Secret motivation!

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  • HeatherDee92
    HeatherDee92 Posts: 218 Member
    2) I want to be in a relationship that doesn't require the guy to say "I don't care if you're a big girl" or "I like big girls. No really I do."

    I want this too! I hate this expression! My niece once told me to get on the dating website BBW because men on there are looking for bigger girls. I almost died! I felt terrible! Why would I want a man who didn't want me to take care of myself!
  • HeatherDee92
    HeatherDee92 Posts: 218 Member
    I want to go parties and have guys all over me... and then turn them all down. Aspiring man-eater? Quite possibly :devil:

    Girl this is me! I am always the last girl standing when i am out with my friends!
  • HeatherDee92
    HeatherDee92 Posts: 218 Member
    I wanna be able to say I did it!

    This.
  • HeatherDee92
    HeatherDee92 Posts: 218 Member
    BUMP! I wanna hear more! :)
  • Jugie12
    Jugie12 Posts: 282 Member
    So that my man will WANT to bring me to his big tournaments and show me off. I want him to know what it's like to have all the other guys he's competing against coming up to him asking, "Dude... is THAT your girl!? She's smokin!" Think: that scene in Casino Royale when Vesper walks into the poker room to greet Bond and the other players are staring at her instead of their cards.

    PLUS he said when I get in shape, we're going to Vegas and we're gonna go clubbing, shopping, sightseeing and we're gonna go off-roading in the desert with a DUNE BUGGY!! WOOO!!

    So, I have some serious incentive, hehehe
  • almostatgoalweight
    almostatgoalweight Posts: 234 Member
    My secret motivation is to be a really hot step-mom.

    If I was skinny, it wouldn't be a problem. I'm 23 and my step-kids are 15 and 14, both boys. I know it's weird, but I want my boys to bring friends over and catch crap because their step-mom is smokin'!

    No, not even my husband is aware of this!!

    Haha. I was reading a weight loss blog months ago and the writer's son who was about 10 asked her to not say goodbye outside because he didn't want to be teased as having a "hot mom".
  • almostatgoalweight
    almostatgoalweight Posts: 234 Member
    Once I reach goal weight I never want to "set foot" in a weight loss website ever again. In the 12 years since being at goal weight I must have joined up with 15 different sites and spent thousands of hours (such as now...) reading message boards. When I reach goal weight, that's it baby, I'm outta here!
  • mothsdammit
    mothsdammit Posts: 7
    So, this might seem really crazy, like, really really crazy.

    But I want to be a dominatrix.

    In college, that is how I'd like to make money, since it is so lucrative, but I'd like to be able to fit into the leather and other outfits. So, that is one of the many reasons I want to lose weight.

    Edit: Also, one kind of silly way I'm rewarding myself is that I'm going to buy myself pet rats (I've wanted them for so long!)
  • NuttyCake
    NuttyCake Posts: 34 Member
    Ok, I thought of two more secret motivations:

    I want to hike the Inca trail to Machu Picchu (It's on the bucket list)

    And the tattoo that I have wanted for YEARS. But I can only get it when I reach my goal weight :)
  • jly33403
    jly33403 Posts: 49
    When I see the guys from high school that treated me awfully, I want them to look at me and say "holy ****"
  • peacelovelose
    peacelovelose Posts: 63 Member
    One time, through some covert and semi-dishonest snooping on my part (I know, I know :embarassed: ) I found a conversation in which the boy I'd been sleeping with off and on for almost a year and a half said I was okay, but he preferred someone he could 'throw around'.
    I've since come to my senses and realized the guy's an *kitten* (for more reasons than one), but sometimes during workouts I think about making him eat his words.
  • peacelovelose
    peacelovelose Posts: 63 Member
    Oh! While I'm being honest, I might as well admit that I want to be thinner than two of my friends in particular. One used to be about the same size as me, but has become very active and looks great! I don't want to be the 'fat one'!
    I also had a group of girlfriends in high school who were all very, very thin. One of them has since gained like, 40 pounds and while she is by no means 'fat', she's also at a size now where I could potentially be thinner than her.
    God, I feel like an *kitten* saying these things, but...:blushing:
  • Booksandbeaches
    Booksandbeaches Posts: 1,791 Member
    -I want to do a triathlon

    -I want to complete a marathon like my husband

    -I have a close friend who is totally into fitness and races. While she's thinner than me (she did weight watchers), in competitive races, I've come within 5 minutes of her even though she trains with a formal running group. I know when I'm in even better condition, I can totally beat her AND look better than she does right now.

