    People see your fat rolls when you are in a swim suit. You jiggle when you walk.

    Get over it.

    Now, go lose some weight.

    I should have said one other thing. If anyone looks down on you because you are fat. Tell them to kiss your *kitten* and walk on. It's a body shape, not your soul.

    BINGO!

    x2!! I'm the first one to admit I'm a fat *kitten*! My policy is if it's true, I can't be offended :laugh:
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    yeah, I'm Puerto Rican so, all my life I heard " gordita".. Kind of grew up not likeing it though lol.

    Yea, same here. Gordita the way I always heard it used had nothing to do with being pretty or not. It definitely was used to describe any girl who was fairly chubby, whether or not she was pretty. I definitely wouldn't take it in a good way, lol.

    I know the girl who used that term for me, and she did not mean it in a bad way at all so I'm not going to assume she did.

    I know a lot of hispanics mean it as a term of endearment, but some of us ( in my family) that grew up a little detached from the Hispanic culture.. still found it a little insulting, but we still knew better.
  • bmiller211
    bmiller211 Posts: 222 Member
    Someone called me a "gordita" about a year ago. I almost swung a bat in the general direction of her face until I realized what she meant.

    I know she didn't mean it in a negative way. "Gordita" is often used by people in Miami to affectionately refer to a girl who is chubby but very pretty, but I just kept thinking about the taco bell gorditas.

    pdp_gordita_supreme.jpg


    I love Gorditas!!
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    Someone called me a "gordita" about a year ago. I almost swung a bat in the general direction of her face until I realized what she meant.

    I know she didn't mean it in a negative way. "Gordita" is often used by people in Miami to affectionately refer to a girl who is chubby but very pretty, but I just kept thinking about the taco bell gorditas.

    pdp_gordita_supreme.jpg

    me too.. looks delicious.. lmao
    I love Gorditas!!
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    yeah, I'm Puerto Rican so, all my life I heard " gordita".. Kind of grew up not likeing it though lol.

    Yea, same here. Gordita the way I always heard it used had nothing to do with being pretty or not. It definitely was used to describe any girl who was fairly chubby, whether or not she was pretty. I definitely wouldn't take it in a good way, lol.

    I know the girl who used that term for me, and she did not mean it in a bad way at all so I'm not going to assume she did.

    I know a lot of hispanics mean it as a term of endearment, but some of us ( in my family) that grew up a little detached from the Hispanic culture.. still found it a little insulting, but we still knew better.

    Yeah, the girl who said it meant it as a term of endearment, and she is a sweetie. I just don't usually assume people are insulting me unless it's obvious.
  • Louise1247
    Louise1247 Posts: 670 Member
    It's a body shape, not your soul.

    Amazing... :):) and sorry that people are teaming up against something so silly... Some users seem to be browsng threads simply for an excuse to be... well... an *kitten* really!

    I understand completely why people may be annoyed or offended, but there is no need to make a deal out of it!
    (says me also commenting on it... ahhh i cant win -_-)

    I used to work with a bigger lady who always commented on her body size, and when i started gaining she started using the term 'us' instead of 'I'

    Its just as bad as larger people calling you skinny when your not! haha
  • WaterBunnie
    WaterBunnie Posts: 1,371 Member
    I think it depends how close you are to the person who's saying it. I'm one of 3 girls and we all really struggle with our weight so the odd friendly "us bigger birds...." or similar, is taken merely as expressing a mutual bond rather than a divisive comment.

    Take insult only where insult is intended I say!
  • rlwinton
    rlwinton Posts: 101
    Once someone called me "medium sized" and I wanted to say "what you mean is fat, right?", but I realize much later that she meant those people who aren't "skinny" or 'fat" but in the middle. I've kinda been like that for a long time....overweight, but not enough for people to call "fat". I figure at the workplace, we don't bring up weight. Now that I've lost weight I have people who call me "skinny" or "a stick figure" (which I'm not either, I have a curvy figure and a bumper booty and I like it!) and its still just weird at the workplace. I figure people should only say things about other women's bodies if they know the person personally. Its a safe rule for me.
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