Men, What is sexier, a small butt or a big butt?

Big, small, fat skinny and so on..... For me it is the attitude of the person that has it.

I know it sounds cliche but I can find some girls highly attractive who are text book ugly according to society's standards.

^^^You are my new hero!!:flowerforyou:

Nicely said!!

I like smaller butts, but not the the point its non-existent.

I usually focus my attention on other parts, anyway

I like medium, I think, well toned, not flabby. and of course, when I look at guys I always notice if they have a "cute" butt, same with women. Keep in mind they all have different forms, oval, round, semi-oval semi-round:)

Sexiness is not about having a small butt or big butt.
Its about loving what YOU have.

That's good and fine, but this is a fitness website and size of bum is something that can be controlled with fitness (losing fat, building muscle). It isn't exactly like asking if brown eyes or blue eyes are sexier. OP wants to know what most people find attractive, and I would say she's gotten the answer "Round and firm".

Thank you for putting it politely. Ugh, all that crap on here just pisses me off so much. I mean the question shouldn't even be asked, men like tight *kitten* but heres the thing..

Everyones question NO MATTER what it is, is answered with "it doesn't matter what anyone thinks, you are beautiful how you are"... Please tell me, why are you losing weight? To be "healthy" (BS)? I won't judge or hate on anybody for their physical appearance but it does bother me how so many people have lost their minds.

Ironically it's the same people who go on to say that Megan Fox isn't attractive.

I can't wait until my *kitten* looks like what's been described here, because it is currently none of those things :laugh:

I like big butts and I can not lie
You other brothers can't deny
That when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist
And a round thing in your face
You get sprung
Wanna pull up tough
Cuz you notice that butt was stuffed
Deep in the jeans she's wearing
I'm hooked and I can't stop staring
Oh, baby I wanna get with ya
And take your picture
My homeboys tried to warn me
But that butt you got
Make Me so horney
Ooh, rump of smooth skin
You say you wanna get in my benz
Well use me use me cuz you aint that average groupy

I've seen them dancin'
To hell with romancin'
She's Sweat,Wet, got it goin like a turbo vette

I'm tired of magazines
Saying flat butts are the thing
Take the average black man and ask him that
She gotta pack much back

So Fellas (yeah) Fellas(yeah)
Has your girlfriend got the butt (hell yeah)
Well shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it, shake that healthy butt
Baby got back

(LA face with Oakland booty)

I like'em round and big
And when I'm throwin a gig
I just can't help myself
I'm actin like an animal
Now here's my scandal

I wanna get you home
And UH, double up UH UH
I aint talkin bout playboy
Cuz silicone parts were made for toys
I wannem real thick and juicy
So find that juicy double
Mixalot's in trouble
Beggin for a piece of that bubble
So I'm lookin' at rock videos
Knockin these bimbos walkin like hoes
You can have them bimbos
I'll keep my women like Flo Jo
A word to the thick soul sistas
I wanna get with ya
I won't cus or hit ya
But I gotta be straight when I say I wanna --
Til the break of dawn
Baby Got it goin on
Alot of pimps won't like this song
Cuz them punks lie to hit it and quit it
But I'd rather stay and play
Cuz I'm long and I'm strong
And I'm down to get the friction on

So ladies (yeah), Ladies (yeah)
Do you wanna roll in my Mercedes (yeah)
Then turn around
Stick it out
Even white boys got to shout
Baby got back

This varies by the man basically but I actually hate pancake butts. I love to see some meat back there.

Im going to say bigger, the kind gained from lots of squats and lunges. For example, Jessica Biel

Oh what I wouldn't give to have her butt. I think she has the best butt on the planet. Screw Kim K or JLo.

I have a pretty round medium to big but and my husband can not keep his hands off!!! And yes I will say that it depends on the ppl and what they find attractive !! Like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!!

I prefer my own to be flat. I always had issues with bums though, I find the feeling of it when relaxed, even if it is toned, really revolting. I don't like being able to grab a handful on any part of my body, personally.