    -I want to be able to walk into any clothing store and buy whatever I like instead of buying what fits me.
  • Skinny_Bella
    Skinny_Bella Posts: 43 Member
    My secret motivation is kind of embarrassing, but...what ever works, right? :embarassed:

    1. I want to be able to get any man I want(well...at least think I can anyways :tongue: )

    2. Like abeautifulmes said, I want to go to a party and have guys all over me.


    My last one is pretty embarrassing. Seriously. Don't judge, hahaha :laugh:

    And... 3. I'm going to Australia next year, and I want to be able to get with any guy that I want.



    Wow, this post makes me come across as a totally different person than I actually am. Yikes!!! :blushing: :embarassed: :indifferent:
  • briebear77
    briebear77 Posts: 253 Member
    Running into my ex. Stupid, however I can't wait till the day I run into him like he has never seen me before and he realizes what he lost!
  • onyx1972
    onyx1972 Posts: 133 Member
    I want to be the woman that turns everyone's head when I walk into a room and not because I am the ugliest or heaviest but because I am the hottest..
  • TriThreat
    TriThreat Posts: 313
    AND THE ANSWER IS ....

    I'm a Theatre Major, and I want to have sexy abs to make all my fellow majors jealous when we are in the dressing rooms changing for shows :wink:
  • kcmcd
    kcmcd Posts: 239 Member
    I don't want to be the heaviest one in my mommy group. Seriously. I hang out with a bunch of freaking hotties.
  • abetterjune
    abetterjune Posts: 219
    I want my ex to regret the **** out of leaving me. Then I want him to come crawling back and I can give him the cold shoulder for a while. Then we'll get married and have more kids and live happily ever after. White picket fence included, of course.

    *sigh*
  • dylsmom99
    dylsmom99 Posts: 32 Member
    all i want is to hear my mom say i look good,,,,, for almost 40 years my sister has been the pretty one, I've been the smart one,,, if i hear one more time ** you'd be so pretty if you lost weight**,.... she's never proud of anything i do...... ran a 5k a few years ago and her answer was ** I'm shocked you didn't die**... well screw her!,,, I'm gonna run a spartan race and be proud of myself
  • abetterjune
    abetterjune Posts: 219
    Oh, also, I want to have people offer to borrow me their clothes but I have to decline EVERY time because they will ALL be too BIG... so... in other words, being the smallest person I know. :)
  • Coryd2012
    Coryd2012 Posts: 132 Member
    I can't really say that my motivation would make people laugh, per say. But my "secret" motivation is that my husband told me that I've gained too much weight. As much as it kills me to replay that in my head constantly, it gives me a reason to not give up on getting my old body back.

    And when you DO get your old body back...he doesn't deserve it....

    i second that opinion
  • Tropical_lass
    Tropical_lass Posts: 1
    I'm 46 and do a lot of what the younger girlies are doing, i want them to look and say WOW! she has a great body for an oldie
  • AddictionForBeauty
    AddictionForBeauty Posts: 20
    Mine is imagining someone saying that I eat a lot. If I have a perfect track record for my calories, I can show anyone who says anything.
  • TinkerSavs
    TinkerSavs Posts: 3
    Of course I'd love to feel sexy and confident and be more attractive to guys... but the unexpected secret motivation? I want to dance ballet en pointe.

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  • knittingbandmom
    knittingbandmom Posts: 190 Member
    Because at 48 I want to be hot. I used to be hot and I want it back. If Sharon Stone and Madonna can do it and be over 50 by God so can I.
  • mamabowers92
    mamabowers92 Posts: 3
    My secret motivation, to look like i did when i was in highschool. To be able to snap my fingers and have people do anything for me. Conceeded, yes. But i want people to be jealous and to envy me.
  • frankensteen
    frankensteen Posts: 75 Member
    Mine is to be able to go a full round against my friend who is a pro MMA fighter with a 6-3-0 record. She's so entirely bad *kitten*. I want to be at least a fraction of that awesome.

    Amen to that! When I'm working out, I like to have some awesome music on to remind myself how much of a beast I am. Imagining myself in some sort of action movie or in a fight gets me so pumped up! I take kickboxing too, and I love it!
    So I guess my secret motivation is that I just want to be a savage!
  • Long_and_Lean
    Long_and_Lean Posts: 175 Member
    This thread is awesome. It's like postsecret for MFP.

    Here's mine: I'm a dancer. I want to be able to do everything with my body that the music tells me to do. I want to be able to do splits. I want to be able to do a grand arabesque en repose. And I want it to look GOOD and have nice lines, not have bulges and folds destroy the aesthetic.

    Secondary motivations are being able to wear whatever outfit I want and turning the head of *any* man I want. I turn heads now, but only with those guys who like a girl with big butt/hips. I want to turn the head of a guy like Channing Tatum....mmmmmmmm

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