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Guys, should girls hit on you first?

awadm
awadm Posts: 252
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
So I don't know if I'm old fashioned or whatnot, but I'm curious... Guys, would you rather a girl hit on you?..Or do you prefer to take the initiative to approach her first?
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  • bassman92
    bassman92 Posts: 273 Member
    I love a girl hitting on me....as long as she doesn't leave marks.:wink:
  • Storey621
    Storey621 Posts: 82 Member
    I had to make the first move with my husband. I know if I didn't then we wouldn't have started to date. Before I met hime I NEVER hit on guys first. =) He was the first and last guy I made the first move one.
  • crazy8ts
    crazy8ts Posts: 360
    But of course! Love a woman who has that level of confidence...
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    I don't care who you are- if you like someone, do something. Don't run the risk of missing out on something because you waited for someone to approach you and they didn't.
  • guamSUPERgirl90
    guamSUPERgirl90 Posts: 255
    i second that! Doesn't matter who hits on who first. The real question is, do you think if they'll hit on you back...
  • awadm
    awadm Posts: 252
    i second that! Doesn't matter who hits on who first. The real question is, do you think if they'll hit on you back...

    yup, totally agree with you here!
  • guamSUPERgirl90
    guamSUPERgirl90 Posts: 255
    If it's you trying to hit on a guy, Id say go for it! You are really pretty. :flowerforyou:

    any guy to turn you down is probably gay.
  • awadm
    awadm Posts: 252
    If it's you trying to hit on a guy, Id say go for it! You are really pretty. :flowerforyou:

    any guy to turn you down is probably gay.

    Aww, thanks girl! :) You're gorgeous yourself!
    it's the whole trying to figure out if he'd respond positively to being hit on by a girl thing that's throwing me off to be honest.
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    "Hitting on" isn't necessary... just open your mouth and say something.... anything. I'll take it from there. :flowerforyou:
  • Changing__Christina
    Changing__Christina Posts: 245 Member
    I hit on guys! I think it is a shame to let a hot guy go...maybe he's shy or blind and didn't see me! :)

    But seriously, an oppurtunity that you don't take is worse than failure.
  • shellebelle87
    shellebelle87 Posts: 291 Member
    I can see this turning into a continuation of the "should guys pay for the first date" thread, and all the princesses who need a man to dote on them will be saying that "only a real man hits on a woman" etc etc

    Eh, at least it will be entertaining
  • 1Kristine1
    1Kristine1 Posts: 697 Member
    I say go for it! You are beautiful. Any guy that doesn't like cute girls coming up to them is crazy.
  • Pinoy_Pal
    Pinoy_Pal Posts: 280 Member
    Doesn't matter who goes first...quid pro quo ;)
  • chantalb20
    chantalb20 Posts: 132
    i'm too shy to a hit on a guy first..
    but if it looks like he's interested, yeah i'd probably go for it.
    :)
  • kmshred
    kmshred Posts: 393 Member
    no way. haha. perhaps i'm just too traditional.
  • awadm
    awadm Posts: 252
    "Hitting on" isn't necessary... just open your mouth and say something.... anything. I'll take it from there. :flowerforyou:

    hmmm, I'll keep that in mind :wink:
  • 152dbs
    152dbs Posts: 116 Member
    i was oblivious to my wife hitting on me...thought we were just friends then she took me to a bar, got me drunk, and took advantage of me. IT WAS GREAT.

    some of us are a little naive. we think we are good, just not good enough.
  • Changing__Christina
    Changing__Christina Posts: 245 Member
    I can see this turning into a continuation of the "should guys pay for the first date" thread, and all the princesses who need a man to dote on them will be saying that "only a real man hits on a woman" etc etc

    Eh, at least it will be entertaining


    Just trying to figure out where any woman was acting like a princess and asking for men to dote all over them. I'm sure most women are saying that they would hit on a guy and the guys are saying that they wouldn't mind getting hit on.

    This kind of response is silly...makes women look worse than they are.
  • akaporn
    akaporn Posts: 231 Member
    Some guys (like me) are super shy and clueless. I never spoken to a girl unless it's work or during a soccer game. And it would not have worked if my girlfriend didn't come talk to me first. And I feel very grateful for that opportunity she gave me 13 years ago.
  • Erindipitous
    Erindipitous Posts: 1,234 Member
    I don't mind hitting on a guy first.. I mind when I'm turned down or brushed off. :P
  • awadm
    awadm Posts: 252
    I don't mind hitting on a guy first.. I mind when I'm turned down or brushed off. :P

    haha exactly how I feel!
  • adamlb
    adamlb Posts: 106 Member
    It's very welcome! If a girl is interested, then why not?
  • chuckyp
    chuckyp Posts: 693 Member
    It's a nice change of pace to be asked out. Very flattering. I don't know any guys who would mind it.
  • dvisser1
    dvisser1 Posts: 788 Member
    So I don't know if I'm old fashioned or whatnot, but I'm curious... Guys, would you rather a girl hit on you?..Or do you prefer to take the initiative to approach her first?

    HELL YES I like it when a girl hits on me. Or at least I did, it's been a while. And don't just bat your eyelashes and smile coyly trying to entice a guy to make a move, that's just an irritating game.
  • ImKindOfABigDeal40
    ImKindOfABigDeal40 Posts: 807 Member
    I love it when a woman shows me she's interested. It's a nice change of pace.
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    I don't mind hitting on a guy first.. I mind when I'm turned down or brushed off. :P

    haha exactly how I feel!

    I'm pretty sure that works both ways. :)
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    I love it when a woman shows me she's interested. It's a nice change of pace.
    but be honest is this something you'd love only if she was someone you'd want to go out with in the first place? :laugh:
  • ImKindOfABigDeal40
    ImKindOfABigDeal40 Posts: 807 Member
    I love it when a woman shows me she's interested. It's a nice change of pace.
    but be honest is this something you'd love only if she was someone you'd want to go out with in the first place? :laugh:
    Not necessarily true. I feel flattered regardless and I wouldn't dare be a jerk about it.
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    I love it when a woman shows me she's interested. It's a nice change of pace.
    but be honest is this something you'd love only if she was someone you'd want to go out with in the first place? :laugh:

    I'm happy when any woman talks to me. She doesn't have to be hot. Guys are no different than women... we both like attention.
  • shellebelle87
    shellebelle87 Posts: 291 Member
    I can see this turning into a continuation of the "should guys pay for the first date" thread, and all the princesses who need a man to dote on them will be saying that "only a real man hits on a woman" etc etc

    Eh, at least it will be entertaining


    Just trying to figure out where any woman was acting like a princess and asking for men to dote all over them. I'm sure most women are saying that they would hit on a guy and the guys are saying that they wouldn't mind getting hit on.

    This kind of response is silly...makes women look worse than they are.

    I wasnt referring to the OP but ok. Just give it a few more posts and the "traditional" ladies will start rolling in and then you will see what I mean. If you read the other thread then it would be shoved in your face but never mind.
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